Raws li kev tshawb fawb, 5% ntawm cov neeg muaj xws li charisma, tab sis nws yuav tsis ncaj ncees rau hu tag nrho lwm tus neeg non-charismatic. Ib tug neeg charismatic yog ib tus thawj coj, txawm tias qhov tseem ceeb ntawm nws cov charisma tsis yog kev coj noj coj ua. Nws yog txawv ntawm qhov nws coj nyob hauv lub neej, thiab tsis yog lub neej coj nws.
Txoj kev ntawm kev sib cav
Nrhiav koj cov charisma - muaj zog zoo ntawm ib tug neeg - tsis yog txhua yam yooj yim, thiab feem ntau yuav tsum tau sab nrauv kev pab. Cov neeg, raws li txoj cai, tau siv rau lawv tus kheej, nrog lawv cov kev ua tau zoo thiab feem ntau tsis tuaj yeem teb tau lo lus nug tias lawv nyiam tshaj plaws li cas. Qhov kev tiv thaiv hlwb feem ntau yog ua haujlwm ntawm no, yog li no qhov haujlwm tsis tuaj yeem daws tau ntawm qhov kev tawm mus. Cov tub txawg, uas los ntawm kev tsim txiaj ntawm lawv lub peev xwm tuaj yeem pom cov kev pov thawj ntawm lwm tus neeg siv, siv ntau txoj kev los mus muab coj los rau hauv lub teeb.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj yuav tsum paub, pib tshawb nrhiav charisma - muaj zog zoo ntawm ib tug neeg: shyness kaw nws, thiab qhov zoo tshaj plaws qualities pib manifest non-constructively.
Piv txwv li, tus neeg uas muaj lub zog zoo - kev sib txuas lus nrog tib neeg, pib muaj kev sib tham ntau dua los ntawm ntau zaus, thiab tus neeg uas muaj kev sib ntaus sib tua zoo raug kaw hauv nws tus kheej thiab tsis muaj peev xwm hais tau ib lo lus. Yog li, koj yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm thawj zaug ntawm kev ntseeg tus kheej. Tom qab charisma - muaj zog zoo ntawm ib tug neeg, tsis yog ib txwm thiab tsis tag nrho yuav manifested.
Nco ntsoov "qhov teeb meem ntawm txoj kev kov yeej kev ntxhov siab thiab sim kos ib lub cim nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ib tug quab yuam uas tau pab koj tawm ntawm nws. Qhov cim no yuav cia koj pom cov yeeb yam zoo uas ua rau lawv pom tseeb tseeb hauv cov teeb meem. Cov duab ntawm lub cim pab tiv thaiv tsis tau sab hauv. Tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem xav txog yuav ua li cas muab koj lub zog rau cov neeg, yuav ua li cas qhia nws.
Koj tuaj yeem tshawb nrhiav charisma ntawm koj tus kheej. Cov tswv yim yog paub, lawv yooj yim heev, tab sis tsis muaj kev koom tes lawv ua haujlwm zoo yog tias charisma intuitively manifested, thiab ib tus neeg npaj txhij nws. Nws feem ntau tshwm sim ua ntej koj koom nrog hauv charisma, koj yuav tsum ua hauj lwm ntawm kev sib haum xeeb ntawm tus neeg.
Thaum ib tus neeg pom nws qhov kev muaj zog, lawv pib tshwm lawv tus kheej hauv kev coj cwj pwm ntawm lawv tus kheej. Hloov cov cwj pwm thiab cov kev xav, nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, nws yog cov kev soj ntsuam uas cov kws kho mob ua tau tom qab ib qho kev sib tham ntawm qhov kev tshawb nrhiav ntawm charisma.
Thaum ib tug neeg tau pom thiab txais nws qhov kev khwv nyiaj, ib tug tuaj yeem koom nrog nws qhov kev tshwm sim hauv txhua yam ntawm daim duab:
Gabitarnom (ua li cas koj saib):
hais lus (koj hais li cas):
suab (raws li koj hais):
kinesthetic (thaum koj tsiv mus);
ib puag ncig (dab puag ncig koj);
materialized (lag luam ntawv, phau ntawv qhia, tej yam uas koj muab thiab uas ua tim khawv lub siab ntawm tus neeg).
