Ob tug menyuam yaus thiab niam txiv tab tom tos qhov kev tshwm sim no nrog qhov tsis sib thooj. "Peb tab tom mus kawm ntawv sai sai no!" - leej niam thiab txiv, niam tais yawm txiv thiab pog yawg txaus siab hais. "Kuv tabtom yuav mus rau thawj chav kawm!" - zoo siab qhia txhua yam uake, nrog koj tus menyuam.
Thaum kawg tau los txog hnub "X" - thawj lub Cuaj Hli. Koj tus me nyuam tab tom taug kev zoo siab thiab ua siab loj ua ntej koj, rub nws lub xub pwg nws xub xub ntiag, tau ntim rau lub brink ntawm thawj zaug hauv nws lub tsev kawm ntawv cov khoom siv. Lub tswb thawj zaug. thiab ntawm no cov menyuam kawm nyob zaum hauv cov rooj zaum ... tej zaum, thaum lub sij hawm no lawv pib to taub tias nws loj npaum li cas - lub tsev kawm ntawv. Ib zaug, nyob deb ntawm hnub zoo meej, peb lub tsev kawm ntawv nrog kua muag hauv nws lub qhov muag hais tias "Kuv yuav tsis mus kawm ntawv ntxiv!". Koj yog tus menyuam poob qis, tus menyuam raug mob thiab nws tsis kam tuaj koom tsev kawm ntawv. Yog vim li cas?
Muaj peev xwm muaj ntau yam kev piav qhia rau qhov no - los ntawm kev ntshai raug sab laug nyob ib leeg, tsis muaj kev txhawb nqa ntawm cov niam txiv, mus rau kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg thiab cov xib fwb. Tab sis qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau kev tsis txaus siab ntawm cov me nyuam mus rau tom tsev kawm ntawv yog tias lawv nyob rau hauv ib qho chaw txawv, tsis tuaj yeem hloov tau nws, nrhiav lawv chaw hauv ib pab tshiab.
Li no lub txiaj ntsim zoo heev yog lawv ntshai tsis mus kawm ntawv, cov me nyuam tawv ncauj tsis kam mus rau qhov ntawd. Ntawm no. ua ntej tshaj, nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tau nrhiav qhov tiag tiag rau qhov tsis kam. Tab sis, qhov twg los xij, yuav tsum tsis txhob cia tus menyuam nyob hauv tsev. Txawm hais tias yog vim li cas nws ho tsis xav mus kawm ntawv los yeej muaj tseeb thiab lub hom phiaj. Nws qhov kev ntshai yuav tsuas muaj zog, thiab nws yuav muab ntxiv rau qhov rov qab ntawm qhov kev zov me nyuam, uas yog qhov tsis zoo.
Koj yuav tsum muaj kev ruaj khov thiab ua siab ntev rau hauv koj qhov kev xav kom coj koj tus menyuam mus rau tom tsev kawm ntawv chav kawm. Tus menyuam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tus me nyuam, nws tsis muaj kev txhawb nqa uas yuav tuaj yeem mus kawm ntawv. Cov me nyuam mus kawm ntawv, ua raws li lawv niam lawv txiv. Yog li ntawd, thaum tsis kam mus kawm ntawv, nws yog niam txiv uas yuav tsum piav qhia txog qhov nws xav tau. Tus me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv yuav tsum piav qhia tias nws yuav kawm tau ntau yam tshiab thiab muaj tswv yim. Cov me nyuam loj dua tuaj yeem piav qhia tias tsis muaj kev kawm, txoj kev mus rau yav tom ntej yuav raug kaw rau lawv, lossis xa mus rau txoj cai, raws li tag nrho cov menyuam yaus raug samfwm kom tau txais yam tsawg kawg ntawm kev kawm theem pib.
Cov menyuam kawm ntawv yuav tsum tuaj yeem mus saib lub tsev kawm ntawv uas lawv tus menyuam kawm. Nyob hauv lub hwj chim ntawm cov niam txiv kom txhawb tau tus me nyuam muaj kev hlub rau tus xib fwb. Koj tuaj yeem qhia rau nws paub tias koj tus kheej yog tus neeg xav paub txog nws tus neeg cob qhia. Cov me nyuam yuav rov qab ua rau zoo siab. Yog lawv ntseeg siab rau tus xibfwb, nws yuav pab lawv kov yeej txoj kev tsis sib haum xeeb uas tshwm sim hauv lawv txoj kev sib txuas lus nrog tus neeg tshiab.
Thaum koj tus me nyuam me, tsis txhob cia nws tawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv, coj nws mus rau hauv chav kawm, cia nws ntsib tus kws qhia ntawv. Sij hawm dhau los, kev tsis haum rau lub tsev kawm ntawv yuav tsis tuaj yeem tuaj koom. Nco ntsoov nug tus xib fwb seb nws coj li cas tom qab koj tawm. Yog tias nws lub kua muag poob zoo tom qab koj ploj ntawm kev tsis pom kev, koj tuaj yeem tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb - qhov kev hloov tau zoo.
