Thaum ib tug me nyuam muaj plaub xyoos hais tias: "Kuv nyiam Sonia," thiab ib tug ntxhais hluas muaj 9 xyoo pw nrog ib tus neeg hu nkauj los yog nkauj nraug, peb cia li ua siab mos muag: qhov kev hlub nyob hauv lawv lub xyoo puas yog? tab sis nws yog ib qho uas koj ua tsis tau raws nraim li nws nyiam ua rau tus me nyuam, tsis pub tus kindergartner los yog tsev kawm ntawv yuav nyiam kom koj tsis txhob xav nws txoj kev xav tiag tiag, nws yuav tu siab thiab tsis txhob rov qab dua thiab nws yuav tsis ua rau koj lub siab Yog li ntawd, ib tug tsis tas yuav banter tshaj qhov kev paub ntawm ib tug me me tus hlub, thiab uchshe sim los pab tsi tawm nws heaped rau nws ib tug txiav txim zoo. Cia peb kawm saib ua li cas txoj kev hlub ntawm cov me nyuam ntawm txawv hnub nyoog thiab dab tsi peb yuav ua li rau cov neeg laus.
Nrog kev ntsuam ntawm kev hlub pereporschivat ntawm no theem yog tsis tsim nyog. Cov ntawv ntxiv ntawm cov mos ab yog tsim thiab txhua hnub tuaj yeem hloov: cov menyuam hauv lub hnub nyoog no tseem tsis tau txhim kho lawv cov haujlwm ntev ntev. Enamored Romeo hnub no muab Katya nws lub tsheb khoom qab zib, thiab nyob rau hauv ib hnub los yog ob nws nws tsis tshuav tawm los ntawm Masha.
Tab sis muaj cov me nyuam thiab lwm yam kev hlub, loj dua - kev hlub ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv Cov me nyuam tub npau suav ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv, thiab cov ntxhais - mus rau papazamuzh. Yog tias koj hnov zoo li no, ces koj tsis tas yuav poob siab. Qhov no yog lub sijhawm thiab qhov tsis zoo ntawm txoj kev loj hlob. Ib qho twg los ntawm lub hnub nyoog tsib xyoos, cov me nyuam feem ntau tsis kheev ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv.
Koj cov kev ua hauv lub sijhawm no yuav tsum raug txo kom tsis muaj zog. Cov ntawv ntxiv ntawm cov me nyuam tsis yog phem li, koj tsuas ua rau koj txoj kev txhawj xeeb tam sim no. Yog tias qhov kev hlub tsis quav ntsej rau lawv, nws tsis ntshai, nyob rau hauv ob peb hnub lawv yuav pom ib tus tshiab tshiab, tab sis poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog cov niam txiv yog lwm qhov teeb meem: qhov no koj tsuas tau cuam tshuam.Ua zoo thiab ntsiag to piav rau koj tus tub, uas nws yuav ntsib nws tus poj niam thaum nws loj hlob me ntsis, thiab nws muaj ib tus hlub tus txiv.) Nws zoo dua rau tus ntxhais kom muaj tsev neeg hierarchy piav qhia los ntawm tus neeg txiv plig, txwv tsis pub nws yuav ua kom nws tsis tag txawm tsis yog me nyuam yaus, thiab nws yuav nrhiav nws nyuaj rau nrhiav ib tug xaiv. Txhua tus neeg thov yuav tsis tuaj yeem ua rau nws zoo tagnrho - tus txiv leej hlub.
Cov me nyuam txoj kev hlub hauv 5-7 xyoo
Cov me nyuam yaus hauv lub hnub nyoog no yeej muaj kev koom tes rau hauv lub ntiaj teb neeg laus, nrog rau lawv txoj kev xav. Rau cov muaj hnub nyoog 6 xyoos tuaj yeem ua rau cov menyuam yaus muaj kev txhawj xeeb, hnyav thiab txawm hnia nrog lawv lub hom phiaj. Tab sis tsis txhob ntshai. Tom qab tag nrho, txog thaum no mob siab tseem nyob deb. Thiab yog tias koj tus tub tham nrog ib tug ntxhais uas nyiam hnia "tiag tiag" - qhov no tsis yog kev sib deev excitement, tsuas yog li cas cov txiv hlob thiab cov txiv ntxawm hnia hauv. Txawm hais tias kev hlub ntawm cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog tsib los yog xya tuaj yeem muaj zog. (watches, rings, thawv chocolates, thiab lwm yam.) Tsis yog, koj tus menyuam tau ua tub sab tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, tiam sis nws tsuas xav ua khoom plig rau tus ntxhais nws nyiam thiab qhov twg tau txais? "Yes, kuv niam." Lub moos yog npaug ntawm cov txee, nws tsis noj cov khoom qab zib. kom zoo dua nrhiav lawv qhov zoo tshaj plaws daim ntawv thov.
