Nws tsis zoo li tias ib tus niam txiv xav kom lawv cov me nyuam mus rau hauv cov khaub ncaws tsis huv, muab khoom tso rau hauv qhov chaw thiab tawm hauv qab nws hauv lub dab ntxuav tais diav. Tab sis kuj yog ironed "nerd" uas tsis ua si nrog cov tub, uas, Vaj tse txwv tsis pub, tsis tau mus rau lub tsho, tsis yog ib qho kev xaiv. Qhov twg yog qhov txhais kub? Yuav ua li cas qhia tus me nyuam kom ua thiab kev qhuab qhia? Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsis pub dhau nws ...?
Ua ntej txhua yam, cia peb kawm saib yog vim li cas peb thiaj li yuav tsum qhia peb cov me nyuam txog dab tsi? Thaum kawg, tag nrho cov neeg sib txawv, kuj muaj tag nrho cov sluts, lawv nyob, heev contented nrog lawv tus kheej. "Thiab tsis nyob ntawm no!" - tus kwv paj hlwb. Muaj tsawg kawg yog ob peb lub hauv paus txheej xwm vim li cas nws thiaj li tsim nyog rau me nyuam kom raug. Ua ntej, TXOG KEV TXHAUM CAI. Tus me nyuam txoj kev xav yog ib qho zoo li nws txoj kev loj hlob tshwm sim los ntawm txhua yam uas nws pom. Yog hais tias nws pom nws tus kheej chaos nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm nws, ces nws txoj kev loj hlob slows down. Qhov thib ob, koj yuav tsum kawm nrog neeg nyob. Lub sijhawm koj lub neej, koj tus menyuam yuav tau ntsib ntau zaus nyob rau hauv lub sijhawm uas nws yuav tsum muaj nyob ntawm ib sab nrog lwm tus neeg. Yuav kom tsis muaj kev txwv tsis pub tiv thaiv koj tus menyuam los ntawm kev tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau npaj txoj kev ua neej kom zoo rau koj tsev neeg. Psychologists txheeb xyuas ob peb lub hauv paus ntsiab lus uas yuav tsum tau ua kom tag nrho tsev neeg kawm txog cov cai ntawm lub hostel.
PRINCIPLE 1: Nyob thiab cia nyob
Cov cai yog yooj yim: yog tias koj nqa ib yam dab tsi - muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw, yog tias koj qhib ib yam dab tsi - kaw nws, thiab yog tias nyob hauv
tsev neeg tsaug zog - tsis txhob suab nrov ... Txij thaum yau, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog qhia tus me nyuam kom tu nws tus kheej.
PRINCIPLE 2: Tsuas yog tus cwj pwm zoo xwb
Tsis txhob rau txim rau tus me nyuam vim nws tsis yog kev nyiam ua rau nws tu siab. Nws yuav ua tau yog tias nws nyiam txhuam cov plag tsev lossis ntxuav tais diav.
Tsis txhob yuam tus me nyuam kom huv, nws yuav tsum rov qab mus rau qhov no: "Kuv ntxuav, vim kuv nyiam nws thaum nws huv."
Tuaj nrog cov duab sib txawv rau kev ntxuav cov khoom ua si (piv txwv, cov khoom ua si muag yuav raug xa mus "lwm lub ntiaj chaw" - hauv ib lub thawv).
Npaj cov kev sib tw (uas muab cov khoom ua si hauv lub thawv kom sai).
TSIS TXHOB TSIS TXAUS SIAB. Txhua tus me nyuam muaj kev ua ub ua no: nws muaj lub peev xwm rau cov laus. Yog li ntawd, nws thiaj li xav pab peb lossis luam peb cov haujlwm. Yog hais tias thaum lub sij hawm ntawd nws hnov tias "Tsis txhob nce!", "Koj tseem me me" lossis "Koj yuav tsis ua tiav", qhov kev cia siab no yuav raug nres ntawm lub hauv paus. Thiab ces koj xav tsis thoob: yog vim li cas nws tub nkeeg? Vim hais tias nws tsim nyog mus ntes lub sij hawm dhau los, thaum nws muab koj nws pab tsis khoom.
