Peb cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai yog, hauv lub ntsiab, cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntawm lub siab xav ntshai los ntawm ib tug neeg los yog ib yam dab tsi ntawm ib tug me nyuam. Feem ntau, nws tsis tseem ceeb npaum li cas los txheeb xyuas peb tus me nyuam ntshai. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas peb cov menyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai, vim hais tias tej zaum lawv ua rau peb lub neej tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab tsis raug. Tej zaum qhov teeb meem loj tshaj plaws ntawm peb cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai yog lawv tsis tsim nyog thiab tsis muaj kev sib txuas nrog kev muaj tiag. Kev ntshai yog qhov tseem ceeb, vim hais tias nws tsis yog qhov tsis muaj dab tsi uas tau ua rau peb muaj qhov kev xav no. Yav dhau los, thaum ib tug neeg nyob hauv ib cheeb tsam qus, nws feem ntau cawm nws ntawm tej kev tuag.
Cia peb pom tias peb cov me nyuam muaj kev ntshai nrog kev sib raug zoo, uas feem ntau ua rau peb lub chaw nyob thiab kev kawm ntawm peb lub hnub nyoog vwm.
Feem ntau peb cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai tshwm sim nyob rau ntau lub sijhawm. Piv txwv, ntse thiab muaj suab nrov, pom cov neeg txawv ntawm lub ntsej muag ntawm lub qhov muag, lub suab ntawm cov dej hauv qhov cub hauv tsev, lub tshuab nqus tsev. Daim ntawv teev no tseem muaj txuas ntxiv mus tas li, vim tias kev cia siab thaum yau yog qhov tsis tseem ceeb. Raws li, peb cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai yuav yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws.
Nws tshwm sim thaum peb tseem yog menyuam yaus, peb ntshai ntshai ntawm qhov tsaus ntuj thiab qhov tsaus muag ntxoov ntxoo los ntawm qhov txawv ntawm lub teeb, hauv neeg laus, tsis qhia txog peb tus kheej, ntshai ntshai nyob ib leeg. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws tshwm sim rau peb, ntshai nyob rau hauv thaum yau, pib ntshai yoov, clowns, stray tsiaj, kws kho hniav, rau txim rau ib tug me me yuam kev thiab li on. Nws muaj peev xwm hais txog kaum ntau ntawm cov tsis muaj teeb meem ntawm qhov tsis pom ntawm tus neeg laus uas yuav ntshai los ntawm tus me nyuam kev xav, ua rau peb tus me nyuam ntshai nyob rau hauv lub neej laus.
Feem ntau ntawm peb cov me nyuam yau ntshai, tshwm sim rau me nyuam yaus luv luv, ploj tsis muaj qhov tsis muaj dab tsi, tab sis qee zaus nws tshwm sim rau qhov kev poob siab uas peb tau muaj thaum me nyuam yaus kuj nyob rau hauv kev laus thaum peb raug txiav txim los ntawm lub ntiaj teb hnyav ntawm kev tseeb, thiab lub hlwb tsis nco, kho rau nws, tab tom nrhiav tso tawm rau sab nraud. Thaum peb npog peb cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai, ces, peb yuav tsim ib lub tswv yim zoo dua rau cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm peb dua li tus neeg ntshai los ntawm kev mus ntsib tus kws kho hniav.
Yuav kom txo lawv txoj kev ntshai nyob rau hauv kev yau, peb pib koom nrog kev pom zoo tias tsis muaj kev phom sij. Yog li peb sim ua pov thawj rau qhov yuam kev ntawm lub chav kawm ntawm xav ntawm erupting nco los ntawm thaum yau lub neej ntawm lub neej. Tab sis qhov tseeb nws tsuas yog ib qho kev ua yuam kev laus thiab ib qho kev sim kom dag peb tus kheej. Raws li lub neej qhia, txoj kev no nws pib ua haujlwm, thiab peb tus menyuam kev ntshai rov qab mus rau yav tom ntej, muab kev rau tus neeg laus lub peev xwm. Yog li ntawd, txhawb peb tus kheej tias peb nyiam, piv txwv li, ib tug aub ntiv ntws, peb tab tom pib muaj kev ntshai ntawm tus me nyuam kev ntshai ntawm tus tsiaj. Txawm li cas los xij, peb lub hauv paus rau tus dev uas ntshai hlob los ntawm thaum yau. Tej zaum, raws li ib tug me nyuam, koj ntshai los ntawm txoj kev sib tsoo ntawm dev, thiab tam sim no koj pib thiab sim kom tsis txhob muaj cov dev.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov uas peb xav tau ib yam dab tsi ntxiv, qhov ntau dua peb lub subconsciousness pib coj peb cov me nyuam txoj kev ntshai mus rau saum npoo ntawm kev xav. Nws yog zoo li cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, uas yog pheej loj tuaj. Ib zaug, succumbing rau peb tus childish kev ntshai ntawm dev, peb yuav nrhiav tau tawm tom qab ib lub sij hawm uas peb tau pib ntshai los ntawm lwm yam uas tau ntsia ua ntej ntsiag to. Qhov no yog rau koj.
Xav txog koj tus kheej ua tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhob sim ntxias cov me nyuam txoj kev ntshai, tab sis ntsia lawv lub qhov muag qhib, uas nrog lawv sib tham nrog daws qhov teeb meem. Cia rov qab los rau tib tug yam ntxwv nrog tus aub. Saib ntawm tus aub tsis muaj tsev nyob, xav txog tias nws phem npaum li cas rau ntawm txoj kev. Nqa nrog txoj kev khuv leej, thiab tom qab ntawd, qhov chaw ntawm me nyuam ntshai yuav tuaj tshiab tshiab - hlub, thiab tom qab nws txoj kev hlub. Koj yuav tsum dhau mus thiaj dhau tsis muaj kev ntshai dhau ntawm tus aub. Tus yuam sij rau kev nkag siab txog peb tus cwj pwm kev nyuab siab tsis yog nyob hauv cov ntsiab lus tseeb thiab qhov tseeb, uas peb ntshai thiab ua kom tsis txhob raug, tab sis vim yog peb txhawb peb lub zog.
Tsis txhob kawm kev sib ntaus sib tua ua rau me nyuam ntshai, tab sis kawm txog kev txheeb xyuas lawv. Tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem tsis nco txog lawv tas mus li. Nco ntsoov yuav pib sau peb cov me nyuam kev ntshai nyob hauv ib txoj kev hlub tshiab thiab to taub tias lawv tsis yog qhov tseeb, tab sis tsuas yog tus me nyuam txoj kev xav xwb.