Muaj tsis paub tias qhov no tseem ceeb.
Muaj tsawg kawg yog los tiv thaiv nws cov xeeb ntxwv ntawm kev haus cawv thiab tshuaj yeeb. Thaum xub thawj siab, lub suab no coj txawv txawv, tab sis yeej muaj kev sib txuas ntawm kev coj noj coj ua ntawm tib neeg thiab kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Yog li, cov kws tshawb fawb, muaj kev xam phaj ntau tshaj li ib txhiab neeg, pom tias cov naiskhu ntawm hom suab paj nruag, tsuas yog 1.5% ntawm cov neeg teb "yog phooj ywg nrog lub raj mis". Hos 24% ntawm cov kiv cua ntawm hip-hop thiab hluav taws xob siv cawv, yeeb tshuaj thiab hloov kev sib deev, xws li hnab looj tes. Txawm li cas los, qhov no tsis yog qhib. Xun Tzu sau ntawv thaum ub sau tau: "Thaum lub suab seev tseem npliag thiab vicious, cov neeg raug tso tawm thiab tub nkeeg, qus thiab tsim nyog ntawm kev yuam cai." Tib yam yuav hais tau txog cov ntawv sau, tsos, ua si ... Yog li, yog tias koj xav kom tus menyuam zoo dua yav tom ntej, pib txheej txheem ntawm "acculturation" sai!
"Mature" lossis "The Nutcracker"?
Tau kawg, peb yuav tsum pib nrog peb tus kheej. Koj tuaj yeem ua kom tiav chav tsev nrog cov phau ntawv kos duab, thaum koj tus kheej saib "Dom-2"; koj tuaj yeem txwv tus me nyuam mus rau lub luj tsho, thiab koj siv lub phaj tom qab noj mov; koj tuaj yeem muaj qhov qhia txog me nyuam me, thiab koj tus kheej tau mloog chanson - nco ntsoov: tus me nyuam yuav tsis ntseeg koj cov lus, tab sis koj tus cwj pwm. Thiab mam li luam nws. Nws tsis yog qhov tseeb hais tias ntau tus menyuam ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv, cov neeg sau ntawv thiab cov kws kos duab lees paub tias cov niam txiv tsis tau tshwj xeeb "ntiav" lawv - lawv ib txwm muaj cov phau ntawv ntse nyob hauv tsev, cov tuaj qhua thiab cov nkauj zoo nkauj. Los ntawm txoj kev, hais txog suab paj nruag. Cov kws tshawb fawb tau ua pov thawj tias twb tau ua ntej 18 txog qib qis qis ntawm cev xeeb tub ib tus me nyuam tau pom cov suab paj nruag. Tshwj xeeb melodic, piv txwv li cov hauj lwm ntawm Mozart thiab Vivaldi. Yog li, yog tias koj muaj kev npaj muab yug rau lwm tus menyuam, ua rau nws zoo nkauj suab paj nruag ua ntej nws yug los. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tuaj lig nrog txoj kev kawm "cev xeeb tub", txhua yam tsis poob. Suav cov me nyuam uas muaj suab paj nruag sib txawv - tsis yog tsuas yog cov me nyuam cov nkauj xwb, tab sis kuj yog cov hoob kawm, jazz, folklore. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog hais tias nws yog zoo music, tsis pheej yig consumer khoom, uas yog ua si nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov kev. Kws txawj qhia kom pib nrog jazz - nws yog yooj yim rau perceive, thiab tsuas yog ces koj tau mloog classics. Nug tus me nyuam seb nws xav li cas lossis lwm yam suab paj nruag hauv nws ua. Qhov haujlwm no txhais li cas, tsis li ntawd cov xeeb ntxwv yuav tsaug zog ntawm kev nyuaj siab. Koj tsis tau nrhiav ib lub ntsiab lus thaum hmo ntuj hu nkauj - tsuas yog nyiam cov khawv koob khawv koob. Rau tus me nyuam tsis tau poob siab rau kev nyiam suab paj nruag, muab nws tso rau luv luv. Pib nrog, peb mus rau tsib feeb yuav txaus. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav muaj lub siab xav mloog nws dua. Txhawb kom tus menyuam yaum kom nws lub suab paj nruag. Ua li no, koj tuaj yeem yuav hauv lub menyuam yaus lub ntiaj teb ib qho "orchestra" tag nrho, pib ntawm cov kav dej thiab cov nruas thiab xaus nrog cov khoom siv. Koj tus me nyuam yuav nyiam ua si nrog lub suab. Sau tus kws qhia mus rau lub tsev kawm suab seev. Tsis txhob ntshai tias nws yuav tsis nyob ruaj hauv kev ua lej.
Heev qhov tsis tooj!
Swiss thiab Austrian cov kws tshawb fawb tau ua pov thawj tias cov tshooj lus suab paj nruag pab kom sai sai rau kev kawm paub meej thiab txawv teb chaws. Cov neeg tshawb nrhiav American tau los xaus rau qhov kev ntaus nkauj seev suab paj nruag pab rau cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 4-7 xyoos, poob qab hauv kev loj hlob, ntes nrog cov phooj ywg hauv kev nyeem ntawv thiab dhau mus ua lej.
