Koj tus menyuam tau mus rau kindergarten los yog lub tsev kawm ntawv Sasha lossis Mashenka, thiab rov qab Teletubbies, Ochkarik lossis Giraffe ... Koj tau tsim ib lub npe rau nws nrog kev hlub thiab muaj lub siab nyiam, thiab cov neeg ntse-ntsej muag tau ntaus lub npe, xav ua tus ua kom yuam kev, kev ua phem lossis kev tsim txom. Tab sis tsis txhob maj kom nkag siab txog leej twg tau mus ua txhaum, khiav kom piav qhia rau cov neeg ua txhaum, sib cav nrog lawv niam lawv txiv. Xav txog seb yog vim li cas koj tus menyuam thiaj raug hu ua li ntawd? Thiab qhov twg, peb cov me nyuam npe hu li cas? Koj yuav xav tsis thoob, tab sis ntau heev! Nyeem mus txog qhov kawg - nws zoo nkauj heev.
Vim li cas lawv ho hu?
Nicknames thiab "hu" - ib qho kev xeem rau durability, uas kis txhua tus me nyuam. Yog li ntawd hais, ib tug khoom plig rau socialization. Cov me nyuam pab neeg thaum ntxov qhia txog kev lom zem ua si "Kuv yog phooj ywg / tsis nyiam", "peb lees txais / tsis txais". Lub npe menyuam yaus ua tau ib daim ntawv lo rau "lwm tus neeg" los yog kos npe rau kev lees txais "ib tus kheej".
Cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem tuaj yeem nrog cov npe menyuam yaus lossis tus neeg sau npe:
• Xwv kom zoo siab rau ib tug neeg uas tau teased, lossis lwm tus. Nws yog qhov zoo heev - thaum ib tug phooj ywg chases koj nyob ib ncig ntawm chav kawm! Qee lub sij hawm txoj kev sib thab tsis tseem nkag siab txog dab tsi yuav ua txhaum thiab ua rau kev chim siab heev rau tus neeg.
• Ua qhov kev tiv thaiv kev tiv thaiv. "Kuv me me, thiab txawm nrog tsom-iav. Kuv tsis paub yuav ua li cas sib ntaus. Nws tshua tsuas yog hu rau tus neeg ua txhaum ntau ua tau, los mus tsim ib lub npe nrov rau nws. "
• Qhia koj tus kheej ntawm cov nuj nqis ntawm ib tus neeg tsis muaj kev ntshai, qhia txhua tus "uas yog tus thawj coj" hauv chav kawm los yog hauv pawg.
• Los pauj ib co kev thuam, kev xav lossis kev xav
• Hauv qhov kev dag, tsis muaj kev ntxub ntxaug.
• Nyob hauv tus cwj pwm ntawm ib tus yeeb yaj kiab, ib tug cartoon.
Ishak thiab Masyanya: qhov twg ua tus nicknames los ntawm.
Feem ntau, lub npe menyuam yaus tshwm sim los ntawm lub npe los yog lub npe. Yog li ntawd tus tub Kostya ua ib tug pas nrig, tus ntxhais Soloveva - Nightingale. Xws li cov npe nicknames tej zaum yuav tsis tuaj leej twg tog, los yog tej zaum yuav ua phem. Misha cuaj muaj hnub nyoog heev thaum nws los ntawm kev hloov yooj yim-Misha-Mishak-Ishak-tau txais lub npe menyuam yaus. "Nws yog thuam tias yog Ishak - qhov lawv lawv caij!"
Ib tug nplua nuj av rau cov nicknames muab cov tsos ntawm tus me nyuam. Kev Loj Hlob, kev tsim, lub ntsej muag ntawm lub ntsej muag, cov ntsiab lus txawv ntawm cov khaub ncaws - qhov muag pom ntawm cov phooj ywg pom txhua yam. Ib tug me nyuam tub siab siab, muaj peev xwm ua tau yooj yim ua Elk, thiab me me thiab nyias - Rachit.
