Nyob rau hnub Sunday sawv ntxov, koj qhib lub TV (los yog xov tooj cua) hauv kev cia siab tias tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam los ntawm cov xwm txheej tseem ceeb, thiab tom qab ntawd ces muaj kev ntxhov siab tsis txaus siab, thiab feem ntau cov lus qhia ntxhov plhuav rau koj. Koj ua tau kas fes thiab hu koj tus hluas nkauj kom sib tham thiab so, thiab nws teb nws cov teeb meem thiab yws txog nws lub neej rau peb caug feeb ua ke, nws tus txiv, nws cov me nyuam, tus ruam-tus thawj coj. Koj muab tso rau hauv xov tooj thiab koj twb paub lawm tias koj xav zoo li cas. Thiab hnub tom qab lub qhov rais yog tu siab heev, thiab cov me nyuam ua tsis tau zoo, thiab kuv tus txiv tsis tau ua khoom plig ntev ntev ... Nws yog ib hnub zoo hnub, thiab cov kev npaj tau nyob ntawd, thiab pw, thiab lub hnub ntawd yog qhov dav heev. Dab tsi tshwm sim?
Peb feem ntau underestimate lub zog ntawm cov ntaub ntawv tsis zoo thiab lub tswv yim ntawm kev tiv thaiv tawm tsam nws tsuas yog neglected. Tiam sis cov lus qhia tsis zoo yog ua rau peb lub siab lub ntsws, tsis muaj zog los ntawm cov teeb meem thiab niaj hnub nyuaj. Peb lub neej, thaum kawg, yuav siv qhov chaw tiv thaiv ib qho teeb meem ntawm qhov kev ntxhov siab, uas tiv thaiv peb cov kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab tag nrho cov kab mob hauv lub cev. Cov kws kho mob tshwj xeeb tsis tau pom zoo rau qhov tsis zoo siab rau kev xeem thiab ua lwm yam kev tshawb nrhiav. Piv txwv, qib ntawm hemoglobin jumps, yog tias peb khaus, thiab ntog yog tias peb xav tias tsis muaj zog. Tib yam li tshwm sim rau theem ntawm cov piam thaj. Tiam sis feem ntau ntawm peb twb paub los ntawm kev paub nyob rau hauv lub xeev ntawm kev nyuaj siab tsis ua mob loj.
Tom qab ntawd nws hloov tawm hais tias lawv yog cov tsis tshua muaj neeg tsis taus, vim lawv ua rau cov koom haum tsis zoo. Vim nws tsis muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv koj tus kheej los ntawm cov lus qhia tsis zoo thiab kev tiv thaiv zoo tiv thaiv nws, koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab tuaj yeem rov tuaj. Nws suab mysterious thiab khoom, tab sis qhov no yog ib qho cuab yeej yooj yim heev. Tus taw tes yog kom pom muaj tsawg kawg yog peb qhov zoo hauv cov teeb meem. Tias 's tag nrho cov reframing. Tom qab ntawd ntau npaum li cas fantasy yog txaus. Tab sis ib sab zoo yog thaum muaj qhov tsis zoo, xws li: txhais cov lus tsis haum ua lub neej tshooj, thiab qhov no yuav lav tias tam sim no koj yuav tsis tau mus rau qhov zoo li qub ntxiv lawm. Qhov thib ob zoo xav tias yuav tau rov hais dua mus rau lub neej: ua Vajtswv tsaug uas tsis muaj dab tsi phem zuj zus! Ua kom quaj ntsuag? Yog, muaj ntau yam tseem ceeb. Nyob rau hauv ib lo lus, thaum kawg ntawm xws li ib tug reframing, koj yuav txawm yuav zoo siab tias nws tag nrho cov tshwm sim! Zoo, thiab kos cov lus xaus, tau kawg!
Nws luag nyav thiab ... tsis paub. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau kawm kom tsis txhob hnov lus tsis zoo ntawm cov neeg, cov neeg paub thiab cov neeg tsis paub. Tus neeg zej zog tau piav txog koj qhov zoo li tsis yog feem ntau cov lus hais thiab koj qhov mus ob peb hnub rau qhov phem tag nrho? Yog hais tias qhov no tshwm sim ntau zaus, ces koj yuav tsum ua haujlwm tawm tsam kev tiv thaiv. Ua ntej, muaj ib txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb los ua kom tiav nws txoj kev pab pawg, raws li cov psychologists hais. Ntawd yog, ib pawg neeg uas nws lub tswv yim tseem ceeb rau koj yog qhov tseem ceeb los yog kev xav txog. Koj tus kwvtij yog tus kws tshaj lij? Puas muaj cuab kav ua tau daim ntawv pov thawj? Los yog nws yog ib tus neeg uas koj xav kom nyiam? Yog li, ces rov qab los thiab nug, qhov twg yog qhov uas koj tus duab? Txwv tsis pub, pov nws tawm ntawm koj lub taub hau thiab xav txog tej yam tseem ceeb. Soj ntsuam thiab txiav txim siab - tej zaum nws puas tsim nyog hloov tus cwj pwm zoo rau tus neeg no?
