Psychologists xav txog thawj kev xav ntawm ib tug neeg ntshai. Tom qab dhau los ntawm kev yug me nyuam, tus mos ab puag nws cov kev phem heev. Cov khoom ntawm cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai yog txawv thiab feem ntau yog nyob ntawm qhov kev kawm ntawm kev loj hlob, kev xav, kev xav, kev txhawj xeeb, kev tsis txaus ntshai thiab tus me nyuam lub neej kev paub.
Tej khoom siv muaj hnub nyoog txog kev ntshai thaum yau
Yuav luag txhua tus menyuam yaus raug cab rau hnub nyoog. Twb tau hauv thawj lub hlis ntawm lub neej, tus me nyuam pib ntshai tsam suab nrov, suab nrov, neeg txawv. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog los tsim ib qho chaw tshwj xeeb hauv lub sijhawm no ntawm lub neej. Ntawm qhov no, nyob ntawm seb qhov kev ntshai ntawm crumbs yuav loj hlob nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, tig mus rau kev txhawj xeeb, multiply los yog tus me nyuam yuav muaj peev xwm kov yeej nws tam sim no.
Thaum tus me nyuam muaj 5 hlis tom qab lub sij hawm tseem ceeb ntawm kev ntshai yuav tsum yog neeg tsis paub. Tsis tas li ntawd, cov menyuam ntawm lub hnub nyoog no yuav muaj kev ntshai nyob rau qee qhov txawv txav, thaum lawv pom tej yam txawv txawv. Hauv cov menyuam yaus ntawm 2-3 xyoos, cov khoom ntawm kev ntshai yog feem ntau yog cov tsiaj. Thiab tom qab 3 xyoos me nyuam yaus pib muaj kev ntshai ntawm kev tsaus ntuj vim hais tias thaum lub hnub nyoog no lawv muaj kev loj hlob ntawm kev xav.
Feem ntau cov khoom ntawm cov me nyuam qhov kev ntshai yog cov cim zoo heev. Piv txwv li, cov kws kos npe, Koschey lub Immortal, Baba Yaga, thiab lwm yam. Yog li no, nws tsis zoo los qhia rau cov menyuam yaus txog cov yeeb yaj kiab, kom cia saib cov yeeb yaj kiab uas tsis haum rau hnub nyoog, thiab ntau tshaj ntawd - koj tsis tuaj yeem ntshai lwm tus neeg cov txiv ntxawm, cov tub rog, thiab lwm yam. thaum lub sij hawm no yuav tsum nrog tus me nyuam ntxiv zuj zus. Ntau zaus nco ntsoov thiab qhia tus me nyuam seb koj hlub nws thiab ua kom nws paub meej tias txhua yam tshwm sim, koj yuav nco ntsoov tiv thaiv nws.
Feem ntau, kev ntshai thaum yau tshwm muaj hauv 3-6 xyoos. Txawm li cas los xij, kev ntshai thaum yau yau yog ib qho kev ceeb toom thaum yau. Nyob rau hauv xws li mob, tshem tawm ntawm qhov khoom ntawm kev ntshai tsis tshem tawm qhov ua rau lub tswb.
Nyob hauv cov laus thaum ntxov, kev xav txog kev xav paub pib tsim cov menyuam yaus, muaj kev sib raug zoo, hauv tsev, lub neej "qhov tseem ceeb", yog li cov menyuam yaus muaj kev ntshai loj dua thiab loj dua. Tus menyuam yuav muaj kev ntshai rau kev noj qab nyob zoo ntawm lawv tus hlub, ntshai tsam lawv poob. Hauv tsev neeg, kev ntshai ntawm cov neeg laus raug xa mus rau tus menyuam. Thaum muaj kev ntshai nyob rau hauv niam txiv, muaj qhov siab yuav tshwm sim ntawm cov khoom tshiab ntawm kev ntshai nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam. Yog li, sim ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus menyuam.
Ib qho khoom ntawm kev ntshai nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam yuav yog ib qho kev sib ceg ntawm cov niam txiv. Thiab tus laus dua tus me nyuam, qhov ntau nws siab ntsws muaj zog tuaj. Sim tsis txhob sib cav sib ceg thiab tsis cog lus rau ntawm tus menyuam. Nyob rau hauv cov tsev neeg uas tus me nyuam ua qhov chaw ntawm niam txiv kev ntxhov siab thiab kev tu siab, kev ntshai ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsis haum rau cov kev xav tau ntawm niam txiv.
Thaum pib kawm ntawv, cov menyuam yaus muaj lub luag haujlwm, lub luag haujlwm, lub luag haujlwm, uas tsim kev ncaj ncees ntawm tus neeg. "Kev ntshai kev ntxhov siab" muaj peev xwm ua tau tej yam kev ntshai. Tus me nyuam yuav ntshai vim ntshai tsam raug txim los yog raug txim, tsis yog cov neeg uas muaj nuj nqis, hwm thiab to taub. Thaum zoo li no, tus me nyuam pheej soj ntsuam nws tus kheej, nws muaj kev ntxhov siab. Yam khoom ntawm kev ntshai nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam tuaj yeem ua phem rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ntshai tsam raug txim hauv tsev. Sim tsis txhob cem tus menyuam, tab sis kom pab nws kov yeej kev ntshai. Txhawb tus kheej kev cia siab ntawm tus menyuam, ua kom nws tus kheej nce siab ntxiv.
Ntau yam kev phem (dej nyab, hluav taws, nag xob nag cua, av qeeg, thiab lwm yam) yuav ua tau cov khoom ntawm cov menyuam ntshai. Sim ua kom tus me nyuam muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb, nyob nws siab, ua kom muaj kev ruaj ntseg.
Txhua tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm muaj nws tus kheej, nws tus kheej ntawm qhov kev ntshai ntawm me nyuam kev ntshai, yog li ua tib zoo saib xyuas koj tus me nyuam, tsis txhob muaj teeb meem.