Ua rau.
Txhua tus neeg laus nyob rau hauv nws lub neej ntsib ib hom hysteria. Hauv qhov teeb meem no, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov neeg sab nrauv, koj tuaj yeem tau poob thiab poob tswj koj tus kheej. Qee lub sij hawm txawm tias cov niam zoo tshaj plaws yog thaum kawg tuag ua ntej lawv tus menyuam mos. Thaum zoo li no, qhov zoo tshaj plaws los xav txog qhov ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj ntawm tus me nyuam. Piv txwv, me nyuam qee zaum tsis muaj txaus rau koj, thiab nws muaj teeb meem los ntawm txoj kev no.
Cov me nyuam pib ua raws li cov hnub nyoog ntawm 1 xyoos. Qhov no yog vim qhov tseeb thaum lub hnub nyoog no tus me nyuam nyob nrog nws cov kev xav tau thiab xav tau. Tab sis zoo li tus cwj pwm no yuav raug kho nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw ntawm tus me nyuam thiab raug kis mus rau cov neeg laus (adulthood).
Yuav ua li cas coj tus cwj pwm thiab mob siab rau lub cev ntawm tus mos ab?
- Yog hais tias ib tug hysterics revives, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsis ceeb. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog tus kos npe tias tus me nyuam pib loj hlob, raws li nws muaj peev xwm nthuav tawm kev xav thiab kev ntshaw.
- Qee zaus ib tug me nyuam sim muab koj thiab tau txhua yam nws xav tau. Disabling manipulation yog ib qho yooj yim txaus, cia li saib koj tus me nyuam. Ua tib zoo saib seb nws quaj thiab dab tsi pab nws siab nqig. Yog tias koj to taub tias tus me nyuam tab tom ntxias koj, cia peb qhia meej rau nws tias koj tsis pom zoo rau nws ua.
- Koj tuaj yeem coj tus me nyuam mos rau hauv koj txhais tes, tuav nws nruj nreem thiab tos tus me nyuam kom siab nqig, qhia nws tus hlub, nyiam dua ib zaug, feem ntau rov hais dua.
- Sim los tham nrog ntau tus me nyuam txog nws qhov kev xav thiab kev ntshaw, kev txaus siab thiab kev lav phib xej.
Kev tawm tswv yim ntawm ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsoog yog ua raws li nram no: kom thiaj li sib ntaus sib tua ntawm peb cov menyuam, thawj zaug peb yuav tsum to taub lawv cov xwm txheej. Lub ntsiab tseem ceeb ntawm kev ua rau me nyuam yaus yog qaug zog, tsis muaj kev noj qab haus huv, muaj kev cia siab txog ib yam dab tsi, tsis muaj siab txaus siab, ntshai, muaj siab ua tus neeg laus.
Qhov feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam yau tshajplaws feem ntau tuaj yeem lees paub tam sim ntawd. Piv txwv, yog tias tus me nyuam tshaib plab, tsis txhob nqa nrog koj mus rau lub khw muag khoom noj. Tom qab tag nrho, muaj nws, feem ntau yuav, xav tau ib yam dab tsi six.
Psychologists cais ob hom hysterics:
1) Hysterics ntawm tus cwj pwm. Hauv qhov no, tus me nyuam sim ua txhua yam nws tsis zoo. Lub hom phiaj ntawm hom kab mob qis no yog ua rau lub cev tsis sib haum xeeb uas tsim tau. Qhov xav tau kev pw, khoom noj khoom haus, kev so lub cev lossis kev cia siab rau lub xeev muaj peev xwm ua rau cov kev nyuab siab no.