Ua ntej, nws tseem muaj nqis rau koj cov dag zog rau ntawm 1-2 cov lus qhia. Rau cov TV cim, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm charisma yog ib tus duab gabic thiab kinesthetic, rau tus neeg muag khoom muag - gabitarny thiab hais lus. Thaum ib tug neeg muaj charisma - ib tus neeg muaj zog zoo yog pom hauv qhov tsos, cov neeg yooj yim to taub nws, uas ib txwm contributes rau kev ntseeg siab.
Kev ua haujlwm tuaj yeem ua ntau yam. Cov kws kho mob feem ntau yog cov lus qhia dav dav, tus naiskhu yuav ua haujlwm nrog cov ncauj lus kom ntxaws ntxaws, nws yuav zoo dua los tham nrog tus tsim duab, ib tus kws paub lus, thiab lwm yam. Yam dab tsi uas tus neeg muaj peev xwm ua tau nws tus kheej thaum nws pib muaj kev ntseeg siab hauv ib qho tshiab.
Kev hais kom rov qab mus rau ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb tshaj dua, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog koj lub hom phiaj. Koj yuav tsum xub teb koj tus kheej rau cov lus nug: "Kuv xav tau dab tsi?" Thiab "Dab tsi?". Thiab thaum nug cov lus nug no, koj yuav tsum tau mus cuag koj lub hom phiaj qhov kawg. Piv txwv, nrhiav tus neeg ze thiab tus tib neeg. Nrog rau txoj haujlwm no koj tuaj yeem mus rau ib tus kws khomob tshwjxeeb. Qhov no siv tsis tas rau kev tshaj tawm ntawm charisma, nws txhawj txog cov hom phiaj thiab haujlwm.
Raws li kev xyaum qhia , rau cov poj niam nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau kev nrhiav koj tus duab tshiab gabitic, manifesting koj cov charisma los ntawm khaub ncaws, accessories thiab tshuaj pleev ib ce. Qhov kev taw qhia ntawm kev tshawb nrhiav yuav pab txiav txim siab qhov kev xeem.
Rau cov poj niam, kev tshawb nrhiav tus kheej tshiab yog yooj yim dua rau cov txiv neej. Lawv yuav tsum cia siab rau qhov kev xav thiab mus rau tom khw. Taug kev mus rau tom khw thiab sim nkag siab txog dab tsi ntawm hom kev txhawj xeeb ua rau cov khoom lossis lwm yam. Sim nrhiav cov khaub ncaws uas ua rau koj sab hauv "Ooooo!". Xws li khaub ncaws qhia koj essence, koj charisma, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj nrog nws tus kheej. Sim to taub nws cov essence, koj nyiam - cov khoom, txiav, xim, cov yam ntxwv ntawm cov style. Tsis txhob ntshai mus saib rau hauv cov khw muag khoom kim kim thiab sim ua ib qho hnav ris tsho uas muaj nyob rau hauv rooj plaub. Yog tias koj to taub tias qhov no yog koj li thiab tshuaj xyuas yam koj nyiam, koj tuaj yeem nrhiav tau ib yam nrog tib tus qauv, tab sis nws muaj nqis.
Txoj kev no tsis haum rau cov neeg uas muaj kev tiv thaiv kev mob hlwb. Siv tsis ncaj ncees: xws li cov neeg feem ntau muaj mob hnyav heev rau ib qho xim (feem ntau yog dub). Yuav kom nkag siab ntau npaum li cas koj muaj cuab kav, koj yuav tsum tso cov khaub ncaws zoo lossis nyiam xim rau tsawg kawg ib lim piam thiab sim nrhiav lwm cov xim. Ntawd yog, txhob txwm tsav koj tus kheej mus rau hauv ib qho teeb meem uas tsis xis nyob los nrhiav kev hlub tshiab. Txawm li cas los xij, tsuas yog ib tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsoog xws li kev tiv thaiv, vim nws yog txuam nrog teeb meem ntawm sab hauv.