Ntau zaus peb hnov txog qee cov neeg uas nws yog charismatic, nws muaj charisma. Nyob rau hauv peb cov subconscious, cov nqe lus no, thiab lub ntsiab lus ntawm "charisma" nws tus kheej, yog txuam nrog kev vam meej, lub zog, lub hwj chim, kev coj noj coj ua, attractiveness, unlimited charm. Leej twg xav hnov xws li cov ntsiab lus hauv nws qhov chaw nyob, tab sis, alas, tsuas yog qee tus muaj peev xwm confidently hais txog lawv tus kheej - "Kuv yog charismatic."
Yog li dab tsi yog charisma: ib tug neeg yug los yog khoom ntiag tug ntawm ib tug neeg.
Tam sim no muaj txog 60 txhais cov ntsiab lus ntawm "charisma", tab sis tseem tsis muaj qhov kev piav qhia ntawm qhov tshwm sim no. Hauv Lavxias, cov lus ze tshaj plaws uas yog lub ntsiab lus ntawm "charisma" yuav yog "fascination", "attraction", "radiation." Lo lus no tuaj rau peb ntawm lub tebchaws Greece, qhov chaw "charisma" tau siv los ntawm "lub txiaj ntsim", tom qab ntawd, thawj cov ntseeg muab lo lus txhais ntawm "lub txiaj ntsim ntawm Vajtswv."
Charismatic neeg feem ntau cov thawj coj, ua rau ntau tus neeg, nyiam lawv, xws li qhov hluav taws kub ntawm npauj - tab sis vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim? Yuav ua li cas yog ib tug charismatic tus neeg tswj kom subdue pawg neeg? Lawv muaj cov hauv kev li cas? Thiab tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej twg muaj xws li ib qho khoom muaj nqis tiag tiag ntawm tus cwj pwm thiab tus cwj pwm?
Psychologists hais tias tsis yog txhua tus neeg muaj xws li charisma mus ntxias ib tug loj tus naj npawb ntawm admirers thiab kiv cua. Muaj npauj npaim-ephemera, cov tib neeg uas tau ua tiav ib zaug, lawv nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw ntawm qhov koobhmoov thiab kev lees paub, tabsis ntev dhau sijhawm lawv tsis tuaj yeem tuav lub sijhawm ntawm charisma, thiab tag nrho cov poob lawm. Nws yog qhov yooj yim dua kom muaj txoj hauj lwm ntawm ib tus thawj coj thiab ib tug neeg muaj zog rau ib lub sij hawm ntev.
Yog tias peb xav txog keeb kwm cov ntaub ntawv, ces peb tuaj yeem xaiv lub voj voos ntawm cov nta uas ua ke pub ib tug neeg kom muaj charisma.
Ib tug neeg charismatic tsis inclined mus nkaum nws lub cev nqaij daim tawv: cov neeg muaj zog tiag tiag muaj zog ntawm sab ntsuj plig, thiab cov neeg uas tsis txaj muag ntawm lawv qhov kev raug mob yog ob leeg muaj zog thiab txaus siab rau qhov chaw zoo heev. Lawv lub neej coj tau zoo rau lwm tus neeg, lawv yuav suppresses. Qhov no yog, piv txwv li, Oliver Cromwell, uas tau txib kom tus neeg ua yeeb yam xim nws lub duab tsis muaj embellishment, uas yog nrog tag nrho cov kev mob thiab kab mob. Tab sis ntawm no kuj muaj qhov tshwj tseg - Franklin Roosevelt forbade kev pab txog mus tua lawv tus kheej hauv lub rooj zaum thawb ntog.
Ib tug thawj coj charismatic yuav tsum yog tus neeg uas hais txog cov cim uas nws tau lees paub thiab saib seb cov neeg nco qab li cas tus neeg no. Tseem muaj ntau cov qauv ntawm keeb kwm: Churchill tus luam yeeb, Stalin lub yeeb nkab, Luzhkov lub cap thiab ntau yam ntxiv. Nyob rau hauv cov cim qhia koj tuaj yeem nkag siab txog txhua yam khoom me me uas tsim cov duab ntawm tus neeg los yog tus neeg ntawd: kev sib tw, kev hais lus, kev hnav khaub ncaws, kev hnav khaub ncaws - tag nrho qhov no yuav tsum nco thiab meej, nce, tus neeg saum cov neeg coob coob.
Cov thawj coj charismatic yuav tsum tau tawm tsam cov yeeb ncuab ntawm nws txoj haujlwm. Ib tug thawj coj muaj zog, pheej tiv thaiv nws cov tsiaj tuaj ntawm cov neeg mob-tsis xav, tsis kam lees thiab hwm tau yooj yim. Tab sis ntawm no nws yuav tsum tau taw qhia tias ib tug thawj coj charismatic yuav tsis nrog tib zeal nrhiav kom paub nws tus kheej lub hom phiaj thiab ambitions - tus tub qhe ntawm cov neeg yuav tsum yog rau cov neeg hauv nws cov pawg tag nrho.
Ib tug thawj coj charismatic yuav tsum xav tsis thoob, nws yuav tsum tuaj nrog ib tug tshiab thiab nrhiav tshiab yam nyob rau hauv txhua yam. Cov nov tswv yim thiab cov kev xav ntawm cov neeg uas ntseeg tau tias tsuas yog theem tom ntej tuaj yeem ua tiav, thiab tsis kam txais cov nroj tsuag. Lub caij ntawm surprise yuav tsum tsis txhob nco qab. Txawm hais tias peb tsis nco qab txog kev lag luam thiab rov qab mus rau lub ntiaj teb neeg ntiaj teb-ib tug txiv neej uas muaj kev sib tham hauv lub tuam txhab, zoo kawg nkaus, kaj thiab zoo nkauj, tiam sis leej twg tsis tau pom tsuas yog ob peb tug neeg, yuav tau txais kev qhib caj npab, nws yuav tshwm sim hauv no lub tuam txhab dheev. Nws yuav ua rau saum cov neeg coob coob, nws twb nyiam mloog, thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws tsuas yog tsis poob nws.
Tam sim no peb to taub hais tias charisma tsis yog ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb, kev xav, tsis meej, tsuas siv tau rau cov tib neeg tau xaiv, tab sis kuj yog qhov tseeb, xav tawm ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm tus neeg zoo tib yam. Tshaj nyiaj ntawm charisma yog taug kev ntev thiab ntev, tiam sis ua tau thiab tiag tiag rau txhua tus neeg.