Kev tsim ntawm tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm hauv thawj xyoo rau nws lub neej yog ib theem tseem ceeb ntawm kev loj hlob ntawm tus neeg tus cwj pwm. Thaum lub sijhawm no lub neej muaj kev loj hlob thiab kev tsim tawm ntawm tus menyuam lub hlwb, tus menyuam yuav tsum tau nyob, nyiam thiab kawm tsis tau tshwjxeeb. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov no tsis txhais hais tias tus menyuam xav tau kev txawj ntse thiab kev cob qhia xwb, tsis txhob hnov qab tias thaum yau, yeeb yuj thiab ci, tsuas yog ib zaug hauv ib sim neej, yog li ntawd txhua yam uas koj tus menyuam ua yuav tsum coj nws kev zoo siab thiab kev txaus siab tshaj plaws.
Raws li txoj cai, ntau tus niam txiv hauv thawj xyoo ntawm lawv tus me nyuam lub neej pib kawm thiab loj hlob ntawm lawv tus kheej, thiab hais tias nws yog lub sij hawm los kawm ib yam dab tsi uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov ua ntej tsev kawm ntawv, thaum nws twb yog "oh cas nws yog lub sij hawm." Tom qab ntawd lub luag haujlwm pib, uas tsis tuaj yeem coj cov txiaj ntsim kev pab. Kuv nco qab qhov teeb meem thaum kuv tuaj xyuas kuv cov phooj ywg, thiab lawv cov ntxhais yuav tsum kawm txog kev sib npaug. Qhov kev tu siab thaum nws pom cov duab thaum tus me nyuam muaj kua muag qhia ib ntsiav tshuaj, tab sis qhov tseeb tias tus ntxhais tsis nco qab txhua yam zoo, nws niam nws txiv tau qw rau nws. Yog hais tias koj saib ntawm lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem, ces tej zaum koj yuav tsum cem cov niam txiv lawv tus kheej, vim nws tsis tub nkees kawm lawv "ob-ob-plaub", thiab lawv tau tub nkeeg ob peb xyoos dhau los nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ib qho kev lom zem thiab kev lom zem ua si kom nthuav qhia koj tus menyuam ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov ntaub ntawv kawm yav tom ntej.
Yog li ntawd, thiaj li tsis xav mus rau ntawm lub ntsej muag, kua muag thiab lo hniav looj, nws yuav tsis mob siab rau kev noj qab haus huv thiab kev loj hlob zoo, kev txhim kho thiab kev sib haum ntawm tus me nyuam kawm ntawv tus kheej, thiab qhov no yuav tsum tau ua los ntawm kev siv cov pawm. Yog tias koj tus me nyuam twb tsis yog thawj hnub pib, tsis txhob poob siab, raws li lawv hais: "Zoo dua lig dua tsis tau". Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, tag nrho cov kev cob qhia thiab kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam, pib ua ntej tsev kawm ntawv, yuav coj nws cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo tseem ceeb rau yav tom ntej.
Kev loj hlob thiab kev tsim ntawm tus menyuam tus cwj pwm li ib xyoos
Tus menyuam kawm txog lub ntiaj teb nyob rau hauv thawj xyoo ntawm nws lub neej, txawj ntse txog cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev xav ntawm lub ntiaj teb, kev hais lus thiab kev siv lub cev, thiab nws txoj kev loj hlob ntawm kev puas hlwb. Sib txuas lus nrog tus menyuam hauv lub sijhawm no nws lub neej yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm txoj kev loj hlob. Lullaby ua npuas ncauj, niam lub luag, maj mam hugs - qhov no yog qhov tsim nyog rau thaum ntxov. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau leej niam hais txhua qhov kev txiav txim, yog li cov menyuam yaus maj mam sau nws cov lus nplua nuj. Thiab yog tias koj xav hais tias thaum tus me nyuam tsis hais dab tsi, ces nws tsis to taub dab tsi, ces, feem ntau yuav, koj tsis to taub koj tus me nyuam. Tus me nyuam tsis tau nto hnub nyoog ntawm ib tug paub, to taub thiab xav tias ntau tshaj qhov koj xav. Nyob ntawm koj yog nyob ntawm seb cov ntaub ntawv zoo npaum li cas thiab koj tau muab rau nws.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, thaum muaj hnub nyoog txog li ib xyoos, kom txawj thawj cov kev loj hlob, piv txwv, ntxiv cov pyramids, ntsuas, ntawm kev ua si los tsim kev sib raug zoo ntawm qee qhov kev ua thiab qhov tshwm sim ntawm qhov kev ua no. Piv txwv, thaum koj muab pov tseg, nws ib txwm poob. Nws poob li cas? Loud thiab tsis heev. Ntawd yog, cov khoom ntog thiab tsim tawm suab, nyob ntawm seb cov khoom siv los ntawm qhov nws tau ua, thiab ntawm nws qhov ntev. Nws yuav zoo li uas los ntawm cov kev paub ntev-ntev koj tuaj yeem ua ntau cov lus tseem ceeb, uas yog qhov koj tus menyuam ua. Piv txwv, thaum ib tus aub barks sab nraum lub qhov rais, ces, feem ntau, koj yuav tsis pom nws, vim hais tias ntau xyoo twb tau siv rau cov suab no. Koj tus me nyuam, raws li txoj cai, qhia meej meej ob leeg tsaj cov dev, thiab ntau lwm lub suab, vim hais tias nws yog ib txoj kev paub txog lub ntiaj teb ncig nws.