Tab sis nws kuj tshwm sim los ntawm cov me nyuam yaus tsis kam mus kawm ntawv, uas tau kam tuaj koom rau hauv ntau lub xyoo. Qhov no, kev sib tham ntawm lub siab ntsiag to yog kev tsis pom kev. Koj yuav tsum paub seb dab tsi yog qhov teeb meem rau tus me nyuam. Ntawm no, kev sib tham nrog tus xib fwb yuav tsis cuam tshuam. Tus kws qhia ntawv yuav pom tau tias nws yog ib qho tsis ncaj ncees thiab nws yuav qhia nws nrog nws cov kev xav txog qhov koj tus menyuam tsis xav mus kawm ntawv. Muaj peev xwm ua tau txhua yam uas koj nyiam-ob qho kev ua tsis zoo hauv kev kawm, thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm cov menyuam kawm ntawv, thiab kev hlub thawj zaug . Muaj ntau ntau hom. Luag tseem ceeb yog qhov chaw nyob hauv tsev. Tsev neeg teeb meem, kev sib nrauj ntawm cov niam txiv, kev tuag ntawm ib tug neeg nyob ze - tag nrho cov no cuam tshuam cov peev xwm thiab kev xav ntawm tus me nyuam kawm. Nco ntsoov qhia nws qhov tseeb tag nrho - dag tau tuaj yeem ua kom qhov teeb meem tsis zoo xwb. Piav tias kev ua haujlwm rau tsev neeg yog ib yam, thiab kev kawm yog ib qho tseem ceeb dua, uas koj yuav tsum paub daws teeb meem, thiab qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas nws muaj cuab kav ua rau lub sij hawm nyuaj rau tsev neeg yog los daws kev ntxhov siab txog nws txoj kev kawm.
Txawm li cas los xij, cov niam txiv yuav tsum paub: zoo li cas thiab koj tus me nyuam zoo siab npaum li cas yog nyob ntawm nws qhov kev txawj ntse xwb. Tus cwj pwm ntawm cov niam txiv rau nws tus xib fwb tau txiav txim siab lub tsev kawm ntawv txoj kev vam meej ntawm tus me nyuam. Tom qab tag nrho, tus neeg no muaj ntau yam los kawm ntawm nws, qhov zoo ntawm tus menyuam hauv tsev kawm ntawv, nws lub siab xav kawm, nws nyob ntawm nws.
Tsis txhob, thiab tsis muaj dab tsi, cia koj tus kheej tsis nco qab txog koj tus menyuam tus kws cob qhia. Sim ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov xib fwb, nrhiav kev nkag siab nrog lawv. Thaum kawg, lawv xav tau tib yam nkaus li koj ua - kom koj tus me nyuam dhau los ua ib tus neeg muaj kev kawm zoo. Qhia qhov kev nkag siab zoo rau ntawm koj tus menyuam tus kws qhia ntawv. koj paub tias nyuaj npaum li cas yog kev ncaj ncees thiab kev qhuab qhia, txawm hais txog ob tug me nyuam, thiab nyob rau hauv chav kawm tsis muaj ob, thiab tsis txawm plaub, tab sis ntau ntau.
Tus me nyuam yuav yooj yim rau kev thuam los ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv lub qhov ncauj, yog tias nws paub tias koj hwm nws thiab ua zoo rau nws. Cov me nyuam yeej ib txwm mloog zoo rau kev thuam los ntawm ib tus neeg lawv nyiam, thiab sim hloov lawv tus cwj pwm.
Cov xib fwb tseem yog neeg. Lawv yuav nkag siab txog cov niam txiv cov kev thuam nrog kev nkag siab zoo yog tias lawv pom tias lawv raug kho nrog kev phooj ywg thiab tsis muaj kev ntxub ntxaug. Sim ua tib zoo saib cov dab neeg ntawm koj cov menyuam yaus - lawv yuav ua rau "tus xibfwb tsis ncajncees" thuam thiab "ua txhaum". Mob siab kom to taub thiab nrhiav qhov tseeb. Raws li txoj cai, nws yog qhov chaw hauv nruab nrab. Ua siab zoo, ua raws li, ua kom tsis txhob ua ntawv foob, nws yog qhov zoo dua rau ntawm koj lub siab xav, ua raws li cov xav tau thiab xav tau. Ntau zaus qhuas tus xib fwb, ua nws tsaug rau txoj kev qhia zoo. hais tias koj tus me nyuam zoo siab nrog txoj kev qhia cov khoom - tag nrho qhov no yuav qhia nws thiab muab nws tso rau ntawm koj thiab koj tus me nyuam. thiab qhov tseeb, vim hais tias zoo li no zoo neeg, ib tug me nyuam yuav tsis raug sloven, txoj cai? Nrog tus cwj pwm zoo, tus kws qhia ntawv yuav tuaj ntsib koj.