Koj cov yeeb yam muaj nyob rau hauv kev muab tus me nyuam cov tswv yim yuav ua li cas los mus ua tus kwv ntawm kev qhuas thiab tsis poob siab. Piav tias yeej tsis muaj kev hlub, tab sis nyob hauv lub neej, yuav muaj kev sib txig sib luag. Yog tias koj tsis paub txog nws txoj kev xav, ces nws yog tus neeg laus, nws yuav ntshai kev hlub.
Cov me nyuam txoj kev hlub hauv 7-12 xyoos
Lub sijhawm no, cov kev xav ntawm tus menyuam mus rau nws ib nrab-hloov. Thaum xub thawj, kev hlub yog muab zais kom zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias tus me nyuam kawm ntawv yau yau yog phooj ywg nrog tus ntxhais, ces nkawd ob leeg yuav luag. Muaj tshuas tsuas yog ib txoj cai lij choj - kom rub tau cov qe nqaij, ncuav los ntawm cov tshuaj tsuag. Ntxhais yog tu siab, tiam sis xav tias txhua yam no yooj yim. Cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv yau (ntxhais hluas thiab tub hluas) yog cov neeg nyiam heev. Xyoo mus txog 12, nws tau txais me dua. Platonic txoj kev xav hloov chaw pw ua ke. Cov ntxhais yog lig rau hauv qhov kev nkag siab, thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas to taub meej meej lawv xav tau dab tsi. Qaug kev hlub nrog cov tub ntxhais kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv, xav paub txog qee qhov chaw.
Koj cov yeeb yam muaj nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ceev faj. Teenage love yuav muaj zog heev thiab ib tus neeg muaj peev xwm nqa nws mus ntau xyoo. Pab tus me nyuam kom ua tiav cov kev ua yuam kev hauv lub hnub nyoog no kom tsawg. Koj puas tau quarrel nrog tus tub? Qhia rau kuv seb yuav ua li cas. Yog hais tias tus tub tsis paub yuav ua li cas nyiam ib tus tub kawm ntawv, koj tuaj yeem muab nws ob peb tswv yim tswv yim.
Cov me nyuam txoj kev hlub hauv 12-15 xyoo
Teenagers hlub tsuas obsessed. Lawv tos nws, npau suav txog nws, nrhiav thiab nrhiav. Txoj kev ntshaw kom hlub lawv yog qhov muaj zog heev uas txhua tus tuaj yeem yog qhov khoom ntawm lawv txoj kev xav. Nws tsis hais tias nws tsis haum qhov zoo tagnrho. Muaj kev nplua nuj pluam qhov zoo tshaj. Thaum muaj ib tus hluas nkauj los yog ib tug hluas nraug hauv lub hnub nyoog ntawd yog ib qho kev sim rau qhov "fitness." Thaum koj ntsib ib tug neeg, koj raug saib rau nqi. "Sidishia, uas tsis poob siab, kawm paub txog kev quaj ntsuag." Yog tias tsis muaj ib tug hluas nkauj, ntau tus hluas mus rau hauv qhov chaw siv virtual. Lawv lub taub hau tsuas ua haujlwm nyob rau hauv ib qho kev coj, thiab hais tias ua ntej USE thiab nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog ua nws yog ib qho kev pov tseg ntawm kev tswj hwm, nrog rau lub sijhawm thiab qhov sib txawv ntawm kev sib deev thiab txoj kev hlub platonic yooj yim dua. , tias lawv nyiam ib tug ntxhais thiab ib txhia, tab sis qhov txawv tshwm sim, thaum kev sib deev attraction yog coj rau kev hlub.
Koj cov kev ua yog txo kom ua rau koj muaj zog thiab muaj kev zoo siab. Hormonal blasts tus tub hluas tsuas yog xav mus los. Nyob rau ob peb xyoo, tus menyuam yuav "perebesitsya" thiab yuav xav tau ntau dua los yog tsawg dua soberly, tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem zais cov tub ntxhais hluas hauv Internet thiab TV. "Atam" enlighteners "ntau tshaj qhov tsim nyog. Peb tsis tuaj yeem hloov qhov teeb meem, ces nws yog qhov yuav tsum hloov peb tus cwj pwm rau nws. Qhia txog koj tus menyuam qhov kev xeeb tub, qhov zoo ntawm kev sib deev tsis tiv thaiv. Tus menyuam yuav tsum to taub tias kev sib deev yog kev lav phib xaub loj thiab tsis yog lub luag hauj lwm rau yus tus kheej, tab sis rau tus khub. Thiab mus rau nws lub xub pwg nyom ntawm kuv lub xub pwg ua ntej lub sij hawm tsis yog nws.
Tsawg dua kev tsim txom reproaches thiab lus, thiab ntau tus phooj ywg kev koom tes. Tus me nyuam yuav cia siab rau koj thiab ua rau nws coj tau nws mus raws li siab xav. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog sim ua koj tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws rau koj tus me nyuam, thiab muaj ntau yam teeb meem yuav ploj ntawm lawv tus kheej.