Nws yog feem ntau lees txais tias tsev neeg yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau kev hloov chaw thiab tsev menyuam yaus. Tab sis nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev hloov ntawm tus me nyuam saws muaj ntau yam teeb meem, ob qho tib si rau tus me nyuam nws tus kheej thiab rau cov niam txiv tshiab. Tus me nyuam, uas nws niam thiab txiv tsis lees paub, tau txais kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb yog ncua sij hawm los ntawm kev xav tsis meej thiab kev kho siab. Hauv peb lub koom txoos, tseem muaj cov kev ntseeg tseem muaj zog, uas feem ntau cov niam qhuav txiv qhuav tau hloov kho. Yog li no, qhov teeb meem no tseem tshuav qhov muag heev, uas yog vim li cas thiaj li tseem ceeb uas yuav tau muab kev txhawb nqa thiab kev txhawb nqa rau ob leeg niam txiv thiab menyuam.
Lwm qhov teeb meem tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau ua los ntawm cov niam txiv txog kev muab cov lus qhia ntawm kev saws me nyuam rau me nyuam: yog tias tus me nyuam yuav tsum raug qhia hais tias nws tau txais los; yog tias muaj, thaum twg thiab zoo li cas los ua nws. Li ntawd, nyob deb, cov neeg tsis xav sib tham txog kev txais yuav, tab sis txawm tias lawv ua li ntawd nrog ceev faj, ntshai tsam lawv tsis to taub thiab ntshai tsam lwm tus neeg.
Yav dhau los, cov kws qhia tau paub tseeb tias qhov tseeb ntawm kev saws me nyuam yuav tsum nyob twj ywm ib daim card. Tam sim no muaj ntau tus neeg xav tias nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau hais lus, xws li hauv txhua kis, thaum zais cov ntaub ntawv no, koj dag rau koj tus menyuam, thiab qhov lus dag no ua rau lwm cov lus dag nrog txoj saw hlau. Tsis tas li no cov ntaub ntawv tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm kawm tau los ntawm lub caij nyoog ntawm cov neeg txheeb ze los yog cov phooj ywg. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, qhov kev txiav txim siab yog rau cov niam txiv.
Cov niam txiv uas khiav nkaum ntawm tus me nyuam qhov tseeb ntawm nws tus me nyuam saws, yog li sim ua, raws li lawv xav, los tiv thaiv tus me nyuam los ntawm kev nkag siab ntawm kev thim, kev kho siab. Tab sis ib tsev neeg muaj zog tuaj yeem ua tau los ntawm kev ntseeg siab thiab kev ncaj ncees, thiab kev muaj kev ruaj ntseg txhua yam kev txom nyem heev. Thiab nws yog qhov nyuaj rov qab los thaum twb poob ntseeg lawm. Yog li, koj yuav tsum qhia txhua yam, raws li nws yeej yog, vim hais tias ces koj cia li qhia rau tus me nyuam txog seb nws tau tshwm sim hauv tsev neeg. Yuav ua li cas koj tus kheej xav txog nws, nws yuav nyob ntawm seb qhov tseeb yog los ntawm koj tus menyuam ntawm qhov tseeb ntawm nws qhov kev saws.
Sib tham txog kev saws me nyuam zoo ib yam li tag nrho lwm cov kev sib tham loj, uas ntxov dua los yog tom qab niam txiv pib nrog lawv cov menyuam, yog li ntawd cov kws qhia tawm tswv yim muab cov lus qhia hauv kev siv, raws li lub hnub nyoog ntawm tus menyuam. Nws yog tsim nyog los teb tus menyuam cov lus nug thiab tsuas yog, thiab tsis qhia nws qhov kev xam pom. Thaum koj loj tuaj, cov lus nug yuav nyuaj, tab sis koj yuav muaj peev xwm muab cov lus qhia ntxiv, uas yog tsim nyog rau kev to taub qhov essence ntawm qhov teeb meem.
