Kev txhim kho tus menyuam hauv tsev kawm: Cov lus qhia dav dav
Cov txheej txheem kev kawm rau txhua tus me nyuam yog cim los ntawm peb theem kev ua tiav. Thawj, qhov nyuaj tshaj plaws, yog nkag mus hauv thawj chav kawm. Qhov thib ob - kev hloov mus rau qib tsib, txij thawj mus rau qib siab. Qhov thib peb yog qhov kev hloov qib 10, los ntawm kev kawm theem siab mus rau qib siab.
Thiab yog hais tias cov me nyuam muaj peev xwm tiv tau theem ob thiab qib thib peb, nws nyuaj rau cov neeg kawm qib pib kom hloov lawv tus kheej mus rau qhov kev hloov pauv hauv lawv cov kev ua ub no. Yog li ntawd, cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam kawm qib ib hauv lub sijhawm no yuav tsum tau mloog zoo rau lawv tus menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau thiab pab nws hloov lub tsev kawm ntawv.
Lub sij hawm uas tau siv tsev kawm ntawv rau txhua tus menyuam yog tus kheej: tus neeg muaj txaus rau ob peb lub lis piam, ib tug neeg xav tau 6 lub hlis. Lub sij hawm ntawm kev hloov nyob ntawm seb qhov tus me nyuam, nws cov nta, kev muaj peev xwm los nrog lwm tus; los ntawm hom tsev kawm ntawv thiab qhov kawm tiav ntawm tus me nyuam mus rau lub neej hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Nyob rau thawj hnub kawm ntawv, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau kev pab ntau tshaj plaws ntawm nws tsev neeg: niam txiv, pog thiab yawg. Kev pab ntawm cov laus yuav pab tus menyuam sai sai rau nws lub neej tshiab.
Nws tsis tas yuav tsum tau tsav tsheb thawj zaug mus rau hauv ib qho kev nruj heev "los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv - zaum rau ntawm cov ntawv." Thiab nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, koj tsis tuaj yeem txwv tus me nyuam ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg. Thaum lub sij hawm muaj kev hloov txav mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, tus me nyuam pib sib koom tes, tsim kom muaj tus neeg tshiab, ua hauj lwm rau nws txoj cai hauv lub tuam txhab ntawm cov me nyuam, kawm kom pab thiab pab cov phooj ywg. Koj txoj hauj lwm ua niam txiv yog los pab koj tus menyuam kawm txog kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb los soj ntsuam lub niche hauv chav kawm ntawm tus me nyuam. Cov kev xaiv hauv kev xaiv hauv chav kawm yuav ncaj qha rau tag nrho txoj kev kawm thiab kev sib cuam tshuam nrog lwm cov menyuam. Thiab cov haujlwm uas tau muaj nyob rau hauv thawj chav kawm yuav tau khaws cia rau tag nrho lub sijhawm ntawm kev kawm ntawv. Yog li ntawd, yog tias ib tug me nyuam twg xav tias nws yog "paub-nws-tag nrho", ces pab nws rhuav tshem daim duab uas tau tsim muaj rau nws, vim thaum tus me nyuam hluas li ntawd yuav ua rau nws tsis zoo.
Tus xib hwb cuam tshuam dab tsi rau tus txheej txheem ntawm tus neeg kawm ntawv qib ib?
Thawj tus xib fwb yog, tej zaum, tsis yog tus neeg tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau koj tus me nyuam, nws yog tus neeg tseem ceeb rau koj tsev neeg tag nrho. Nws yog nws leej twg tuaj yeem muab tswv yim rau koj tus me nyuam, nws yuav pab qhia nws ncaj qha. Koj yuav tsum tsim kom muaj kev sib cuag nrog tus xib fwb tam sim no thiab xav paub seb tus me nyuam coj zoo li cas hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Koj tuaj yeem koom nrog hauv koj lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm koj tus menyuam, npaj, piv txwv, hnub so. Sib cais koj cov kev cai thiab tus kws qhia ntawv cov kev txwv rau tus menyuam. Yog tias koj tsis to taub qhov kev qhia ntawm kev qhia, nug tus xib fwb los piav rau nws, tab sis tsis muaj xov xwm rau tus me nyuam, nws yuav tsum tsis txhob raug kev txom nyem ntawm koj qhov kev tsis pom zoo nrog tus xib fwb.
Ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm txoj kev kawm yog tus neeg nyob ze ntawm tus me nyuam los ntawm lub rooj. Qhov tseeb, qhov no yog ib qho ntawm cov neeg tau txais kev pabcuam rau txoj kev ua tau zoo ntawm tus menyuam mus rau tom tsev kawm ntawv. Koj yuav tsum tau nug txog tias koj tus menyuam txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus neeg zej zog tab tom loj hlob. Tsis txhob xav tias koj tus me nyuam yeej tsis mloog zoo. Nws yog nws leej twg tuaj yeem cuam tshuam thiab cuam tshuam tus neeg nyob ze ntawm lub rooj, tab sis vim qhov no koj tuaj yeem tsis rau txim: nws yog qhov nyuaj rau cov me nyuam yaus mus zaum tseem ntev. Koj yuav tsum piav qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias yuav tsum tau saib lwm qhov chaw ntawm nws tus kheej yog qhov tsim nyog, thiab yog hais tias tus neeg nyob ze ntawm lub rooj ua hauj lwm, ces nws tsis tas yuav tsum tsis txhob cuam tshuam. Qhuas tus menyuam rau kev ua tiav thiab qhia nws kom pab lwm tus. Tomqab ntawd, tus cwj pwm ntawm kev sib pab sib pab ua rau menyuam yaus muaj kev nyuaj siab.
Yuav ua li cas to taub tias tus me nyuam tau muaj kev yoog kom tau zoo rau lub tsev kawm ntawv?
- Tus me nyuam nyiam kawm, nws mus kawm ntawv nrog kev lom zem, nws ntseeg nws tus kheej thiab tsis ntshai dab tsi.
- Tus menyuam yooj yim tshaj tawm nrog tsev kawm ntawv cov kev kawm. Yog tias qhov kev zov me nyuam tsis yooj yim, ces tus me nyuam xav tau kev pab, tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi nws yuav tsum tau scolded. Nws yog txwv tsis pub ua kom sib piv koj tus me nyuam nrog lwm tus, cov menyuam muaj kev vam meej, thiab thuam txhua yam nws ua. Koj tus me nyuam yog nws txawv, koj tsis tas yuav muab sib piv nrog lwm tus.
- Saib xyuas kom tus me nyuam tsis dhau ua haujlwm. Ib qho kev pab cuam hauv tsev kawm ntawv nyuaj yuav tsum muaj lub sijhawm faib sijhawm, thiab lwm tus menyuam yuav mob. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis paub daws qhov kev pab cuam, nws tsim nyog xav txog kev hloov koj tus me nyuam mus rau lwm chav kawm los yog mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv uas qhov khoom ntawd tsawg dua.
- Kho tus menyuam kom nws ua tiav. Nws yuav tsum ntseeg nws tus kheej. Tsis txhob poob siab rau kev kawm.
- Koj tus menyuam tau muaj kev yoog kom tau zoo rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, yog nws ua nws cov ntawv ua tom tsev thiab nws cov khoom siv nws tus kheej dhau los. Tus menyuam yuav tsum tau ua raws li koj thov rau kev pab tsuas yog nws txhua tus sim daws qhov teeb meem tau ua pov thawj. Txhob maj maj kom muab kev pabcuam rau koj, txwv tsis pub tus menyuam tuaj yeem siv rau qhov tseeb tias koj yuav tsum tau kawm cov kev qhia tshwj xeeb nrog koj kev pabcuam, tsis yog koj tus kheej. Maj mam txo qee qhov ntawm koj txoj kev pab, txo nws los tsis muaj dab tsi. Yog li, koj tsim lub ywj pheej ntawm tus menyuam.
- Thiab, thaum kawg, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev ua tiav kev ua tiav rau tsev kawm ntawv yuav yog qhov tus me nyuam nyiam nws cov phooj ywg tshiab thiab nws tus kws qhia ntawv.