Nws yog qee zaum kuj nyuaj rau cov me nyuam ua raws li, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov me nyuam me, cia peb saib cov lus pom zoo thiab cov tswv yim uas yuav pab tau koj hauv koj tsev neeg los qhia kev txawj ntse thiab cov kev cai rau kev nyab xeeb.
Nws txhais li cas los qhia? Qhov no txhais tau tias kom qhia cov me nyuam txog ib txoj kev ntawm lub neej. Txhua tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau tsim ib qho kev tiv thaiv, uas yuav tas ua haujlwm ntawm lub sijhawm zoo tshaj plaws. Li ntawd, koj tuaj yeem tiv thaiv koj tus menyuam thiab tiv thaiv nws ntawm ntau lub sijhawm uas cov menyuam yaus mob siab.
Nyeem cov ntawv nyeem, uas yog tshwj xeeb rau kev nyab xeeb ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Muaj ntau cov kev cai coj ua rau txhua tus niam txiv paub, tiam sis raug xwm txheej tseem tshwm sim, kom paub seb cov kws ua haujlwm xav txog qhov no, xws li cov tub ceev xwm, cov kws kho mob thiab cov xib fwb.
Nco ntsoov rau tus yam ntxwv ntawm koj tus me nyuam thiab nws lub hnub nyoog. Tom qab tag nrho, thaum koj tus me nyuam nyuam qhuav pib thiab koj tseem tab tom tsav nws hauv ib lub nraub qaum, tsis muaj txoj cai qhia nws. Nws lub neej yog nyob ntawm koj, koj niam koj txiv, thiab koj tus poj yawm txiv.
Nco ntsoov tias yog tias koj muaj ib tus menyuam yaus, ces nws yuav tsum tsis txhob nyob hauv koj kev saib xyuas - tsis txhob nyob ze nws.
Tiam sis thaum lub puab tsaig muaj peb los yog plaub xyoos, nws yuav tsum to taub tias "zoo" thiab "phem" dab tsi; muaj peev xwm hu tag nrho cov chaw ntawm koj lub cev, los ntawm txoj kev, sib raug zoo heev, nug koj niam tso cai rau, koj puas tuaj yeem noj cov khoom qab zib los ntawm ib tus neeg uas tsis muaj; Ntxiv mus, txhua tus me nyuam uas muaj hnub nyoog thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov me nyuam laus xyoo yuav tsum paub lub npe, lub npe, tus xov tooj, qhov chaw nyob thiab hu ua niam txiv.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas tus menyuam ntseeg koj, thiab txhua yam rau txhua tus. Ua li no, vim hais tias tsuas yog nws cov dab neeg tiag tiag, thiab qee zaus txawm tias lub suab ntawm tus ntsujplig, qhia ntau yam, thiab ua tsaug rau qhov no koj tuaj yeem totaub txog qhov tus menyuam yaus tau qhia rau hauv ntau lub sijhawm thiab seb nws puas yog txhua yam, puas yog nws tuaj yeem tivthaiv thiab sawv rau nws tus kheej. Nws yog vim li no koj yuav tsum tsis txhob thawb koj tus me nyuam yog tias nws xav qhia koj ib yam dab tsi thiab yuav ua li cas, txawm tias koj muaj hauj lwm ntau heev lawm los xij, txawm tias tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau tsim nws txoj kev xav nws yuav tsum tau hnov.
Yog hais tias tus me nyuam tab tom sim qhia nws niam los yog tus txiv ib yam dab tsi, ces teb nws nrog kev tsis txaus siab yog qhov yuam kev tsis tau zoo, thaum kawg, qhov no yuav ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj rau niam txiv thiab tus me nyuam. Nyob rau ntawm tsis tooj, sim ua ib txwm tham nrog ib tug crumb, hu rau nws mus rau kev sib tham. Nrog kev sib tham, nco ntsoov li cas koj tau nyob hauv koj tus menyuam yaus thiab tham txog nws rau koj tus menyuam. Raws li txoj cai, cov me nyuam nyiam nws thiab lawv nyiam mloog nws, vim hais tias thaum ntawd lawv pib to taub tias Niam yog ib qho me me thiab dhau mus, nws kuj tau txais cov ntawv "phem heev".
Yog tias koj kawm tau tias qee qhov xwm txheej me me tus me nyuam tau ua qhov yog, ces tsis nco lub sij hawm nws qhuas nws. Qhov no tseem ceeb heev, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej nram no nws yuav muaj kev ntseeg siab ntxiv rau nws tus kheej. Tab sis yog tias tus me nyuam tau ua tej yam tsis yog lawm, tsis txhob qw hlo li, tsis txhob cem, tab sis calmly piav seb nws ua tsis ncaj ncees thiab qhov yuav tshwm sim li cas.
Tsuas yog muaj kev sib cuag nrog tus me nyuam uas koj tuaj yeem paub tias qhov kev saib xyuas tseem ceeb npaum li cas, ntau npaum li cas koj tuaj yeem tso siab rau thiab muab nws nrog "kev ywj pheej" (tso cai rau koj mus rau koj tus phooj ywg, xa rau tom khw, tawm hauv tsev, thiab lwm yam)
Txawm li cas los xij, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov niam txiv, tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv, nws nrhiav kev nkag siab ntawm lwm tus neeg tsis paub thiab tsis nyob tom tsev, tab sis nyob rau lwm qhov chaw. Cov neeg ua txhaum feem ntau siv qhov no, ua piv txwv tias yog "cov neeg" zoo.