Kaw tes kov tau
Tus me nyuam yuav "ceev nrooj" nrog txoj kev zoo thiab kev coj zoo, yog tias koj nyeem ntau heev. Tsuas yog tsis yog cov menyuam magazines, novel romance thiab pheej yig detectives, tab sis tiag tiag cov ntawv nyeem. Txaus siab rau nyeem ntawv ntawm tus menyuam txaj. Cia tus me nyuam tsis tsuas muaj rattles xwb, tab sis kuj tau cov phau ntawv uas raug chwv, chewed thiab txawm coj mus da dej (tam sim no muaj ntau phau ntawv muag uas tsis deform ntawm cov dej los yog cov me nyuam cov hniav cov hniav) - koj tus me nyuam yuav siv cov fact hauv cov phau ntawv nrog nws nyob txhua qhov chaw. Nyeem ntxiv koj tus kheej. Yog hais tias ib tug me ntsis txiv neej feem ntau pom nws niam thiab txiv nrog ib phau ntawv nyob rau hauv nws txhais tes, nws txhais tes yuav kuj tau kos rau phau ntawv, tsis mus rau bank nrog npias. Nyeem tus me nyuam ua ntej yuav mus pw - nws tsis yog cov me nyuam nyiam nws xwb, tab sis kuj yog cov me nyuam kawm ntawv yau. Yog hais tias ib tug tub los yog ntxhais hates cov phau ntawv, uas tsis yog tsis tshwm sim hauv lub xyoo dhau los, tuaj nrog lub zog ntawm kev txhawb nqa. Piv txwv, rau qhov tseeb tias tus tub ntxhais hluas pib nyeem ntau, cia nws taug kev rau ib teev thiab zaum ntawm lub computer. Ntau tus yuav tawm tsam - nws tsis tuaj yeem ua kom muaj kev hlub ntawm kev nyeem ntawv ua li no. Yog, thaum xub thawj, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau kov yeej nws tus kheej, tab sis nws yuav nqes mus hauv saj. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom xaiv cov phau ntawv los ntawm lub hnub nyoog. Yog li, tus menyuam 10 xyoo yuav tsis to taub "Kev Ua Phem thiab Kev Raug Txom Nyem", tab sis "Cov Adventures ntawm Tom Sawyer" yuav zoo siab. Ib qho kev xaiv uas zoo tshaj plaws - audiobooks. Tus menyuam tuaj yeem mloog lawv, piv txwv li, ntawm txoj kev mus rau hauv tsev lossis thaum yuav mus pw. Tsawg tshaj plaws siv tau yooj yim, tab sis tsis muaj kev ywj pheej ntawm "acculturation" - mus rau theaters, exhibitions thiab museums. Rau chad nws yog kev lom zem, xaiv nws xav tiag tiag. Piv txwv li, cov me nyuam feem ntau nrawm ntawm kev ntxhov siab hauv cov tsev khaws khoom, vim tias tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi kov raug tau. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj cov tsev txhiaj uas tsis muaj qhov kev cai lij choj no. Thiab cov excursions lawv tus kheej ntau muaj tswv yim tshaj li tus txheem scheme. "Tus kws sau paj huam nto moo yug nyob rau hauv xws thiab xws li ib xyoos, tuag nyob rau hauv xws thiab xws li, thiab nyob rau hauv lub tsev no ces". Tsis tas li, tsis txhob sim hla lub tsev khaws puv tsev tag nrho, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws loj. Piv txwv, yog tias koj tuaj rau ib lub tsev khaws puav pheej, xaiv ib chav los yog qhia cov me nyuam ib co duab uas nws nyiam rau qhov tseeb. Tib yam siv rau theaters. Mus peb zaug ib lub lim tiam rau cov me nyuam ua yeeb yam - bust. Cia txhua txoj kev mus ncig ua si ua yeeb yam. Yog tias koj muaj haujlwm nyuab heev - los xa ib tug tub ntxhais hluas mus ua ib qho kev ua yeeb yam, uas zaum nrog lub TV los sis khij ntawm txoj kev, thaum xub thawj cov tub ntxhais hluas ua yeeb yam. Cov menyuam yaus raug qhuas los ntawm txoj kev sib txeeb thiab qhov chaw tshwj xeeb uas kav muaj. Zoo, ces koj tuaj yeem qhia lawv mus rau cov chav kawm ntawv. Nws tsis yog rau ib yam dab tsi uas nws yog xav tias qhov kev tuaj koom nrog kev ua yeeb yam tuaj yeem sib npaug zos nrog cov neeg kawm ntawv siab tshaj plaws.
Yuav tsis koj yuav paub cai dua?
