Zoo li txhua tus me nyuam los ntawm ib xyoos mus rau peb xyoos yog qhov zoo nkauj. Hysteria yog qhov muaj kev txhawj xeeb, thaum tus menyuam pom nws txoj kev xav tsis zoo los ntawm quaj, quaj qw, ntuav nrog nws ko taw. Qee cov me nyuam yaus sib ntaus sib tua, qee leej poob mus rau hauv pem teb thiab tuaj yeem sib ntaus nrog lawv cov tes, taw thiab taub hau, dov hauv av. Lub ntsiab yog vim li cas rau hysteria yog kom ua tiav qhov kev xav tau, los tiv thaiv koj qhov kev pom, kom nrhiav tau ib yam dab tsi los ntawm koj niam koj txiv.
Yog li, hysterics yog siv los ntawm tus me nyuam raws li ib txoj kev los mus cuam tshuam cov niam txiv. Thiab yog hais tias cov niam txiv tsis tau to taub txog cov kev cwj pwm ntawm tus cwj pwm tseeb thaum lub caij nyoog thaum yau, lawv yuav pom zoo nrog tus me nyuam hauv txhua yam los txhawb nws. Yog li ib tug me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog pib kawm yuav ua li cas muab nws niam nws txiv, paub tias yog nws tsuas pib pib hauv pem teb thiab quaj nrov nrov, nws cov kev xav tau tiav. Yog tias txhua zaus yuav ua rau me nyuam yaus nyiam, ces koj yuav tsis yooj yim thiab tsis nyiam qhov tseeb uas tus me nyuam pib ua hauv hysteria tom khw, hauv kindergarten, ntawm txoj kev, mus xyuas. Thiab tom qab ntawd nws yuav zoo heev rau kev tsim ntawm qhov ntawm tus me nyuam. Nws tuaj yeem ua rau nws tus kheej nyiam, qia dub, nrog kev kub ntxhov.
Yog li, niam txiv yuav tsum ua li cas thaum menyuam yaus hu nkauj?
Ua ntej, nco ntsoov tias nws yog ib qho ua tau los tiv thaiv txoj kev tawm tsam ntawm kev ntxub ntxaug los ntawm tus cwj pwm kom tseeb nrog tus me nyuam. Me nyuam yaus txoj kev mloog tau yooj yim los ntawm kev nyiam ua. Yog tias koj xav tias yog koj tsis kam yuav koj cov khoom ua si nyiam, tus menyuam rov los siv nws txoj kev nyiam tshaj plaws rau koj, sim ua kom sai thiab poob nthav rau nws. Piv txwv, cuam tshuam nws cov xim ntawm lub khw muag khoom noj kom zoo nkauj nyob ze lossis caw nws mus rau nws cov menyuam yaus qhov chaw ua si. Yog tias koj tseem tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv kom tsis txhob muaj tus kabmob hauv qhov chaw mos, nws yuav zoo dua coj tus menyuam mus rau qhov chaw tsis muaj neeg coob los muab sijhawm rau nws siab. Koj kuj yuav tsum ua zoo rau koj tus kheej. Tus me nyuam raug cuam tshuam los ntawm qhov tseeb tias koj pib qw, thiab qee zaus nws tuaj yeem ntshai nws.
Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv yuav tsum tau koj npau taws thiab tsa koj lub suab rau tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm nws hysterics, yog li koj tsuas yog ntev nws. Tsis txhob sib cav nrog tus menyuam thiab tsis piav dab tsi rau nws, nws tseem tsis to taub koj ntawm lub caij no. Qhov zoo tshaj los ntawm qhov teeb meem no yog tawm ntawm tus menyuam nyob ib leeg. Cia nws quaj rau kev txaus siab. Lub sijhawm pib ntev tshaj thaum tus menyuam pom tias lawv saib ntsoov nws. Cov me nyuam nyiam quaj thaum cov neeg tuaj saib. Yog hais tias tsis muaj leej twg saib nws, nws ua sai sai yuav quaj nrog quaj. Pom hais tias kuv niam tau koom nrog nws tus kheej thiab tsis yog txhua chim siab txog nws quaj, tus me nyuam feem ntau rov los rau nws txoj kev xav li qub.
Qee cov neeg tawv ncauj yuav tsum tau ua raws li lawv tus kheej: lawv yuav tsis tawm hauv chav tsev thiab yuav tsis nrog leej niam mus txog thaum niam nws txiv ua ib theem siab rau kev sib haum xeeb. Yog tias koj tus me nyuam tsis zoo li no, tsis txhob liam nws tom qab nws tau pw, nws zoo dua rau nws nrog nws tham, qhia ib yam dab tsi ua ke: kos, nyeem.
Ib qho kev tsis zoo siab ntawm lub siab khov kho thaum lub sij hawm hysteria yog tawm tsam kev tuag, thaum tus me nyuam ua xiav thiab pib choking. Nws yog qhov zoo, ntawm chav kawm, kom tsis txhob muaj tej yam kev phem no. Tab sis yog tsim nyog, tsis txhob qhia tus me nyuam kom pom tias koj ntshai. Qee qhov kev sib tw tshwj xeeb yog ua tau qog qeeb ntawm kev ua phem, yog tias cov poj niam niaj hnub ua rau kuv niam tsis siv lawm!
Kev sib tw ntawm hysteria feem ntau dhau, thaum tus me nyuam pib loj hlob thiab nkag siab txog dab tsi. Yog tias lub xeev lub cev muaj zog rau ib tus menyuam, thiab hnav tau ntau dua 3-4 zaug ib hnub twg, ces qhov no tsis yog qhov ntsuas ntawm tus menyuam qhov kev mob hlwb. Nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog los qhia rau tus kws kho mob paj hlwb, vim tias muaj kev ntxhov siab ntau ntxiv tsis zoo rau lub xeev ntawm kev noj qab haus huv.