Qhov no tsis yog lub npe ntawm kev ncaj ncees yog qhov tseeb: nws yog mos thiab tib lub sij hawm yog qhia meej txog kev peculiarity ntawm tus me nyuam tsis muaj zog los yog qeeb. Cov yeeb yam no tseem ceeb tshaj thaum muaj hnub nyoog 3 txog 7 xyoo, thaum muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv preschool. Hmoov tsis, tsis muaj ib txoj hauv kev qhia ntawv rau cov me nyuam yaus, los sis tsis cais cov cai coj ua nrog lawv. Tab sis nyob rau hauv vain. Cov niam txiv thiab cov kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum tau nrog lawv raws li lawv tau hais los ntawm lawv txoj kev paub thiab qhov teeb meem. Yog li dhau sij hawm, "shustricka" ua cwj pwm, hais tias nws yog ib tug hooligan, thiab "vaub kib", hais tias nws yog qhov kawg. Yog li ntawd, lawv loj hlob tuaj, cog kev loj hlob ntawm lawv tus kheej, ua rau lawv tej kev txaj muag nyob rau hauv txoj kev coj zoo li no. Qhov no yog qhov peculiarity ntawm lawv lub siab zoo thiab tus cwj pwm, thiab tsuas yog kawg - kev kawm. Nws yuav pab tau los xav txog txhua yam ntawm cov me nyuam tus cwj pwm hauv qhov kev nthuav dav.
Ua ntej koj yuav tsum nrog cov "me ntxhais" (cov no yog cov me nyuam tsis muaj zog). Nrog lawv tag nrho tsis yooj yim, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov niam txiv: xws li cov me nyuam tsis zaum zaum ob, nws yog qhov tsis yooj yim kiag rau khaws cia rau ib yam dab tsi, lawv yuav kho tau rau lub sijhawm thiab qhov chaw. Saib cov menyuam yaus, Kuv xav muab piv nrog lub tshooj ntawm mercury, uas ncig lub caij nplooj ntoos zeeg, ya thiab so khoom lawv tus kheej. Vim li cas qhov kev coj cwj pwm no muaj peev xwm ua tau ntau yam: los ntawm cov kev ntxhov siab yooj yim thiab xaus nrog cov hlab hlwb raug mob.
Cov niam txiv yuav tsum to taub qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws: nws tsis yog nyuaj rau lawv, nws yog qhov nyuaj rau tus me nyuam txhawm rau nws tus kheej hyperactivity ib leeg. Psychologists uas kam nrog qhov teeb meem ntawm cov menyuam yaus siab, tsim ib lub cev tag nrho ntawm kev tawm tswv yim rau cov niam txiv ntawm "Shustriki." Ntawm no yog cov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws:
1. Ua kom zoo thiab tas li;
2. Sim ua tib zoo hais lus calmly thiab maj mam;
3. Tsis txhob ntshai los ntawm koj lub siab lossis npau taws. Tag nrho cov no yog qhov qub, yog tias nws raug saib xyuas. Yog tias koj pib npau taws heev, nws tsis tau txhais hais tias koj tau poob koj txoj kev hlub rau koj tus me nyuam tsis so. Xwb yuav tsum kawm kom paub cais qhov nws tus cwj pwm, uas khaus koj, los ntawm nws tus xeeb ceem. Qhia rau tus menyuam: "Kuv hlub koj. Kuv tsis nyiam nws thaum koj ua txhaum koj cov khoom ua si thiab pov lawv ncig ntawm chav tsev ";
4. Sim tsis txhob txwm txwv thiab cuam tshuam tawm - "nres," "tsis txhob twv", "koj ua tsis tau," thiab lwm yam;
5. Nco ntsoov muab tus me nyuam nrog txoj cai nruj thiab niaj hnub ua. Ua zoo (zoo ua ke nrog tus me nyuam) ib qho kev qhia ntxaws txog kev pw, khoom noj, mus taug kev, kev ua si, cov chav kawm thiab cov dej num hauv vaj hauv tsev. Sim ua raws li lub caij nyoog no, txawm hais tias tus me nyuam muaj siab xav mus tas li los ntawm nws. Sij hawm dhau los, nws yuav siv los ntsuas, coj mus rau hauv lub neej txoj sia.
6. Txhob muab cov khoom ua si ib zaug rau txhua tus me nyuam. Muab ib lossis ob zaug thiab cia lawv ua si txaus, ces koj tuaj yeem muab lwm lub. Yog tias nws zaum ntawm rooj los kos, cia rau ntawm lub rooj yuav tsis muaj dab tsi muaj nuj nqis, vim hais tias tus me nyuam tsis muaj peev xwm ntawm nws tus kheej tsis tau txiav tawm txhua yam uas hinders nws thaum lub sij hawm ntawd.
7. Thaum koj tus menyuam nce siab, yuav tsum xyuas kom tsis txhob muaj tshaj li 2-3 tus menyuam tuaj koom qhov kev ncaws pob ntawm ib zaug.