Qee zaum cov npe nicknames yog muab rau qee qhov kev coj tus cwj pwm, tus cwj pwm, kev nyiam ua haujlwm. Pyatiklassnik Sasha lub npe tsheb Mercedes, sau cov khoom qab zib nrog lawv cov dluab thiab txhua yam khav tias thaum nws loj tuaj, nws yuav yuav ib feem rau "Mers". Nws yog zajlus kom hais tias "Mercedes" nws yog nicknamed, thiab nrog no npe menyuam yaus nws txaus siab.
Thiab lub npe menyuam yaus yuav yog ib feem ntawm qhov kev ua si, thaum cov menyuam yaus "ua si" hauv cov yeeb yaj duab nyiam hauv cov yeeb yaj kiab los yog tas lauv. Winnie the Pooh thiab Piglet - nws yog feem ntau yog ib tus me nyuam qhov classic. Hauv ib lub sij hawm, cov tsev kawm ntawv tau muab cov qauv ntawm cov "X-Files" coj los ua - muaj ntau ntau Meldors (los yog Foxes tsuas yog). Skinner thiab Scully. Txog tam sim no, saib Disney cartoons, cov me nyuam hu ua phooj ywg Chip thiab Dale, Zzhik, Gadget, Scrooge. Nyob rau hauv xyoo tsis ntev los, Miasanya, Hrundel ntxiv rau daim ntawv no. Tag nrho cov tuam txhab Smesharikov thiab lwm cov cim duab tas luav.
Zoo, yog hais tias lub npe menyuam yaus zoo li tus menyuam yaus lossis nws kho nws tus calmly. Zoo, yog hais tias nws yuav siv ua txhaum, quaj, fights? Cov niam txiv yuav tsum ua li cas: nrog cov neeg ua txhaum cai, hais rau tus xib fwb, xa tus me nyuam mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv?
Qee lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv qib qis, qee tus ntxhais Sveta yog tag nrho teased nrog ib lub teeb napkin. Thiab mam li nco dheev, cia nyob rau hauv rau lub hlis, nws ua "Svetlana-Kev Zoo Nkauj". Dab tsi tshwm sim? Yog, nws pom lub zeem muag ntawm nws tus kheej, thiab, li, nws tsos, tsuas yog hloov, vim nws nyob ntawm nws tus kheej, nws tus kheej kev xav. Thiab lub qub npe luv npe poob tawm zoo li ib tug tev.
"Leej twg hu nws tus kheej, nws tus kheej yog hu ua!"
"Kawm kev ntseeg tus kheej, tshem tawm qhov tsis muaj tseeb" - kev tawm tswv yim thoob plaws. Thiab tsis tau, ua li cas "nov thiab tam sim no" thaum koj tus menyuam tuaj ntawm kindergarten lossis tsev kawm ntawv hauv lub kua muag?
Psychologists tsis pom zoo "los ntawm qhov chaw" kom maj mus nrog cov ua txhaum cai. Ua ntej, koj tus me nyuam yuav tau txais ib lub koob npe nrov li "khab nias" vim li ntawd. Qhov thib ob, nws yuav siv nws lub peev xwm los daws nws cov teeb meem ntawm nws tus kheej ntau tshaj ib zaug. Thirdly, yog tias koj qhov kev cuam tshuam tsis tiav, koj yuav poob ib feem ntawm koj txoj cai ntawm koj tus tub lossis tus ntxhais. Thib plaub, nws muaj peev xwm hais tias koj tus me nyuam muaj kev xav ntau txaus ntshai cov neeg ua phem.
Yog li, qhov kev xaiv "tuaj rau tsev kawm ntawv thiab ntshai tag nrho" yog sab laug rau cov huab mob, uas peb muaj ntsej muag tsis yog li niaj zaus. Cov no yog cov teeb meem ntawm kev tsim txom kev tsim txom, kev tsim muaj kev quab yuam, thaum tag nrho cov neeg koom siab tawm tsam ib tug. Tab sis txawm nyob rau qhov no, txawm tias qhov kev chim siab npaum li cas koj hlawv, nws yuav pab tau rau tus menyuam yaus kom hloov mus rau lwm lub tsev kawm ntawv. Raws li kev sim hu-teasers, txhua tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm kawm kom tiv thaiv lawv.
Sab hauv.
