Yog hais tias tus me nyuam txawm ntsib ib zaug, nws tsis mob siab rau kev kho mob, piv txwv li, nws tau txhaj tshuaj tiv thaiv, ces qhov kev ntshai ntawm cov kws kho mob yuav nkag siab. Tus me nyuam ntshai los ntawm kev xav heev uas nrog txhua zaus tuaj xyuas tom tsev kho mob qhov mob yuav rov qab ua dua. Yuav ua li cas coj tus cwj pwm rau niam txiv, ua li cas?
Ua ntej, ua ntej koj yuav mus rau qhov chaw kho mob, koj yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus me nyuam, yog vim li cas koj mus rau qhov ntawd, lawv yuav ua li cas rau nws. Tsis txhob sim dag rau tus me nyuam, cog lus tias lawv yuav tsis ua dab tsi rau nws yog tias qhov tseeb tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau teem dua lwm qhov tshuaj tiv thaiv los yog txhaj tshuaj. Tsis txhob dag cov me nyuam, txwv tsis pub lawv yuav tsis ntseeg koj rau lwm zaus. Thiab koj tuaj yeem tsis yaum koj tus menyuam mus ntsib lwm tus kws kho mob, txawm tias yuav tau mus kuaj mob.
Sim piav qhia seb cov txheej txheem yog dab tsi rau, cia li ua nws raws li lub hnub nyoog ntawm tus me nyuam. Piv txwv li, ib tus me nyuam ib xyoos nws tsis siv los piav txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev txhaj tshuaj - nws tsuas to taub tsis tau nws. Raws li zoo li tus menyuam plaub-xyoos-tsib, nws tsis tsim nyog hais tias kev txhaj tshuaj tsis mob heev txhua. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, tus me nyuam twb to taub qhov mob thiab ua rau qhov mob li cas. Tus me nyuam ntshai cov kws kho mob vim li cas. Tab sis yog tias koj ua siab ncaj thiab ua tiav cov hauj lwm npaj ua ntej koj mus ntsib kws kho mob, tus me nyuam yuav muaj calmer thiab txias zog rau txhua yam uas nws tau raug rau hauv qhov chaw kho mob.
Tsis txhob thab koj tus menyuam nrog kws kho mob
Tsis tas yuav hais, nws tsis yog yooj yim dua rau cov laus kom ntshai cov menyuam yaus nrog lawv tus kws kho mob, xws li Barmaley los yog Baba Yaga: "Yog tias koj coj phem heev, Kuv mam li hu rau tus kws kho mob nrog tus kabmob loj loj thiab nws mam li muab tshuaj rau koj!". Tom qab kev phem li no, nws tsis yog nyob rau txhua qhov kev xav tias tus me nyuam yuav subconsciously ntshai ntawm "neeg phem" -thiab neeg ua mob uas ua rau cov me nyuam. Thiab txhua zaus mus xyuas tsev kho mob nws yuav muab sib piv nrog rau kev ua txhaum ntawm niam txiv rau kev tsis mloog lus.
Kev cog lus rau tus me nyuam muaj lub nqi zog rau tus cwj pwm zoo nrog tus kws kho mob. Thiab nws tsis yog txhua yam tsim nyog rau cov khoom ua si los yog pub khoom noj zoo - koj tuaj yeem mus nrog tus me nyuam mus rau xinesmas, mus rau lub tiaj ua si los yog tus menyuam tus yeeb yam.
Nws tshwm sim hais tias ib tug me nyuam ntawm cov kws kho mob tsis ntshai, tab sis nws coj txawv txawv dawb robes yog unnerving. Yuav kom paub daws qhov kev ntshai no, koj tuaj yeem caw ib tus phooj ywg zoo uas tus menyuam tau txais kev kho mob, thiab kom nws hnav ib lub tsho dawb. Muab tus me nyuam nrog nws sib tham nrog nws nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ua si ncig, siv nws me ntsis. Cov txheej txheem no yuav pab tau kom tsis txhob muaj kev ntshai ntawm lub tsho dawb.
Ua si nrog cov me nyuam me hauv kev ua si
Qhib koj lub tsev kho mob hauv tsev, uas lub luag hauj lwm ntawm cov neeg mob yuav yog cov khoom ua si, thiab koj thiab koj tus me nyuam yuav yog cov kws kho mob. Qhia rau kuv seb yuav ua li cas: ua ib tug kws kho mob kuaj lub caj dab, ua rau nws lub plab, khawm ntawm lub hauv caug nrog rau rauj. Cia tus me nyuam rov qab ua txhua yam rau koj. Nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm qhov kev ua si, nws yuav nco ntsoov tias nws yog ntshai ntawm cov kws kho mob. Tom qab ntawd lub luag hauj lwm muaj peev xwm muab sib pauv, thiab cia tus kws kho mob me ntsis tshuaj xyuas koj, thiab koj - nws. Tsuas txhob yuam tus me nyuam los ua koj tus neeg mob, yog tias nws tsis xav tau nws. Nws tsuas yog txhais tau hais tias nws tsis npaj tau. Siv sij hawm so thiab rov qab mus rau qhov kev ua si tom qab ib pliag.
Yog tias tus me nyuam muaj ib tus neeg laus dua, koj tuaj yeem mus cuag kws kho mob ua ke thaum tus laus xyuas. Cia tus me ntsis saib tus kws kho mob tsis ua dab tsi phem, thiab nws ntshai yuav maj mam tuaj mus naught.
Yog hais tias muaj queue ntev nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm tus kws kho mob lub chaw ua hauj lwm, sim ua tej yam txaus siab nrog tus me nyuam yaus thiab cuam tshuam nws los ntawm kev ntshai kev xav. Nws tsis yog lub tswv yim phem coj koj nrog ib phau ntawv nyiam lossis ib phau ntawv tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws rau cov ntaub ntawv no. Ua ke nrog tus me nyuam, saib cov duab, nyeem ntawv, tham txog seb koj pom hauv daim ntawv cuav. Cia tus me nyuam xav hais tias tsis muaj dab tsi phem los yog coj txawv txawv hauv dab tsi ua ntej nws. Tias tsis muaj dab tsi catastrophic yog tsis npaj. Tus menyuam yuav tsum tuaj tos koj tus kheej zoo siab thiab koj tus kheej.
Tsis txhob freak tawm thaum koj yog menyuam yaus. Cov me nyuam to taub txhua yam zoo kawg nkaus, thiab yog leej niam hais ib yam, tab sis nyob hauv tus ntsuj plig, kev txhawj xeeb thiab xav txawv heev, tus me nyuam yuav to taub thiab pib haj yam paub ntau dua.
Yog tias koj tsim kev sib tham nrog tus menyuam, ntseeg koj tus kheej tias tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau nws, ces cov kws kho mob yuav tsis ua nws npau suav phem. Txaus siab rau koj kev mus ntsib kws kho mob thiab kev noj qab nyob zoo!