Tsis txhob thab cov me nyuam! Nco ntsoov tias lawv tsis tas yuav paub tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv txhaum cai. Cov kws kho mob tau ntev ntev txog qhov tseeb tias yog cov niam txiv ua tiag tiv thaiv cov me nyuam, qhia txhua yam "kev ntshai dab neeg", ces qhov no yuav ua rau muaj kev tsis txaus siab kiag. Tom qab tag nrho, cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem nyuaj ua rau muaj kev ywj pheej, vim kev ntshai ua rau lawv thiab, qhov tsawg tshaj plaws, tsis xav kom ua ib yam dab tsi los sis ua txhaum li cas.
Ntshai ua rau tus me nyuam raug kev puas tsuaj thiab ua rau nws muaj kev xav tau. Yog li ntawd, yog tias cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau tshaj tawm cov teeb meem, tsuas yog li ntawd nws tsis mob siab rau ib tug me me, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias tus crumb yog lam tau lam ua thiab kev xav.
Koj lub hom phiaj yog qhia thiab txhawb tus menyuam, nws muaj peev xwm, thiab piav tias yog nws ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws, nws yuav tsis tuaj yeem raug teeb meem, thiab txawm tias qhov ntawd tshwm sim, ces tus menyuam yuav tsum tau tawm thiab nrhiav kev tawm.
Ua nrog koj tus menyuam tsis tu ncua. Qhia nws tus cwj pwm nyab xeeb - nws tsis yog ib hnub los yog ib txoj haujlwm xyoo. Ntxiv mus, tsis txhob tsa koj lub suab, tsis txhob qw, tsis txhob ntaus, thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsis txhob tso tus me nyuam, txwv tsis pub nws yuav ua rau lwm tus neeg cov txiv ntxawm ntawm kev, thiab koj.
Maj mam xyaum txhua qhov kev paub ntawm tus cwj pwm nyab xeeb, sim xyuas seb tus menyuam puas nco qab nws cov yeeb yam, kawm qhov kev kawm. Nug nws seb nws tsis to taub dab tsi. Nco ntsoov tias ua raws li cov cai tswj kev ruaj ntseg yuav tsum yog siv thiab tsis tu ncua, thiab tsis yog mloog cov teeb meem. Tsuas yog nyob rau hauv no txoj kev koj yuav muaj peev xwm los tiv thaiv lub crumbs.
Qhia koj tus menyuam txog ntau yam. Cov menyuam mos ua si nrog me nyuam roj hmab (tus menyuam roj hmab ploj hauv lub tsheb, tus menyuam roj hmab ploj lawm, thiab lwm yam) Yog tias lawv loj dua menyuam, ces ua si ntawm qhov chaw (ntawm txoj kev, hauv tsev), tham txog lwm cov menyuam uas ua raws li qhov xwm txheej zoo li no, nug: "Thiab dab tsi koj yuav ua nyob rau hauv xws li ib qho teeb meem ...", hais koj cov dab neeg, nco.
Npaj ib qho piv txwv rau koj cov menyuam. Txhua yam uas koj qhia, muaj peev xwm tsis nco qab los ntawm tus me nyuam, yog tias koj tsis ua raws li cov cai ntawm kev coj cwj pwm zoo. Yog tias koj tsis saib nyob rau hauv cov neeg peephole, thaum ib tug neeg thau qhov rooj, ces koj tus me nyuam yuav tsis ua nws.
Tsis txhob cia lwm tus neeg cov me nyuam raug teeb meem. Yog tias koj pom ib qho xwm txheej txaus ntshai uas muaj lwm tus menyuam yaus (lawv sim yuam nws tso nws qhov chaw, nws ploj, nws muab tso rau hauv ib lub tsheb, thiab lwm yam), qhia koj kev koom tes. Yog tias koj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam lub cev, ces ua! Yog tias koj muaj txij nkawm, nco ntsoov nco qab txog cov tsheb, lub npe thiab xim, uas lawv tau hais, qhia cov neeg txhaum, qhia qhov teeb meem no rau tub ceev xwm.
Tej zaum nej hnub no nej muaj ntsej muag thiab pab ib tug neeg txawv, thiab tag kis yuav pab nej tus me nyuam thiab cawm nws.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau ua rau hauv cov xwm txheej ntau yam uas yuav tsum muaj kev ruaj ntseg.
Koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov me nyuam
Nco ntsoov txoj cai tseem ceeb tshaj-tham nrog koj tus me nyuam ntau npaum li sai tau, txiav txim siab muab cov duab ntawm cov teeb meem tsis tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Yog li ntawd, tus me nyuam yuav paub tseeb tias koj yuav pab thiab txhawb nws hauv txhua qhov teeb meem, nws yuav tsis ntshai qhia koj txog tej yam "phem heev".
Thaum peb saib qhov crumbs plays, ces peb saib peb tus kheej. Qhov no txhais tau hais tias peb tus kheej yuav tsum ceev faj thiab ceev faj, vim peb paub tias txhua qhov kev txiav txim siab me ntsis tuaj yeem ua dua, thiab meej heev.Yog li, yog tias koj tus kheej pib panic nyob rau hauv txhua qhov teeb meem, ces tus foal tsis tau nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv. Yog tias koj xav kom tus me nyuam ua raws li cov cai tswj kev ruaj ntseg, ua ntej txhua yam lawv qab koj tus kheej.
Rau koj cov me nyuam, koj tus qauv yog qhov tseem ceeb - qhov no yog txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws uas yuav coj. Yog tias koj tu koj qhov kev nyab xeeb, ces tus me nyuam yuav ua ib yam nkaus. Tus tub sab lossis tus txiv neej zoo heev thiab ua tib zoo xaiv tus neeg raug mob, saib neeg rau ib ntus ntev, thiab yog tias koj siv koj tus me nyuam rau siab, ces qhov kev pheej hmoo tias nws yuav raug nyiag los yog nws yuav poob rau hauv "txhais tes" ntawm kmaniac yuav txo 50%.