Cov txheeb ze nug hauv chorus: "Koj puas tau npaj tus me nyuam rau qib kindergarten? Nws yog lub sij hawm twb! Nws xav tau kev sib txuas lus thiab txhim kho! ". Mummies ntawm ib tug-rau-ib tus menyuam nrog sib sib koom nrog cov ntsiab lus ntawm "castings" ntawm cov menyuam yaus puag ncig. Cov neeg laus dua, uas tsis yog "thawj zaug", piav qhia kom ntxaws txog tus me nyuam ("Txawm tias, koj paub, thawj ob peb lub hlis peb tsis tau tawm ntawm cov ntawv"), yuav ua li cas qhia nws mus pw hauv cov qib kindergarten ("Well, you know my beauty" Nws tsis xav pw, yog li tsawg kawg pw thaum nruab hnub "). Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj - yuav ua li cas kom dim tau qhov tseeb ntawm qhov "muab" tus me nyuam mus rau cov me nyuam qhov chaw ("Nws ua tib zoo saib, kuv, qhov tseeb, thiab ua dab tsi?"). Thiab koj tus kheej, kev coj noj coj ua thiab kev npaj rau kev ua rau lub sijhawm, pheej caum koj tus kheej xav: "Tej zaum peb yuav tsis mus ...?". Puas yog qhov zoo ntawm cov menyuam yaus lub koom haum?
Muab cia rau hauv
Yeej tsis muaj ib qho ua pov thawj tias qib kindergarten yog lub zoo tshaj plaws ntawm noob neej, khoom plig rau cov niam txiv niaj hnub thiab cov zoo li no. Tab sis yog tias koj tig mus rau lub hauv paus tswv yim ntawm cov tsev kawm ntawv no, nws yuav paub meej: Lub tsev kawm qib kindergarten yog ib hom "chaw cia" uas koj tuaj yeem "tes" tus me nyuam yog tias koj tsis muaj leej twg saib nws tom tsev. Nws tsis yog tsis muaj dab tsi uas lub vaj thiab chaw zov me nyuam pib tshwm txhua qhov chaw tsuas yog tom qab Lub Kaum Hli Ntuj Tsov Rog, thaum niam thiab niam pog koom tes nrog kev tsim kho ntawm "lub neej yav tom ntej". Lawv tsuas yuam kom muab tus menyuam mus rau kindergarten.
Cov menyuam kawm ntawv nyob hauv kindergarten tsis yooj yim los sib piv nrog cov xwm txheej ntawm "daim duab, lub pob tawb thiab cov khoom noj" hauv lub nra - nws muaj ntau dua, muaj phooj ywg, kawm ntawv thiab mus kev ... Tab sis qee zaus nyob rau sab nraud ntawm qhov ntsuas - kev mob kev nkeeg thiab kev ntxhov siab ntawm kev quav yeeb quav, Cov "Cov Neeg Ua Haujlwm" lossis tus pab qhia ntawv, tsev neeg muaj teeb meem thiab lwm yam, vim tias ib tus menyuam tsis tuaj yeem mus kawm kindergarten. Nws puas mob nws txoj kev loj hlob?
Cov nriaj rau socialization
"Dab tsi txog kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg?" - Hlub cov niam txiv zoo siab. Peb tau qhia los ntawm thaum yau tias nws tsuas yog nyob rau hauv lub vaj teb uas tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm tau txais "kev ua tiav" kev sib txuas lus. Peb mam li xam nws tawm, puas yog tiag tiag? Ua ntej, hauv kindergarten tus me nyuam tsis xaiv leej twg nrog sib tham, thiab nrog leej twg - tsis yog, vim nws siv txhua lub sij hawm hauv kev sib koom kaw. Qhov thib ob, cov pawg tsim muaj hnub nyoog. Thiab peb puas tsuas sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg xwb? Thirdly, kev sib txuas lus rau tus me nyuam yog qhov tsim nyog - tab sis nyob rau hauv xws li ntau, xws li hauv kindergarten? Alas, rau txoj kev xav ntawm ntau tus me nyuam yog qhov kev kuaj mob loj heev. Tom qab tag nrho, txawm nyob hauv ib hnub loj ua hauj lwm, txawm hauv ib pab phooj ywg ua rau qaug zog. Cov suab nrov, tsis muaj peev xwm mus so haujlwm thiab so ntawm kev sib txuas lus, kev hloov pauv - tag nrho qhov no yuav ua rau cov me nyuam muaj kev tiv thaiv tsis muaj zog.
Cov txhawb nqa ntawm kindergarten hais tias qhov no tus me nyuam raug yuam kom nrhiav tau ib hom lus nrog cov phooj ywg, los qhia lawv tus kheej hauv pab pawg. Thiab lo lus tseem ceeb yog "yuam kev." Muaj tsis pom qhov twg! Tab sis koj puas xav tau nws rau koj tus me nyuam tam sim no? Tom qab tag nrho, cov me nyuam txawv txav! Ib tug twb tau ua tiav 4 lub xyoos lawm npaj txhij mus coj cov phooj ywg, txawm nyob hauv kev sib tw arctic. Thiab qhov tsuas yog thaum xyoo 6 thiab 7 yuav muaj kev sib txuas lus nrog cov menyuam yaus, thiab yuam ua rau tus menyuam yaus - ua rau nws raug mob.