PRINCIPLE 3: Txhua yam yuav tsum tau piav qhia
Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muab tus me nyuam piv txwv rau tej yam zoo, tab sis kuj piav qhia vim li cas koj ua. Tsuas yog tom qab ntawd tus me nyuam yuav tswj hwm thiaj tsis mechanically, tab sis kuj consciously.
• Qhia tus menyuam txog plua plav: nws muaj teeb meem (hauv cov plua tshauv nyob hauv cov hmoov av uas ua rau ua xua).
• Piav tias vim li cas koj yuav tsum muab cov khoom tso rau hauv lawv qhov chaw: vim yog thaum lub sij hawm zoo koj yuav tsis pom lawv.
• Vim li cas peb yuav tsum ua txhua yam hauv tib yam li nws yog (kaw lub qhov rooj, tsis txhob qhib ib lub raj tshuaj txhuam hniav)? Vim lwm tus neeg kuj xav ua kom zoo dua qhov no, thiab nws yuav tsis xis nyob.
PRINCIPLE 4: Maintaining order yuav tsum yooj yim
Ntawm chav kawm, ib qho tsis tas yuav tsum tsis tas muaj kev nyiam romanticize tus txheej txheem ntawm txoj kev tsim lub tsev thiab lub cev kom huv: tej yam uas niaj hnub ua thiab tsis tshua muaj nuj nqis rau lawv lub neej. Yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum sim xyuas kom meej tias qhov tseem ceeb ntawm txoj sia yog nyob hauv koj lub neej yam tsawg. Niaj hnub no, qhov zoo, muaj ntau txoj kev rau qhov no. Tshem koj lub tsev kom thiaj li ua tau raws li nws tau yooj yim thiab qab ntxiag:
• Tsis txhob siv cov npog thiab cov tiav uas khaws cov plua plav (ntaub pua plag, ntaub pua plag, ntaub pua plag);
• Khaws cov khoom me me rau hauv txee dai khaub ncaws;
• Tshem tawm cov kab rov tav uas yuav tsum tau so los ntawm hmoov av;
• Tau ntau lub thawv thiab ntim khoom rau me me;
• Tsis txhob cia tag nrho cov me nyuam cov khoom ua si nyob saum npoo av: qee yam ntawm lawv yuav tsum muab zais rau hauv cov txee loj, thiab thaum tus me nyuam twb tsis nco qab lawm, hloov qhov "raug";
• Muab tso rau hauv chav dej, muab ob peb lub tais rau cov khaub ncaws qias neeg: dawb, dub thiab xim - thiab piav qhia rau txhua tsev neeg qhov chaw muab nws tso (qhia kom tus me nyuam hloov pantsies, thom khwm, thiab lwm yam khaub ncaws txhua hnub yog tias nws tuaj qub los ntawm tsw) .
PRINCIPLE 5: Tsis txhob maj
Qhov muaj siab rau kev txiav txim, muaj tshwm sim nyob rau ntawm ib tug me nyuam thaum ntxov, undergoes tag nrho cov hom hloov thiab metamorphoses. Feem ntau cov me nyuam thaum lawv loj hlob tawm ntawm chistyul tig mus rau hauv sluts los yog lwm versa. Qhov no tuaj yeem cuam tshuam los ntawm ntau yam ntawm kev puas hlwb. Tab sis lub ntsiab lus tseem tshuav ib qho: qhov kev tu ncua kom huv thiab kev txiav txim siab yog tsim rau hauv ib tus neeg es tsis lig - los ntawm lub sij hawm ntawm tag nrho cov neeg laus (ntawm 25 xyoos). Yog li, yog hais tias koj tus menyuam nco dheev ("Nws tsis paub qhov twg - peb yeej huv si"), tsis muaj kev coj cwj pwm zoo, tsis txhob ntshai thiab ua kom txhua tus tswb. Yuav luag, yog tias thaum tseem yog menyuam yaus tus me nyuam tau tso cai rau kev noj qab haus huv thiab qhov tseeb, ces, ua ib tug neeg laus, nws yuav rov qab los rau lawv. Cia li txhua yam muaj nws lub sijhawm. Qee lub sij hawm ib tug neeg yuav tsum "zuj zus" qee lub sij hawm nyuab heev: feem ntau qhov teeb meem hauv chav tsev me nyuam yog ib yam khoom ua rau kev ntxhov siab nyob hauv nws lub siab.
