Dua li ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias cov txheej txheem ntawm kev mus rau lub lauj kaub - qhov kev tshawb kawm yoojyim, nws tsis tshua muaj rau leej niam thiab leej txiv kom ua tau qhov no tsis muaj kua muag thiab ua kom mob ntawm tus menyuam. Yog xav paub txog qhov teeb meem, yuav pab koj tus kheej kom paub txog tsib tug niam txiv kev tsis sib haum xeeb uas tiv thaiv kev tsim "kev phoojywg" nruab nrab ntawm cov pob zeb thiab lub lauj kaub.
Zaj nkauj 1. Tab sis peb yuav ua li cas yog tias peb tsis muaj sij hawm?
Lub neej ua haujlwm accelerates, peb leeb, thiab nws nquag hloov tawm tias peb khiav ua ntej ntawm tus ciav hlau. Tus me nyuam tsis tau paub yuav ua li cas, tab sis peb twb sim qhia nws nyeem thiab sau ntawv, nws tsis tshua tswj nws lub cev, tab sis peb sawv nrog ib lub lauj kaub npaj, hais, nws yog lub sij hawm. Qhov twg yog peb maj maj? Cov kws tshawb fawb hais tias qhov kawg ntawm txoj kev tswj ntawm txoj hnyuv rau hauv tus me nyuam muaj li ntawm 18 lub hlis.
Yog li, txog li ib nrab thiab ib nrab xyoo, txhua yam peb tau sim qhia tus me nyuam kom paub daws nws cov xwm txheej loj thiab me me nyob rau qhov chaw uas niam txiv tau qhia yog ruam.
Nws tsuas yog tsis to taub qhov lawv xav tau ntawm nws. Yog li ntawd, kev cob qhia hauv lauj kaub pab hloov mus rau hauv kev cob qhia ntawm kev yuav thiab kev loj hlob ntawm niam tsev. Yog tag nrho! Qhov no tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog tus me nyuam. Thiab qhov tseeb hais tias thaum ntxov hnub nyoog yuav siv ob peb lub hlis, yog los ntawm hysterics ntawm tus me nyuam thiab lub sij hawm kev poob siab ntawm leej niam, tom qab ib thiab ib nrab xyoo ntawm lub neej lub crumbs mus by nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv ib qho teeb meem ntawm hnub thiab lub lim tiam.
Tswvyim hais ua 2. Peb yuav tsis raug coj mus rau kindergarten!
Xws li, thaum rau npe hauv kindergarten, cov kws qhia ntawv hais tias tus menyuam muaj kev txawj pab tus kheej - kom tus menyuam hnav tau khaub ncaws, siv lub lauj kaub thiab noj nws tus kheej. Tab sis wb mus saib qhov teeb meem soberly.
Koj puas npaj siab muab tus me nyuam rau me nyuam me? Tsis yog. Psychologists qhia koj kom ncua nrog Txoj Kev Mob ntawm cov me nyuam yaus cov pawg tsawg kawg yog xyoos rau 2, thiab nyiam dua mus rau 3-3.5. Qhov no yog vim lub fact tias kom txog thaum lub hnub nyoog no tus me nyuam tsis yog psychologically npaj txhij los ntawm nws niam thiab rau ib ntev lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv ib tug flock ntawm nws tus kheej zoo. Nws tseem tsis tau muaj kev sib txuas lus, kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg, nws xav tau ib leej niam, zoo, ntawm qhov tsawg heev, ib pog los yog ib tug neeg laus. Yog li ntawd, yog vim li cas pib npaj tus menyuam rau kindergarten ob peb xyoos ua ntej qhov kev tshwm sim fateful no tshwm sim? Thiab txawm nrog kev ntxhov siab. Yog tias, muaj ntau zaus uas cov niamtxiv yuav tsum tau txiav txim rau cov menyuam nyob hauv hoob zov menyuam ntau dua lub sijhawm tau qhia los ntawm cov kws kho mob, tabsis koj tsis pub tus menyuam mus rau pawg laus, nws yuav mus rau qhov chaw uas cov neeg saib xyuas thiab tus neeg tu mob yuav tsum tu nws, thiab kev saib xyuas rau cov menyuam yog ib qho tseem ceeb lub luag haujlwm. Thaum kawg, qhov no yog lawv txoj hauj lwm, uas lawv, ntawm chav kawm, xav kom tsis txhob lawv tus kheej. Tsis muaj dab tsi ntxiv.
