Thaum kawg ntawm lub yim hli, koj tus menyuam yuav tsum hnyav txog 9 kilograms. Thaum koj hnyav me nyuam mos, nws muaj nqis rau koj, hauv cov khaub ncaws koj hnyav nws los yog liab qab, rau ib lub rooj zaum los yog tom qab. Thiab yog tias koj muaj mob hnyav heev, peb xav kom koj hnyav tus mos ab ob zaug: ua ntej thiab tom qab pub mis.
Hauv ntau cov menyuam yaus txog li ob xyoos koj tuaj yeem soj ntsuam cov nkhaus ceg. Tsis txhob txhawj txog qhov teeb meem no, vim hais tias nws tshwm sim vim qhov tshwj xeeb ntawm tus me nyuam hauv lub tsev menyuam. Tab sis tsis txhob txhawj xeeb rau qhov curvature ntawm ob txhais ceg, raws li qhov no tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm ib tug kab mob xws li rickets. Nws tseem tsim nyog kom nug koj tus kws kho mob hauv tsev los sis orthopedist: koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus kheej mob.
Txoj kev loj hlob ntawm ib tus menyuam hauv 8 lub hlis kuj tau hais tias nws muaj peev xwm ua nws qhov zoo tshaj plaws los sawv ntawm nws ko taw. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tus me nyuam tsis ua zoo li ntawd, tsis txhob maj cov txheej txheem no. Tsis txhob dag ntxias, vim qhov no koj tuaj yeem ua rau tus me nyuam mob. Thiab tsis txhob saib lwm tus me nyuam thiab sib piv: lawv hais tias, kuv tus neeg nyob ze tus ntxhais tau pw hauv xya lub hlis, thiab kuv yim tus me nyuam tsuas yog zaum. Tag nrho cov me nyuam sib txawv, muaj leej twg nkag los ua ntej, thiab muaj leej twg tau mus ua ntej, txhua yam no tshwm sim rau lub sijhawm. Tom qab ib xyoo rau tus menyuam cov pob txha tsis muaj zog thiab cov pob txha, tsis txhob ua rau tus menyuam yaus - Vajtswv txwv tsis pub, koj rhuav tshem tej yam ntuj tso hauv nws lub cev tsis muaj zog. Ua siab ntev thiab tos - koj tus me nyuam yuav tsum txhawj xeeb nrog txhua yam uas nws tau ploj lawm.
Tab sis yog tias koj tseem txiav txim siab yuav lub tsev kawm ntawv lub caij - tseem zoo. Ua tib zoo xaiv cov khoom ua si uas yuav nyob rau hauv qhov chaw, kom ntseeg tau tias lawv tsis ntse ntse. Thiab dab tsi yuav yog koj xav tsis thoob thaum, xws li kev saib xyuas kev txhawj xeeb ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv, koj tseem nrhiav tau khawb thiab txhaws ntawm nws lub ntsej muag, lub npiv thiab me me ceg! Tab sis tsis txhob txhawj xeeb txog qhov no, thiab txawm ntau npaum li cas los sim tiv thaiv tus me nyuam ntawm kev raug mob me, vim tsis tau lawv tsis tuaj yeem ua. Nws yog tsaug rau cov kev txhaj tshuaj thawj zaug thiab kev txav ntawm lub pob zeb thiab tau txais qhov txiaj ntsim zoo li no - thiab qhov no kuj yog kev loj hlob ntawm tus menyuam.
Rov qab mus rau lub ntsiab lus ntawm txoj kev kawm ntawv, peb xav kom koj nco ntsoov tias qhov ua siab ntev ntawm cov niam txiv yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv kev txhim kho ntawm tus menyuam, vim nws paub txog lub ntiaj teb nyob ib ncig ntawm koj. Yog li, yog tias koj khib - ces nws yuav khaus, yog koj ua yuam kev - nws yuav coj kom zoo dua qhov no thiab siv koj tus qauv no. Cov me nyuam, tab sis tseem me heev, tab sis twb to taub tag nrho - tsis txhob hnov qab txog nws! Thiab, tsis tas li ntawd, nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug tub ntxhais hluas muaj hnub nyoog lawv twb zoo psychologists thiab daim ntawv ceeb toom txawm li cas cov laus tsis them nyiaj rau. Tsis txhob qw ntawm tus me nyuam, ib txwm nrog ua siab ntev piav txhua yam, thiab yog tias tsim nyog - tom qab ntawd ob peb zaug. Coj tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam, ua siab ntev: yog tias koj hais tias: "Koj ua tsis tau", ces nws yeej ua tsis tau. Thiab yog tias koj tau muab qhov tsis muaj zog, tus me nyuam yuav nco ntsoov txhua yam no thiab yuav siv txhua zaus, tsa kev quaj. Thaum kawg, xws li "tsis tuaj yeem" yuav ua rau tsawg dua, thiab tus me nyuam yuav ntau dua thiab piam sij.
Tsis txhob qhia tus me nyuam tias nws yog qhov chaw ntawm lub ntiaj teb rau koj (tab sis, ntawm chav kawm, nws yog). Tsis tu ncua ntau yuav ua rau koj tus me nyuam yaus - thiab nws yuav ua qhov kev xav, vim tias nws yuav nyuaj rau nws kawm ntawv. Yog tias koj xav ua kom tiav ntawm nws, koj yuav tsum ua siab ntev qhia rau nws. Nco ntsoov tias tus menyuam yuav tsum paub: niam txiv yuav ua tau kev hlub, thiab hnyav thiab nruj.
Thaum muaj yim hli, tus me nyuam twb sim hais lus, txawm tias nws hais lus, tab sis nws twb sim lawm. Nws ua suab nrov thiab mloog lawv. Xav zoo rau koj thiab sim ua qog. Pab tus me nyuam hauv nws txoj hauj lwm, zaum pem nws ntawm nws thiab hais lus hauv cov suab ntawm ob lo lus suab: "ma-ma," "pa-pa," lwm yam. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas tus me nyuam pom koj daim di ncauj thiab nws rov ua lawv cov taw. Thiab tsis txhob txhawj - nws twb paub tag nrho qhov zoo uas yog tham txog.
Tag nrho cov niam txiv to taub tias me me tsis txhob muab rau tus me nyuam, vim nws tuaj yeem tsuam lawv rau hauv lub qhov ntswg, pob ntseg los yog nqos, uas tom qab yuav ua rau cov hlab pas. Tag nrho cov no yog qhov tseeb. Tab sis tsis txhob thaiv tus me nyuam los ntawm cov khoom me me - vim lawv tseem yog ib feem ntawm nws txoj kev loj hlob. Hlav cov nyees khawm ntawm lub xov haum thiab muab tus me nyuam ua si ntau nrog nws - koj yuav xav tsis thoob thaum nws cov ntiv tes yog li cas.