Niam-hluas nkauj
Hais txog qhov qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm, nws tshwm sim tam sim ntawd pom tias leej niam leej twg mus nrog nws tus ntxhais los yog tus tub mus discotheques, sib tham txog tag nrho cov ntsiab lus nyob rau tib theem, tseem hluas hauv da dej thiab feem ntau ntseeg hais tias qhov tseeb nws tseem muaj kaum tsib. C X C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C C Imnravitsya hais tias leej niam yuav to taub zoo li cov phooj ywg. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yog nyob ntawm cov phooj ywg uas cov me nyuam yeej khav txog cov niam tsev. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog qhov txias thaum lwm tus raug txwv tsis pub vim hais tias niam tsis nkag siab, tab sis lawv raug tso cai ntau yam. Qhov tseeb, tus cwj pwm tus cwj pwm ntawm tus poj niam tus phooj ywg tsis yog zoo li qhov zoo li nws zoo li.
Yog tias niam yeej coj zoo li ib tus phooj ywg 100%, ces qhov no yog qhov tsis zoo heev. Tus me nyuam pib paub tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, qhov tseem ceeb, nws cov lus qhia thiab kev xav tau txais tib txoj kev, uas yog, feem ntau tsis tau txais txhua yam. Ntawm cov menyuam yaus nyob hauv ib lub taub hau muaj duab ntawm tus poj niam-txiv neej-pojniam uas txhua tus tsis lo rau ib daim duab ntawm ntsiag to. Xws li ib leej niam tiag tiag yuav tsum tso txhua yam. Yog tias tus menyuam yaus xav ua ib yam dab tsi tsis paub, ces nrog ib tug niam phooj ywg nws yuav tsis tuaj yeem tswj tsis tau. Yog li, thaum xaiv ib qho qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm, koj, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, yuav tsum txheeb xyuas los ntawm koj qhov kev xam pom. Tus cwj pwm ntawm tus hluas nkauj txhais tau hais tias me ntsis txawv dua li cov me nyuam xav pom. Qhov tseeb, ib tug phooj ywg yog tus neeg to taub, tsis txhob ntshai qhia qhov tseeb, kuj tuaj yeem siv tau, thiab yam yuav txwv. Hauv kev hluas, tsis yog txhua tus me nyuam pom cov phooj ywg li ntawd. Yog li, yog tias koj xaiv tus cwj pwm ntawm tus cwj pwm, leej niam-phooj ywg, ces nws yuav tsum yog raws li kev ntseeg siab. Ntawd yog, nws tsis txhais hais tias txhua qhov koj yuav tsum tso txhua yam rau tus me nyuam thiab li ntawd. Nws cia li hais tias koj xav tau tiag tiag to taub nws thiab sib tham txog nws cov teeb meem, tsis muaj kev ntshai ntawm kev hu txhua yam los ntawm koj tus kheej lub npe. Ntau tus mamytesnyayya tham nrog cov menyuam yaus kom pom, vim nws yog qhov tseeb, tab sis cov tub ntxhais hluas niaj hnub paub ntau dua li peb paub hauv tib hnub nyoog no. Lawv muaj kev nkag mus cuag cov ntaub ntawv hauv Internet. Tab sis qhov teeb meem yog hais tias yuav luag txhua tus me nyuam tsis paub yuav tsum lim cov ntaub ntawv tau txais. Yog li ntawd, lawv txoj kev paub tsis tiav, thiab txoj kev xav ntawm tej yam ua tau hloov hlo. Yog tias koj xav ua ib tug phooj ywg niam, koj yuav tsum sib tham nrog tus me nyuam txhua yam uas nws nyiam thaum nws muaj hnub nyoog.) Ua ntej tshaj plaws, qhov no, qhov tseeb, yog tham txog kev sib deev. Ib tug phooj ywg poj niam tsis tuaj yeem hais tias: "Koj yuav loj hlob - ces koj yuav paub txhua yam." Nws yuav tsum zaum thiab calmly, tsis tham, nrog nws tus tub lossis tus ntxhais txog dab tsi nws nyiam. To taub, yog tias cov ntaub ntawv no yog los ntawm koj, nws yuav tsis raug ntaus nqi rau hauv txoj kev sib hloov. Ntau tus niam txiv tsis xav sib tham txog tej yam zoo li no, yog li tsis txhob ua rau cov me nyuam raug mob. Tab sis qhov ntawd yuav ua li cas lawv raug mob, vim hais tias cov me nyuam twb paub txhua yam, tab sis tsis nyob rau hauv daim ntawv uas lawv xav tau.