Piav rau tus me nyuam: lub npe yog ib lub lag luam hauv ntiaj teb no, lawv tsis raug zam los ntawm cov neeg muaj kev vam meej. Tus naas ej actress, zoo nkauj Anna Kovalchuk, uas ua si Margarita, cov neeg kawm ntawv hu ua "Lom" - rau kev loj hlob. Actor Vladislav Galkin, lub ntsiab "trucker" ntawm lub teb chaws, nyob rau hauv nws thaum yau tsuas yog "Kulka". Tus kws sau ntawv Alexander Green, tus kws sau npe ntawm Scarlet Sails, tau tawm tsam ntawm chav ua si los ntawm lub npe menyuam yaus Green-Blin (nws lub npe tiag tiag yog Grinevsky). Tom qab ntawd nws npe hu ua nws tus pseudonym. Thiab nto moo politicians? Lawv feem ntau tau nicknames heev, ntawm cov "Luzhok" thiab "Zhirik" tseem yog cov tshaj harmless!
Muab ib qho piv txwv ntawm cov neeg nto moo, koj tuaj yeem qhia rau koj tias koj tus kheej hu ua menyuam yaus. Piav tias lub npe menyuam yaus yog ib qho qhia tias koj tau pom tias koj tsis yog qhov chaw tsis muaj dab tsi rau koj cov phooj ywg. Sim koj tus kheej kom tuaj nrog funny teasers rau koj tus kheej lub npe lossis lub npe, sib tw, leej twg yuav tuaj nrog ntau dua. Qhov no yuav pab tus me nyuam kom tsis txhob npau taws. Thiab yog tias nws kawm paub tias nws mob li cas rau hauv lawv - ib nrab qhov teeb meem twb tau daws lawm!
Sab nraud cov tshuaj tiv thaiv.
Rau ib tug me nyuam yaus ntawm qib hnub nyoog kawm ntawv, hloov koj tus cwj pwm rau cov yias yuav tsis yooj yim. Zoo, ces koj yuav tsum qhia nws tsawg kawg yog "txoj cai" los teb thiab teb rau lawv.
Psychologists tsis tuaj yeem rov qab tiv thaiv kev hu xov tooj "ntawm kev nce" - ntau tshaj tawm xov tooj. Sib ntaus nrog tus neeg ua phem kuj tsis yog qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws: tej zaum nws yog kev sib ntaus nws xav kom muaj kev ntxhov siab. Kev nthuav qhia npau taws, tus me nyuam yog qhov ua rau kev ntxias, qhia nws cov ntsiab lus tsis muaj zog, thiab kev thab plaub ua rau cov phooj ywg zoo dua.
Piav qhov no rau tus me nyuam. "Thaum koj raug kev txom nyem los ntawm cov npe menyuam yaus, koj ua zoo li ib tug menyuam roj hmab, thiab cov neeg uas tau teased - zoo li puppeteers. Lawv rub cov hlua thiab tswj koj raws li lawv xav tau. Thiab koj tsis cia lawv ua nws. "
Ib txoj kev zoo yog tsis hnov mob thiab tsis teb rau cov npe menyuam yaus. Tom qab ntawd tus me nyuam yuav ua rau nws tsis nco qab, thiab tus neeg ua txhaum yuav poob qab. Txais thiab kawm nrog tus menyuam txog kab lus txheem: "Koj tau hu leej twg? Kuv? Kuv lub npe yog Sasha. Yog tias koj xav tham, hu rau kuv ntawm lub npe. " Npaj lub tsev kom tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm hais tau cov lus no kom nyob ruaj nrees, tswj thiab khov kho.
Lwm qhov kev xaiv yog cov lus teb tsis yog. Nyob rau hauv thawj chav kawm, tus tub Dima tau txais lub npe menyuam yaus "Odnozuby Bull" - rau nws kev ruggedness thiab ceev ceev. Thaum nws raug hu, nws ib txwm cuam nws tus kheej mus rau hauv kev sib ntaus thiab ua li ntawd paub nws lub npe. Nws niam nws txiv tau qhia kom nws teb tus neeg txhaum tom ntej: "Koj puas tau hais txhua yam? Ces cia kuv nyob ib leeg. " Thiab cov kawm tsis sib haum ... poob rau tom qab.