Kho! Lawv hais tias pib ntawm rooj plaub yog ib nrab ntawm kev sib ntaus sib tua. Tus cwj pwm zoo thaum pib ntawm kev daws teeb meem yog yuav luag yog qhov lees paub tias nws ua tiav tiav. Ib tug menyuam kawm ntawv uas yuav mus xeem tus xibfwb "teebmeem" yuav xav tias: "Kuv yuav ua rau nws luag nyav, xav tsis thoob thiab paub txog kuv lub sijhawm, tiam sis tus neeg xav!"
Tus neeg cog lus , uas nws tseem tshuav ntawm qhov kev txiav tawm ntawm kev txiav tawm vim tsis muaj cov lus tsis sib haum, wanders rau lub koom haum nrog xav: "Nws yuav rov qab thuam, thuam thiab qhia rau kuv paub dab tsi. Tswv, dab tsi rau kuv li? »Yog li kos cov lus xaus: tus cwj pwm tsis zoo thiab cov lus qhia tsis zoo muaj kev phem rau ib tus neeg.
Tsis txhob sawv ntsug ntawm thaj chaw. Thauj tog rau nkoj yog kev tsis dhau los. Nws muaj nqis ntau zaus los tsis ua los yog muaj kev xav tsis zoo rau tib lub sijhawm, vim muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov kev ua tsis zoo. Peb zaum rau ntawm qhov "tsis pom kev ruaj ntseg" thiab tsiv tawm ntawm nws qhov chaw tsis tau. Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau paub tias ntxiv qhov teeb meem no nws tus kheej lossis txawm tias nws qhov kev cia siab yuav ua rau tsis pom tus cwj pwm, thiab ua li ntawd qhov tsis zoo ntawm qhov tsis ua hauj lwm. Yuav ua li cas? Sim simulate zoo li qhov teeb meem, tab sis nrog ib tug zoo nkauj, enchantingly zoo xaus! Yog hais tias muaj ntau zaus unlucky rau ntawm qhov chaw no, nws yog tsis zoo li tias qhov teeb meem yuav rov qab! Txhawb koj tus kheej kom pauv qhov kev tshwm sim, uas peb feem ntau kiag li undeservedly endow nrog xws mystical zog!
Tsis kaj siab
Tsis muaj teeb meem npaum li cas koj sim, koj yuav tsis zam lawv. Rau ib qho laj thawj los yog lwm qhov, koj yuav tsum nrog cov neeg tsis txaus siab tshwj xeeb nrog cov ncauj lus tshwj xeeb tsis txaus siab. Tib lub sij hawm, ncua sij hawm mloog kev ncaj ncees cov lus. Cov lus qhia tsis zoo rau koj tus kheej, coj lub zog ntawm kev puas tsuaj, uas ua rau lub siab, kev saib tus kheej thiab tag nrho kev noj qab haus huv. Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum tau tiv thaiv koj tus kheej los ntawm kev poob siab thiab qhov no yuav pab koj ua tiav hauv lub neej, ua kom muaj kev noj qab haus huv, thiab tseem tos ntsoov rau yav tom ntej nrog kev zoo siab. Yog li, yog tias koj yuav tsum ua ib qho kev sib tham, kawm kom paub tias tsuas yog lub sijhawm ua haujlwm, tsis muaj dab tsi ntxiv. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau kawm kom tsis txhob muaj dab tsi rau lub plawv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsis zoo rau ib tus kheej tus account. Thiab nco ntsoov tias txhua qhov teeb meem yuav daws tau, thiab nws yuav tsis cuam tshuam rau koj lub neej tsis zoo. Sim hloov mus rau lwm yam ntxiv qab ntxiag. Faib los yog pw tsaug zog xwb. Kev pw tsaug zog yuav yog qhov tshuaj zoo tshaj tom qab kev sib tham tsis kaj siab.