Lub sij hawm ntawm kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam txij li ib xyoos mus rau peb xyoos
Tom qab ib xyoos, ib tug muaj peev xwm hais, kev loj hlob sai ntawm tus me nyuam pib. Nws pib mob siab ua kom tiav nws cov lus. Thiab txawm tias koj tus me nyuam tsis txaus siab tham, tsis txhob poob siab. Tag nrho cov me nyuam sib txawv. Cias nrog kev siab ntev mus txuas ntxiv nrog nws txog txhua yam nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb. Nws to taub koj zoo heev, ntseeg kuv, nws hnov thiab hnov.
Txij li thaum muaj hnub nyoog ib xyoos, qhov kev ua si plays lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv kev txhim kho thiab tsim kom muaj tus cwj pwm. Cov me nyuam yaus mos thiab me nyuam me me tau koom nrog ntau yam kev ua si uas tus me nyuam siv cov khoom zoo nkauj, cov khoom ua si thiab cov khoom, ua ntej ua cov yam yooj yim (hloov, ntuav, thiab lwm yam), thiab tom qab saib cov kev hloov hauv cov khoom ua si (kev puas tsuaj ntawm cov vaj tse los ntawm cubes , as Well as pyramids, lub zog ntawm clockwork cov khoom ua si, thiab lwm yam.) thiab sim tsim kom muaj qhov hloov ntawm cov kev hloov no.
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, muaj kev ua yeeb yam ua si los ntawm kev ua si nrog ntau lub zog kom ntau li ntau tau. Tsis txhob tso tseg tus menyuam phau ntawv no. Kuv tus ntxhais thaum muaj hnub nyoog ib xyoos thiab peb lub hlis poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog cov phau ntawv, uas tsuas yog niam, niam thiab pog nyeem nws phau ntawv no. Tsis txhob yuav cov phau ntawv uas muaj nuj nqis, kev qhia, nrog rau cov ntawv nyeem loj. Rau cov me nyuam me, muaj ntau phau ntawv-ntawv nrog cov lus luv luv, cov phau ntawv nrog cov npe tsiaj, cov khoom hauv tsev, cov khoom ua si, cov khoom ua si, thiab lwm yam. Qhov no tsuas yog qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws rau kev loj hlob thaum ntxov.
Hauv kev txhim kho ntawm tus me nyuam, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov thiab paub txog koj tus kheej nrog lub siab dawb huv thiab cov cai ntawm cov lus qhia. Tsis txhob hnov qab qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias: "muaj lub siab qab" thaum nws zaum noj mov los yog "zoo hmo" thaum nws mus pw. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias koj ua tau thiab ua tsis tau. Tus menyuam yuav tsum nkag siab tias tsis yog txhua yam uas nws xav ua yog qhov zoo thiab tau tso cai. Tsuas yog qhov no ua rau txav thiab tsim kev puas tsuaj xwb tsis tsim nyog, vim hais tias tus me nyuam yuav tsum to taub lo lus, thiab siv lub suab qw thiab kev rau txim, raws li kev sib txuas lus li ib txwm. Tib yam siv rau txoj kev kawm ntawm cov menyuam yaus ntawm cov hnub nyoog kawm preschool. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev tsim kev phooj ywg zoo thiab kev ntseeg siab ntawm cov niam txiv thiab lawv cov menyuam.
Hnub nyoog ntawm ib xyoos mus rau peb yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm qhov tseeb tias tus menyuam feem ntau teases thiab tsis zoo. Qhov no yog qhov cwj pwm ntawm lub hnub yug. Cov niam txiv xav tau lub siab ntev, vim hais tias ib tug me nyuam tsuas paub lub ntiaj teb ncig nws. Thiab koj tsis tas yuav tsa ib tug me nyuam nrog "zaub ntug hauv paus thiab lo", qhuas thiab txwv, vim tias koj dhau los me me thiab dhau tib theem ntawm koj txoj kev loj hlob. Qhov ntau koj txwv, qhov ntau tus me nyuam yuav ua rau kev phem. Tsis muaj lub sijhawm lawv hais tias cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo uas txwv tsis pub noj qab nyob zoo. Tsuas yog txhua yam uas koj tsis tau ua lossis tsis tuaj yeem ua tau, koj yuav tsum tau khiav nkaum nws ntau li ntau tau los ntawm tus menyuam, los yog piav qhia rau hauv daim ntawv uas siv tau yog vim li cas nws raug txwv.
