Rau niam, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog rau nws tus menyuam kom noj qab nyob zoo. Tab sis cov niam txiv tau tuaj nrog ntau lub tswv yim, cov kev ntseeg, kev thuam tias nws tsis yooj yim los tuav. Thiab yuav ua li cas koj thiaj nyob twj ywm thaum nws los ntawm kev noj qab nyob zoo ntawm koj tus me nyuam. Cov lus nug yuav teb tau los ntawm cov kws kho mob xwb, yog li thaum tshawb nrhiav qhov tseeb, nws yog rau lawv hais tias leej niam thiab leej txiv mus.
Yuav xaiv tus kws kho mob rau tus menyuam li cas?
Tab sis nco ntsoov, cov kws kho mob sib txawv, yog li ntawd lawv cov tswv yim thiab kev kuaj mob kuj txawv. Ua ntej koj yuav ib yam tshuaj rau hauv lub tsev muag tshuaj, koj yuav tsum tau txiav txim siab seb tus kws kho mob puas tuaj koom? Raws li muaj xws li ntau yam ntawm kws kho mob:
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Tus menyuam no tsis tuaj yeem rhuav tshem koj tus me nyuam. Nws yuav tsum paub txog txhua yam kev nrhav, ua haujlwm nrog cov khoom siv tshiab, tab sis nws yuav ua raws li cov pov thawj qhov qub.
Pros - xws li cov kws kho mob muaj ib qho kev ua tau zoo, cov tshuaj uas nws tau pom zoo, raug kuaj los ntawm ntau tiam neeg, lub tswv yim yog tsim nyog txaus.
Cons - Yog tom qab lub cev qhuav dej ntawm lub Union no tus kws kho mob tau kawm tsis muaj dab tsi, tsuas yog yuav ua li cas koom tes nrog cov tuam txhab kws muag sib txawv, tom qab ntawd tsis txaus siab, ib tug yuav tsum tsis txhob tig rau nws. Koj puas xav txog lwm txoj kev xaiv?
Tus menyuam tsis muaj teeb meem
Nws muaj peev xwm muab xam tau yooj yim, nws tsis nco qab txog keeb kwm kev kho mob ntawm tus me nyuam, cia nws lub npe. Tom qab kev sib tham ntev, nws yuav nug tau: "Dab tsi yog mob?"
Pros - yog tias nws yog ib tug kws tshaj lij, nws yuav tam sim tom qab ob peb lo lus nug muab kev kho mob, muab ib daim duab ntawm tus kab mob thiab ua kom paub txog. Tu siab heev niam txiv yog tias muaj tej yam loj tshwm sim rau tus menyuam.
Cons - tus kws kho mob no tsis tuaj yeem nrhiav psychotherapeutic support. Cov kws kho mob no yuav tsum tau kho tsuas yog koj paub tias qhov no yog ib tus kws kho mob zoo. Tej zaum nws yog tsim nyog txhawb kev xws li ib tus kws kho mob nyiaj txiag thiab tom qab ntawd nws yuav yog tus attentive ntau dua?
Tus menyuam yaus loj heev
Yog tus nais maum hu koj ua ob xuaj moos, cog lus tias muaj teeb meem, yog tias koj tsis coj koj tus me nyuam mus rau kev ua txhaum? Koj tuaj yeem ua kev zoo siab, koj tuaj rau ntawm tus kws kho mob zoo.
Tshaj tawm. Tus kws kho mob loj heev tuaj nqa cov ntaub ntawv kom tiav, kom txog thaum nws txaus siab rau tus me nyuam noj qab nyob zoo, yuav tsis muaj kev thaj yeeb rau niam txiv. Daim npav kho mob muaj txhij txhua, tag nrho cov kev txhaj tshuaj thiab kev kuaj mob ua tiav rau lub sijhawm, tag nrho cov kws kho mob tshwj xeeb dhau los. Tus menyuam yaus no yog cov tub ntxhais kawm tub nkeeg zoo.
Ntseeg. Koj yuav tsum tau ceev faj, ua ntej koj hla dhau tus ntoo khaub lig rau cov chaw ua haujlwm thiab lub chaw soj ntsuam kuaj lossis xa menyuam mus rau tsev kho mob, xav, koj puas xav tau qhov no? Los yog tus kws kho me nyuam tsuas yog exaggerates.
Tus kws kho mob siab dua
Xws li tus kws kho mob yuav tsum tsis txhob raug kawm txog cov kev tshwm sim tshiab, Suslov cov kev sim siab, kev kawm hauv tsev, kev kawm ntuj. Nws paub txhua yam no. Thiab nws tus kheej xav tau ib yam dab tsi uas koj yuav tsis nkag siab.
Tshaj tawm. Kev qhib siab thiab yooj yim ntawm kev xav, uas tsis yog phem li qub. Ib tus neeg mus kom ze.
Ntseeg. Nws cov nqi. Yog tias qhov no yog ib tus kws tshwj xeeb zoo, nws yuav tsis raug nqi rau koj. Thaum sib txuas lus nrog ib tus kws kho mob siab tshaj plaws, koj yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo saib xyuas pes tsawg xyoo uas nws tau xyaum thiab nws tshuav npaum li cas rau txoj kev kho mob thiab kev kuaj mob. Tom qab tag nrho, fanatism yog ib tus phem npog.
Tus kws kho menyuam yaus
Nws yuav mloog koj cov lus nug, nug cov lus nug ntau, tshuaj xyuas tus menyuam, muab nws xeem, tso siab thiab luag nyav rau tus menyuam. Idyll?
Tshaj tawm. Yog tias tus kws kho mob pom tus me nyuam thiab cia li zoo rau koj, ces koj tsuas muaj hmoo. Ntseeg hauv tus kws kho mob tseem ceeb dua cov tswv yim sib txawv. Tsis tas li ntawd, kev nrhiav ib hom lus nrog tus kws kho mob yog ib qho tsawg kawg nkaus.
Ntseeg. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm, nrog rau kev ntsuas thiab kub, quaj hauv txaj, thiab tus kws kho mob thiab leej niam tab tom sim kho nws ua ke thiab tib lub sij hawm lawv tham txog "rau lub neej", ces nws tsis zoo li tias ib yam dab tsi yuav tawm ntawm nws.
Tej zaum, muaj ntau yam ntawm cov kws kho menyuam yaus. Tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab tias nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, tsuas yog niam txiv muaj lub luag haujlwm rau kev noj qab haus huv ntawm tus menyuam. Tom qab tag nrho, tsuas yog rau koj, tsis muaj leej twg paub nws zoo dua. Ua phooj ywg nrog cov kws kho mob zoo, vim hais tias lawv yog cov tib neeg. Thiab tsis txhob ua siab deb qhia koj xav tau los yog tsis ntseeg.