5 ntawm koj tus cwj pwm uas yuav rhuav tshem Nws txoj kev hlub

Xyuas koj tus kheej thiab tsis txhob ua li ntawd!

Yeem xaiv

Koj tuaj yeem lig dhau lawm, tsis nco qab txog cov kev npaj thiab cov xwm txheej, ncua sijhawm cov rooj sib tham, tsis nco ceeb toom txog lub zog majeure thiab raug teeb meem? Thaum xub thawj qhov no yuav zoo li ib yam dab tsi ntawm tus cwj pwm, tab sis nco ntsoov - kev xav yuav tig mus rau kev tsuj.

Pessimism

Ua ntej koj pib dua mus ncuav koj tus plig nkawv txog koj qhov hnyav / ruam ruam / ua tsis tiav haujlwm - ua tibzoo saib qhov teebmeem ntawm sab. Yog tias cov lus tsis txaus siab txog lub neej ua ntau tshaj ib nrab ntawm koj cov monologues, nres kom txog thaum nws lig dhau lawm. Ua ntej koj yuav tsis mloog, ces mloog thiab ua tsaug.

Kev tawm tus kheej

"Kuv tsis ntseeg tias peb nyob ua ke," "qhov uas nws pom hauv kuv," "nws zoo nkauj heev, thiab kuv ..." - cov kev xav no yuav tsum tau khiav tawm ntawm nws tus kheej kom deb li deb tau. Thiab txawm ntau li ntawd, tsis txhob hais nrov nrov. Ib qho zoo los ntawm hauv qab no upwards mus rau tus khub yog ib qho kev paub txog kev poob haujlwm. Lub logic yog qhov yooj yim: yog tias koj xaiv ib tug zoo ua luaj, nws tsim nyog ib tus khub sib luag. Yuav ua li cas sai sai nws yuav to taub nws, yog tias koj tsis tau cog qoob loo rau koj tus kheej?

Manipulation

Peb tabtom tham txog lub legendary "boycott of silence", uas tag nrho cov txiv neej ntxub, tsis muaj kev zam. Paws daim di ncauj, ntsej muag tu siab, ntsiag to kua muag, tu siab zoo - hnyav artillery, uas yuav tsum tsis txhob siv rau ntawm trifles. Thiab tsis txhob cia siab tias "nws yuav to taub." Tsis txhob to taub! Thiab yuav npau taws rau koj qhov kev chim siab nyob ntsiag to. Piav kom meej meej yog vim li cas koj tsis txaus siab thiab txoj hauv kev daws qhov teeb meem - xws li qhib siab rau txhua tus txiv neej yuav ntsib nrog kev zoo siab.

Ultimatum

Tsis muaj, thiab ib zaug dua tsis muaj! Hawv rupture ntawm kev sib raug zoo, npaj kom paub tseeb tias koj txiav txim siab los ntawm kev txiav txim - txwv tsis pub, koj yuav tsuas yog rau koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv ib qho kev tsis zoo thiab poob kev hwm rau ib tug xaiv.