Dab tsi ntxiv koj tuaj yeem hais txog koj niam phoojywg? Yog, nws yeej muaj peev xwm ua tau rau me nyuam lub siab, sib tham nrog nws cov phooj ywg thiab lwm yam. Tab sis tsis saib tag nrho cov no, thiab koj tus me nyuam, thiab lwm cov me nyuam yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias koj yog ib leej niam. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob mus ua kom tiav qhov kev paub zoo, cia koj tus kheej hu ua lub npe thiab yog li ntawd, Koj tseem muaj tsawg kawg ob zaug raws li lawv muaj hnub nyoog. Adetas yuav tsum hwm cov txwj laus, yog li ntawd tsis txhob ua rau lawv paub txog kev sib luag ntawm cov hluas thiab laus zog. Dhau li ntawd, txawm koj yog ib tus phoojywg qhib, koj tseem yuav tsum tau nyob twj ywm ua ib tus niam muaj tswv yim. Muaj leej niam uas xaiv tus qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm ib tug phooj ywg thiab ua li cas thaum lawv ua kev hlub ntawm lawv lub hnub nyoog. Qhov no yog, tsis yog kev sib tham txog cov teeb meem, muab kev lagluam hauv kev ua lagluam, thiab ntse kom daws qhov teebmeem no, xws li cov niamtxiv pib poob rau kev nyiag, npog, ceeb thiab lwm yam. Hmoov tsis, thaum kawg, tej zaum nws yuav poob tawm tias tus me nyuam yuav tsuas rub tawm koj hauv kev txawj ntse. Thiab thaum muaj nees nkaum tsib xyoos nws yuav nres koj cov tswv yim, vim tias nws yuav paub tias koj yuav ua li cas rau qhov teeb meem xws li ib nrab ntawm nws cov phooj ywg. Uas yog, los ntawm koj nws yuav tsis ua txhua yam uas tsim nyog thiab worthwhile. Kev sib raug zoo nrog niam-txiv nrog tus menyuam mos yuav tsum tau ua tsis tau rau ntawm kev txo hwj chim, tab sis nyob ntawm tswv yim. Yog li no tus cwj pwm ntawm tus cwj pwm yog teeb meem ntau dua li tus cwj pwm ntawm niam, txij li ntawm, koj yuav tsum tau hais kom tus me nyuam ua kom tiav koj cov kev xav, thaum tseem tsis ua nws, tab sis tsuas yog txaus ntseeg.
Niam niam
Nyob rau hauv lub hlwb, tus qauv ntawm niam niam tus cwj pwm zoo li distorted. Tag nrho cov me nyuam ntseeg tias cov niam txiv txwv tsis pub txhua yam, tsis to taub dab tsi, kho lawv zoo li cov me nyuam me, thiab lwm yam. Hmoov tsis zoo, muaj ntau tus poj niam laus coj tus cwj pwm zoo ib yam li nws muaj tseeb. Tab sis qhov tseeb, niam-txiv yuav tsum ua kom tiav. Qhov tseeb tiag, tus cwj pwm ntawm niam txiv thiab niam niam tsis zoo sib txawv kiag li, Tsuas yog, niam-txiv feem ntau muaj kev sib tw nrog cov tub ntxhais hluas, vim lawv to taub cov tastes thiab kev nyiam ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Thiab niam-leej niam tsis to taub, tab sis sim muab nws. Lawv yuav tsis khiav ncig discos thiab haus dej haus npias nrog cov phooj ywg ntawm tus me nyuam, tab sis niam leej txiv yuav tsum to taub tias koj yuav tsis cawm tau cov me nyuam ntawm qhov no. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom paub meej tias koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais paub qhov ntsuas thiab nkag siab tias kev hla ciam teb yog qhov tsis zoo thiab tsis yog. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, tus cwj pwm ntawm txhua tus niam, txawm hais tias tus qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm uas nws xaiv tau, yuav tsum yog raws li txhua hnub kev paub thiab kev txawj ntse. Thiab qhov no txhais tau hais tias tus me nyuam ntawm tus kheej thiab qhov kev pom zoo tias koj tus me nyuam tsis yog me thiab nws yog nws lub neej, thiab koj yuav tsum pab nws, thiab tsis ua kom puas. Niam yog ib txwm poj niam muaj tswv yim heev. Tus cwj pwm yuav tsum yog tias, thaum muaj teeb meem, tus me nyuam paub tias tej zaum nws niam tsis to taub txog kuv qhov kev pom, tiam sis nws yuav lees txais nws thiab sim pab nws. Yog tias koj xaiv tus qauv ntawm niam txiv tus cwj pwm, koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov xyuas kom koj cov lus qhia thiab kev txwv tsis zoo rau koj tus me nyuam, thiab tsis yog ib qho txiaj ntsim ntawm koj lub tswv yim xav thiab tsis ua kom nws tus cwj pwm.