Lub tsev kawm ntawv kev thab plaub: yuav ua licas yog tias ib tus me nyuam ua lub hom phiaj ntawm kev thab plaub hauv tsev kawm ntawv?

Nyob rau hauv peb txoj kev nkag siab, lub xyoo kawm ntawv yog ib lub sijhawm, uas tsuas yog lub sijhawm nco nyob rau ntawm lawv lub neej xwb. Cov kev hloov suab nrov, sau ntawv hauv lub rooj, cov phooj ywg hauv tsev kawm ntawv ... Peb, cov neeg laus, tsis nco qab hais tias cov menyuam yaus lub cev yuav ua lim hiam rau ib tus neeg vim qee yam tsis xav tau lossis tsis tuaj yeem koom nrog ntau pawg. Kev hu, cuab kev ywj pheej, kev sib ntaus sib tua - peb cov me nyuam paub txog qhov tseeb ntawm lub neej hauv tsev kawm ntawv uas tsis yog los ntawm hnov ​​lus. Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus menyuam tau los ua qhov kev phem kev qias thiab kev thuam? Vim li cas cov me nyuam xav tau kev txi?
Kev thab plaub (kev tsim txom los ntawm cov neeg sibtham) yog lub sijhawm tshwmsim, tsis muaj cov menyuam yaus ua ke. Nyob rau hauv ib chav kawm twg muaj ib tug thawj coj, muaj cov neeg nruab nrab sab qaum teb. Muaj ib qho kev sib txuas uas tsis muaj zog - ib tug neeg ua cov khoom ntawm kev thuam. Yog tias ib tug me nyuam vim qee zaum qis tawm hauv pawg dav dav, yuav muaj ib tus neeg uas xav siv nws tus kheej los ntawm nws cov nuj nqis. Yog hais tias lub sijhawm los pab tus tub ntxhais kawm ntawv nrhiav cov lus nrog cov menyuam yaus, qhia lawv tus kheej kom tiv thaiv, nws, loj hlob, yuav nco ntsoov lub tsev kawm ntawv cov teeb meem nrog lub luag nyav. Thiab yog tias tsis? Tom qab tag nrho, qhov kev txwv ntawm cuab rau cov neeg hauv tsev kawm ntawv tuaj yeem yog cov tshaj tawm. Tus me nyuam tau siv los ua tus neeg ploj, ces nws yuav tsis muaj peev xwm nthuav qhia nws lub peev xwm, kom ua tiav hauv lub neej. Vim tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus hauv pawg neeg no yuav ua rau nws tsis sib haum thiab rho tawm. Cov neeg zoo li no tsis muaj kev ruaj ntseg, txawm tias lub hlwb tsis ruaj tsis khov. Los ntawm txoj kev, ntawm cov tub rog txom ncauj, ntaus nws tus poj niam thiab cov me nyuam, kuj muaj ntau tus neeg uas yog ib tug me nyuam raug kev nyuaj siab.

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Feem ntau, cov neeg raug kev thab plaub yog cov me nyuam yaus, txawv ntawm lwm tus, nrog kev hais lus tsis zoo, xav pom lwm tus, coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo lossis txoj kev ua neej. Thiab tseem yog nyob ntsiag to, txaj muag, tsis tuaj yeem sawv ntsug rau lawv tus kheej los yog yws tawm ntawm qhov chaw. Txawm li cas los xij, txawm tias tus menyuam muaj peev xwm thiab nws tus kheej txaus rau ntawm ib qho chaw muaj peev xwm tig los ntawm ib tug thawj coj ua rau tus neeg raug tsim txom.

Cov menyuam tsuas kawm kev sib txuas lus xwb. Koj tus tub ntxhais kawm qee zaum nws tus kheej tsis tuaj yeem ntes lub sijhawm thaum nws lo lus los yog nws puav leej muaj peev xwm tswj tau qhov teeb meem. Qab ntawm kab lus "Lawv thuam kuv!" Yuav yog ib zaj dab neeg ntawm kev tsis to taub thiab kev tsis txaus siab. Koj cov lus teb: "Ua siab ntev, nplawm thiab tso tseg!" Tsis yog tsis txhawb tus me nyuam, tab sis nws tseem qhia meej tias koj tsis xav tau nws cov teeb meem.

