"Kuv tsis xav kom nws xav txog hnub no, Kuv mam li xav txog nws tag kis" - kev paub zoo heev. Hmoov tsis, ntau tus neeg hloov nws mus rau lawv cov teeb meem tiag tiag thiab ua zoo ib yam nkaus. Cov kev hloov ntawm kev ncua sij hawm me ntsis kev xav zoo nkauj, uas tsis quav ntsej qhov kev ua tau ntawm tej yam kev ua, thaum ntau feem ntau paub txog lawv qhov tseem ceeb, tag nrho cov no yuav raug ntaus nqi rau kev paub zoo txog kev xav ntawm kev xav ntawm kev xav. Muaj ob peb txoj kev yuav ua li cas txwv tsis pub muab khoom tso rau tom qab.
Hais kom meej
Tsis nco qab txog cov lus teb, xws li, piv txwv: "yav tom ntej," los yog "nyob ze rau lub sijhawm." Txhob muab lus teb tsis muaj tseeb. Tag nrho cov ntsiab lus no tsis meej xwm thiab ua ywj siab. Yog tias koj ua haujlwm, yuav tsum qhia meej ntxiv. Muaj ob lub ntsiab lus, yog-tsis yog, yog tias koj teb tias "tau", ces ua li cas rau koj cov lus teb. Hnub, sijhawm, yog li cas, txhua yam yog npaj raws li.
Thaum ua tiav cov dej num, pib nrog ib qho tseem ceeb
Thaum pib kev paub tab, pib nrog qhov tseem ceeb. Tsis yog ceev, tsis nyuab, tab sis tseem ceeb nyob rau lub sijhawm no. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev kom nkag siab qhov no. Vim tias muaj kev lag luam ceev nrooj yuav tsis muaj kev tsis zoo. Thiab vim li ntawd, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yuav muab ncua sij hawm. Koj tuaj yeem muab ib qho piv txwv. Koj yog nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw ua haujlwm, ua cov haujlwm tseem ceeb, thiab mam li hu xov tooj tuaj, uas yuav ua mob ceev ceev. Koj teb, thaum kawg, ib qho tseem ceeb heev mus rau tom qab. Tus essence ntawm hom no yog los txiav txim rau koj tus kheej qhov haujlwm tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab nrog kev daws teeb meem, tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam los ntawm cov neeg sab nrauv. Teb rau tib qhov tseem ceeb hu tau thiab koj tus kwvtij.
Rov ua dua: "Nws yog tsim nyog ua kom tiav hnub no"
Yog tias koj teem ib lub hom phiaj, qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yog pib ua kom tiav. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws pib, thiab pib tsis tag kis, tsis ntev, uas yog hnub no. Thiab xyuas kom tseeb ntawm qhov ua tau zoo ntawm hom no.
Txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej ib qho khoom plig rau "ua haujlwm"
Thaum koj ua ib txoj hauj lwm, teem caij rau koj tus kheej qhov khoom plig uas koj yuav tau txais los ntawm ua tiav nws. Yog tias koj tau txais kev cuam tshuam, ces qhov kev ua tiav ntawm txoj hauj lwm yuav muab ncua tseg. Thiab qhov txiaj ntsig ntawm koj txoj haujlwm yog nyob ntawm koj xwb. Yog tias koj xav tau kev pabcuam, koj yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav rau qhov tsawg kawg nkaus, thiab tom qab ntawd, cia li so me ntsis, thiab tom qab ntawd, ua haujlwm ntxiv, rov qab zoo li qub. Kev ua tiav ntawm cov haujlwm no los yog lwm yam dej num yuav zoo tshaj plaws.
Siv kev paub ua haujlwm nrog cov kev yees duab tshiab
Raws li kev txheeb cais, feem coob ntawm cov neeg ua hauj lwm raug cuam tshuam los ntawm kev ua hauj lwm los ntawm lwm qhov chaw, kev siv, kev siv tsis zoo, thiab lwm yam. Muaj coob tus tuam txhab lag luam txhob txwm nkag mus rau lawv cov npoj khiav ntawm cov chaw, thaiv cov hauj lwm ntawm cov ntawv siv extraneous. Lub hom phiaj yog los muab cov neeg ua hauj lwm nrog lub chaw ua hauj lwm puv ntoob, tshem tawm qhov cuam tshuam yam tsis zoo. Coj kom zoo dua qhov no: Muaj ntau cov kev pab cuam uas thaiv qee cov hauv kev kawm hauv Is Taws Nem.
Paub seb yuav ua li cas thiaj li muab pov tseg ntawm lub sijhawm ua haujlwm tsis muaj haujlwm
Npaj cov tswv yim rau cov hnub so lossis hnub so. Yog tias koj npaj ib qho chaw twg mus rau qhov xwm, tsim txhua yam rau qhov kawg qhia ua ntej. Ua ntej, txiav txim siab qhov chaw, yuav khoom, thiab lwm yam. Yog li ntawd, txuag koj lub sijhawm thiab kev siab ntev.
Tsis txhob muab sij hawm rau cov neeg uas coj nws mus deb ntawm koj
Muaj ntau tus neeg uas xa lawv cov kev sib txuas lus, yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm koj lub sijhawm uas muaj nqi, uas yog ib txwm tsis tshua zoo rau txhua tus. Los ntawm cov neeg no nws tuaj yeem ua nyuaj heev kom tshem tau. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho ua tau los tsim ua ntej ib lub tswv yim rau kev sib txuas lus nrog rau ib pawg neeg. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau ua raws li txoj hauv kev uas tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus. Feem ntau cov neeg xav tias lawv poob siab rau kev sib txuas lus.
Xav txog koj lub sij hawm txheeb raws roj ntsha
Qhov tseeb yog hais tias peb txhua tus muaj peb cov sij hawm lom. Qee tus neeg tsim thaum ntxov thaum sawv ntxov thiab pib ua hauj lwm, thiab los ntawm yav tsaus ntuj qhov kev ua tau zoo khiav qis. Thiab qee cov neeg ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, thaum nruab hnub tsuas yog npaj txhij rau kev ua haujlwm, thiab kev ua thiab kev tshoov siab los rau lawv tsuas yog yav tsaus ntuj xwb. Qhov tseeb, qhov no tseem ceeb heev. Paub txog koj lub sij hawm txheeb raws roj ntsha, koj tuaj yeem ua tau zoo rau qhov no los yog txoj haujlwm.