Yuav ua li cas qhia ib tug me nyuam tsis txhob ntshai ntawm cov kws kho mob?

Tag nrho cov niam txiv paub tias qee zaus nws tsis yooj yim rau coj tus me nyuam mus rau tus kws kho mob, txawm tias qhov kev xeem tsis muaj teeb meem. Txij hnub nyoog ntxov, cov me nyuam nco ntsoov tias cov neeg nyob hauv cov tsho dawb tau muab cov tshuaj pleev thiab muab tshuaj pleev, thiab sim zam lawv. Qee zaum ib tug me nyuam ntshai ntshai cov kws kho mob uas nws loj tuaj rau qhov teeb meem tiag tiag. Tab sis koj tuaj yeem pab tus menyuam tshem kev ntshai. Psychologists thiab cov xib hwb muaj kev paub zoo li cas qhia tus me nyuam kom tsis txhob ntshai cov kws kho mob.

Piav qhov kev ua si.

Qhov tseeb tias cov kws kho mob tsis yog kev phem dab, tab sis cov neeg zoo uas pab cov me nyuam tsis mob, tus me nyuam yuav tsum paub. Yog li ntawd, qhia nws mus rau zaj dab neeg txog Aibolit, nws yuav muaj tseeb li tus me nyuam - qhov no tau raug sim rau ntau tiam neeg ntawm cov me nyuam. Tom qab ntawd yuav ib qho khoom ua si rau kev ua si hauv tsev kho mob, qhov twg yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws cov cuab yeej siv - lub tshuab nqus hlau, lub raj tshuaj, cov hnab yas. Ua si nrog me nyuam roj hmab los nrog koj, tus me nyuam yuav kawm - thaum twg ib tug neeg muaj mob, tus kws kho mob zoo yuav pab kho kom zoo. Kws nws tus kheej muaj peev xwm "kho" nws cov me nyuam roj hmab, uas yuav pab nws to taub tias cov kws kho mob tsis yog li ntawd.

Npaj ua ntej.

Yog tias koj xav paub yuav ua li cas qhia ib tug me nyuam tsis txhob ntshai ntawm cov kws kho mob, sim kom tsis txhob muaj kev kub ntxhov thaum mus cuag kws kho mob. Qhov tseeb, muaj ntau zaus thaum koj yuav tsum tau hu mus rau tus kws kho mob thiab tsis muaj sij hawm los npaj tus me nyuam rau qhov kev mus xyuas no, tab sis mas, cov niam txiv yeej muaj sij hawm nrog tus me nyuam tham.
Qhia rau tus menyuam paub yog vim li cas koj yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob, thaum koj mus rau qhov ntawd, koj mus rau qhov twg, yuav ua li cas hauv tsev kho mob, seb tus kws kho mob yuav ua dab tsi thiab seb tus me nyuam yuav tsum ua li cas. Tus clearer tus me nyuam yuav tau hais tias nws tseem tos hauv tsev kho mob, nws yuav yooj yim dua rau kev mus xyuas.
Tab sis tsis txhob mloog nws ntshai thiab mob, tsis txhob sim xav tias qhov teeb meem yog los ntawm kev piav txog kev siab ntsws. Sim tsis txhob xav txog qhov no. Tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem dag rau ib tug me nyuam. Yog tias koj yuav ua rau kev ua txhaum, qhia tus me nyuam txog nws, piav qhia seb tus kws kho mob yuav ua li cas thiab yog vim li cas nws yuav tsum ua, yog tias nws mob siab thiab mob sai npaum li cas.

Txhawb nqa.

Cov kws kho mob lawv tus kheej paub tias yuav ua li cas qhia tus me nyuam kom tsis txhob ntshai cov kws kho mob. Ua ntej, lawv to taub hais tias cov me nyuam mos tsis pom lub tsev kho mob zoo heev, thiab npaj txhij pab koj. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas koj tseem npaj siab koom tes nrog tus kws kho mob. Tab sis tib lub sijhawm sim ua rau ntawm tus me nyuam. Muab nws qhia rau tus kws kho mob, muab saib ib ncig hauv chaw ua haujlwm, kov cov khoom ua si lossis cov khoom ua si. Cia tus menyuam pom tias tsis muaj dab tsi txaus ntshai rau nws.

Tom qab ntawd rov hais dua, vim li cas koj tuaj, thiab yuav muaj dabtsi ntxiv tom ntej. Qhia rau peb saib qhov phem npaum li cas rau cov kab mob thiab cov txheej txheem tsis zoo uas koj raug yuam ua pov tseg nws tseem ceeb. Nws zoo dua yog tias koj nqa koj qho khoom ua si los ntawm koj lub tsev nrog koj, leej twg yuav los koom nrog rau txoj hau kev no. Yog tias tus kws kho mob ua kom txhaj tshuaj thiab tus me nyuam quaj, tsis txhob sim ntxias tus me nyuam nrog qw. Qhia rau tus me nyuam lwm tus txoj kev xav - kev kaj siab uas tus kab mob "khiav mus", qhov ua rau tus me nyuam quaj, vim "khiav" thiab "taum". Lub siab thiab kev ntseeg siab dua koj, koj tus me nyuam yuav nyob zoo dua.

Kev nce qib.

Rau siab tawv koj yuav tsum qhuas. Txawm hais tias tus me nyuam tseem quaj, qhia kuv tias nws zoo npaum li cas thiab nws ua li cas nws coj. Qhuas yog kev ntxiag txawm nyob rau hauv tej lub sijhawm. Tom qab ntawd caw tus me nyuam kom nws ua kev zoo siab rau hauv chav noj mov los sis muab kev txhawb nqa ua khoom ua si lossis qee yam kev zoo nkauj.
Sim ua ib yam dab tsi qab ntxiag thaum tus me nyuam mus rau tus kws kho mob. Qhov no yuav pab kom nws los ntsib cov teeb meem, vim thaum kawg nws yuav tau txais khoom plig los yog khoom plig.

Cov me nyuam ntshai cov kws kho mob, tab sis cov niam txiv yuav tsum tswj hwm qhov kev ntshai no. Sim ntxiv sij hawm ntau lub sij hawm zoo rau tus kws kho mob kom sai li sai tau, xyuas kom tus me nyuam tso siab rau koj thiab paub tias koj yuav txhawb nws txhua zaus. Qhov no yuav pab kom tsis txhob muaj kev ntshai.