Txhua tus niam paub tias tus me nyuam quaj, ces nws tshaib plab los yog nws muaj panties ntub, los yog tej zaum tus me nyuam muaj mob. Tab sis yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis zoo, tab sis koj nyuam qhuav noj nws thiab diaper qhuav. Dab tsi yog qhov teeb meem? Tag nrho cov me nyuam mos sib txawv. Ib tug reacts nrog quaj rau txhua yam, lwm calmly tolerates tsis xis nyob thiab txawm mob. Tab sis tsis hais txog ntawm tus kheej cov yeeb yam, nws muaj ntau yam uas tag nrho cov me nyuam mos liab tsis tuaj yeem sawv. Thiab feem ntau lawv yog kiag li txoj cai nyob rau hauv lawv cov dissatisfaction, vim hais tias ib txhia stimuli tsis yog tsis qab ntxiag, tab sis txawm teeb meem rau lub slough. Dab tsi ua rau peb cov menyuam tsis nyiam?
Ntau ntau tus neeg
Yog tias koj mus ua hauj lwm, ces nco ntsoov ua ntej tias thaum koj tsis tuaj yeem tus menyuam tsis dhau ntawm txhais tes mus rau tes: ua ntej noj mov nrog nws zaum ib pog, ces ob teev ib tus tibneeg laus, tom qab koj tus hluas nkauj los yog tus viv ncaus. Tus menyuam yuav tsum koom nrog ib tus neeg (txhua hnub tib yam nkaus). Tus menyuam xav tau kev ruaj ntseg thiab muaj kev ruaj ntseg. Yog tias ntau tus neeg tab tom tu ib tug me nyuam tib lub sij hawm, nws yuav zoo li tsis muaj leej twg, tsis tseem ceeb tso tseg.
Cov suab nrov thiab nrov nrov
TV zoo nraug, kho me ntsis tom qab phab ntsa, quaj qis ntawm cov neeg laus ntawm txoj kev - tag nrho cov suab no yuav ua rau cov laus txawm ua phem. Thiab ua li cas rau tus me nyuam. Nws tsis to taub qhov keeb kwm ntawm cov suab no, yog li lawv tsis txhob ua rau nws ntau heev li ntshai nws. Tsis tas li ntawd, lub suab nrov muaj zog tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau tus me nyuam lub rooj sib hais. Thiab lub suab nrov ntawm ib qho tas li ntawm TV lossis xov tooj cua tuaj yeem qeeb kev loj hlob ntawm kev hais lus hauv tus menyuam.
Tab sis tsis txhob overdo nws nrog silence. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum loj hlob nyob hauv ib qho chaw ib puag ncig, tsis yog nyob rau hauv tsev cog qoob loo. Tsis txhob taug kev puag ncig nws ntawm hom kab mob, txawm tias nws tsaug zog.
Chaos
Nws muaj peev xwm tshem tawm txawm yog ib tus neeg laus. Tsis muaj ib qho kev tswj ntawm lub hnub yog qhov kev puas tsuaj rau cov hluas tshaj plaws. Txawm hais tias ib tug poj niam me, leej twg yog ob peb lub hlis, pw ntau hnub, nws tseem nyob raws li nws qhov kev mob caj ces (lub sijhawm pw tsaug zog nrog lub sijhawm ntawm kev vam meej). Ib qho kev tswj meej ntawm lub hnub muab cov khoom siv tsis tsuas yog lub siab ntawm kev ruaj ntseg, tab sis kuj qhia tus me nyuam kom ncav sij hawm. Saib thaum koj karapuz yog tuned mus ua si, thiab thaum twg nws xav pw. Sim tsis txhob ua kom nws xav zoo li: "Hnub no peb yuav ua luam dej sawv ntxov, tsis yog yav tsaus ntuj"
Zam
Cov menyuam quaj tsis tuaj yeem tawm ntawm kev tshaib kev nqhis los yog ntawm cov ntaub ntub xoob yas. Qee lub sij hawm lawv yog capricious, vim hais tias lawv yog bored. Karapuz, leej twg feem ntau tawm mus rau nws tus kheej, yog maj mam loj hlob, thiab nws muaj lub zog txhawb kev kawm txog lub ntiaj teb thiab txais cov kev txawj tshiab. Nrog ib tug crumb, koj yuav tsum tham, ua si, feem ntau khaws. Nco ntsoov tias rau cov me nyuam cov kev lom zem tseem ceeb yog nyob ze nrog koj niam: Nws nyiam saib xyuas koj, mloog koj lub suab, rov hais dua koj tus tes taw. Tsis muaj kev kawm ua si yuav ua rau qhov kev xav tau, yog tias koj tsis ua si nrog tus menyuam.
