Cia peb kawm saib txhua yam zoo li cas. "Hyperactivity" yog ib lub tswv yim zoo heev thiab hais txog kev paub tsis meej, nrog rau tus me nyuam cov kev ua ub no ntau dhau. Nrog rau cov menyuam no, raws li txoj cai, muaj ntau yam teeb meem. Cov teeb meem loj tshaj yog nrhiav kom tau ib txoj kev los qhia lawv thiab tsis lees paub los ntawm haiv neeg ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm li ntawd.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum paub yog tias tsis muaj tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem pab daws qhov teeb meem no li "kev txhawj xeeb." Kev kawm ntawm cov me nyuam tsis muaj roj yog feem ntau ntawm cov niam txiv. Koj tuaj yeem pab koj tus menyuam kom daws tau cov teeb meem no. Tab sis nws tsis yooj yim. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom to taub tias qhov mob no tsis kho, tab sis yuav tsum tau yooj yim. Ua li no, nws muaj ib txoj hauv kev qhia txog cov me nyuam tsis muaj zog. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau them nyiaj ntau dua rau lawv cov me nyuam, tsis yog saib TV tom qab haujlwm. Lub sijhawm no tuaj yeem siv nrog kev pabcuam rau tsev neeg thiab tus menyuam. Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem muab koj tus menyuam los ua av nplaum ua qauv lossis kos cov duab, ua phuam lossis cia li maj mam pab nws niam hauv chav ua noj, tig rau txiv ntsej muag hauv phab ntsa. Cov kev ua no yuav pab tus me nyuam tawm nws lub zog, kev xav thiab kev ua phem. Qhov yuav tshwm sim rau ntawm lub ntsej muag. Tus me nyuam yuav muaj calmer, ntau kuas.
Lub zej zog ib puag ncig lub tswv yim zoo li no cov me nyuam raws li siab, mob-bred thiab spoiled. Feem ntau, niam txiv kuj tsis to taub lawv tus me nyuam, xav tias qhov no yog ib qho kev ua ntawm tus cwj pwm. Lawv scold nws rau nws. Tab sis qhov no ntawm txoj kev kawm yuav ua rau tsis muaj dab tsi zoo. Koj yuav ntxiv dag zog rau qhov teeb meem ntawm tus me nyuam. Nws yuav tsis muab cov txiaj ntsig kom tshem tau cov kev mob siab thiab kev ua haujlwm ntawm kev kawm. Nws yog tsim nyog los nrhiav kev sib cav. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm niam txiv yog PATIENCE, tus cwj pwm zoo thiab kev hlub. Npau taws nrog tus me nyuam tsis ua kom muaj kev nkag siab.
Raws li txoj cai, nws yog qhov nyuaj rau cov menyuam yaus siab kom nrhiav tau ib hom lus nrog lawv cov phooj ywg. Tus me nyuam tseem "overboard" lub tuam txhab los sis pab pawg. Tab sis tus me nyuam xav mus sib txuas lus!
Txoj kev ntawm kev kawm ntawm cov menyuam yau tshajplaws yuav tsum xaiv ib tus zuj zus rau txhua tus menyuam. Ib tus niam txiv tuaj yeem muab tus me nyuam mus rau ib lub tsev kawm ntawv ntiav, ib tus neeg ntiav cov xibfwb qhia ntawv thiab tus xibfwb koom nrog ib qhov kev pabcuam tus kheej.
Yog tias tus me nyuam mob heev, qhov no tsis yog qhov qhia tias tus me nyuam muaj teeb meem ntawm qhov tsis muaj mob. Qhov xaus yuav muab tsuas yog los ntawm tus kws kho mob neuropathologist ntawm kev ntsuam xyuas ceev faj. Hyperactivity yog ib qho kab mob uas ua rau lub cev tshee suffers, paj hlwb raug cuam tshuam.
Kom paub txog kev mob nkeeg no dhau los, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo saib xyuas tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam los ntawm thawj feeb ntawm nws lub neej: nws tsaug zog, noj dab tsi, seb puas muaj cov kab mob tsis muaj zog, txawm tias nws pheej quaj. Tus me nyuam tsis tuaj yeem xav tsis thoob, tsis muaj kev sib deev. Tab sis, raws li txoj cai, cov niam txiv pib to taub tias tus me nyuam muaj siab heev thaum lig, thaum tus me nyuam pib mus kawm, poob qab qee yam. Zoo, yog tias koj pom tias lub caij mob tseem nyob hauv kindergarten, ces koj yog cov niam txiv uas tuaj yeem pom zoo. Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau hloov tus cwj pwm rau koj tus me nyuam, los kho cov hau kev loj hlob thiab tom qab ntawd yav tom ntej, tej zaum, kom tsis txhob muaj teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv.
Psychologists pom zoo kom tsim muaj kev thaj yeeb, sov chaw rau tus menyuam. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam nyiam ua suab nrov, tig lub suab seev ntsiag to ntsiag to, yog tias nws rov qab ua rau lub teeb ci, ces yuav tsum muaj teeb uas tsis muaj qhov kaj ci. Nws yog qhov zoo rau tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau siv daig caj dab, nrog lub hauv paus ntawm valerian ua tshuaj yej. Nrog tus menyuam mosliab no nws zoo dua tsis tuaj yeem mus xyuas cov chaw tsis muaj zog (kev lag luam, tog, khw). Cia tus menyuam yaus hauv kev ua si ntsiag to, ua tib zoo xyuas nws. Cov kev ua si zoo xws li kev ntsuas, tsim tau mosaic, daim duab, xim, nyeem cov phau ntawv. Thiab feem ntau tseem ceeb, txhawb koj tus me nyuam, vim nws yog attentive heev rau koj. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob ua haujlwm - nws tuaj yeem ua rau lub suab nrov ntawm kev xav. Nruab nrab ntawm kev ua si ntsiag to cia tus me nyuam khav theeb thiab rov qab mus ua kom tau zoo dua. Cia tus me nyuam mus rau lub sijhawm. Qhov no yuav pab nws suav nws lub sijhawm thiab lub zog. Yuav tsum muaj lub sijhawm rau kev noj mov, kev ua si thiab kev pw tsaug zog. Yog li, tus me nyuam hauv qib kindergarten yuav yooj yim dua los siv lub sijhawm.
Thaum kawm tom tsev los txhim kho kev kawm ntawm cov khoom, siv duab, kos duab thiab duab. Qhia koj tus me nyuam kom mloog cov laus. Muab nws me yuam kev thiab saib xyuas haujlwm. Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, qhuas koj tus me nyuam ntau npaum li ntau tau, ceeb toom txog nws cov kev vam meej, ua rau nws zoo siab. Tsis txhob cem nws yog tias tus me nyuam ua tsis tau dab tsi. Thiab zaum ze tus menyuam ntawm nws qhov muag thiab piav qhov nws ua tsis yog lawm.
Hawm txog cov niam txiv, nyob rau thawj qhov chaw nyob ntawm koj, seb tus me nyuam yuav nkag rau hauv pawg neeg laus. Nco ntsoov, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj hlub thiab kev txhawb siab ntawm tus me nyuam yuav nyob tag nrho!