Yuav ua li cas sib txuas lus nrog ib tus menyuam yaus yav tom ntej?

Thaum pib ntawm xyoo 1990, muaj kev sib txeeb ua rau muaj kev sib txig thaum cov neeg ua haujlwm pib tawm tswv yim nrog tus menyuam uas tsis tau yug me nyuam, vim hais tias kom txog thaum ntawd tus me nyuam tau hais raws li ib tug neeg uas tau hnov ​​thiab to taub txhua yam, nws tsis tau txais. Txawm hais tias, raws li psychologists, tus me nyuam hauv plab yog tsis yog ib tug neeg, tab sis qhov tseeb tias nws tsis yug "huv ntawv" kuj yog qhov tseeb pov thawj. Yuav ua li cas sib txuas lus nrog ib tus menyuam yaus yav tom ntej?

Lub luag haujlwm ntawm tag nrho cov chaw zov me nyuam ntawm niam thiab tus me yog kev npaj rau cov niam txiv rau kev yug me nyuam thiab kev txhawj xeeb ntawm tus me nyuam, nrog rau kev tsim kom muaj kev sib txuas lus, tiv tauj nrog tus me nyuam yav tom ntej. Tiam sis tus cwj pwm li ib nqe lus nug ntawm cov lus nug los ntawm tag nrho cov niam txiv yav tom ntej tsis yog tsis meej. Muaj qee leej xav tias nws yog ib qho kev sib txuas lus nrog ib tug me me tsiaj uas tsis to taub dab tsi tsis tau, thaum lwm tus, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, tsis sib txuas lus nrog tus me nyuam, stroke lub plab thiab tham nrog nws. Thiab qee tus tseem ntseeg hais tias lawv tau nrog lawv tus menyuam tham ua ntej nws tseem ceeb.

Kuv tshaj tawm kom nkag siab hais tias cov neeg uas sib cav hais tias koj tuaj yeem tsim nyog thiab xav tau kev sib txuas lus, sib txuas lus li cas, thiab qhov no qhov kawg yuav cuam tshuam tus me nyuam thiab nws txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog koj.

Cov lus nug tseem ceeb - nrog leej twg sib txuas lus? Ua li no, cia peb pom cov kws txawj hais tias qhov kev tshawb fawb hauv ntau lub teb chaws txog seb tus me nyuam loj hlob zoo li cas. Thiab qhov tseeb pov thawj qhov tseeb hais tias hlwb impulses raug kaw nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam uas tsis muaj ntau tshaj li 6 lub lis piam. Hauv 11 lub lis piam qub tus me nyuam twb tau tshuam tawm rau sab nraud stimuli - teeb, suab, mob, kov. Thiab yog hais tias nws reacts rau lawv, ces nws xav tias lawv. Twb tau, pib los ntawm 5 lub hlis ntawm cev xeeb tub, tus me nyuam twb ua ib tus neeg. Piv txwv, cov me nyuam hnov ​​mob txawv rau sab nraud. Yog tias, piv txwv li, tus me nyuam ntsiag to thiab nyob ntsiag to yog ntshai suab, ces tus me nyuam "nrog tus cwj pwm" yuav npau taws. Koj tuaj yeem tau pom meej meej txog lub ntsej muag ntawm tus me nyuam. Nws qhia meej kiag li txhua tus cwj pwm - quaj, qw, kev zoo siab, kev ntsim siab. Tus me nyuam muaj ib lub pob ntseg zoo, ua tib zoo nco cov nkauj thiab cov lus, thiab nws kuj ua rau nws tus cwj pwm zoo rau nws. Nws muaj nws lub hom phiaj thiab kev hlub. Thiab txawm lawv nyiam ntaus nkauj. Nws muaj pov thawj tias cov menyuam yaus xav suab paj nruag - nqig, lyrical. Twb pib pib ntawm lub hli 6, tus me nyuam pib nquag txav hauv lub plab, nws tsim lub vestibular apparatus. Tshaj lawv cov kev nyiam qab hau, vim hais tias lub sijhawm no twb tsim saj.

Nws puas tsim nyog yuav tsum muaj pov thawj tias muaj tiag tiag yog ib tug txiv neej tiag tiag hauv lub plab uas muaj peev xwm xav, to taub, kev paub, kev hlub. Tab sis qhov no tus me nyuam yaus tsis muaj peev xwm tsuas yog to taub tias lawv sib txuas lus nrog nws, nws txawm tau kev sib txuas lus. Tom qab tag nrho, nws tsis yog yooj yim dua rau ib tug me nyuam kom tiv thaiv nws niam tsis txhob tsaug zog los ntawm kev ncaws pob nquag kom txog thaum leej txiv tso nws tes ntawm nws lub plab. Tus menyuam tuaj yeem thov kev sib tham, taug kev, da dej thiab ntau yam. Thiab nws yeej tsis kam qhia kev sib txuas lus, ib txwm teb rau Niam lus cov lus.

