Ntau tus niam txiv yeej npaj siab lees tias cov me nyuam qee zaum cia li tsav lawv vwm nrog lawv tus cwj pwm. Lawv hais tias "yog", thiab hauv ib feeb - "tsis muaj", ces lawv rov hais dua "kuv tus kheej" thiab hais txog lawv kev ywj pheej, thiab tom qab ntawd nrog tib lub siab tsis kam ua ib yam dab tsi. Thiab vim li ntawd, peb, cov neeg laus, tau kos rau hauv kev sib tw nrog peb cov menyuam thiab tsis paub yuav ua li cas. Dab tsi yog qhov vagaries ntawm preschool cov me nyuam, thiab peb ua li cas rau lawv-niam txiv?
Txhim kho lub siab, koj yuav tsum nco qab cov hauv qab no. Tsis muaj ib zaug twg koj yuav tsum coj tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm, uas nws tsis nkag siab los ntawm qhov kev txiav txim siab zoo, li hais ntawm tus kheej rau koj. Koj tus me nyuam ua qhov ntsej muag tsis yog txhob txwm ua! Nws yog los ntawm tsis muaj txhais tau tias koj muab koj lub neej tso rau hauv kev npau suav los yog kom tshem tawm ntawm koj, vim tias koj yog cov niam txiv phem. Lub luag haujlwm ntawm cov menyuam kawm ntawv preschool yog los kuaj koj. Los theej - los xyuas seb qhov tsim nyog los yog tsim nyog yog cov cai ntawm tus cwj pwm uas cov neeg laus tso cai rau nws. Nws hloov tawm tias tus me nyuam subconsciously mus rau tus ua kom yuam kev. Tsis kam ua raws li cov kev cai ntawm niam txiv, nws xav ua kom paub tseeb tias nws yuav tas nws lub neej, thiab puas yuav tsum tau ua raws li cov cai no. Cov me nyuam tsis xav noj dab tsi, thiab ua Vajtswv tsaug. Vim tias qhov no zoo, lawv tsim - kev xav, lub cev, thiab kev sib raug zoo.
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Cov me nyuam kawm qib pib kawm kuaj lawv niam lawv txiv txoj kev npaj txhij txog - uas paub txog li cas. Tab sis tom qab pom, tshwm sim rau qhov kev tshwm sim ntawm tus me nyuam rau koj qhov kev txiav txim siab rau nws, tshawb nrhiav lo lus teb rau lo lus nug yog muab zais: "Thiab qhov chaw twg kuv nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb puag ncig kuv? Leej twg yog tus them rau qhov teeb meem ntawm no thiab tam sim no? Yog tias kuv niam, uas kuv tau txais txiaj ntsig txij thaum yug los, ces kuv puas yuav tsum tswj kuv tus kheej lub neej? "
Tus me nyuam ob peb zaug hauv ib hnub nws kawm tau los ntawm cov laus txog seb nws ua tau thiab tsis ua li cas, yog tias nws xav tau nrog lwm tus los yog muaj kev nyab xeeb. Nws absorbs cov ntaub ntawv no zoo li ib daim txhuam cev. Tab sis, ces nws tsis paub yuav ua li cas pov tseg ntawm nws. Tias 's thaum nws pib nws whims - kuaj cov laus. Qhov no yog, thawj zaug lawv ua rau ib qho kev tshwm sim hauv lawv "kuv tsis xav, kuv yuav tsis tau," thiab tom qab ntawd, nyob ntawm qhov kev tshwm sim no, xaiv cov kev thov rau nws rau qhov yuav tsum ua thiab xaiv ua.
Hauv kev xav ntawm psychologists, ib tug yuav tsum tau txhawj xeeb txog cov niam txiv uas nws cov me nyuam muaj obedient thiab ua raws li cov lus qhia. Thiab kev coj tus cwj pwm ntawm cov me nyuam yog qhov qub, vim nws yog ib theem ntawm lawv txoj kev loj hlob. Thiab nws tshwm sim los ntawm lub sij hawm thaum tus me nyuam pib paub nws "sib cais" los ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov kws qhia ntawv, pib muaj kev ywj pheej thiab muaj peev xwm ua tau haujlwm ywj pheej. Qhov no discovery, nyob rau hauv ib tes, yuav ua rau koj tus me nyuam muaj kev txaus siab thiab kev xyiv fab, tab sis nyob rau lwm qhov - ua rau kev ntshai, zoo li txhua yam tshiab. Qhov no yog vim li cas thawj zaug cov menyuam yaus sib npaug ntawm "Kuv tus kheej" thiab "Kuv yuav tsis."
