Qhov uas koj tus me nyuam yuav hnov tau so ntawm nws tsis yog nyob ntawm seb cov sij hawm siv hauv huab cua, hauv "pw theem", hauv chav ua si los yog hauv daim duab ntawm ib tug neeg zoo nkauj uas nws txoj hauj lwm "txaj muag tsis paub." Qhov tseeb, so tsis yog ib pawg neeg, tab sis yog ib qho kev xav ntawm lub hlwb. Nws tsis raug tswj, txwv tsis pub nws yuav ua rau kev nyuaj siab thiab kev tsim txom. Lub caij so nyab xeeb rau me nyuam yaus yog ib qho tseem ceeb hauv txhua tsev neeg.
Misconception tus naj npawb 1
Tus menyuam lub caij so yuav tsum tau npaj kom meej meej, vim hais tias lub tsev kawm ntawv feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam muaj npe nyob hauv cov txheej txheem ceev.
Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv. Thaum cov hnub so, tus me nyuam xav tau me ntsis "rub" dawb lub neej tsis muaj sij hawm. Txhob cia tus menyuam mus rau hauv lub tsev cia ua yeeb yaj kiab tawm tsam nws lub siab nyiam, yog tias nws mam li txiav txim siab mus rau qhov dej khov nab kuab. Tsis txhob cog lus yog tias nws nkees nkees ua si nrog lwm cov me nyuam, nws rov qab los hauv tsev thiab tau pw tsaug zog thaum nruab nrab ntawm hnub, tab sis, raws li koj txoj kev npaj, nws yuav tsum tau ua kom pa cua txias dua kaum tsib feeb.
Misconception tus xov tooj 2
Thaum lub caij so cov menyuam yuav tsum muaj cov chav kawm ntxiv - yog li tsis xav so.
Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv. Txhua yam nyob ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm tus menyuam: ib tug neeg yuav zoo siab nrhiav sijhawm mus kawm cov chav kawm nyeem ntawv ceev, kawm lwm yam lus, kev kawm hauv roob skiing thiab snowboarding, thiab ib tus neeg nervously shakes nrog ib lo lus "cov hoob kawm". Nws tsis tas yuav sau tus me nyuam mus rau cov chav kawm yam tsis tau nws kev tso cai.
Tsis txhob poob siab yog tias koj tus menyuam raug yuam siv nyiaj so lub caij ntuj no hauv lub nroog, tom qab tag nrho nws tsis yog kev sib tw kis las, kev mus ncig ua si thiab mus ncig ua si. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tias koj tuaj yeem nrhiav sijhawm rau kev sib raug zoo. Thiab nws tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb, qhov chaw uas nws yuav ua rau qhov chaw: nyob rau hauv ib qho kev sib tw, caij daus saum taub hau, hauv ib lub tsev cia puav pheej, thiab tej zaum tom qab sib koom ua ke computer. Kev ua siab ntev thiab kev txhawj xeeb ntawm cov niam txiv yog ib tus khub rau kev nyab xeeb rau me nyuam me.
Misconception # 3
Kev so haujlwm - lub sij hawm thaum koj tuaj yeem yuam kev tsim hom thiab lub hwj chim. Tus me nyuam muaj txhua txoj cai los so.
Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv. Koj tuaj yeem so, tab sis tsis tas hloov koj lub neej ntawm 180C. Feem ntau nws txhawj xeeb pw thiab khoom noj khoom haus. Qee lub sij hawm koj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam koj lub cev: mus pw tom qab saib yeeb yaj kiab tom qab thiab mus txog ib ncig tav su, mus rau ib qho café thiab noj cheeseburgers. Tab sis nws tsis tsim nyog los ua qhov cai no rau tag nrho cov hnub so. Yog hais tias qhov kev xeeb ceem plias ploj lawm, hauv tsev kawm ntawv nws yuav tsum "sib sau nws tus kheej hauv seem".
Misconception # 4
Thaum cov hnub so, cov tub ceev xwm hauv nroog tsis tuaj yeem "ua" tsis txaus siab rau cov menyuam yaus. Tsis txhob cia tus me nyuam tawm hauv txoj kev tsis muaj neeg laus saib xyuas - kev so zoo rau me nyuam me - ua ntej txhua yam.
Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv. Nyob hauv tsoom fwv, nrog rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, muaj qhov tseem ceeb (thiab tseem ceeb heev!) Npaj rau cov kev ua ub no rau cov menyuam kawm ntawv thaum lub caij so haujlwm. Yog xav paub ntxiv, koj tuaj yeem tiv tauj mus rau lub chaw haujlwm ntawm koj lub chaw ua haujlwm.
Misconception 5
Thaum cov hnub so, koj yuav tsum siv sijhawm ntau li ntau tau nrog tus menyuam.
Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv. Nws tag nrho yog nyob ntawm lub hnub nyoog thiab qhov ntawm koj cov xeeb ntxwv. Cov menyuam yaus uas tsis tau mus txog hnub nyoog txaus siab txaus siab siv sijhawm nrog lawv niam lawv txiv. Lawv yog cov yooj yim dua rau kev nyiam rau niam thiab txiv ntau dua li cov hluas uas tab tom sim rau kev sib koom tes nrog cov txheej xwm. Yog tias qhov no tshwm sim, tsis txhob txhawj: tus me nyuam zoo, tsuas yog nyob rau lub sij hawm no nws tseem ceeb rau nws sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg.
Misconception tus xov tooj 6
Cov hnub so tsis tau
Tswv yim rau cov niam txiv. Tus hlob tus me nyuam, nws muaj zog nws tsis xav ua "rau nws niam nws txiv". Tsis muaj ib qho tsis ncaj ncees rau ntawm cia tus 13-xyoo-laus teenage sib tham nrog cov phooj ywg, tsuas yog nrog ib qho kev mob uas tsis txaus ntseeg: nws tau ua rau koj "hauv thaj chaw" los yog tsawg kawg hu mus rau lub sijhawm teev tseg. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau qhia nws txog tej ntsiab cai ntawm kev nyab xeeb nyob rau hauv qhov chaw pej xeem.
Cov cai tswj kev ruaj ntseg yooj yim
Nrog tus me nyuam ib txwm yuav tsum paub txog nws tus kheej (npe, poj niam txiv neej, hnub nyoog, kev kho mob kev noj qab haus huv - kev tsis haum tshuaj, kev mob ntev), tus xov tooj ntawm tus neeg laus muaj kev ywj pheej.
Yog hais tias tus menyuam poob mus rau lub sijhawm los yog tau ua tim khawv nrog lwm tus neeg los ntawm nws cov txheeb ze los yog lwm tus neeg, nws yuav tsum hais rau tus neeg nyob hauv kev hnav khaub ncaws (tub rog, tub ceev xwm, thiab lwm yam), lossis cov neeg ua haujlwm ntawm cov koom haum ze (khw, txhab nyiaj) thiab qhia dab tsi tshwm sim.
Yog tias cov me nyuam tab tom taug kev ntawm lub tuam txhab, nco ntsoov kom lawv rov qab xam phaj ib leeg "ntawm lawv taub hau" ntau zaus.