Muaj ntau zaus thaum cov laus tsis txhob cia li tsis quav ntsej, tab sis ncaj qha rau ua siab phem! Koj xav li cas, cov me nyuam yuav ua li cas rau tus me nyuam tub, uas tus kws qhia ntawv hu ua ruam los yog hnub nyom hnub tom qab? Ib tug tub hluas, nws niam nws txiv tsis txaus siab rau cov neeg ntawm ib haiv neeg sib txawv, puas kho tus poj niam tawv nqaij los sis Esxias tus pojniam zoo, tuaj ntsib nws hauv nws pab neeg? Nws tuaj yeem hais tias kev thab plaub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv yog ib qho kev xav ntawm cov teeb meem ntawm peb lub zej zog. Tom qab tag nrho, cov me nyuam luam cov cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg laus thiab feem ntau tsis yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm nws tus qauv.

Tawm ntawm ntxoov ntxoo
Feem ntau, ceeb toom tias ib yam dab tsi tsis zoo rau tus menyuam, txhua tus niam muaj peev xwm ua tau. Rau qhov no, nws tsis tas yuav mus xyuas lub tsev kawm ntawv txhua hnub lossis nyeem tag nrho cov lus SMS uas tuaj rau nws hauv xov tooj. Koj cia li ... tham nrog koj tus menyuam! Kaum tsib rau nees nkaum feeb hauv ib hnub. Yuav nug seb hnub ntawd yog hnub no, nrog leej twg ntawm cov hais mav los ua si. Yog tias muaj teeb meem - los xyuas seb vim li cas nws tshwm sim, thiab seb koj tus menyuam ua li cas rau hauv qhov xwm txheej no. Qhia tawm kom coj tus cwj pwm ntxiv yog tias qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum. Nrog nws nco koj txog xyoo kawm ntawv: koj yeej muaj cov dab neeg zoo sib xws. Qhia peb seb koj ua li cas nrog lawv. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los qhia rau tus tub los yog tus ntxhais uas tsis muaj ib qho teeb meem muaj ib txoj kev tawm. Koj lub tsev kawm ntawv muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog cov tib neeg thaum nws loj hlob tuaj, tsis yog ib tug kws kho mob lossis ib tug kws sau ntawv, nws tsis nco qab txog cov keeb kwm ntawm chemistry thiab kev ua zauv.

Koj yuav tsum raug ceeb toom yog tias tus me nyuam dheev dhau los ua neeg phem los yog kov tau, tsis tsaug zog zoo, pib quaj rau txhua lub tswv yim los yog siv cov kev zam txim rau hle tsev kawm ntawv. Qhov feem ntau yuav ua tau thiab mob yooj yim tuaj yeem tsim qhov muag, mob taub hau heev lossis mob plab, thiab lwm yam kev mob ntawm kev mob hlwb. Sim tham nrog nws, paub qhov tseeb tiag rau qhov kev coj cwj pwm coj txawv txawv. Yog tias koj tus tub kawm ntawv raug mob ntawm kev thab plaub, ua kiag tam sim! Txawm li cas los xij, tsis txhob maj mus sai sai rau kev cuam tshuam rau cov me nyuam qhov kev sib haum xeeb, muab tus me nyuam rau lub caij nyoog los daws qhov teeb meem. Qhov kev paub no, yog hais tias nws twb dhau dhau lawm, nws yuav ua tus khiav txoj haujlwm: "Kuv ua tau, Kuv yuav tswj!" Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau qhia txog cov me nyuam qhov tseem ceeb. Yog li ntawd, qhuas rau tej yam, txawm tias qhov ua tau zoo tshaj plaws: "Ua zoo, uas hais rau Kolya tias nws tsis muaj txoj cai los ua txhaum rau koj! Nws ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws, nws tsis tau mus ntaus rog! Koj muaj zog, koj yuav ua tiav! "

Yog tias tus me nyuam tsim txom lub sij hawm ntev (ntau tshaj 3-4 lub lim piam), ces nws yuav tsum nqis tes ua ntau yam kom daws qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum xeeb. Ua ntej tshaj txhua yam nws yuav tsum tham nrog tus kws qhia ntawv ntawm tus menyuam. Feem ntau nws yog nws leej twg tua tau tus me nyuam thiab kov lub wiam rau thaum pib ntawm theem, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws tuaj yeem rau cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv. Nws yog, txawm li ntawd los, tsim nyog nco ntsoov tias nws tsuas yog ib qho tsim nyog nrog tus kws qhia ntawv ib leeg xwb, tsis muaj cov neeg nyob sab nraud thiab cov tub kawm ntawv lawv tus kheej. Tsis txhob teem caij "sib tham" hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm tag nrho cov chav kawm. Feem ntau tus neeg thab plaub thiab tus neeg ua txhaum yog tus thawj coj uas tsis muaj chaw nyob hauv pawg tsev kawm ntawv, cov me nyuam raug kos rau nws thiab nws lub tswv yim tseem ceeb rau lawv. Nyob rau hauv qhov no, kev qhib kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev sib raug zoo yuav ua rau qhov teeb meem tsis txaus.