Lub rooj ntawv no yuav qhia rau koj paub yuav qhia koj tus menyuam li cas kom thiaj li paub zoo dua.
Hnub nyoog | Tus menyuam yaus ua tau dab tsi | Yuav ua li cas pab nws |
Los ntawm 1 xyoo | ? sau cov khoom ua si khiav ri ? pawg ntawv thiab ntawv magazines ? tus kheej-xa mus rau chav da dej ntub dej panties ? unload lub tshuab ntxhua khaub ncaws (muab khaub ncaws rau hauv phiab) ? kom dai ib lub tsho me me ntawm lub sib tsoo tom qab taug kev | Txhua yam kev ua los sim ua ke nrog tus menyuam, qhia txhua yam thiab piav ntau zaus |
Los ntawm 2 xyoos | ? pab muab tso rau ntawm lub rooj (npaj cov tais diav, nteg tawm tib rab diav rawg thiab rab diav) ? pab nyob rau hauv lub chav ua noj (do mov paj rau pancakes, peel qos yaj ywm nyob rau hauv ib tug Uniform, thiab lwm yam) ? ntxuav lub phaj thiab khob qab koj ? so ib plua plav nrog ib daim ntaub tshwj xeeb ? dej rau sab hauv tsev ? nqa ib lub lauj kaub | Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los muab qhov chaw ntawm tus kheej rau tus me nyuam. Ib chav (los yog kaum tsev nyob hauv) yuav tsum tau teem caij kom txhua yam khoom muaj nws qhov chaw nyob hauv nws, mus yoojyim rau tus me nyuam |
Txij hnub nyoog 4 xyoos | ? kom nteg tawm hauv cov me nyuam cov khoom ua si nws txoj kev nyiam thiab zoo nkaus li zoo nkauj (tsis txhob cuam tshuam nws thiab tsis yaum nws lub siab nyiam) ? ntxuav hauv cov phom lawv cov khoom me me: khaub hlab, thom khwm, khawm panties ? Nqus thiab ncab hauv pem teb nrog lub pas | Tus me nyuam tsim thaum zoo nkauj: thaum lub hnub nyoog no nws tseem ceeb rau nws txog qhov chaw nyob ib puag ncig. Saib koj lub tsev. |
Los ntawm hnub nyoog 7 | ? muaj cov dej num hauv vaj hauv tsev (piv txwv, saib xyuas cov nroj tsuag hauv tsev, so plua plav hauv koj chav, ntxuav lub dab ntxuav muag hauv chav dej) ? ntawm nws tus kheej saib xyuas lawv (saib xyuas cov khaub ncaws huv, xa tuaj rau hauv cov khaub ncaws tsis huv) ? tau noj cov zaub mov yooj yooj yim (khov khov, zaub xam lav) | Txhob cem tus menyuam yog nws ua tsis tiav. Muab nws ntau dua kev ywj pheej. Txij nkawm ntawm kev txiav txim yuav tsum tau ntaus nqi zog ua haujlwm. |
Txij hnub nyoog 12 xyoos | ? tswj kev txiav txim nyob rau hauv cov cheeb tsam (chav dej, lub vev tas, kev hauv tsev, chav pw) ? ntxuav koj chav koj tus kheej | Nws yog qhov yooj yim tshaj plaws los npaj ib sab hauv thiab yuav ib qho txheej txheem zoo. |
LITTLE HITS.
Tiv thaiv tus me nyuam los ntawm kev tu plaub hau kom tsis txhob muaj tsev nyob ib leeg, nws yog qhov zoo dua los ua ib ke: ib lub tshuab nqus tsev, ntxuav lub hauv av, thias peb tawm ntawm hmoov av, thiab lwm yam. Los ntawm txoj kev, nws tseem yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov neeg laus los txais yuav qhov kev coj ua zoo no thiab tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam tag nrho cov teeb meem nyob hauv tsev ntawm lub tsev nyob.
Txhawm rau sim lawv tes ntawm kev ua neej nrog lwm tus neeg thiab tsis cuam tshuam nrog lawv, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau tus me nyuam thaum muaj hnub nyoog 10-12 mus xyuas cov menyuam yaus chaw pw hav zoov. Feem ntau cov me nyuam rov qab los ntawm cov laus thiab ntau dua.
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