2) Tus kab mob chiv keeb. Nws lub homphiaj yog los ua kom tswj tau lwm tus neeg. Xws li tus hawb pob pib ntawm tus me nyuam thaum nws tau txais ib qho kev tsis kam: nws xav ua si nrog ib qho khoom ua si uas lwm tus me nyuam twb ua si lawm; nws xav ua las voos rau ntawm cov ntaub pua plag hauv chav tsev nyob thiab tib lub sij hawm haus kua txiv kab ntxwv; nws xav pleev xim rau cov phab ntsa uas muaj qhov siv hlua khawm. Hauv qhov no, qhov chaw ua pa yuav pab tau. Tus essence ntawm nws yog kom tshem tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv ib qho chaw ntsiag to zoo, qhov twg nws yuav nyob deb ntawm cov neeg.
Cia peb saib qee qhov qauv ntawm lub neej.
Cia li xav txog tej yam teeb meem no. Piv txwv, koj tus me nyuam, nyob hauv tsheb thauj neeg pej xeem, koj tus me nyuam xav noj cov tshuaj khov nab kuab. Koj tsis tso cai rau nws ua li no thiab koj tus me nyuam tau txais kev ntxub ntxaug.
Psychologists tawm tswv yim xws li:
- Txhob saib xyuas cov neeg caij luv thij thiab ntshai. Tom qab tag nrho, txhua zaus ntsib cov xwm txheej zoo li thiab tuaj yeem nkag siab txog koj.
- Ua ntej ua ntej tus me nyuam tau tshem ntawm cov neeg sawv cev ntawm tus neeg mob ntawm hysteria. Piv txwv, pov khov tawm hauv lub qhov rais los yog nkaum hauv lub hnab. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tus menyuam yuav tsum tau hais tias yog nws tsis tu tsis tseg, nws yuav tsis rov qab tau ice cream.
- Koj tseem tuaj yeem ua kom khov rau hauv ib lub hnab thiab ntsiag to rau hauv koj lub pob ntseg kom qhia tus me nyuam tias koj tuaj yeem tsis tos kom txog thaum koj tuaj hauv tsev thiab noj mov ua ke thiab qab zib qab zib.
- Yog tias cov kev qhia saum toj no tsis pab, cov kws kho mob tau qhia kom tsis txhob saib xyuas cov me nyuam txoj kev ntxias thiab ua raws li lub ntsiab lus ntawm "quaj qw thiab nqig." Muaj ntau leej niam nyob hauv lawv txoj kev kawm tau los ntawm kev ua haujlwm ntawm hom no.
Lwm qhov piv txwv - ib tus menyuam hais tias haus kua txiv kab ntxwv hauv chav pw. Txij li thaum koj tsis xav kom nws tau qias neeg tshiab, muab nws xaiv:
- Khov cov kua txiv hmab txiv ntoo
- Haus kua txiv hmab txiv ntoo hauv chav ua noj
- Haus dej hauv chav nyob
Psychologists paub qhov txawv ntawm ntau cov kev cai rau kev tiv thaiv cov me nyuam cov kev puas siab puas ntsws.
- Ua ntej, tsis txhob coj tus menyuam lub cev qe. Koj yuav tsum qhia rau nws paub tias koj tsis nyiam nws tus cwj pwm, thiab koj tsis pom zoo rau nws ua.
- Qhov thib ob, tsis txhob cais tawm ntawm kev sib cais ntawm tus menyuam. Nws yuav tsum tau muab rau qee qhov chaw ntsiag to uas nws muaj peev xwm nqig.
- Qhov thib peb, sim qhia tus menyuam kom qhia txog lawv txoj kev xav, xws li hauv kev tsis zoo, ntau txoj hau kev.
- Plaub, ua raws li koj ua.
Tsis txhob hnov qab tias tus me nyuam yog tib tug neeg raws li peb, nrog peb lub siab xav thiab cov hauv paus ntsiab lus. Thiab nws, dhau lawm, muaj txoj cai npau taws thiab chim siab rau qee lub sijhawm. Tab sis yog tias lawv raug yuam los ntawm kev tsis pom zoo, sim qhia kev hwm thiab ua siab ntev rau tus menyuam.