Li ntawd, tswv yim rau cov niam txiv: dab tsi siv tsis tau rau kev tu menyuam.
- Lo rau tib txoj cai.
Hauv cov lus yooj yooj yim, tsis txhob cia tus me nyuam ua tej yam uas nws txwv tsis pub, nyob rau hauv txhua qhov teeb meem. Piv txwv, hnub so, koj cia tus me nyuam zaum ntawm lub tshuab computer tsis yog 30 feeb - 2 teev, tab sis qhov no feem ntau txwv tsis pub rau nws. Qhov no yog qhov kev kawm zoo heev, vim hais tias txoj cai hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog tus me nyuam sib luag. Nws tsis tuaj yeem paub txoj cai ntawm txoj kev, yog tias hnub no "nres" txhais tau tias liab, thiab tag kis - ntsuab. Thaum tsim khoom tsim nyog, yuav tsum tsis muaj qhov tshwj rau txoj cai.
- Tsis txhob thuam tus me nyuam.
Tus menyuam txoj kev xav tsis zoo thiab tsis zoo. Feem ntau cov lus phem, dhau uas peb tsis xav ("What a blank-headed!" Los yog "Koj yog ib tug me nyuam uas txaus ntshai!"), Ua rau tus me nyuam muaj kev raug mob. Nws yuav kaw rau hauv nws tus kheej, tso tseg tsis sib txuas lus nrog koj. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj kom tau ib tug me nyuam tawm ntawm lub xeev no, feem ntau xws li kev sib txuas lus tsim los ntawm cov me nyuam uas tsis muaj qhov tsim nyog uas yuav lwj nws lub neej tom ntej. Yog tias koj tau tso cai rau koj tus kheej xws li kev kho mob nrog tus menyuam, ua haujlwm rau koj tus kheej thiab nrog koj tus txiv sai sai. Sim ua kom muaj kev nkag siab nrog tus menyuam, ua pov thawj rau nws tias nws yog qhov zoo rau koj. Yog tias tsim nyog, thov kev pab los ntawm ib tug kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws.
- Txhob siv kev hem kom tau dab tsi los ntawm tus me nyuam.
Kev hem thiab kev hem hem kuj ua txhaum tus menyuam txoj kev xav. Nws ua tshee, tshee, uas cuam tshuam rau nws kev noj qab haus huv raws li ib tug tag nrho. Cov lus hais, xws li: "Yog tias koj ua txhaum lub khob ib zaug ntxiv, Kuv mam li tsav koj tawm hauv lub tsev!" - Tsis tsim nyog thaum sib txuas lus nrog tus menyuam. Kev hem tsis zoo yuav tsis txhim kho koj txoj kev sib raug zoo, koj cia li teem tus menyuam tawm tsam koj tus kheej. Txawm tias zuj zus, yog menyuam yaus pib ntshai koj.
- Txhob cia tus menyuam cog lus rau koj txhua yam.
Cov me nyuam tsis to taub dab tsi cog lus, vim hais tias lawv muaj lub tswv yim zoo tsis zoo ntawm lub neej yav tom ntej. Lawv nyob hauv hnub no lub hnub, yog li ntawd lawv tsis tuaj yeem cog lus tias tsis txhob muab cov khoom ua si tom qab uas tsis yooj yim.
- Tsis txhob ua rau tus me nyuam nws ua tau nws tus kheej.
Feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam tau ua rau qhov tseeb tias lawv loj hlob tuaj, tsis muaj zog thiab xav tau. Qhia koj tus me nyuam thaum nws tseem yau. Twb tau los ntawm ib nrab thiab ib nrab xyoo tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau txais cov kev txawj hauv tsev kawm ntawv theem pib. Tsis txhob ua ib yam dab tsi rau nws, nplij koj tus kheej tias nws yuav ua sai dua. Yog tias koj yuav mus taug kev, nws zoo dua yog siv sij hawm ntau ntawm cov nqi, tab sis tos kom txog thaum tus me nyuam nws tus kheej yuav khi nws caj dab.
- Tsis txhob yuam kom menyuam mloog lus sai sai.
Feem ntau yog leej niam npau taws thaum lawv hu tus menyuam noj mov, tab sis nws tsis mus, vim nws coj tus duab los yog ua si. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom to taub tias tus me nyuam, koom nrog qhov no los yog kev ua lag luam, nws muaj kev xav rau nws, yog li nws tsis tuaj yeem tawm hauv nws ib zaug thiab mus ntawm koj qhov kev hu. Xav txog koj tus kheej hauv nws qhov chaw, tej zaum koj yuav tau ua qhov qub - xav tau qee lub sij hawm ua lawv tus kheej ua lag ua luam. Ua ntej koj hu ib tug me nyuam, koj yuav tsum ceeb toom tias nws yuav siv sij hawm li 10 nas this, tus me nyuam yuav raug kho rau qhov tseeb tias tom qab 10 feeb nws yuav tsum cuam tshuam nws txoj hauj lwm.
- Txhob pub tag nrho tej kev ntshaw thiab kev cai ntawm tus menyuam.
Peb yuav tsum ua tib zoo xav txog qhov yuav tsum tau ua thiab xav tau ntawm tus menyuam, kom paub qhov txawv ntawm qhov yuav tsum tau ua thiab qhov xav tau. Kev ua tiav ntawm cov menyuam yaus lub ntxias tuaj yeem ua rau qhov tseeb tias tus me nyuam yuav loj hlob mus rau txhua tus uas ua rau nws, hais tias nws yeej tau txais yam nws xav tau. Cov neeg zoo li no yuav tsis muaj lub sijhawm nyuaj rau lub neej tiag, uas yog kev ywj siab ntau dua.
- Tsis txhob cem thiab qhia tus me nyuam ntau dhau lawm .
Qee cov niam txiv sib tham nrog cov me nyuam tsuas yog hauv kev tsim txom thiab kev ua txhaum. Nyob rau hauv lawv lub tswv yim, txawm tus me nyuam tau ua, nws yog tag nrho cov tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab tsis zoo. Yog tias tus me nyuam loj hlob zoo li no, nws lub siab hloov nws lub dag zog los ntawm cov niam txiv, nws tsuas txiav tu ncua. Cov menyuam yaus tom qab yuav tsis yooj yim rau cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv tuaj yeem ua rau cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv tau txais kev txhawb nqa. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum loj hlob hauv ib qho chaw zoo.
- Cia tus menyuam nyob twj ywm nrog menyuam.
Cov qauv me nyuam tsis muaj kev zoo siab, lawv tsis muaj peev xwm them taus, muaj kev sib ntaus sib tua, kev coj cwj pwm phem. Tus menyuam yog menyuam yaus, tsis hais koj yuav ua li cas. Koj yuav tsis tau nws tag nrho submissive thiab obedient. Kev zoo nkauj ntawm thaum yau yog qhov uas cov me nyuam muaj peev xwm ua tau rau cov laus tsis muaj peev xwm thiab tsis cia lawv tus kheej. Saib xyuas tus me nyuam kom muaj kev siab zoo thiab kev to taub, thiab nws yeej yuav tsis muaj teeb meem loj rau koj!