Tus txiv neej yuav ua li cas yog tias nws poob rau hauv kev hlub? Qhov tseeb, qhov teeb meem no yog qhov tseem ceeb txhua lub sijhawm. Muaj ib txwm poj niam thiab cov hluas nkauj, thiab txhua tus xav to taub tias nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv lub neej ntawm ib tug txiv neej. Ntawm chav kawm, no lub xeev ntawm affairs tsis hu ua tus qauv, tab sis, tawm ntawm qhov dog dig, nws kuj tsis suav.
Tus txiv neej yuav ua li cas yog tias nws poob rau hauv kev hlub? Qhov tseeb, muaj ntau txoj kev xaiv uas yog nyob ntawm nws qhov xwm txheej thiab qhov xwm txheej. Kuv yuav sim qhia koj txog cov kev hloov ntau tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv nqe lus no.
Ua ntej, koj yuav tsum paub tseeb tias qhov no yog kev hlub tiag tiag, los sis tej zaum tus txiv neej yog nkees nkees ntawm tej teeb meem hauv ntiaj teb thiab xav so ntawm sab. Tab sis, nws yuav siv sij hawm me ntsis, nws yuav to taub tias kev ua si rau lub neej dawb thiab kev hlub muaj kev quaj rau nws, thiab nws yuav rov qab mus rau nws tus poj niam dua, yog tias, nws yuav txais nws. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, ib tug txiv neej tsis tau hu ua kev hlub. Tsuas yog, ua li no, nws tab tom nrhiav kom tau lub sijhawm los khiav tawm ntawm nws cov teeb meem txhua hnub. Ntawm chav kawm, nws yooj yim mus nrhiav ib tug hluas nkauj uas tsis xav tau dab tsi, dua li sim nrhiav kev daws teeb meem nrog nws tus poj niam.
Tab sis, muaj lwm yam thaum ib tug txiv neej pom tias nws yeej hlub lwm tus poj niam, thiab kev sib yuav yog ib qho yuam kev ruam. Hauv qhov no, nws tuaj yeem xaiv ib qho ntawm ntau txoj kev xaiv.
Tsis yog txhua tus txiv neej uas poob rau hauv kev hlub tawm hauv tsev neeg. Thiab, lawv cov cwj pwm tsis tuaj yeem hu ua kev sib hawm. Cov neeg ncaj ncees tsis quab yuam thiab tsis dag rau cov neeg lawv nyiam. Feem ntau cov yuav ntshai, ntshai ua lub luag haujlwm loj heev ntawm no. Tus txiv neej no cia li ntshai tias yuav hloov ib yam dab tsi. Nws twb pib ua rau txoj kev ua neej, rau nws lub tsev thiab rau tus neeg uas nyob ze. H yuav tsis hlub nws tus poj niam, tab sis mus qhov chaw yog pib dua tag nrho. Thiab nws yog qhov yooj yim rau cov txiv neej li nyuam qhuav mus nrog txoj kev khiav. Lawv tsis xav ua raws li cov luag num thiab ua ib yam dab tsi txog nws. Lawv tsis xav kom lawv ua lawv tes haujlwm. Nws yooj yim dua rau cov neeg zoo li no nyob rau ob tsev neeg thiab nrog tus neeg tsis muaj kev hlub, tsis yog txiav tawm lub neej qub thiab pib ib lub tshiab. Lawv txawm paub tias yuav ua li cas thiaj nrhiav tau kev zam kev cai rau lawv tus kheej ua ntej lawv cov nkauj thiab cog lus tias txhua yam yuav hloov sai. Piv txwv li, ib tug txiv neej sib tham txog seb nws cov me nyuam yuav loj hlob me ntsis, vim tias nws yuav yog ib qho kev nyuaj siab rau lawv yog tias tus neeg txiv plig tus thawj coj dheev tas lawm. Los yog, nws yuav tsum them qiv nyiaj rau ib chav tsev (tsheb, dacha, moped), thiab yog tias nws tawm, nws yuav tsuas poob lub sijhawm ua li ntawd, nws tsev neeg qub yuav raug tso tawm tsis muaj tsev lossis tus poj niam yuav ntes lawv mus rau hauv lub tsev hais plaub. Tsis tas li ntawd, ib tug txiv neej yeej paub tseeb tias ib tug ntxhais tus poj niam yuav tuag tsis muaj nws, hais tias nws yog tus neeg nyiam thiab yuav tso nws ob txhais tes rau nws. Tiam sis tsis muaj leej twg xav ua txhaum li ntawd. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias tsev neeg muaj me nyuam. Cov me nyuam, los ntawm txoj kev, cov txiv neej kuj zoo heev ntawm kev siv. Lawv hais tias tus poj niam yuav pauj nws tsev neeg tawm thiab txwv nws kom pom nws tus tub los sis tus ntxhais nkawv nkawm. Qhov tseeb, cov txiv neej yuav tsum tau khiav.
