Teeb meem nrog mloog.
Qee lub sij hawm qeeb cov menyuam yaus tsis nyob ntsiag to, lawv tsuas yog tsis paub yuav ua li cas thiaj li mloog zoo rau ib yam khoom ntev. Qhov teeb meem no feem ntau ntsib cov menyuam uas muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv qib siab, thaum lawv raug cuam tshuam los ntawm kev nce hauj lwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Cov me nyuam yaus hauv lub hnub nyoog no nyiam ua lub neej nyob hauv lub neej no thiab tam sim no, nws tseem nyuaj rau lawv ua qhov uas zoo li tsis zoo los yog tsis yooj yim rau lawv, los ua haujlwm. Ib tus menyuam yaus nyiam ua si, tsis yog los npaj cov kev kawm, thiab thaum lub sij hawm kawm kev sib tw kom xav txog ib yam dab tsi. Koj tuaj yeem kho qhov teeb meem no.
Rau thaum pib nws tseem ceeb heev rau tus menyuam. Kev txhawb zog yog ib nrab ntawm txoj kev vam meej. Cov xib fwb tau qhia kom nrog tus menyuam tham txog nws yog leej twg uas nws xav tau yav tom ntej, txog tej yam nws nyiam ua thaum nws loj tuaj. Nws yuav tsum piav qhia txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev paub txog nws tau txais hauv tsev kawm ntawv, qhia tias nws vam khom nws qhov kev paub nws yuav paub ntau npaum li cas thiab nws yuav kawm dab tsi hauv chav kawm. Yog tias tus me nyuam to taub hais tias kev xaam phaj ntawv tseem ceeb heev rau nws thiab pab ua kom, piv txwv tias, ib tug neeg txawj ntse, nws yuav ua rau nws xav kawm ntxiv txog qhov no. Ntxiv rau yav tom ntej ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj kev txhawb zog thiab muaj ntau yam khoom siv - txaus siab ntawm cov qib kawm zoo, khoom plig rau kev mob siab, nyiaj pub dawb rau kev kawm.
Tsis tas li ntawd, nrog rau hom kev nkag siab ntawm qhov tranquility no yuav tsum tau koom nrog. Koj yuav tsum tau ua si ua si qhia kom paub. Piv txwv, koj tuaj yeem thov tus me nyuam sim cim cov lus, zauv thiab rov ua dua, hloov tej yam hauv nws chav thiab thov kom hloov. Yog tias cov niamtxiv tsis muaj peev xwm pab tau kom paub tus menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau, kev pab ntawm tus kws paub txog kev xav tus menyuam yuav tsum tau ua.
Xws li tus cwj pwm.
Tus cim cwj pwm cuam tshuam peb tus cwj pwm, feem ntau cov ntsiag to tsis tsim txoj kev cia siab ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov xib fwb, vim tias lawv tsuas ua tsis tau lwm txoj hau kev. Cov me nyuam no yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo, lawv yuav tsum to taub. Feem ntau lawv yog phlegmatic. Lawv paub qhov txawv ntawm qhov tsis zoo ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws, lawv nyuab nyuab siab, nws nyuaj rau kev yaum kom ua li ntawd, thiab tsis yog lwm yam. Phlegmatic neeg zoo li tsis muaj kev ntxhov, sluggish, txawm mob. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog li ntawd. Phlegmaticians ua tib yam kev xav zoo ib yam li lwm tus neeg, tab sis qhia lawv rau lawv tus kheej txoj kev.
Yog li, ua ntej yuav sim ua kom phlegmatic, koj yuav tsum to taub tias nws yuav nyuaj rau nws muab cov kev hloov. Cov menyuam yaus muaj kev zoo nyob nrog lawv tus kheej, tuaj yeem ua si ntev ntev nrog cov khoom ua si ib yam, tsis tshua hloov lawv lub qab thiab nyiam. Nws zoo nkaus li tias lub sij hawm faib rau lawv nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev sib txawv. Qhia tus me nyuam ua ib yam dab tsi sai dua.
