Txhua txhua hnub , ib yam dab tsi tshwm sim rau ntawm chaw ua si. Nov tus cwj pwm yog yug los. Nws yog ntawm chaw ua si: lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm kev sib txuas lus, cov me nyuam kawm ua phooj ywg, yeej, muab, thiab, yog tias lawv poob, nws tsim nyog.
Peb daws cov teeb meem. Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias koj tus cwj pwm yog "kev tso cai" rau tus me nyuam coj zoo ib yam nkaus. Yog li, tsis muaj teeb meem li cas nyuaj lossis tsis kaj siab qhov teeb meem no, koj yuav tsum tau soj ntsuam ib kab lis kev cai ntawm kev sib txuas lus. Koj tus menyuam puas muaj khoom ua si? Los yog qhov no ua tsis tau zoo siab ploj tag nrho viav vias thiab viav vias rau hauv viav vias, tsis xav pub lawv rau lwm tus, thiab nws niam tsis zoo li yuav pom?
Qhov ua rau muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb yog qhov txawv txav. Thiab feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam ua rau lawv lub siab thiab tsis nco qab sai sai rau qhov kev ua txhaum, tab sis cov neeg laus uas tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej thiab nkag mus rau hauv kev tawm tsam tau ntev ntev li nyob twj ywm cov yeeb ncuab. Ntawm chav kawm, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog tias qhov tsis sib haum xeeb tsis tiv thaiv, thiab nws tsis tos rau nws. Kuv tau pom tias cov me nyuam tab tom sib cav - hloov lawv cov xim rau ib yam dab tsi ntxiv. Nyob ntawm thaj chaw ua si: lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm kev sib txuas lus yuav yog txhua yam, yog tias txhua tus niam lossis tag nrho cov neeg tuaj yeem kawm paub ua raws li lawv cov me nyuam, yuav ua tib zoo saib ntawm lwm tus neeg thiab muaj feem xyuam rau lawv cov yeeb yam thiab kev ua. Cov menyuam yaus tsis muaj peev xwm ua kom tsis muaj teeb meem, lawv tsis to taub tias cov yau yuav tsum tau muab rau hauv. Lawv paub lo lus "Kuv xav tau" thiab thaum lub sij hawm ntawm kev sib cav nrog cov me nyuam nws nyuaj heev los piav txog ib yam dab tsi. Qhov yoojyim tshaj yog kom txhob cuam tshuam cov menyuam yaus ua ntej lawv pib sib cav thiab qhov tsis sib haum xeeb tseem tsis tau muaj kev kub ntxhov. Rau qhov no, piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam cov khoom ua ntej muab khoom ua ntej los yog ib qho kev qhib rau kev ua si zoo nkauj heev.
Txawm li cas los xij , koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj peev xwm tsa koj lub suab (tsa tsa koj txhais tes, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog) rau tus me nyuam, nws txawv teb chaws thiab koj tus kheej, txawm li ntawd los, yeej tsis tau. Koj qhov dej num tseem ceeb yog los tawm ntawm kev sib cav rau koj tus me nyuam thiab ua kom nws siab nqig, tib lub sij hawm hu rau qhov no thiab leej niam ntawm tus thib ob sib ntaus sib tua. Yog tias tus me nyuam tau ua txhaum lwm tus khoom ua si, leej niam yuav tsum tau muab ib yam dab tsi rov qab los yog pom tias yuav tsum tau kho (nyiaj txiag them rov qab) qhov kev ua txhaum. Koj tsis txawj luag yog tias koj tsa tes rau lwm tus. Txawm hais tias qhov teeb meem no zoo li tsis zoo. Piv txwv li, nws hem ib tug me nyuam uas ntau dua. Tus menyuam yuav nco tau koj cov tshuaj tiv thaiv thiab sim "thov" ntau tshaj ib zaug. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog me, cov me nyuam "muaj txoj cai" rau qia. Nws yog qhov nyuaj rau lawv to taub tias vim li cas ib tug tsis tuaj yeem ua viav vias ntev ntev rau ntawm lub viav vias thiab, vim li cas nws tsis thawb ib tug neeg tsis xav tso qhov viav vias. Yog li no, ib tus neeg laus yuav tsum nyob ntawd, tsis yog taug kev ntawm qhov chaw ua si cais, nrog rau lwm tus phauj. Sim piav qhia rau tus me nyuam tias cov khoom ua si yuav tsum raug muab qhia tawm thiab tias nws yog qhov zoo heev uas lwm cov me nyuam yuav tau muab rau lawv, qhia lawv kom hloov. Yog tias koj tus me nyuam nyiam qog, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov cwj pwm phem ntawm lwm cov me nyuam, sim xaiv ib lub tuam txhab rau nws. Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis tau ua raws li koj nyiam, koj yuav tsum qhia rau koj sai sai.
Peb ua ntawv thov . Yog hais tias tshwm sim rau me nyuam lub chaw ua si: lub tsev kawm ntawv kev sib txuas lus ntawm cov teeb meem tsis sib haum xeeb yuav tsum nrog tham nrog cov me nyuam - lawv tus kheej thiab lwm tus neeg - thiab lawv niam lawv txiv muaj kev hwm thiab nyob siab. Koj tus me nyuam yuav tsum pom tias koj tsis xav kom tag nrho nws cov neeg xiam oob khab thiab, ntawm qhov tsis yog, tsis txhob txhawj nws vim nws yog koj tus me nyuam, thiab koj tsis tuaj yeem thuam lwm tus. Koj yuav tsum ua ncaj ncees, tsis hais tus tib neeg, ces koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais yuav sim ua tib yam nkaus.