Tswvyim hais ua lej 3. Masha (Dasha, Lena ...) tus me nyuam tau siv lub lauj kaub rau ntawm 6, 8, 9 lub hlis ...
Cov dab neeg no, zoo li lub nroog tsheb kaujvab, nyob ntawm lawv lub neej thiab kis ntawm qhov ncauj mus rau qhov ncauj, ntawm ib leej niam mus rau lwm tus. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis muaj leej twg paub txog tus "txawj ntse" leej niam, tab sis txhua leej txhua tus ntseeg hais tias lawv nyob, thiab tom qab ntawd ces lo lus nug tias: "Yog vim li cas, yog lwm tus tau txais nws, kuv tsis ua?" Thiab pib tawm tsam nyuaj rau lub lauj kaub thiab lub npe ntawm tus niam txiv zoo tagnrho. Cov nriaj yog nyuaj, qaug zog thiab, qhov tseem ceeb, tsis muaj qab hau. Kev tsis tsim nyog vim nws yog qhov fab ntawm kev ua rau tus menyuam lub cev tsis muaj sia, raws li tau hais los saum toj no, tab sis kuj yog vim koj tsis tuaj yeem pom koj qhov kev zoo rau txhua tus. Vim li cas tsis muaj leej twg yuav tsum tau soj ntsuam yog tias koj zoo txaus rau koj tus me nyuam? Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws tawm mus prejudices uas muaj ib yam dabtsi ua nrog rau lub xeev tiag tiag ntawm affairs. Tag kis nws yuav pom tau hais tias nyob hauv qee tus Masha tus me nyuam twb hais hauv peb hom lus nyob hauv ib lub xyoo, thiab qhov ntawd, koj dhau lawm yuav pib ua rau koj cov lus yuam kev tsis ncaj ncees? Qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm koj tus menyuam muaj peev xwm muaj peev xwm nyob ntawm ib qho: nws zoo li cas, kev noj qab nyob zoo thiab kev zoo siab yog koj tus menyuam lub neej.
Yog li, koj tsis tuaj yeem qhia koj tus menyuam siv lub lauj kaub rau 6 lub hlis? Tsis yog, koj ua tsis tau. Qhov tsuas yog qhov uas raws li kev vam meej hauv qhov teeb meem no yog ntawm kev cob qhia ntawm kuv niam. Feem ntau, cov txheej txheem ntawm kev cob qhia me nyuam yaus yog raws li qhov tseeb tias ib ntus, piv txwv li, ib zaug txhua 20-30 feeb, leej niam muaj lub pob zeb mus rau hauv chav dej. Qhov no tau muaj ntau txoj hauv kev, piv txwv, tus me nyuam mos nyob hauv lub dab dej, thaum lub kaus mom hloov, thiab hauv txoj kev yws dej ntawm tus me nyuam ua kev zoo siab. Thiab qhov ntawd yog txhua yam! Kuv niam tsis nco qab los tuav tus me nyuam dhau lub dab ntxuav muag, nws dipped nws cov panties. Li ntawd, leej twg ua peb qhia hauv qhov no?
Tswvyim hais ua 4.
Cov phais plam cov khoom ua rau me nyuam muaj kev puas tsuaj
Hais tias, nyob rau hauv cov pawm ntawm cov menyuam tsis muaj qhov tsis xis nyob, thiab tsis muaj panties ntub dej - tsis muaj siab xav kawm siv lub lauj kaub. Lub koom haum ntawm Pediatrics, Obstetrics thiab Gynecology ntawm lub Academy ntawm Medical Sciences ntawm Ukraine tuaj yeem hais tias kev siv cov ntaub qhwv cov hnoos hov ntev txog 18 lub hlis tsis ua rau tus me nyuam muaj yees thiab tsis ntev ntev rau tus me nyuam txoj kev kawm kom zoo dua qub tom qab. Tus nqi ntawm kev mus rau lub lauj kaub tsis yog nyob ntawm seb tus me nyuam yaus siv cov ntaub qhwv caj dab, nws muab tso rau hauv cov kab laug sab los yog qhwv hauv cov pawm. Nyob rau hauv kev txhawb nqa ntawm no, peb tuaj yeem piav qhia cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev tshawb fawb los ntawm Western cov kws tshawb fawb, thaum lub sij hawm ob pawg ntawm cov menyuam ntxaib. Ib qho ntawm kev saib xyuas ntawm cov menyuam yaus siv cov ntaub qhwv lub taub hau, thiab hauv cov pawm ntawm ob lub pob siv. Thiab nws muab tawm hais tias nyob rau hauv ob qho tib si, qhov xav tau rau ntawm cov pawm thiab cov pawj tawm ploj thaum tib lub hnub nyoog - qhov nruab nrab ntawm 27 lub hlis.