Thaum tus niam txiv hais rau tus me nyuam txog kev saws me nyuam los ntawm ib hom lus uas nws to taub, qhov tseeb ntawm qhov tseeb ntawm kev saws me nyuam ua rau nws qhov tseeb qhov tseeb los ntawm nws lub neej. Qee zaum cov me nyuam yuav tsum hais tib yam li ob peb zaug kom txog thaum lawv nkag siab tau thiab nkag siab txog nws, yog li tsis txhob xav tsis thoob thiab tsis txob siab yog tias koj yuav tsum qhia txog kev saws me nyuam ntau tshaj ib zaug. Qhov no tsis txhais tau hais tias ua ntej koj piav nws tsis zoo los yog incomprehensibly, tsuas yog tus me nyuam tsis tau npaj txhij yuav tau txais cov ntaub ntawv zoo li no. Cov kev tshawb fawb pom tau tias ntau tus niam txiv qhib tau los sib tham txog cov teeb meem ntsig txog kev saws me nyuam, qhov yooj yim dua rau lawv tus me nyuam saws.
Yog tias cov niam txiv qhia rau tus menyuam txog qhov tseeb ntawm kev saws me nyuam qhuab qhia, zoo, zoo, ces txoj kev ua li no yuav pab tau tus menyuam kom tsis txhob mob hlwb. Yog tias koj muab tus me nyuam to taub tias koj yeej npaj siab hais lus ncaj nraim thiab lees paub nrog nws txog kev saws me nyuam, qhov no yog tib txoj kev koj pab tau. Nyob rau hauv kev sib tham, koj tuaj yeem cia nws paub tias ib tug neeg tau tso tseg nws, thiab muaj ntau yam rau qhov no, thiab qhov no tsis yog hais txog nws, tab sis koj xav tau ib tug me nyuam thiab koj coj nws mus rau koj tus kheej, paub txhua yam teeb meem, kom loj hlob thiab hlub nws. Nrog tej zoo li cov txheej xwm no, koj yuav tsis coj nws kev raug mob, qhia qhov tseeb ntawm kev saws me nyuam, tab sis tsuas yog tsim nyog nws hwm thiab kev ris txiaj.
Psychologists tsis muaj kev xav ntau, thaum muaj hnub nyoog li cas nws tseem ceeb kom qhia tus me nyuam tias nws tau txais, tab sis feem ntau ntseeg tias nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los ua qhov no ua ntej thaum tiav hluas. Qee cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws hu rau lub hnub nyoog 8-11 xyoos, lwm tus - 3-4 xyoos. Qee cov kws txawj hais tias lub hnub nyoog zoo tshaj plaws yog thaum muaj lus nug tshwm sim los ntawm qhov "Kuv tau los qhov twg los?" Ib qho ntawm cov kev xaiv rau kev pib sib tham txog kev saws me nyuam, kws txawj hu cov dab neeg nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ib tug fairy taleas. Txoj kev kho nrog fairy tales yog ib qho tseem ceeb hauv cov menyuam lub hlwb. Tus nqi fairy tales yog qhov uas lawv cia koj mus pib sib tham ntawm ib tus neeg thib peb, thaum nws nyuaj rau cov niam txiv sau lawv cov kev xav thiab lawv tsis paub pib qhov twg. Yog li, cov dab neeg thiab zaj lus yog qhov pib zoo rau kev sib tham txog kev sib luag.
Tag nrho cov khoom tau thiab ua haujlwm ntawm lub ntsiab lus no muab lo lus teb tias ib tug yuav tsum hais lus thiab hais lus ncaj qha thiab confidently, tab sis tib lub sij hawm delicately thiab los ntawm lub hnub nyoog. Txhua tus niam txiv nws tus kheej yuav hnov tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam, seb nws puas yog. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tias tus me nyuam yuav tsum xav tias, txawm txhua yam, nws yog heev fond ntawm. Tam sim no koj paub yuav ua li cas qhia rau tus me nyuam tias nws tau txais yuav.