Piv txwv, yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam hnav ris tsho, nws tsuas yog coj nws cov kev txawj ntse rau automatism. Thaum nws paub tias nws hnav nws lub tsho zoo, khi nws caj dab, rub nws cov ris tsho hnav, nws yuav ua sai dua. Yog tias nws tsis paub yuav hnav nws tus kheej li cas, ces nws yuav tsis tuaj yeem tos txog qhov tshwm sim ntawm nws. Tib yam mus rau kev kawm - kom txawj npaj cov kev txawj ntse tshiab, nws xav paub qhov tsim nyog. Qhov hais tias: "rov qab ua dua yog leej niam kev kawm" yog txoj cai rau kev sib txuas lus nrog cov menyuam yaus. Ib txoj hauv kev zoo los tswj tus me nyuam no yog kom nws ua tiav ib ntus. Thaum nws paub tias nws tsuas tshuav ob peb feeb lawm los daws qhov teeb meem los yog muab tso rau hauv ib lub tsho loj, nws yuav tsis raug cuam tshuam los ntawm tej yam tsis zoo, tab sis tsom ntsoov rau qhov tshwm sim.
Sab hauv teeb meem.
Qee zaum lawv yog cov me nyuam yaus uas muaj teeb meem. Txawm tias cov me nyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab kev nyuab siab, tsuas yog lawv txawv ntawm cov laus xwb. Yog li, qhov kev ua ntawm tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm hloov tau thoob plaws hauv lub neej.
Tus me nyuam tuaj yeem cuam tshuam los ntawm qhov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg. Kev sib cav sib ceg ntawm cov niam txiv heev, ua rau cov me nyuam xav tau kev sib nrauj, kev sib nrauj tuaj yeem yuam nws ua kom qeeb qeeb tshaj qub. Thaum zoo li no, tus me nyuam nyiam ua kom nws tsis pom nws tus kheej, tshem nws tus kheej tawm ntawm cov teeb meem laus, uas nws tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv.
Yog cov niam txiv xav ntau dhau ntawm tus menyuam, nws tuaj yeem xaiv qhov kev coj tus cwj pwm no vim ntshai ua yuam kev los yog tsis ua. Nws yog qhov yooj yim dua rau nws kom ncav cov kev daws teeb meem ntawm kev ua hauj lwm kom thiaj li qeeb tau lub sij hawm thaum nws rov cem dua. Cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem to taub thiab twv tau cov neeg laus li cas, yog li ntawd ntau zaus kev nplua yuav ua rau nws paub tias nws yuav tau swig, tsis hais seb nws puas muaj peev xwm ua haujlwm lossis tsis ua.
Qee lub sij hawm yog vim li cas tus me nyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab yuav ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab. Yog tias tus me nyuam muaj ib yam dab tsi ua mob, nws tsis tas hais li ntawd, tiam sis nws yuav tsom ntsoov rau qhov kev txhawj xeeb ntawm nws txoj kev ntxhov siab, yog li txhua yam uas nws yuav ua ntau yam qeeb.
Txhawm rau daws qhov teebmeem no, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau tshem tawm qhov laj thawj ntawm txoj kev coj tus cwj pwm, ces tus me nyuam yuav zoo ib yam li ua ntej nws ua tsis txaus siab.
Yog tias koj xav tias koj tus me nyuam nyob ntsiag to, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso thiab muab tus ntoo khaub lig rau nws. Cov me nyuam qeeb qeeb tsis muaj peev xwm ua tau dab tsi ntxiv dua qhov kev daws lawv txoj hauj lwm, lawv muaj peev xwm kawm tau thiab tsim, tab sis yuav tsum tau muaj kev qhia tshwj xeeb. Kev ua siab zoo thiab paub zoo txog cov teeb meem ntawm tus me nyuam, kev ntseeg siab thiab lub siab xav tau kev pab yuav yog qhov kev lees paub tias ua ke koj yuav tiv thaiv nrog qhov no.