Txhua tus niam txiv lub neej ua npau suav txog kev zoo siab ntawm nws tus menyuam. Ntau zaus nws tau npaj rau nws lub neej yav tom ntej. Txiav txim siab nrog leej twg tus me nyuam yuav tsum yog phooj ywg, qhov twg mus rau tom qab tsev kawm ntawv, rau tus neeg yuav poj niam los yog sib yuav, tsis nco qab tias tus me nyuam yog tus neeg. Nws paub nws tus kheej yuav tsum ua li cas thiab thaum twg yuav tsum ua, cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau txhawb tus me nyuam hauv nws txoj hauj lwm thiab cov hom phiaj. Yog koj tsis nyiam koj tus phoojywg, ces koj yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus menyuam yog vim li cas koj tsis nyiam nws, thiab mloog tus menyuam qhov kev sib cav rau nws tus phoojywg. Ua ke los soj ntsuam qhov teeb meem no, thiab nrhiav txoj hau kev tawm ntawm nws. Tus menyuam tsis yog ib tug neeg tsis muaj tswv yim uas tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab yam tsis muaj koj nyob qhov twg, tab sis nws yog qhov phem. Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau muaj kev txawj ntse thiab txawj ntse tshaj lawv niam lawv txiv, vim lawv qhov kev xav tseem yog qhov tseemceeb, thiab cov niamtxiv pib hma txog tus kheej ntawm tus menyuam nrog lawv cov cai.
Lub caij cov hluas thiab nws cov teeb meem. Yog tias koj tau ua tiav tus me nyuam rau lub sijhawm no, ces nws pib pom tias nws muaj cai muaj nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev tsis paub. Cov tub hluas feem ntau pib haus luam yeeb thiab haus thaum lub caij nyoog thaum tseem hluas, tsis txhob rov qab los tsev los mus pw, los yog tuaj lig rau tom txoj kev ces lawv tsis hnov cov niam txiv kev coj zoo, hla lub tsev kawm ntawv. Cov tub ntxhais hluas nyooj, kuj tuaj yeem hla tau lub tsev kawm ntawv, thaum ntxov lawv pib nrog txiv neej pw. Cov ntxhais tab tom nrhiav kev mob siab thiab kev hlub, qhov twg nws tau muab, los yog lub sijhawm ntawd zoo li tias qhov no yog kev hlub. Cov menyuam no qhia lawv "kuv", yog tias cov niam txiv tsis tuaj rau lawv lub sijhawm thiab tsis them nyiaj rau tus menyuam tus cwj pwm, ces nws yuav tsis yooj yim rau txoj kev ua kom muaj tus cwj pwm.
Thaum lub caij nyoog ntawm tus tub ntxhais hluas tus xeeb ceem, tej yam teeb meem tshwm sim, cov tub hluas tau ua rau cov kev hloov loj heev thiab txawm tias lawv yuav qab qab. Thiab cov menyuam ntxhais nrog kev tshawb nrhiav kev hlub, ua niam ntawm ib tug me nyuam thaum ntxov. Raws li psychologists, ntxhais nyob rau hauv lub hnub nyoog ntawm 12 yuav tsum qhia lawv txivs nrog caress thiab mloog. Thiab cov tub yuav tsum qhia lawv cov niam, nrog rau kev xav thiab saib xyuas. Nws tsis yog tsim nyog rau txim rau cov me nyuam, nws yuav ua rau tsis muaj dab tsi zoo, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau ua siab ntev thaum lub caij cov hluas thiab pab tus me nyuam to taub nws tus kheej tsis nrog siv, tab sis nrog kev pab ntawm kev sib tham, npaj kom muaj kev sib tham. Yog tias niam txiv tsis muaj peev xwm tiv tau qhov teeb meem no, koj yuav tsum tau tig mus rau ib tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws uas yuav pab qhia koj thiab ua li cas thiaj li ua tau raws li qhov no lossis qhov teeb meem no.
Yog tias koj tus ntxhais tuaj hauv tsev thiab hais tias nws xeeb tub thiab yuav yug me nyuam, tsis txhob xa nws mus rau kev rho menyuam. Koj yuav rhuav tshem koj lub neej thiab nws, nws yuav nco ntsoov rau koj rau yav tom ntej uas koj tsis tau txhawb nws. Tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi tsis zoo rau yug me nyuam, thiab tsis xav hais tias koj tus ntxhais yuav tawg nws lub neej nrog qhov no. Tsis yog, nws yuav yog ib tug niam zoo rau nws tus me nyuam, thiab koj tsuas pab nws nrog qhov no. Thiab ntseeg kuv, thaum tus tub xeeb ntxwv los yog tus ntxhais xeeb ntxwv yug los, koj yuav muaj kev lom zem pog thiab yawm txiv.
Leej Tub tsis muaj ntaub ntawv tsis tsav, yog li ntawd nws tau ua nyob rau hauv nws lub neej tseem me. Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias nws muaj ib lub tsev thiab ib tsev neeg uas nws hlub thiab xav tau. Txawm nws zoo li cas los xij, nws tsuas yog ib tug me nyuam ploj hauv ntiaj teb no kev ntxias. Thiab tsev neeg, cov niam txiv rau qhov ntawd thiab raug muab nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no, los pab koj tus me nyuam pom lawv tus kheej. Koj yuav sau tau txoj kev hlub, thiab koj yuav sau rau hauv qhov sau qoob loj!