Los ntawm peb mus rau - "Vim li cas?"
Hnub nyoog ntawm peb mus rau xyoo yog ib lub sijhawm ntawm cov dej num thiab cov ntawv xeem. Qw qw, yelp, los yog evasion, siv cov omnipotent "tsis muaj", sim tswj kev muaj tiag nrog tsuas yog ib tus zoo siab - qhov no yog raws nraim li cas yuav tsum tshwm sim rau lub hnub nyoog no. Thiab tsuas yog lub hwj chim ntawm sab ntsuj plig ua rau tus me nyuam ua zoo sib xws, cuam tshuam uas, koj tuaj yeem tau txais teeb meem loj yav tom ntej. Tag nrho lub zog ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau channeled mus rau hauv cov channel siv, kom ua tiav ntawm cov hauj lwm thiab cov kev xeem uas yuav qhia cov kev paub ntawm lub hlwb thiab lub siab ntsig txog.
Tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog li peb thiab tsib xyoos nws muaj lub tswv yim zoo heev. Tus me nyuam hais txog nws lub tswv yim thiab ua txhua yam kom tau yam nws xav tau. Tus neeg laus yog xav paub ntau tshaj qhov xav tau, thiab tsis tsim nyog yuav tsum muab txhais ua kev tseeb. Tab sis ntawm no, yog tias thaum me nyuam yaus pib ua kom me nyuam lub siab tsis xav, nws yuav nyuaj rau nws ntseeg nws lub zog thiab kev muaj peev xwm hauv lub neej laus.
John Grey qhia kom ua raws li cov hauv qab no: kev sib txawv ntawm lwm tus neeg, ua yuam kev, xav ntau dua thiab qhia tau qhov tsis zoo siab, qhov uas koj tsis pom zoo yog qhov qub, tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab tias niam thiab txiv yog cov tseem ceeb.
Tus menyuam hnub nyoog qis dua 3 xyoos tus neeg tshawb nrhiav, tsim nyog qhuas, tshawb nrhiav thiab pom zoo. Tsis txhob tub nkeeg los nrhiav cov lus teb rau tus nyiam "vim li cas" ntawm koj tus me nyuam, koj xav kom koj tus me nyuam loj hlob zoo, tiam sis qhov no, ntau txoj kev, nyob ntawm koj, cov niam txiv.
Qhov tseem ceeb: kev loj hlob me nyuam - kev loj hlob ntawm cov niam txiv rau kev txiaj ntsig ntawm txhua tus
Cov niam txiv ntau dua nrog lawv cov menyuam, qhov yooj yim dua txhua yam, rau txhua yam nws ua. Rau qee tus neeg laus, nws tsis yog txhua yam txaus siab kawm, hais, "yam yooj yim": ua daim ntawv thov, kos duab qub, suav txog kaum, kawm cov tsiaj ntawv, thiab lwm yam. Tab sis nws nyiam ua nrog koj tus me nyuam! Koj zoo li yuav rov qab hloov dua nees nkaum xyoo dhau los! Kuv nco txog kuv tus kheej: Thaum kuv muaj 7-8 xyoo, ces kuv xav nyeem cov laus ntawv thiab daws cov teeb meem loj rau cov neeg laus, thiab tam sim no, thaum txhua yam yog qhov tseeb thiab to taub, kuv hnav lub ntiaj teb thaum yau nrog kuv tus hlub tus hlub! Kuv xav koj tib yam!
Cov Ntawv Sau Tseg rau Cov Niam Txiv Uas Muaj Feem Xyuam
Yuav kom nkag siab li tob li qhov ua tau zoo ntawm qhov kev txhim kho, kev txhawj xeeb thiab kev tsim ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam kawm ntawv qib kawm ntawm lub tshooj no, tsawg npaum li cas. Muaj ntau ntau yam zoo thiab muaj txiaj ntsim ntaub ntawv uas pab tau cov niam txiv tau nce siab kom muaj kev zoo siab thiab muaj kev vam meej. Kuv yuav tsis muab ib daim ntawv teev txhua yam ua tau thiab siv tau rau cov ntawv nyeem, tiam sis ntawm no yog ob peb yam tseem ceeb tshaj plaws tom qab txhua yam kuv yuav pom zoo. Cov no yog:
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