Ntawm chav kawm, nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw txhua yam nyob ntawm lub siab lub ntsws, tus cwj pwm thiab kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv tsev neeg. Yog hais tias tus hluas nkauj muaj leej twg tig mus tham thiab tau txais txoj kev teb, ces nws yuav yooj yim dua nrog cov teeb meem no. Cov tub ntxhais hluas yeej xav tau kev pab thiab kev pab ntawm cov neeg paub ntau dua thiab paub qab hau. Hmoov tsis, thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, peb tsis tshua mloog niam txiv, xav tias lawv tsis muaj peev xwm muaj peev xwm ua tau zoo li no. Tias yog vim li cas lawv tau tshem ntawm lub complex, lawv yog tsis zoo li los pab, tab sis nws yog heev tsim nyog los txhawb lub siab tshaj plaws tus muam, tus phooj ywg (tij laug, tus phooj ywg). Lawv muaj tag nrho cov txhais tau tias thiab txhais tau tias kom tsis txhob muaj txoj kev loj hlob ntawm txoj hauv kev thiab tiv thaiv ib tus neeg kim los ntawm ntau yam teeb meem ntawm socialization. Pab kom tshem tau tus ntxhais ntawm kev nyiam tsis nyiam nws tus kheej, qhov tseeb, tsis yog qhov nyuaj, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau nrhiav txoj kev zoo. Inferiority complexes kho nrog kev pab los ntawm qhov tseeb kho kev puas siab puas ntsws, uas yuav nqa tawm los ntawm tus neeg uas paub tus neeg no zoo thiab to taub nws cov teeb meem. Rau cov neeg uas xav paub yuav ua li cas kom tshem tau cov menyuam ntxhais hluas ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb, koj tuaj yeem muab ob peb yam lus qhia yooj yim uas yuav pab daws tau cov teeb meem ntawm ib tus neeg hluas.
Yog li, feem ntau cov ntxhais hluas ua rau cov lus sib tham ntawm cov neeg sawv cev ntawm kev sib deev hais txog lawv qhov zoo. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias thaum tiav hluas, cov tub hluas feem ntau tsuas pom ntawm daim duab thiab lub ntsej muag xwb. Thaum lawv pib muaj hormonal tawg, tus cwj pwm no yog to taub thiab to taub. Yuav kom pab tau ib tug hluas nkauj, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau ntsuam xyuas nws cov ntaub ntawv lwm yam. Ntawm chav kawm, tus neeg ib txwm neeg yog ib txwm zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis, nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws mus ua pragmatic. Yog hais tias tus ntxhais yeej ntxim hlub, ces koj cia li xav convince nws tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob mloog cov ruam ntawv. Zoo, nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv thaum txhua yam yog tsis yog li rosy, nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog rau kev pabcuam rau ib tus tub hluas nrhiav nws zest thiab tig los ntawm ib tug ugly duckling mus rau hauv ib tug zoo nkauj swan. Yog li, yog tias koj pom tias tus ntxhais muaj teeb meem nrog rau cov duab - kom koj taug kev nrog koj mus qoj lossis aerobics. Koj tuaj yeem xyaum ua haujlwm tom tsev. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom convince nws tias nws yog zoo nkauj, tab sis ua tsaug rau nws cov kev tshawb fawb nws yuav tsuas irresistible. Koj kuj tuaj yeem qhia tus ntxhais ntawd kom zoo nkauj. Xaiv nws cov stylish thiab fashionable outfits, qhia koj tus kheej kom coj tus poj niam. Tab sis, ntxiv rau, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau hais rau tus tub ntxhais hluas tias nws yuav tsum tsis txhob ua txhaum cov neeg siab phem. Tus ntxhais yuav tsum to taub tias ntau nws yog cov uas ntsiag to thiab ntsia hauv av, qhov ntau nws yuav thuam. Thaum muab tswv yim, nco ntsoov koj tus kheej hauv lub hnub nyoog no thiab pib ntawm qhov tshwm sim tom qab ntawd. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias cov laus neeg muaj ntau dua cov lus sib tham thiab cov kev daws teeb meem. Tus ntxhais yuav tsum nkag siab hais tias lo lus yuav raug ntaus ntau tshaj qhov mob nrawm, thiab fights tsis yog poj niam cov lag luam. Txawm hais tias, nyob rau hauv ntau zaus, tej yam kev tsis txaus siab yuav tsim nyog.
Ntawm chav kawm, nyob rau hauv kev sib ntaus tawm tsam lub inferiority complex yuav pab cov phau ntawv nyob rau psychology. Tab sis tam sim no nws yog tsim nyog sau cia hais tias ntau yam ntawv ntawm questionable authorship - qhov no tsis yog dab tsi koj yuav tsum tau nyeem rau cov tub ntxhais hluas. Cov ntawv zoo li no tsis ua hauj lwm hlo li lossis tsuas yog ntxiv dag zog rau qhov teeb meem. Yog li, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tham nrog cov kws paub txog kev puas siab ntsws thiab sau cov ntawv sau ua ke, uas yuav yooj yim txaus rau kev xaav, nrog rau cov neeg ua hauj lwm zoo thiab paub zoo. Muaj ntau cov hluas tau pabcuam xws li cov ntawv tshaj tawm uas tsis yog cov ncauj lus qhia xwb, tabsis kuj muaj ntau yam kev ua haujlwm rau kev pib ua haujlwm uas pab txhawb kev tus kheej thiab pab txhawb tus kheej. Tab sis, txawm li cas los xij, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob pub ntau dhau ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws, thaum ib tug ntxhais hluas muaj peev xwm tshaj tawm nrog kev xav thiab pib nrhiav teeb meem uas nws tsis tau paub ua ntej. Yog li ntawd, tsis saib xyuas txog qhov tseeb tias tus tub ntxhais hluas tsis ua txhua yam kev puas siab puas ntsws.
Tau kawg, tus ntxhais tsis tuaj yeem raug txais kev cawm dim los ntawm ib haiv neeg uas feem ntau tsis yog txhua yam zoo thiab kev nkag siab raws li peb xav tau. Tab sis tseem nws yog nrog nws tias nws yuav tsum tau coexist. Yog li, sim piav qhia rau tus ntxhais tias cov tib neeg txoj kev xav yuav tsis yog qhov zoo xwb thiab koj yuav tsum tau paub daws teebmeem ntawm cov lus tsis txaus siab thiab kev xav. Qhov tseeb, qhov tseem ceeb yog kev xav ntawm cov neeg txheeb ze uas saib peb thiab sim pab. Qhov no yog qhov lawv xav tau los mloog. Thiab ua ntej tshaj tawm thiab qhov tseem ceeb yuav tsum tau qhia tias lawv cov lus tsis txuam nrog lawv tus kheej. Peb yuav tsum tau paub qhov txawv ntawm cov neeg zoo los ntawm cov neeg phem thiab muaj kev vam meej. Koj tsis tuaj yeem ntshai kom sib txuas lus nrog tus neeg tshiab, thiab tsis txhob yuam kev me yuam kev thiab tsis ua tiav. Txhua tus neeg tsis zoo tag nrho, yog li koj yuav tsum tsis nco qab txog txhua yam kev phem thiab mus rau tom ntej nrog koj lub taub hau muaj siab.