- Vim nws tau txaj muag.
- Vim tias nws tau ua txhaum.
- Vim tias nws ntshai. Paub tias lawv yuav tsis ntseeg nws.
Tsis yog nyob rau hauv peb lub teb chaws qhov teeb meem yog zoo dua, peb tsuas yog tsis ua li kev tshawb fawb. Tsis txhob xav hais tias nws kis tau rau tus me nyuam tsis muaj qhov cim tseg, txawm tias nws tsis tshua to taub txog qhov tau ua rau nws. Qhov no nco yuav tsis ploj thiab tom qab ib lub sij hawm nws yuav to taub txhua yam. Tsis txhob xav tias ntawm koj cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg uas yus paub tsis tuaj yeem ua kev qias - koj tsis paub qhov no rau qhov tseeb, vim feem ntau lawv zoo li zoo-bred, txawj ntse, neeg li qub. Nco ntsoov: xws li cov neeg muaj peev xwm kuj yog cov kws kho mob, cov xib fwb, cov cob qhia, cov thawj saib xyuas, thiab lwm yam. - tag nrho cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv cov tsev kawm ntawv.
Yuav ua li cas tiv thaiv tus me nyuam thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm tsis sow tsis ruaj ntseg nyob rau hauv nws tus ntsuj plig rau tag nrho cov neeg feem ntau?
Los ntawm thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej, cuv tus me nyuam mus rau qhov tseeb tias nws lub cev belongs rau nws thiab tsis muaj leej twg muaj cai kov nws tsis tau kev tso cai ntawm tus me nyuam. Txhob hnia los yog nias tus menyuam yog tias nws tsis xav kom nws lub sijhawm ntawd. Thiab tsis txhob cia qhov no ua kom tiav los ntawm lwm tus neeg thiab cov txheeb ze, nrog rau cov niam tais, yawm txiv, thiab lwm yam.
Piav tias yuav luag tsis paub txog cov neeg laus uas paub thiab tsis paub laus xav kom tus me nyuam ua siab phem. "Phem" yog tsawg heev thiab tsis yog tas tus me nyuam yuav ntsib lawv. Tab sis nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom paub qhov "phem", vim lawv zoo li "zoo." Yog li, tsuas yog thaum muaj ib qho tsis tau nrog ib tus twg nrog tsuas yog kev tso cai los ntawm niam txiv.
Qhia tus me nyuam seb qhov "phem" ntxias cov me nyuam: khoom noj txom ncauj thiab cov khoom ua si; kev cog lus los nthuav qhia tej yam zoo - cov menyuam me, cov nkauj tsiaj, cov duab xis, cov kev ua si hauv computer, thiab lwm yam. thov kev pab; references rau cov niam txiv ("Kuv tau xa rau koj los ntawm kuv niam ...").
Tsis txhob qhia txog qhov "phem" ua rau tus me nyuam, tab sis hais tias nws muaj kev ntshai heev. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam, tsis tas tso cai tso cai, mus rau hauv vaj, mus rau cov neeg zej zog, rau cov phooj ywg - lub txim yuav tsum nruj: koj yuav tsum tau txwv tsis pub nws mus kev (los yog cov rooj sib tham nrog phooj ywg, kev ua si, kev thaij duab, thiab lwm yam). Qhov kev txuas ntawm qhov teeb meem no yuav ua rau koj paub txog kev ua phem heev thaum tus me nyuam loj hlob tuaj thiab koj tsis paub tias nws nyob qhov twg, nrog leej twg ...
Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj plaws: ua txhua yam kom ua rau tus me nyuam tso siab rau koj. Tus me nyuam cov dab neeg txog nws tus kheej thiab txog tej xwm txheej hauv nws lub neej yuav pab koj txiav txim siab seb tus me nyuam yaus ua raws li qhov sib txawv thiab nws muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv nws tus kheej. Tsuas yog nyob rau hauv txoj kev no koj tuaj yeem paub yog tias muaj cov perverts ntawm nws entourage thiab coj los ntsuas los tiv thaiv nws. Yog li, tsis muaj teeb meem npaum li cas koj muaj, koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov mloog tus me nyuam yog tias nws xav qhia koj ib yam dab tsi. Thiab yog tias koj tus me nyuam tsis xav tham txog nws, ces koj tus kheej yuav tsum hu nws mus tham. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog los qhia ib zaj dab neeg los ntawm koj tus menyuam yaus los yog thaum yau ntawm koj tsev neeg los yog cov phooj ywg. Qhov no yog qhov nthuav rau me nyuam yaus: "nws ua rau kuv tus kheej pom thaum kuv niam (kuv txiv) yog ib qho me me, thiab txaus ntshai, tsis kaj siab, funny dab neeg kuj tau tshwm sim rau lawv!".
Nco ntsoov: yog tias tus me nyuam tsis muaj kev sib cuag nrog niam txiv, ces nws tab tom nrhiav nws los ntawm lwm tus neeg thiab sab nraum lub tsev.
Yog li ntawd, lub hom phiaj ntawm kev kawm "kev nyab xeeb" yog ua rau tus menyuam paub tseeb tias yog nws ua raws li qee qhov kev cai ntawm tus cwj pwm, nws yuav tsis raug teeb meem, thiab yog tias muaj xwm txheej txaus ntshai, nws yuav nrhiav kev tawm ntawm nws, vim hais tias niam txiv tau qhia nws ua li cas .