Yog hais tias nws yog ib lo lus nug ntawm kev ua haujlwm, lawv yuav tham txog lub siab xav "curry haum", yog hais txog kev hlub, lawv yuav hais tias "nws mus (los yog mus) rau nyiaj". Tab sis nws yog qhov phem thiab coj txawv txawv, qhov tseeb?
Xwm pw ib tug poj niam ntau tshaj li ib tug txiv neej, thiab qhov no tsis yog xav tsis thoob, vim hais tias nws nyob ntawm tus poj niam nyob ntawm ntau ntawm cov ciaj sia taus ntawm genus. Ib tug poj niam raises me nyuam yaus, mob siab txog nws tus txiv, muab lub tsev zoo nkauj. Tsis ceeb, ob qho tag nrho cov maturation thiab tsim ntawm tus neeg nyob rau hauv cov ntxhais tshwm sim ua ntej tshaj qhov "muaj zog ib nrab ntawm tib neeg".
Cov teeb meem ntawm kev to taub thiab kev nkag siab ntawm ib tug txiv neej thiab ib tug poj niam, nrog lub hnub nyoog txawv txav, pib, hmoov tsis, tsis yog nyob ntawm theem ntawm kev ua haujlwm, tab sis nyob rau theem ntawm tib neeg sawv cev thiab kab ke.
Tsis muaj ib qho tsis muaj tseeb nrog qhov tseeb uas tus tub nkawv pib yos ib tug ntxhais uas laus tshaj nws tau ntau xyoo, nws txawj ntse dua, nrog nws ntau dua thiab nws yuav tsis tshua muaj sij hawm kom tau txais kev npaj txhij txog hauv tsev neeg. Tab sis, nco ntsoov, koj tau saib nws qhov kev tsis pom zoo li cas? Koj puas paub tseeb tias nws yog yos hav zoov rau "tus neeg ruam", ib tug neeg hais rau koj tias? Tsis muaj, tab sis yog vim li cas tag nrho cov kev coj cwj pwm thiab scandals? Qhov twg yog qhov guarantee tias nws yuav zoo siab nrog lub kawm?
Kev npau suav tseem ceeb tshaj yog kev xav rau ob peb tug pojniam uas yau dua ib tug txiv neej. Kev ncaj ncees txoj kev npau taws ntawm kev sib raug zoo yuav ntes nws hauv plob hav zoov rau qhov qub txeeg qub teg, thiab nws - nyob rau hauv kev nrhiav ntawm ib tug lub cev hluas. Ntxiv dua thiab, ib lub pob txha poob ntsej muag yuav ua rau qhov tseeb ntawm lub neej. Cov ntxhais hluas feem ntau ntshai tsam lawv pib muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov phooj ywg - lawv zoo siab heev, tsis muaj teeb meem thiab tsis paub txog cov teeb meem niaj hnub. Ib tug txiv neej loj tuaj yeem tiv thaiv ntau qhov yuam kev, nws muaj peev xwm ntseeg nws tus kheej thiab nws tsis mob siab hloov lub luag haujlwm ntawm lub luag haujlwm.
Nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev sib deev, qhov tseem ceeb tseem ceeb txhua zaus, ces, ua li cas cov neeg koom tes sib cuam tshuam rau ib leeg, ntau npaum li cas lawv tuaj yeem koom nrog tus neeg hlub nws cov kev paub, qhov nws nyiam thiab qhov kev xam pom. Cov hnub nyoog ntawm no tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb. Tau, yog tias qhov txawv ntawm hnub nyoog 20 lossis 30 xyoo, nws tsis yog tag nrho meej ntawm qhov kev tshwm sim ntawm kev tsim ntawm tsev neeg thiab yug menyuam, tab sis ntawm qhov txhais tes, yog nws yog 50, thiab nws yog 69 thiab qhov txawv yog ze li ntawm 20 xyoo, dab tsi ua rau lawv tsis yog Ua ke? Cov menyuam yaus muaj kev zoo siab, lub neej tau nrog lub meej mom, tiam sis tsis muaj hmoo - ib tus poj niam tau tas sim neej, thiab nws nyiam nyob ib leeg, tsom ntsoov rau "pej xeem lub tswv yim"?
Lub koom txoos feem ntau xav ua kom luag lwm tus neeg ua txhaum vim tias lawv tau tawg tawm ntawm cov kab ntau, lawv rhuav tshem txoj kev coj noj coj ua, tsim kev ua ub ua no. Tsuas yog li ntawd nws tsis nco qab tias txhua tus neeg yog ib tug neeg nrog nws lub tswv yim, qhov tseem ceeb thiab nws txoj kev hauv lub neej no. Cov niam txiv uas rau txim rau tus hluas nkauj ntawm nws tus tub vim nws yog tsib xyoos laus dua nws tsis xav txog nws txoj kev xav, tias nws yog ib qho ua tau kom tsis muaj kev tawm tsam thiab npaj txhij, qee zaus los rhuav txhua yam, tsuas yog vim " cov neeg yuav xav ... "