Qhov txawv ntawm hnub nyoog nruab nrab ntawm cov menyuam yaus yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau lawv txoj kev loj hlob thiab kev loj hlob, cia peb sim paub ua ke.
Yog tias qhov txawv ntawm cov menyuam hnub nyoog li ntawm ib xyoos mus rau ob xyoos, ces, qhov no, muaj qhov loj tshaj ntawm kev noj qab haus huv ntawm leej niam, thaum nws coj thiab muab yug rau cov me nyuam mos ib zaug tom qab. Tom qab yug tus me nyuam thib ob, leej niam lub cev tau doubly zog thiab xav pw txaus thiab so kom txaus. Yog li ntawd, thaum cov me nyuam pogodki, txoj kev kawm ntawm tus neeg txiv plig tus thawj coj kuj yuav loj, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau thawj peb lub xyoo, thaum cov me nyuam tseem tos thiab yuav tsum tau tu thiab saib xyuas tas li. Los tsa ob tug me nyuam, nws yog tshaj, nws yog qhov nyuab. Npaj rau qhov tseeb tias koj tab tom ntsib ob nqi khoom siv.
Tab sis cov me nyuam-pogodki feem ntau yog cov phooj ywg zoo tshaj los ntawm ib tug me nyuam thaum ntxov. Lawv feem ntau mus saib tib qib kindergarten thiab tsev kawm ntawv. Lawv muaj cov khoom ua si, cov phooj ywg ntau. Ua ke lawv tsim tawm sai dua lawv cov phooj ywg. Lawv lub hnub nyoog txawv me me, yog li tsis muaj qhov txawv ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm "senior" thiab "junior". Younger tus me nyuam yuav yooj yim dua rau hauv ntiaj teb, vim nws yog txhua yam rau cov txwj laus.
Thaum sib txawv hauv cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 3-4 xyoo, nws yooj yim dua rau cov niam txiv faib lawv lub sijhawm nruab nrab ntawm lawv, vim tus laus dua nws tus kheej txaus lawm, mus rau kindergarten, muaj phooj ywg thiab nyiam. Niam yuav nrog tus me nyuam ua tus calmly. Nws tsis tas yuav, tiam sis, tsis nco qab tias tus me nyuam hlob tshaj plaws tseem yog ib tus me nyuam, nws kuj yuav tsum tau kev saib xyuas ntawm niam txiv thiab kev hlub. Feem ntau cov me nyuam loj hlob tuaj ntawm cov niam txiv rau cov me nyuam yaus, yog tias lawv pom tias qhov kawg tau muab ntau dua. Ntxiv qhov kev khib siab no tsis cuam tshuam rau txoj kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov menyuam yaus, piav rau tus menyuam hnub nyoog uas koj hlub nws, thaum nws me heev, leej txiv thiab leej niam tseem tu nws zoo.
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li 3-4 xyoos, tus menyuam yaus tshaj plaws tau pab koj nrog tus menyuam mosliab, los ua koj cov haujlwm. Tab sis tsis txhob cia cov menyuam nyob ib leeg xwb. Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, tus yau tus me nyuam nrhiav kom zoo li tus hlob nyob hauv txhua yam, rov qab tom qab nws. Lawv feem ntau tsis nyiam laus neeg, lawv sim ua txhua txoj kev kom tsis txhob sib cuag nrog cov hluas, uas ua rau muaj kev tawm tsam tsis sib haum. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tsis txhob lam pom ib qho ntawm cov me nyuam, yog li ntawd nruab nrab ntawm lawv tsis muaj khib nyiab.
Yog tias qhov txawv ntawm cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog tshaj 4 xyoos, nws yog qhov yooj yim dua rau cov niam txiv. Feem ntau cov tsev neeg tos hnub no: 4-5 xyoos, thiab tom qab ntawd yug me nyuam thib ob. Lub sijhawm no, cov niam txiv tuaj yeem kho lawv lub neej zoo dua, kawm, nce qhov haujlwm ntaiv, thiab kom lawv tsev neeg muaj kev nyab xeeb. Xws li qhov sib txawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus yuav zoo rau cov niam txiv uas tau yug los rau thawj tus menyuam thaum yau yau thiab muaj ntau yam teeb meem thaum pib ntawm tsev neeg lub neej.
Rau cov menyuam yaus, qhov txawv ntawm qhov kev loj hlob tsis zoo yog tsis zoo, vim tus me nyuam loj tshaj 4-5 xyoos los yog tshaj ntawd yog siv los xav txog nws tus kheej ib leeg xwb thiab tau txais kev txhawj xeeb ntawm tus pope thiab leej niam. Nws pom tias nws tsis yooj yim los qhib qhov tseeb hais tias tsis ntev tom ntej no yuav muaj lwm tus neeg hauv tsev neeg uas nws yuav tsis yog nws niam nws txiv xwb, tab sis kuj yog khoom ua si, thiab ib chav. Qhov no tsis niaj zaus tshwm sim. Ntau zaus cov me nyuam loj hlob tuaj thov lawv tus viv ncaus los yog tus kwv tij, thiab zoo siab thaum nws los rau hauv lub ntiaj teb. Lawv txoj kev xyiv fab sai sai no yuav ua rau txoj kev chim siab los ntawm qhov tseeb tias ib tug kwv tij nyuam mos tseem tsis tau nyeem lossis ua si nrog lub tshuab ntaus ntawv. Thaum tus me nyuam tau siv rau tus me nyuam, txhua yam poob mus rau hauv qhov chaw, nws zoo siab pab nws niam rau hauv kev saib xyuas ntawm tus me nyuam. Rau cov me nyuam yaus, kev rho tawm ntawm qhov sib txawv hauv cov hnub nyoog yog qhov uas muaj kev txhawj xeeb ntawm niam txiv, lawv feem ntau loj hlob zuj zus.
Hais lus frankly, muaj tsuas yog tsis muaj hnub nyoog zoo sib txawv nruab nrab ntawm cov me nyuam. Koj yuav tsum tsom ntsoov rau koj tus khub niam txiv thiab muaj cov me nyuam tsuas yog thaum koj npaj txhij mus qhia lawv nrog kev hlub thiab kev nkag siab.