Kuv xav tias nws yog tseeb tias muaj ib tug neeg sib txuas lus nrog. Thiab tam sim no cia peb tham txog kev sib txuas lus li cas. Zoo, nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw, thiab qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb, nrog tus me nyuam uas koj yuav tsum tham. Tom qab tag nrho, lub rooj sib hais loj hlob ua ntej txhua tus paub, thiab tom qab ntawd nws yuav pom koj los ntawm lub suab, ua raws li koj cov lus, thiab tsis xav txog lwm tus neeg. Thiab koj yuav tsum tham nrog nws, raws li nrog ib tug neeg laus thiab txawj ntse neeg. Txoj kev xav tau no feem ntau cuam tshuam txoj kev sib raug zoo tom qab nws yug los. Tom qab yug los, cov me nyuam nrog lawv tham txog ua ntej yug los, hnov ​​cov suab lus, hnov ​​lus tsis zoo, mloog zoo zoo, thiab hais lus tsim tau sai dua cov me nyuam uas niam txiv tsis tau xav txog kev sib txuas lus. Nws yooj yim heev - qhia koj qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb me me uas koj hlub nws thiab tos ntau heev. Thiab dab tsi nws tseem ceeb uas koj tsis tau pom, qhov kev hlub tiag tiag?

Tab sis, ntxiv nrog rau qhov tseeb uas koj tuaj yeem tham nrog koj tus menyuam, koj tuaj yeem hu nkauj rau nws. Tom qab tag nrho, thaum hu nkauj, tus poj niam hais tob tob hauv lub siab thiab, nrog tus me nyuam, paub txog lawv. Yog li, koj muaj feem xyuam nrog koj tus me nyuam. Koj tuaj yeem hu nkauj ua ke, mloog nkauj. Thiab tus kas nws tus kheej yuav qhia rau koj txog nws nyiam, koj tsuas yog xav mloog nws, thiab koj yuav tsum nkag siab yam suab paj nruag nws nyiam thiab tsis ua. Nws muaj peev xwm txawm dance nrog koj.

Muaj ib rooj plaub thaum muaj ib tug tshuab raj los ntawm kev nco ua suab paj nruag, lub suab paj nruag uas tsis paub thiab tsis hnov ​​nws li. Raws li nws muab tom qab ntawd, nws niam kuj yog ib tug neeg nyiam suab paj nruag, thiab thaum nws cev xeeb tub nws hu zaj nkauj no, qhov tseeb, nws lub siab heev. Thiab tus me nyuam nco txog lub suab nkauj no rau nws lub neej, nws zoo li nws hauv nws.

Tab sis yog hais tias tus me nyuam muaj ntau yam rau hauv txhua yam sab hauv, qhov no tsis tuaj yeem raug hu ua menyuam kawm ntawv ua ntej. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog tseeb tias tus me nyuam absorbs ib tug zoo saj, lub sijhawm sib txuas lus, ntau ntxov tshaj nrog leej niam lub mis.

Tom qab tag nrho, peb paub zoo tias tus menyuam loj hlob zoo thaum leej niam ua ub ua no. Thiab thaum koj ua qoj ib ce los yog mus taug kev, koj txuas lus nrog tus me nyuam yav tom ntej. Tom qab tag nrho, nws tseem yuav ua rau lawv, ib yam dab tsi nws yuav nyiam, tab sis ib yam dab tsis.

Thiab thaum twg peb yuav tsum pib txuas lus zoo? Thaum koj kawm txog kev xeeb tub. Thiab ntau zaus nws tshwm sim rau qhov nws tseem tsis tau paub tseeb, thiab koj twb xav tias lub neej tshiab pib hauv koj, koj xav nrog koj lub siab me ntsis lub plawv. Thaum koj sib tham ua ke, saib qhov xwm, zoo nkauj, koj lub siab sib txuas lus, thiab lub sijhawm ntawd yog qhov txuas uas peb hu cov ntshav, uas koj yuav nco ntsoov koj tus menyuam tsis muaj lus.

Peb to taub tag nrho cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev sib txuas lus rau ib tug txiv neej me me, tiam sis qhov kev sib txuas lus no puas pab tau rau cov niam txiv? Tom qab tag nrho, lub cev xeeb tub yuav kav li 9 lub hlis. Nov yog lub sij hawm thaum koj tau siv rau qhov tseeb tias koj tsis nyob ib leeg, kawm mloog, nkag siab koj tus me nyuam, thiab thaum kawg, hlub. Koj tseem tsis tau pom nws, thiab koj tsis tuaj yeem xav tias yam dab tsi los yog plaub hau nws yuav muaj, tab sis twb kawm tau kev to taub thiab hlub nws. Peb kawm tau ua siab ntev thiab qhib rau txhua yam tshiab. Kawm kom ua niam txiv tiag tiag rau ib tus txiv neej me me.