Tus kws qhia ntawv hauv chav kawm tsis them nyiaj rau koj cov kev thov rau kev cuam tshuam hauv qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum xeeb? Nws yog tsim nyog tig los rau tsev kawm ntawv paub txog kev puas siab ntsws. Nws yog tus yuav tsum tau mloog koj thiab ua ib co lus piav qhia nrog cov menyuam, uas yuav pab tsim kev sib raug zoo hauv chav kawm. Tom ntej no yog tus thawj coj ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv thiab hauv paus tsev kawm ntawv qhov kev kawm. Yog tias koj tus me nyuam tsis tau raug dai nkaus xwb, tab sis kuj raug ntaus, nws ua rau kev hu mus rau tub ceev xwm.

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Feem ntau cov niam txiv xav tias kev hloov mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm yog qhov kev txiav txim siab tshaj plaws hauv qhov teeb meem nrog kev thab plaub. Txawm li cas los xij, cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws tsis pom zoo nrog qhov pom ntawm no. Feem ntau qhov no tsis yog daws teeb meem, tab sis tsuas yog kev khiav dim ntawm nws. Tus me nyuam tsis tau kawm kom kov yeej qhov kev tsim txom ntawm nws tus kheej - qhov no yog qhov yuav tsum ua kom tau qhov tseeb tias qhov teeb meem yuav rov qab ua dua. Tab sis txawm li cas los, muaj qee zaum thaum hloov mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv tsim nyog. Yog tias koj tus menyuam mob siab rau qhov mob hlwb, yog tias nws yog neeg raug tsim txom cyberbullying (kev thab plaub hauv Internet) lossis kev ua phem rau kev sib deev, nws yeej xav tau kev pab los ntawm kws kho mob.

Thaum mus kawm lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv, tsis txhob qhia tus xib fwb tshiab txog qhov tseeb yog vim li cas hloov chaw kawm! Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav tsim ib tug qauv ntawm kev kho koj tus menyuam ua ib tus neeg raug mob. Xav txog kev zam txim rau me nyuam yaus: lub tsev kawm ntawv no ze ze tus pog lub tsev, muaj cov kev xaiv uas tsim nyog thiab lwm yam.

Ntau leej niam tsis paub hais tias niam txiv cov lus hais tias "txhua yam yuav zoo" yog qhov ua rau menyuam yaus heev. Nyob rau hauv nws yog tsis muaj specifics, nws yog pib tsis tseeb, vim hais tias txhua yam tsis tau tus! Ua zoo saib kev nkag siab: "Kuv paub tias nws yuav nyuaj rau koj thawj zaug, tiam sis koj yuav tswj txhua yam thiab kuv yuav pab koj!" Tsis txhob nco qab lossis piv qhov qub nrog lub sijhawm, muab tus menyuam rau lub sijhawm pib lub neej.

Thiab ua li cas rau tus neeg thab plaub tus kheej?
Txhua tus niam txiv uas nws cov me nyuam muaj kev thab plaub yuav tsum tsis txhob kam nrog tus kws kho mob tham: nws yuav pab tus me nyuam ua haujlwm los ntawm qhov kev tsis zoo no. Tiam sis, feem ntau nws tsis nco qab tias tus me nyuam ua yeeb yam kuj tseem xav tau kev kho lub hlwb. Tus cwj pwm no qhia tias nws daws tsis tau nws qhov teeb meem txawv, tsuas yog los ntawm kev ua phem. Tej zaum tus neeg txhoj puab yuav tsum tau sawv tawm, ua tib zoo saib xyuas nws tus kheej. Tej zaum hauv nws tsev neeg muaj kev tsis zoo, uas ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab tsis zoo. Yog tias koj tus menyuam hauv kev tsis sib haum xeeb ua tus neeg phem, nco ntsoov: nws tus cwj pwm yuav tsum kho kom zoo, thiab ua ntej, zoo tshaj, txog thaum kev ua nruj ua tsiv ua ib txoj kev ua neej.