Piv txwv koj tswj kom kho qhov saj ntawm koj tus me nyuam, thiab nws yuav tsis muaj kev txaus siab ntawm "rubged" los ntawm cov txheej txheem los yog kev thaij duab qub. Tab sis ntau tshaj li qhov zoo tau ua haujlwm ntxiv. Tam sim no muaj ntau phau ntawv hais txog cov lus qhia, tsim rau txhua lub hnub nyoog, tau luam tawm (rau cov yau tshaj plaws hauv cov ntawv uas nws tau qhia txog kev coj tus cwj pwm ntawm ib tog neeg, ntawm lub rooj, kev thauj, thiab lwm yam). Cov menyuam yaus loj tuaj yeem tuaj koom lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm kev coj zoo (cov sijhawm kawm ntawv feem ntau nyob rau hnub so, qhov no tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog kev kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv), qhov lawv kawm txog kev ua siab dawb, kev zoo siab thiab yooj yim ntawm kev sib txuas lus (tsis txhob totaub txog kev paub). Zoo, qhov kev qhia ntawm cov lus qhia koj yuav tau tso koj tus kheej. Thawj lo lus txib yog los cim cov npe ntawm cov kws qhuab qhia. Lwm Roosevelt tau hais tias qhov no yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los yeej muaj kev haum siab rau lwm tus. Qhov kev cai thib ob: tsis txhob hnov qab lwm tus tos txais. Peb, plaub-xyoos-laib tau piav qhia leej twg hu rau "koj", thiab leej twg - tshwj rau "koj." Ib hlis rau - kom ncab tus tes ntawm lo lus "nyob zoo" thiab yoj nws ua zoo. Yog hais tias koj tsis qhia tus me nyuam txog kev ntxub ntxaug thaum muaj kev sib tw, ces "ntawm qhov kev tawm" koj yuav tau txais ib tug tub ntxhais hluas, ua rau nws lub qhov ntswg tsis zoo "nyob zoo" los teb rau ib tus neeg txais tos. Qhov kev cai thib peb yog coj tus poj niam los yog tus account. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum paub tias hauv chav tsev koj yuav tsum tshem tawm hauv lub kaus mom, cov ntxhais thiab poj niam yuav tsum tau dhau mus rau pem hauv ntej thiab tias leej niam yuav tsum zoo siab yog tias nws muab nws txhais tes thaum tawm hauv lub npav los yog tuav lub qhov rooj hauv khw (nws zoo dua yog tias txhua yam no tau ua txhua hnub rau leej txiv tus tub , thiab tsis yog tus txiv ntxawm nyob rau hauv ib phau ntawv hais txog kev ua raws cai). Tus ntxhais kawm ntawv tau txais kev txaus siab txais kev pabcuam ntawm kev sib daj sib deev thaum, piv txwv li, ib tus tub kawm ntawv muab nws nqa phom hnyav los yog pab cuam tsho hnav. Thiab ntau dua. Nco ntsoov ua tus luv nqi rau hnub nyoog. Cov menyuam yaus mus txog peb xyoos tsis muaj peev xwm kawm tau dab tsi tshwj xeeb: yog tias txhua tus neeg hauv tsev neeg sib raug zoo, tus me nyuam yuav nqus cov lus "lo lus zoo" nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb ntawm lo lus nrog niam niam mis. Cov menyuam kawm ntawv qib siab nyiam qhov kev ua si, yog li tsis txhob tho kev ncaj ncees, xav txog kev ua yeeb yam, uas koj tuaj yeem hu tsis tau leej twg, quaj qw, ua rau lwm tus neeg cov khoom ua si, thiab lwm yam. Nws tuaj yeem tau txais "puavpheej" rau txhua tus cwj pwm ua haujlwm. Qhov khoom plig yuav ua txhua yam los ntawm ice cream rau wands. Daddies, to taub cov ntaub ntawv, tsis muaj kev xav tau - lawv cia li muab pov tawm.
Txog saj-nrog saj
Cov niam txiv feem ntau qhia me nyuam ntsej muag cov ntaub ntawv: piv txwv tias, thaum lub sij hawm noj hmo koj tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam los ntawm TV lossis xov tooj txawb. Tab sis qhov zoo saj nrog kev noj haus, alas, yog tsis yog li inculcated, li ntawd, cov me nyuam noj txhua yam lawv xav tau: chips, kub dev, hamburgers ... Meanwhile, txawm hauv America, "muab" rau cov khoom noj ceev, tam sim no hauv zam noj mov. Thiab nyob rau hauv ntau lub teb chaws ntawm European Union yog ua kev zoo siab rau hnub noj qab nyob zoo zaub mov, thaum chefs ntawm khw nojmov nto npaj cov tais diav rau cov me nyuam los ntawm cov khoom noj yooj yim. Lub hom phiaj ntawm qhov kev txiav txim yog kom cov me nyuam yaus ua ib pluag mov nrog lawv tus kheej tes yog ntau lub txiaj ntsig thiab siv ntau tshaj li cov khoom noj tau npaj ua. Thiab cia peb cov me nyuam tsis txhob noj cov khoom noj sai thiab cov khoom ua tiav ib nrab hnub, xws li tom qab sab hnub poob, vim li cas ho tsis npaj kom muaj zaub mov noj qab nyob zoo hauv koj lub tsev? Tom qab tag nrho, leej twg, tsis yog leej niam, yuav qhia tus me nyuam li cas cov khoom zoo txawv ntawm cov phem phem, thiab qhov zoo ntawm gastronomic saj - los ntawm qhov phem.