Cov me nyuam kawm ntawv qib Pre-school siv vagaries kom paub tseeb tias, piv txwv li, thiab lawv puas to taub lawv niam qhov kev txwv tsis pub muaj. Nws yog vim peb paub tias koj tuaj yeem tsis kos rau lub rooj zaum. Ib tug me nyuam muaj peb xyoos xav hais tias nws niam tsis pub nws ua qhov no vim nws nyob rau lub sij hawm ntawd yog nyob rau hauv ib qho phem mus ob peb vas. Yog li ntawd, tom qab ob peb hnub, nws rov sim tig lub rooj zaum ib kob ib qho xim rau hauv ib lub voj voog uas muaj kab xev nrog kev pab ntawm cov cim. Nws xav kom paub tseeb, tab sis nws puas yog qhov tseeb tiag tiag. Mom tej zaum yuav xav tias tus me nyuam yaus xav ua kom nws npau taws. Yog koj yuav - nws muaj ntau yam tseem ceeb kev txhawj xeeb!
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Kuv tus neeg zej zog txhua txhua hnub pib nrog "Kulikovo sib ntaus sib tua", vim nws tus tub 5 xyoo tsis kam hnav khaub ncaws. Nws sim txhua yam: muab nws khaub ncaws xaiv los ntawm, pw tawm nws los ntawm yav tsaus ntuj nyob ib ncig ntawm lub txaj, bribed nrog cov khoom ua si thiab khoom qab zib - nws yog tsis! Tag kis sawv ntxov peb lub tsev tau tshaj tawm los ntawm tus me nyuam qw, lub suab nrov ntawm qhov ntxig thiab kev quaj ntawm ib tug npau taws niam. Thiab yuav tsis muaj xaus rau cov kev thuam, yog tias muaj ib hnub cov niam txiv tsis tau nrhiav kev pab los ntawm ib tug kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws.
Thiab tus kws tshawb fawb tau piav qhia rau lawv tias tus tub yog tshawb xyuas cov cai ntawm cov laus "rau lub zog". Tus me nyuam tau sim kom to taub tias qhov teeb meem no tau hloov lawm tiag tiag thiab tam sim no nws yuav tsum yog lub luag hauj lwm rau nws cov ris tsho thaum sawv ntxov, tsis yog nws niam, li ua ntej. Tus me nyuam kawm preschool tau xav tias tej yam uas nws xav tau ntawm nws, tiam sis nws tsis tuaj yeem siv qhov teeb meem tswj hwm vim nws lub hnub nyoog me. Ntawm no nws yog cunning, nws yeej lub sij hawm, thaiv nws tus kheej los ntawm lub plab ntawm qhov siab. Feem ntau yog cov ntxaum txuas ntxiv mus txog thaum tus menyuam ntseeg tias nws yuav tsum ua li ntawd, thiab tsis yog lwm yam. Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem pab nws hauv ntau txoj hauv kev. Tab sis qhov no yog qhov uas kuv cov neeg zej zog tau ua rau cov lus qhia ntawm ib tug kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws.
Thaum sawv ntxov tom qab tuaj, thiab tus tsov rog ntawm lwm qhov sib ntaus sib tua ua ntej, Niam tau coj txawv dua li niaj zaus. Puas yog tus tub xav hnav khaub ncaws? Tsis txhob. Yog li, nws yuav mus rau kindergarten hauv nws cov pajamas thiab cov khau khiab. Txoj kev mus rau lub vaj teb tau nrog cov neeg caij cov neeg tuaj yeem ua ke, tab sis cov neeg no tau muab piv rau yam dab tsi uas nyob hauv lub siab tawv qhuab qhia! Cov phooj ywg nyob ib puag ncig nws zoo li cov tsiaj nyaum kab txawv, taw tes nrog nws cov ntiv tes, rub tawm hauv nws tes tsho thiab wildly luag. Hnub tom qab, vim hais tias ntawm phab ntsa ntawm tus neeg zej zog lub tsev, tsis muaj suab, thiab tom qab saib lub qhov rai luv luv tom qab, kuv tau pom ib tug tub, hnav khaub ncaws ntawm lub taub hau mus rau ko taw, uas nws niam tau coj nws maj mam tsa tes.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov niam txiv yog tus neeg mob, yog li ntawd lawv tau teeb tsa kev sib cav thiab kev haub tshua, thiab tsis yog rau kev qw lossis kev rau txim. Nws tsis yog yooj yim, tab sis nws yog ua tau.
• Cov laus yuav tsum qhia meej meej txog cov cai - uas yog tus yuav tsum tau ua rau tus me nyuam thiab nws tau txais kev pab cuam. Thiab sawv kev tuag rau kev sib ntaus sib tua tsuas yog thawj rau lawv xwb. Thiab hais tias tus me nyuam yoojyim ua raws li kev cai, hais kom nws xaiv kev ywj pheej. Piv txwv li, yog tias nws xav ua kom sculpt yas rau cov ntaub pua plag hauv chav pw, nteg cov roj hmab los yog nug kom nws mus rau hauv chav ua noj. Los ntawm txoj kev, los ntawm kev coj noj coj ua, uas nws tus kheej tshwm sim ib ntus, koj tus me nyuam yuav zoo nkaus li xis.