Kev qhuab qhia: rau thiab tawm tsam
"Dab tsi yuav tsum qhia ntawv kindergarten, yog li ntawd nws yog kev qhuab qhia!" - hais tias cov niam txiv "laus". Thiab ntawm chav kawm, lawv yuav muaj txoj cai. Hauv nruab nrab kindergarten los ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum ua raws nraim li kev niaj hnub ua, kev mloog lus rau cov lus qhia ntawm cov laus. Tab sis ... nws puas tsim nyog muab tus me nyuam mus rau hauv vaj teb rau qhov no? Raws li txoj cai, nyob rau hauv kev qhuab qhia peb txhais tau tias "kov yeej" tus me nyuam nws tus kheej, nws lub siab nyiam, thiab feem ntau - thiab kev xav tau lub cev. Tsis xav porridge? Wb "tsis tau"! Tsis xav nyeem, koj puas xav khiav? Yog tag nrho cov mus taug kev, thiab koj khiav. Tsis xav pw? Dag, ua siab ntev. Cov lus nug: nws puas pab tau tus menyuam txoj kev noj qab haus huv xws li "perebaryvania nws tus kheej" (noj thaum lub cev tsis npaj noj, zaum tseem yog thaum koj xav khiav), tsis txhob hais txog kev coj zoo? Thiab qhov tsis zoo ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv? Puas tsim nyog los tawm tsam "Kuv yog lawm, vim kuv laus lawm!"? Yog tias koj saib "ntawm lub hauv paus," cov tub rog feem ntau yuav tsum coj los siv rau feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam yaus kindergartens tau ua ib qho kev xav dav dav rau qhov kev cog lus ntawm kev cog lus ntawm "kev cog lus" ntawm lub zej zog uas npaj txhij rau kev txaj muag thiab tsis paub yuav ua li cas tu lawv tus kheej, thiab kuj unquestioningly - thiab thoughtlessly! - ua raws li txoj cai. Cov neeg zoo li no yoojyim rau tagnrho zej tsoom. Tab sis nws puas yog tam sim no? Tej zaum nws yuav zoo dua los qhia tus me nyuam kom muaj kev sib koom tes thiab lav txog lawv cov yeeb yam? Thiab tsis yog cov niam txiv, los ntawm lawv tus qauv, qhia tus menyuam kom tshem tawm cov khoom ua si, npog lub rooj, npog lub txaj?
Nrog rau kev pab ntawm tsev
Yog li, yog tias koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab tias yuav mus pib kindergarten - ib qho kev tshwm sim tsis yog rau koj, nco ntsoov xav txog yuav ua li cas kom koj tus menyuam tsim kev sib haum xeeb.
1. Kev sib txuas lus
Ntau tus niam txiv tau ntshai los ntawm txoj kev cia siab ntawm txoj kev mus kawm rau yav tom ntej - lawv hais tias, peb tus menyuam tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus li cas? Tab sis tsis mus kawm kindergarten hauv lub neej ntawm tus menyuam tsis txhais hais tias nws yuav tsum tau muab kaw hauv tsev ib leeg nrog ib leej niam los yog pog. Mus nrog txoj kev taug kev mus rau ntau qhov chaw me me, caw cov qhua, tuaj ncig lub voj voos thiab cov ntawv - 1-2 teev ntawm kev sib txuas lus hauv ib hnub yog qhov txaus kom koj tus menyuam dhau los ua ib tus tswv cuab ntawm cov menyuam yaus.
2. Kev txawj ntse txawj ntse
Txog rau qee qhov (tsev kawm ntawv) lub hnub nyoog qhov kev xav tau ntawm tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm muaj peev xwm txaus siab rau cov tub koom xeeb ntawm tus me nyuam tsev neeg. Nws tsis tas yuav cog qoob loo rau ib lub rooj me me - nws zoo dua yog tias nws tau txais kev paub thiab kev txawj hauv kev ua si thiab kev sib txuas lus. Piv txwv li, thaum koj noj hmo - nws nyuaj rau suav nrog ib lub crumb ntawm carrots thiab qos yaj ywm thiab qhia dab tsi ntawm paj thiab duab? Yog tias koj xav tau ib yam dab tsi "tshwj xeeb", hauv koj qhov kev pab cuam ntau ntawm kev ua ub no rau cov me nyuam ntawm cov menyuam mos mus rau tom tsev kawm ntawv. Ntawm no, thiab kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg thiab cov txwj laus, thiab kev txawj ntse, thiab muaj tswv yim tsim. Yog tias koj lub nroog tsis muaj menyuam qhov chaw loj hlob, nws tsis tseem ceeb! Tej zaum koj yuav koom tes nrog ob los yog peb leej niam ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv thiab ob peb zaug hauv ib lub lim tiam tuaj yeem npaj hnub tom tsev. Muaj ib yam ntawm koj paub ua suab paj nruag thiab hu nkauj menyuam yaus, lwm tus yuav qhia tias yuav ua li cas thiaj suav tau cov sticks thiab apples, thiab yawg los yog tus phauj muaj qhov khoom plig hauv kev lom zem los qhia txog geography lossis biology, qhia rau koj nyeem ntawv lossis kos ... Txawm hais tias lub tswv yim ntawm "tutoring" muaj peev xwm txaus siab rau tsis yog los ntawm koj cov phooj ywg xwb, tab sis kuj yog los ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawm ib tus kws qhia haujlwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv qib siab. Koj yuav pom, nyiaj txiag nws yuav tsis tsum depressing txhua!