Thiab, zoo li poj niam, thiab poj niam. Cov neeg no yuav tsis siv lub luag haujlwm rau ib qho ntawm lawv cov kev ua. Xijpeem koj yog rau nws, nws yuav nkaum tom qab koj nraub qaum, thiab zam txhua yam kev txiav txim siab. Yog hais tias cov txiv neej zoo li cov lus nug no, lawv sim ua nraim cov lus teb rau txhua txoj kev thiab thawm qhov teeb meem. Rau cov neeg zoo li no, qhov tseeb, nws nyiam heev nyob nrog ob tug poj niam hlub. Tias yog vim li cas lawv yuav tsis ua lawv xaiv, yog li koj yuav ob leeg yuav quaj los ntawm kev hlub thiab kev khib.
Muaj lwm hom txiv neej. Lawv yeej paub tias yuav ua li cas thiaj xaiv tau thiab yuav tsum lav txog qhov lawv hais thiab cog lus. Yog hais tias xws li ib tug txiv neej ntog hauv kev hlub nrog lwm tus poj niam thiab to taub. Dab tsi yuav tsis nco txog nws, feem ntau, nws tseem tawm ntawm tsev neeg. Tau, ntawm chav kawm, rau tus poj niam nws mob heev thiab nyuaj rau txais thiab ciaj sia, tab sis, tseem, qhov tseeb tseeb yog zoo dua lub neej qab zib. Yam tsawg kawg nws tsis dag rau nws thiab muab nws lub sijhawm rau nws nyob thiab nrhiav nws txoj kev zoo siab. Raws li lawv hais: koj tsis tuaj yeem hais koj lub siab, yog li ntawd, tsis muaj teeb meem npaum li cas tus ntxhais, lawv yuav tsum to taub qhov no. Tsis txhob sim ua kom ib tug txiv neej, vim hais tias yog li ntawd txhua tus neeg yuav raug kev txom nyem, nrog rau cov me nyuam, yog tias lawv. Tsis muaj teeb meem li cas mob, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau zam txim rau thiab tso. Ntxiv rau cov hais mav no tias lawv tsis tau tso lawv cov menyuam. Txawm hais tias ib tug neeg tawm hauv tsev neeg, cov me nyuam yeej nyob twj ywm rau nws qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv lub neej. Ib tug txiv neej tsis pub nyiaj rau nyiaj los yog khoom plig. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yuav ua rau lawv txaus sijhawm, tuaj xyuas thiab ua txhua yam los ua ib tug txiv neej uas muaj txhij txhua. Yog hais tias koj nyob hauv lub luag hauj lwm ntawm tus poj niam, los ntawm tus neeg uas koj tso, tsis txhob qhib cov me nyuam yaus tawm tsam koj txiv thiab txwv tsis pub lawv sib pom. Qhov no yog ruam thiab tsis muaj tseeb. Yuav kom tsis txhob tshwm sim ntawm niam txiv, cov me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob raug kev txom nyem, nco ntsoov nws. Yuav ua li cas koj yuav tsis raug mob, yog tias koj paub tias tus me nyuam raug coj los rau nws txiv, thiab nws, tig los xav pom nws, tsis txhob cuam tshuam rau kev xav ntawm nws tus hlub tus me nyuam. Koj, nrog lub sijhawm, yuav yooj yim dua, tab sis qhov puas siab puas ntsws puas yuav tsum tau kho rau ntau xyoo.
Yog tias koj yog ib tug poj niam uas muaj ib tug txiv neej mus, kuj qhia kev txawj ntse thiab tsis txhob khib nws cov menyuam. Qhov no yog ruam, tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab ua rau kev tso dag, thiab cuam tshuam ntawd. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws, yog koj sim ua phooj ywg nrog nws tus menyuam. Ntawm chav kawm, thawj, feem ntau yuav, nws yuav kho koj tsis zoo. Tab sis, nyob rau hauv no muaj tsis muaj dab tsi txawv, vim hais tias nws yog vim hais tias koj hais tias nws niam suffers. Tiam sis, yog tias koj tuaj yeem ua siab ntev thiab ua siab ntev, ua siab ncaj thiab muaj lub siab dawb paug, koj thiaj tseem ua phooj ywg.
Ob tug cwj pwm no yog cov lus teb rau cov lus nug: tus txiv neej yuav ua li cas yog nws poob rau hauv kev hlub? Ntawm chav kawm, muaj ntau yam mob, thiab txhua tus neeg xaiv nws tus cwj pwm coj zoo. Tab sis tseem, feem ntau, ib tug txiv neej yog txiav txim, los yog tag nrho nws lub neej ruam ob tus poj niam. Thiab yog tias koj li yog, nws muaj nqis ib puas npaug rau koj xav ua ntej koj nyob nrog nws.