• Tsis txhob teem caij ntau. Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav tsis tua cov menyuam yaus txoj kev xav, tab sis kuj yug hauv tus menyuam txoj kev ntshaw los pib kev sib ntaus uas cov niam txiv feem ntau poob. Raws li psychologists, yog hais tias cov laus ua yws ntawm feem ntau vagaries ntawm lawv cov me nyuam, qhov no txhais tau hais tias lawv nyob hauv ib lub ntiaj teb uas muaj kev txwv tsis pub muaj. Npaj lub neej ntawm tus me nyuam kom koj tsis txhob txhawj txog nws txoj kev nyab xeeb txhua feeb, tab sis vim tias ib yam khoom txwv. Piv txwv, vim li cas quaj qw ntawm tus me nyuam: "Tshem tawm ntawm lub qhov hluav taws xob!" Yog tias koj tuaj yeem kaw lawv nrog cov plugs tshwj xeeb.
• Yog tias koj pom hais tias tus menyuam tuaj yeem ua raws li koj cov lus qhia tsis muaj hesitation, lo lus "no", hu rau nws li ib qho uas nws tsis tuaj yeem teb koj. Piv txwv hais tias, "Koj yuav tau hnav khaub ncaws zoo li cas?" Zoo tshaj rau nws: "Cia kuv pab koj hnav" los yog nug: "Koj xav hnav - ris lossis ris ntauv txhav?" Ib txoj hauv kev zoo rau txo cov kev txwv ntawm kev txwv - qhia lawv cov kev xav tau kom lawv tsis ua suab nrov heev.
• Pab cov menyuam kawm preschool rau lawv cov kev xav. Nws tseem hluas dhau lawm hais tias yav tsaus ntuj: "Kuv nkees heev hnub no, Kuv muaj kev ntxhov siab." Es tsis txhob, nws yuav npaj rau koj ntawm txoj kev los ntawm lub vaj teb hysteria vim lub unbought chocolate. Cia li txiav txim siab tus me nyuam nrog cov lus: "Kuv paub tias koj muaj ib hnub nyuaj, yog li tam sim no peb yuav los tsev thiab kuv yuav tuaj nrog ib qho kev lom zem tab sis nyob ntsiag to rau koj." Tom qab ntawd tus me nyuam yuav to taub tias nws tshwm sim rau nws, thiab nws yuav tsis tas xyuas seb nws puas yog qhov phem tiag tiag rau hauv nruab nrab ntawm lub khw. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yuav zoo siab rau qhov koj ua tib zoo mloog nws txoj kev noj qab haus huv. Tsis txhob ntshai tham qhov no txawm nrog ib tug me nyuam muaj ib xyoos - nws yuav zoo siab rau koj nkag siab, yog tias koj teb nws cov lus nug: "Koj tshaib plab, txom nyem me ntsis, tam sim no kuv yuav sov so mis."
• Npaj siab rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev txhawj xeeb. Nco ntsoov tias lub preschooler tseem tsis tau paub tswj nws tus kheej txoj kev ua cov laus. Txhua yam kev hloov hauv "scenery" - tawm hauv chaw ua si, xa tawm TV ua ntej yuav mus pw, thiab lwm yam. - yuav ua rau tus menyuam tuaj kuaj koj. Kev ua zoo li no kuj tuaj yeem ua rau nce siab rau tsev neeg, piv txwv li, niam txiv txoj kev sib nrauj los yog kev ua phem rau nyiaj txiag. Thiab los ntawm nws tus kheej cov teeb meem nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ntub panties los yog hloov los ntawm ib pab mus rau lwm tus, tus me nyuam yuav tsis dim. Ntawm no nws yog "riddled". Nws los ntawm kev xav ntawm kev tsis txaus siab ntawm koj tus kheej, los ntawm kev tswj kev tswj koj tus kheej thiab qhov teeb meem, thiab tsis yog vim nws xav, los ntawm kev ntxias, kom tau koj lub hlwb. Txawm hais tias tus me nyuam tau loj hlob thiab zoo li ntawd, tsis nco qab lawm, hauv cov rooj plaub tshwj xeeb lawv tuaj yeem rov tuaj. Tsis txhob ua qee yam tawm ntawm nws.
• Nco ntsoov tias kev kawm yog ib txoj haujlwm nyuaj. Thiab tsis tshua muaj ib tus niam txiv tuaj yeem coj tus cwj pwm nrog cov me nyuam los ntawm ib hnub dhau ib hnub. Peb xav tias tsis muaj kev vam khom ua ntej cov me nyuam yaus ntawm preschool thiab vim li ntawd - peb ua txhaum rau lawv. Yog tias koj poob koj lub siab - tsis txhob txhawj, tab sis zoo dua thov zam txim rau tus me nyuam. Koj yuav pom - nws yuav ntau heev zam txim rau koj. Qhov kev pabcuam zoo nyob rau lub sijhawm tseemceeb thiab kev nkag siab ntawm kev lom zem. Tsis txhob txhawj, tsis ntev los yog tom qab koj tus me nyuam yuav zais txhua yam uas koj tau qhia nws, thiab tig mus ua ib tus neeg zoo. Txhua lub sijhawm zoo.