3. Kev ntseeg tus kheej thiab kev ntseeg tus kheej
Yuav kom loj hlob zoo, koj tus me nyuam yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias nws nyiam thiab muaj peev xwm. Qhov tseeb hais tias nws siv ntau lub sij hawm nrog cov neeg laus tuaj yeem tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev tsim kom muaj tus kheej qhov kev ntsuam xyuas - tab sis tsuas yog yog kev sib txuas lus tau tsim los ntawm lub hauv paus ntsiab lus ntawm "mlom ntawm tsev neeg", hyperopia, lossis rau qhov siab thiab tswj (yog hais tias tus me nyuam nrog peb peb-ka-a-ak-educate muaj ka-ah-ah-ak cia nws tsim!). Cia tus me nyuam ... tsuas yog me nyuam xwb! Cia nws ua li nws xav, cia nws loj hlob, raws li nws lub hnub nyoog. Qhov tseeb, kev kawm hauv tsev ntawm tus menyuam mos yuav zoo li qhov nyuaj tshaj qhov qub "dhau los txais" nyob rau hauv kindergarten. Peb yuav tsum nrhiav ntau cov ntaub ntawv hais txog kev loj hlob thaum ntxov, coj lub luag haujlwm rau tus menyuam, thaum kawg - lossi tiv thaiv peb txoj cai kom tsis txhob ua kom zoo li txhua tus neeg ... Tab sis qhov no yog ib txoj hauj lwm ua tsaug - koj kev ua hauj lwm yuav txi txiv, thiab koj yuav paub tseeb tias txoj kev loj hlob tus me nyuam nyob hauv koj txhais tes. Cov tub ntxhais hluas uas loj hlob nyob rau hauv pawg Soviet Union, lub tswv yim uas tuaj xyuas kindergarten tsis yog ib qho kev ntsuas, nws yuav zoo li ruam thiab txawm qus. Ntawm chav kawm, muaj cov menyuam yaus zoo nrog cov xibfwb uas muaj kev txawj ntse thiab txawj xav. Muaj cov menyuam yaus uas tuaj yeem mus kawm kindergarten thiab zoo siab los siv sijhawm nyob ntawd. Tom qab tag nrho, muaj cov niam txiv uas tsis muaj lwm txoj kev xaiv tiam sis yuav muab tus me nyuam mus rau qib kindergarten ... Tab sis, yog tias koj tseem muaj qhov kev xaiv no, mus ua ntej lossis tsis ua, koj yuav tsum ua kom zoo, ntsuas txhua yam rau " thiab "tawm tsam", mloog koj lub siab thiab tus menyuam. Thiab tsis yog vim koj xav muab tus me nyuam kawm qib kindergarten.
Thiab zoo li cas txog kev txhim kho?
Ib qho kev sib cav tseem ceeb hauv kev nyiam ntawm cov kindergartens yog kev kawm ntawv, kev muaj cov chav kawm tshwj xeeb thiab lwm yam. Tab sis yog tias koj suav, nws hloov tawm hauv qhov tseeb, tus me nyuam siv 1-3 teev hauv ib hnub "kawm" hauv kindergarten - feem ntau yog kos, nyeem ntawv, suab paj nruag, logic / lej thiab ib yam lus txawv teb chaws. Thiab kev lag luam muaj txiaj ntsim li cas yog koj cov nqi rau cov chav kawm no? Hauv pawg 15-25 cov me nyuam, tus neeg zov me nyuam tsis muaj lub sij hawm, lub sij hawm, los yog feem ntau ntawm txoj kev ntshaw tshwj xeeb los mus hloov cov ntawv qhia rau txhua tus me nyuam.
Yog li ntawd nws hloov tawm tias nws yog ib qho zoo thiab muaj txiaj ntsig los ntawm kev kawm los ntawm qhov kev ntsuas no "ib nrab" uas tsuas yog tus me nyuam yuav yog "tus qauv". Xws li ib feem coob, tab sis yog tias koj tus me nyuam yog "los ntawm cov neeg tsawg"? Tab sis lub crumb-wunderkind, leej twg paub li cas nyeem thiab sau ntawv hauv tsib xyoos, los yog tus me nyuam yaus-kopushe, leej twg xav sau nws cov kev xav rau lub sij hawm ntev ua ntej ua ib yam dab tsi, qhov "sij hawm" no yuav tsis haum. Yog li xav zoo zoo ua ntej txiav txim seb puas yuav muab tus menyuam - nrog rau kindergarten qee zaum tseem ceeb thiab tos.