Vim li cas ho tsis hais tias yuav tsis raug tua?

Los teb rau lo lus nug : "yog vim li cas cov neeg tsis xav pityed", nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum to taub dab tsi yog vim li cas, yog vim li cas cov neeg xav thov txim rau ib leeg thiab seb puas muaj zoo moments pity.


Vim li cas cov menyuam yaus tsis nyiam ua pitied. Yuav pib nrog, cia pib nrog qhov tseeb tias pity yog txawv. Kuv tsis xav tias tus txiv leej tub yuav xyeej pity ntawm nws tus hluas nkauj thaum nws nyob hauv lub txaj nrog kub li hauv plaub caug. Nrog nws pity tus ntxhais qhia hlub thiab tu nws tus hluas. Tab sis, yog hais tias tus txiv leej tub xav tias nws tus cwj pwm ua txhaum thiab ua rau nws tsis zoo, kuv xav tias tus hluas nkauj ua qhov tsis ncaj ncees rau kev xav txog tus txiv leej tub.

Yog hais tias, tus txiv leej tub ntev ntev tsis nyob hauv nws tus kheej lub neej los yog kev ua haujlwm, thiab lwm tus neeg tsis tuaj yeem ntsia nws tsis mob siab. Tom qab ntawd, koj tuaj yeem piav qhia vim li cas rau qhov teeb meem no rau tus txiv leej tub tsis xav kom tau pitied. Hauv qhov no, pity los ntawm lwm tus neeg, txo nws tus kheej. Ib tug tub hluas tuaj yeem pib xav tias nws yog ib tug neeg tsis muaj tswv yim, uas tsuas muaj kev xav hauv nruab siab xwb - qhov no yog qhov ua siab phem. Thiab yuav ncaj ncees mus rau qhov kawg, nws tsis zoo li nws nyob rau hauv tag nrho, zej zog yeej ntseeg hais tias nws muaj tsis muaj hwj chim los xij.

Xws li pity, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau ib tug txiv neej, nws heev ua rau nws tus kheej thiab txo nws tus kheej. Lawm, thaum nws zoo li koj hais tias koj yog pom tias yog ib yam khoom rau kev hlub, txoj kev xav ntawm qhov no tsis kho.

Yog li no, yog tias koj teb lo lus nug: "vim li cas ho tsis hais tias nyiam pityed". Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias kev hlub tshua qhia tau kev txhawj xeeb thiab kev txhawj xeeb txog ib tug neeg los yog kev tawm tsam, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, ib qho kev xav tsawg dhau ntawm tus neeg ua rau nws hlub nws. Hauv thawj qhov kev tshwm sim, pity tsuas tuaj yeem coj tus cwj pwm zoo xwb. Qhov thib ib yog qhov peev xwm ntawm kev nyuaj siab thiab kev ntxhov siab xwb.

Leej twg yog tus nquag muaj siab hlub . Raws li koj tuaj yeem twv, feem ntau qhov kev txhawj xeeb yog kev paub los ntawm cov poj niam. Cov poj niam feem ntau tsim kev sib raug zoo rau kev ntxhov siab. Kuv tau ntsib ib tug hluas nraug thiab dheev nws muaj pity rau nws. Nyob rau hauv lub taub hau ntawm tus ntxhais instantly tshwm qhov xav tias qhov no yog kev hlub, thiab tsuas nws yuav cawm tau nws tus hlub los ntawm tag nrho cov teeb meem uas tau poob rau nws.

Tab sis, qhov pity uas poj niam pom hauv relation to ib tug txiv leej tub yog ntaus nqi los ntawm kev sib deev muaj zog nyob hauv ntau txoj kev. Tej zaum qhov no: koj tus tub hluas tsis kam ua siab zoo nrog txhua lub hlwb ntawm nws lub cev. Nws ntseeg hais tias nws hlub nws tus kheej, ua rau nws tus kheej saib tsis taus. Pity yog tsuas yog rau qhov raug mob, tsiaj txhu thiab menyuam yaus. Thiab, tus kheej, nws tsis xav hais tias txheeb ib qho ntawm pawg no.

Qhov thib ob xaiv yog tias nws tsis xyeej koj hlub, tej zaum nws cia li ciali rau koj, thiab koj twb invented txhua yam rau koj tus kheej. Txawm li ntawd los, koj khuv xim nws ib zaug, ib zaug ob, ib feem peb. Thiab, txhua zaus koj nrhiav tau ntau lo lus uas nrhiav pov thawj rau hauv qhov teeb meem tshwj xeeb. Thaum kawg, nws hloov tawm tias koj tus tub hluas tau siv rau qhov tseeb tias yog tias koj muaj teeb meem dua, koj tuaj yeem ua siab ntev rau nws thiab ua kom nws tsim nyog. Koj tshem tawm koj lub luag hauj lwm rau cov kev ua tau ua nrog koj txhais tes.

Tiag tiag guys tsis nyiam thov txim, thiab qhov tseeb. Nws yuav zoo nkauj dua rau tus tub ntxhais hluas kom tsis txhob tu siab, tab sis kev txhawb nqa ntawm koj sab. Kev txhawb thiab sib txawv los ntawm kev hlub uas koj tsis qhia hais tias koj txiv leej tub tsis yog tus neeg ua tiav. Ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, siv cov lus thuam thiab ob peb lo lus ntawm kev txhawb nqa, koj yuav tsa sawv ntawm koj tus txiv qhov kev ntshaw los ua kom thiab kov yeej cov koob ntxiv. Nws yuav tsis hloov lub txim rau lwm yam, nws yuav paub txog nws yuam kev, ua haujlwm ntawm kev ua yuam kev thiab sim ua kom nws tus kheej zoo dua.