Cov me nyuam yau yog cov uas tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo los ntawm cov lus hais "lus dag" - cov nqe lus luv luv uas tuaj yeem tau qw tawm hauv kev tawm tsam kev sib cav:
Koj hu rau kuv - koj txhais koj tus kheej.
Leej twg hu, uas yog lub npe!
Lub khej tau taug kev - koj lo lus raug nqos. Thiab nws tso kuv!
Lawv cia koj tawm tsam tus neeg ua txhaum, tawm lo lus kawg tom qab - thiab tib lub sij hawm "tawm" qhov tsis sib haum xeeb.
Lwm txoj kev ntawm kev sib tham hauv Internet tau muab los ntawm kuv niam nrog kev paub:
"Kuv tau qhia kuv tus menyuam nyob rau hauv nruab nrab pab pawg yuav ua li cas. Muaj li ntawd, tag nrho cov nicknames tuaj, thiab nws tau ua txhaum zoo heev. Peb pib ua si hauv koom haum ua ke, xav tawm nrog leej twg los sis nrog rau qhov nws muaj peev xwm los sib piv nws cov neeg ua txhaum. Nws hu ua, thiab nws hais tias nws teb: "Koj zoo li lub hauv paus ntsuab - qaub qaub" lossis "Koj zoo li lub teeb teeb uas kub hnyiab tau." Ntawm peb nws twb tau dhau hauv qhov kev ua si. Thiab nws hloov tawm ridiculously thiab qhov teeb meem yog rho tawm. Lawv nres hu cov npe. "
Nrhiav koj tus kheej.
Cov niam txiv, xyuam xim rau cov npe nicknames tus me nyuam xav txog nws tus kheej, lub npe nickj nws nyiam. Nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej duab, "ntim" nyob rau hauv lub npe menyuam yaus, ib tug neeg encrypts tseem ceeb rau lawv tus kheej zoo, nws nrhiav. Lub npe menyuam yaus muab qee yam ntawm cov khoom zoo ntawm tus kwv uas tus neeg koom tes nrog nws tus kheej! Qhov no yog hu ua "kev raug mob nyhuv". Tsis xav tias cov neeg Isdias Asmesliskas, thiab peb cov poj koob yawm txwv feem ntau coj ib lub npe hu ua totemic, nrog rau ib hom tsiaj. Tus dais txhais tau tias yuav tsum muaj zog thiab noj qab nyob zoo, Wolverine yog cunning, agile, saj zawg zog.
Lub npe menyuam yaus siv zog txhawb thiab txhawb nqa cov yeeb yam zoo uas muaj kev ntxias nyob hauv nws. Yog tias koj tus menyuam raug hu mus rau hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv - nws ua kom paub meej, ntawm qhov yeeb yam, piv txwv li. "Zoo" lossis "siab phem". Yog hais tias lub mis nws tus kheej tuaj nrog lub npe menyuam yaus "Batman" - ces, xav kom muaj zog, siab tawv thiab txiav txim siab, raws li ib tug nyiam hero. Thiab ... nws yuav pab nws qee txoj kev.
Nws muaj ib daim ntawv qhia dav dav - yuav ua li cas thiaj li yuav txuag tau koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais los ntawm cov neeg raug mob. Nws yooj yim: kho koj tus me nyuam xws li kev sib saib, ua tus neeg laus saib xyuas zoo tshaj plaws ntawm koj cheeb tsam! Ua tsaug rau nws cov kev zoo hauv daim ntawv uas lawv yog. Tus me nyuam uas tau raug txheeb thiab tau txais kev qhuas hauv tsev neeg tuaj yeem paub qhov txawv ntawm qhov pom thawj zaug. Qhov "Halo ntawm kev hwm", zoo li lub halo, surrounds thiab tiv thaiv nws, muab kev tso siab. Cov menyuam yaus no yuav tsis tuaj yeem. Thiab txawm hais tias lawv muaj qhov kev hais tsis zoo los, sab nraud tsis txaus ntseeg - ua rau cov neeg tsis txaus siab rau lawv tsuas tsis lo.