Cais ntau heev
Tshaj ntawm lub txaj nyom puv lub xov tooj txawb, ncig ib ncig ntawm cov khoom ua si nyob ib puag ncig. Rau yav dhau los muaj cov nkauj nyob rau hauv lus Askiv, lub tsev pheej mus xyuas los ntawm cov qhua uas xav nrhaw tuav cov pob zeb ntawm lawv txhais tes, pokagukat nrog nws ... tsuas yog rau kev mus ua si rau lub pas dej, thiab zaws, nrog kuv niam nyob rau hauv lub khw. Nws yog ib qho me me rau me nyuam mos. Cov me nyuam nyiam saib dab tsi tshwm sim, lawv nyiam nyob rau hauv qhov chaw ntawm cov xwm txheej, tab sis cov txheej xwm no yuav tsum tsis txhob ntau heev. Thaum lawv muaj ntau tus neeg khaus, lawv hnov mob quaj, qee zaum lawv muaj teeb meem nrog kev pw tsaug zog. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob sau cov pob zeb nrog cov khoom ua si, thiab tsis txhob sim nrog nws ib puas yam ntawm ib zaug. Thaum koj pom tias tus me nyuam tig nws lub taub hau, kaw nws lub qhov muag, nws txhais tau tias nws yog nkees. Muab sij hawm rau nws kom txaus siab.
Cov khaub ncaws tsis zoo
Lub ris tsho hnav tsho, ntawm chav kawm zoo heev thiab zoo nkauj, tab sis tsis xis nyob rau tus me nyuam mos. Nws tsis tuaj yeem txav nws txhais tes, clutch ntawm ob txhais ceg, uas yog, cob nws cov leeg, tsim kev tswj ntawm qhov taw. Ib qho ze "tus txiv neej me me" tsis yog qhov yooj yim xwb, tiam sis qhov teeb meem ntawm qaum thiab cov leeg ntawm tus me nyuam. Yog li ntawd, yuav cov khaub ncaws hnav khaub ncaws tsuas yog los ntawm cov ntaub fabrics thiab tsis tas txiav dawb. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tsis txhob hnyav heev, yog li ntawd nws tsis tau paub lub ris ntev, piv txwv, thaum pw tsaug zog lossis ua si, uas ua rau muaj kev tsis txaus siab rau tus menyuam.
Nco ntsoov tias muaj cov xwm txheej uas tsis yog ua rau tsis xis nyob rau tus me nyuam, tab sis tuaj yeem ua mob rau nws txoj kev mob.
Tshaj kub ntau dhau
Cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem nkees vim hais tias overheating yog txaus ntshai heev rau me nyuam me, vim hais tias cov txheej txheem ntawm thermoregulation tseem tsis tau hloov. Qhov ntsuas kub nyob hauv chav tsev menyuam yuav tsis pub tshaj 22 ° C. Yog tias tus me nyuam kub, nws pib hws, nws yuav nyuaj rau nws ua pa, tawm fws ntawm daim tawv nqaij. Lawm, qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau tsis zoo siab rau ib tug txiv neej me me.
Haus luam yeeb
Yog tias qee tus neeg hauv koj tsev neeg haus luam yeeb, txawm tias los ntawm qhov rais, ces nkag rau hauv tus menyuam lub ntsws kom muaj teeb meem. Cov pa luam yeeb yuav ua rau lub plab mucous ntawm cov kab mob hauv lub cev, vim tias cov karapuz tuaj yeem tuaj yeem tuaj yeem tuaj yeem tos ntau yam kabmob.
Kev poob siab rau cov me nyuam lub kua muag
Txhob cia tus menyuam quaj qw, raws li peb cov pojniam kuj tau qhia qee zaus. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam quaj, ces nws yog qhov phem rau nws, nws xav tau koj kev pab, kev nkag siab thiab kev hlub. Thiab muaj yuav tsis muaj lus nug ntawm childish manipulation. Thaum koj tsis hnov mob rau lub siab quaj ntawm tus me nyuam mos, nws tsis kam tso siab.
Nws kuj muaj tej yam uas ua rau kev tsis pom ntawm peb cov me nyuam, thiab cov uas yuav tsum tau ua tawm tsam nws lub siab nyiam. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob mus rau ib lub sijhawm thiab yuav tsum ua siab loj thiab tsis ua raws li cov me nyuam lub kua muag.
Tu lub pob zeb
Cov me nyuam tsis nyiam nws, tab sis nws tseem tsis kaj siab los pw los yog noj nrog ib tug spouted spout. Sim ua txoj haujlwm sai sai. Thiab thaum lub sij hawm nws tuav calmly tham nrog ib tug crumb, sim mus cuam tshuam nws, piv txwv li, hu nws zaj nkauj nws nyiam.
Qhov muag ntxuav
Sim ua kom nyob twj ywm thiab tsis txhob cia li tamsim ntawd. Tsis txhob cuam tshuam cov txheej txheem ob peb zaug, vim hais tias tus me nyuam quaj. Rau txhua qhov muag, muab ib lub hnab rwb ntxuav huv si.
Hnav khaub ncaws
Cov me nyuam mos tsis nyiam hloov khaub ncaws. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog lawv tsis nyiam muab cov khoom hnav hauv lub taub hau. Li ntawd, sim ua ntej kom tsis txhob muaj cov qauv. Tshaj tawm tus me nyuam, qhia nws cov lus sib dhos thiab sai sai nws yuav tau siv rau txoj kev ua no.