Qee lub sij hawm, ntawm chav kawm, kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm cov menyuam yaus ncav cuag xws li ntau heev txawm tias cov niam txiv tsis paub tias yuav ua li cas thiaj tawm tau qhov teeb meem no. Qhov kev txiav txim siab tshaj plaws yog cov niam txiv tuaj yeem siv tau thaum lub sij hawm sib cav ntawm cov me nyuam yog txiav tawm ntawm cov theem ua ntej kom lawv tsis nkag mus rau hauv tus cwj pwm. Rau qhov zoo tshaj plaws, koj yuav tsum ua raws li ob peb theem, uas peb yuav tam sim no xav txog.
Thawj theem: txo qhov kev daws qhov tsis sib haum thiab kev tsis pom zoo ntawm cov menyuam yaus, rau qhov tsawg kawg nkaus. Nrog tus me nyuam loj tham txog lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov khoom ua si thiab, yog tias ua tau, faib lawv rau cov uas nyiam tshaj plaws thiab hlub txog nws, thiab cov khoom ua si uas ib tus me nyuam tuaj yeem mus ua si.
Sim kom paub tseeb tias nrog koj nyiam cov khoom ua si, tus me nyuam loj dua qhov uas tus yau tsis pom lawv thiab tsis tuaj yeem coj lawv. Piv txwv, npaj ib qho khoom ua si rau hauv lwm chav tsev, los yog cia nws ua si ntawm ib lub sij hawm thaum tus yau tshaj plaws.
Cov khoom ua si uas yooj yim tau tawg los yog puas ntsoog, npog zoo, txij li thaum no, ua ntej, tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb, thiab ob zaug, ntawm qhov chaw no, ntawm cov me nyuam muaj lwm txoj kev sib cav.
Txawm li cas los, theem no yuav tsis pab cov niam txiv kom muab kev sib cav ntawm cov me nyuam, tab sis yuav tsuas txo lawv cov naj npawb.
Qhov thib ob theem: thaum muaj kev sib cav sib ceg, sim qhia koj tus menyuam, piav qhia rau lawv tias yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj kev sib cav ntawm cov neeg ze. Ua ntej tshaj, muaj kev sib tham nrog tus menyuam hlob. Qhia nws tias tus me nyuam xav ua si nrog nws cov khoom ua si tsuas yog vim nws xav, thiab tsis yog vim nws xav kom npau taws tus tij laug los yog tus muam los ntawm txhua txoj kev. Koj tuaj yeem xav paub tseeb tias qhov ua rau qhov ua rau kev npau taws thiab npau taws hauv tus menyuam loj. Tsuas yog kev kawm kom to taub lwm tus thiab muab koj tus kheej tso rau lwm qhov, koj tus me nyuam yuav npaj rau theem 3 - nrhiav kev daws teeb meem.
Qhov thib peb theem: saib koj cov menyuam nrog ntau txoj hauv kev uas koj yuav daws tau qhov teeb meem. Koj, yog niam txiv, muaj peev xwm muab ntau yam ntawm koj xaiv, tab sis nws zoo tshaj yog tias tus me nyuam tseem xav txog qhov teeb meem thiab qhia koj nws txoj kev daws teeb meem. Cov me nyuam coob tuaj yeem koom tes nrog txoj kev no, qhov feem ntau nws yog tias lwm zaus cov me nyuam yuav paub tias lawv coj li cas, lawv muaj peev xwm, tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm niam txiv, txiav txim siab thiab nrhiav kev tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem.
Tsis tas li, tus menyuam loj hlob yuav tsum tau kawm hais tias "tsis muaj" rau tus yau, siab ntev thiab lub suab.
Cov menyuam yaus tsis tas siv sij hawm ua ke, ua si ua ke, tab sis nws kuj tsim nyog. Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem npaj txhua yam kom cov menyuam yuav nyob rau hauv ib qhov chaw, tab sis lawv yuav koom nrog rau cov lag luam sib txawv. Txhawm rau cov me nyuam tau siv ua ib yam dab tsi ua ke, thaum xub thawj koj tuaj yeem koom nrog qhov kev ua si rau lawv thiab ua si peb ntawm lawv.