Zaj ntsiab lus 5.
Cov menyuam tub tsis zoo ntawm cov phais uas siv tas pov tseg
Muaj misconception tias cov ntaub ntawv uas siv tas pov tseg tsis zoo rau kev ua haujlwm ntawm cov tub hluas, uas, ib txwm, ua rau kev txhawj xeeb ntawm cov niam cov txiv neej hluas nraug. Muaj ib txoj kev xav txog "lub tsev cog qoob loo" nyob rau hauv qhov dab neeg no - ostensibly nyob rau hauv daim pawj diav yog sov, thiab raws li koj paub, kub ntau dhau mus rau qhov zoo ntawm spermatozoa phem heev, thiab yav tom ntej nws tuaj yeem ua rau mob ntxiv lawm. yog tias tus me nyuam ua nrog cov me nyuam me, nws yuav loj hlob tuaj rau ib tug txiv neej uas muaj lub luag haujlwm tsis raws cai.Tiam sis peb yuav rov qab mus rau qhov tseeb. Raws li cov kev tshawb fawb tau ua, qhov ntsuas kub ntawm cov ntaub so plab yog sib haum rau qhov ntsuas kub nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam me. Enku yog qhuav, thiab hauv pawj cov pwm feem ntau ntau dua, uas tsuas yog tsim cov "mob tsev" rau cov kab mob thiab cov kab mob, piv txwv. Ntxiv rau, cov txheej txheem ntawm cov tshuaj tua kab mob hauv cov tub ntxhais hluas tsis pib ntxov tshaj li 7-8 xyoos, hauv txhais tau hais tias, tus me nyuam tsis muaj daim diaper ntxiv nrog rau qhov tshav kub tuaj yeem cuam tshuam dab tsi.
Yog li, muaj peev xwm tsis muaj kev sib tham txog qhov teeb meem ntawm phev, kev ua si thiab tsis zoo ntawm spermatozoa.
Thaum twg yog lub sijhawm?
Txog hnub, cov kws kho menyuam yaus thoob qab ntuj muaj kev sib koom ua ke rau nqe lus nug no. Pib qhia cov me nyuam mus rau hauv lub lauj kaub yog tsis pub dhau 18 lub hlis, los yog ib nrab xyoo. Nws yog rau lub hnub nyoog no, tus me nyuam pib ua txoj kev tswj hwm txoj haujlwm ntawm txoj hnyuv thiab zais zis. Ua ntej qhov no, cov nqaij ntshiv hauv lub cev tsis ua tiav, tus menyuam tsis tuaj yeem ua siab ntev, zoo li cov laus. Tsis tas li ntawd xwb, thaum muaj hnub nyoog ib nrab thiab ib nrab, kev npaj siab ntawm tus me nyuam mus rau txoj kev kawm siv lub lauj kaub. Lub crumb tsis tsuas yog pib nkag siab txog dab tsi tshwm sim rau nws, tab sis kuj muaj peev xwm qhia gestures los yog hais tias nws xav mus rau mus tso quav. Yog li, kev qhuab qhia cov "pottery science" tshwm sim ib txwm, ceev nrooj thiab tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi. Nyob rau hauv peb tsab xov xwm: yuav ua li cas qhia ib tug me nyuam mus rau ib lub lauj kaub, kev tawm tswv yim ntawm ib tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws, koj tau kawm ntau yam thiab kawm tau ntau yam ntaub ntawv tshiab rau koj tus kheej.