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog tias qhov kev ua si arsenal ntawm ib tus menyuam muaj kev sib tw muaj ntau tus neeg tsim kev sib tw, Kev sib tw, kev ua si hauv pawg ua haujlwm. Tsis txhob txhawj xeeb yog tias tus me nyuam tsis tuaj yeem mus zaum tam sim ntawd zaum saum lawv ntev. Muaj kev ua siab ntev thiab qee zaum ua si nrog nws tsis tsuas yog hauv lub npas, tab sis, piv txwv li, hauv chess. Tom qab ntawd nws thiaj li yuav kawm ua si nws tus kheej ua si ntev. Peb nquag siv lub hwjchim ntawm qhov kev txhawb zog siab - cov niam txiv tau tso cai nrog ua si nrog tus menyuam. Tab sis qhov tseeb rau qhov no nws yuav npaj tsis nco txog football, thiab khiav mus ncig ntawm txoj kev, thiab txog kev xav. Cov kws tshaj lij hais tias, nrog rau kev kawm ntawv zoo, ib tug me nyuam yaus mus rau kaum ob hlob mus rau hauv ib tug tub hluas kiag li.
Tam sim no me ntsis txog "vaub kib". Hais txog lawv, kws txawj hais tsis ntau zaus, vim hais tias rau ib lub hnub nyoog, me nyuam qeeb, raws li txoj cai, tsis txhob thab niam txiv. Lawv sau txhua yam rau lub hnub nyoog: lawv hais tias, nws tseem me me, nws yuav loj hlob, kawm tau li cas ua nws sai dua. Lub caij no, "vaub kib", qhov no yog ib qho txawv ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm cov me nyuam, uas tus me nyuam xav tau los ntawm cov xyoo ntxov hauv kev kho loj - tus neeg mob thiab txhua txhua hnub. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov menyuam yaus raug tshem tawm thaum lawv tawm hauv tsev - nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv, hauv qib kindergarten, tiv thaiv lawv cov phooj ywg, qee qhov kev cai thiab kev ua si. Cov kws txawj ntseeg hais tias cov hom kev ua cim no tsis yog ib tus neeg tsis tuaj yeem xwb, tab sis nws kuj yog ib txoj kev kawm ntawm cov neeg uas muaj npe thiab tus poj niam. Li ntawd, peb, niam txiv, peb tuaj yeem pab peb cov "vaub kib" li cas?
Twb tau muaj hnub nyoog plaub xyoos, koj yuav tsum qhia tus me nyuam, rau lub sijhawm twg thiab lub sijhawm twg. Yog li koj yuav tsim lub hauv paus ntawm kev xaav ntawm lub sijhawm. Tus menyuam yuav kawm kom nkag siab txog dab tsi thiab ua tsis tau li ib teev, ib nrab teev. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los yuav hauv parallel ob peb lub sij hawm uas tsis tshua muaj neeg siv. Thiab feem ntau siv lawv - thaum hnav khaub ncaws rau kev taug kev, thaum noj mov los yog tuaj tos cov khoom ua si. Nco ntsoov txhawb tus me nyuam hauv txhua qhov teeb meem tshwj xeeb: "Saib, hnub no koj tau hnav khaub ncaws li 10 nas this, tab sis tag nrho cov xuab zeb tsis tsaug zog txaus! "Ces tom qab ntawd tus me nyuam pib txheeb nws cov kev ua haujlwm tsis txaus ntseeg nrog lub sijhawm tiag tiag. Kuj zoo ntawm cov txiaj ntsim zoo kuj muaj ntau yam kev sib tw ntawm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov laus hauv lub ncauj lus: leej twg ntxov dua. Cov neeg laus yuav tsum tau muab me ntsis, tab sis tus me nyuam yuav tau txais nws qhov kev qhuas ntawm txoj kev yeej, rau lub cib fim ua thawj thiab ceev tshaj plaws. Cov me nyuam - "vaub kib" yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws rau lawv qhov txawv ntawm lawv cov phooj ywg uas caij tsheb kauj vab lossis ua si football. Vim hais tias lawv cov kev ntxhov siab, lawv xav tau kev ua si. Yog vim li cas lawv twb tau 5-6 xyoo zoo nyeem thiab sau ntawv. Tab sis qhov teeb meem yog tias lawv xav yog ua ntej ntawm lub zog. Qhov no ua rau muaj teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv, thaum tus me nyuam paub ua hauj lwm, tab sis nws tsis muaj lub cev ua.
Raws li koj pom, niam txiv muaj peev xwm pab tau lawv cov "ntxhais me" thiab "vaub kib". Tsuas tsis txhob thuam lawv hauv vain, tab sis, sim nkag siab txog cov hom ntawm cov me nyuam. Ua kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb xwv kom lawv muaj peev xwm txhim kho rau lub txiaj ntsim ntawm lawv lub peev xwm thiab tus cwj pwm.