Nws txhais li cas kom npaj txhij mus kawm ntawv?
Cov niam txiv yuav tsum to taub tias kev npaj rau tsev kawm tsis yog qhia txog kev loj hlob ntawm lawv tus me nyuam, tab sis, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho, ib theem ntawm nws tus kheej psycho-physiological maturity. Tau, nws muaj peev xwm nyeem tau ntawv, sau ntawv thiab txawm tias daws tau teeb meem, tab sis tsis npaj txhij mus kawm ntawv. Rau qhov kev nkag siab zoo, cia peb kho cov kab lus "tsev kawm ntawv kev npaj" rau "npaj txhij rau kev kawm." Yog li ntawd, npaj rau kev kawm muaj ob peb yam, thiab nws tsis muaj peev xwm hais tias lawv yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - nws yog nyob rau hauv lub complex uas lawv txiav txim siab qhov kev npaj. Cov kws kho mob tau txhais cov cuab yeej ua raws li nram no:
• Tus me nyuam xav kawm (motivational).
• Tus menyuam tuaj yeem kawm tau (qhov loj hlob ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm lub siab lub ntsws, kev txawj ntse ntawm kev loj hlob).
Ntau tus niam txiv nug: "Puas muaj me nyuam xav kawm?" Thaum muaj qee txoj kev loj hlob, raws li txoj cai, thaum muaj hnub nyoog 7, tus me nyuam muaj kev txawj ntse los yog kev kawm kev xav, xav ua kom tau ib txoj hauj lwm tshiab hauv zej zog, los ua neeg laus dua. Yog hais tias los ntawm lub sijhawm no nws tsis tau tsim cov duab tsis zoo ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv (ua tsaug rau cov "niam txiv" uas ua rau txhua tus menyuam yuam kev mus txog qhov kawg: "Yuav ua li cas koj yuav mus kawm tom tsev kawm ntawv?!"), Ces nws xav mus kawm ntawv. "Yog, nws yeej xav mus kawm ntawv," yuav luag txhua tus niam txiv hais ntawm kev xam phaj. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub tus me nyuam lub tswv yim txog tsev kawm ntawv kom nkag siab tias vim li cas nws xav mus rau qhov ntawd.
Feem ntau ntawm cov me nyuam teb li no:
• "Kuv yuav ua si ntawm qhov kev hloov" (qhov kev tawm tsam prevails);
• "Kuv yuav tswj xyuas ntau tus phooj ywg tshiab" (twb tau "sov", tab sis nyob deb ntawm kev kawm ntawv);
• "Kuv yuav kawm" (yuav luag "kub").
Thaum ib tug me nyuam "xav kawm," lub tsev kawm ntawv nws txhawb nws lub sijhawm los kawm tej yam tshiab, kom paub ua raws li nws tsis paub. Cov kws txawj ntsib ntawm kev sib tham thiab cov me nyuam yaus uas tsis paub dab tsi lawv yuav ua hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau cov niam txiv xav txog seb tus menyuam puas npaj txhij mus kawm ntawv .
Dab tsi yog qhov loj hlob ntawm lub siab ntsws xav tsis muaj zog
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov niam txiv tsis to taub tsuas yog to taub xwb, tab sis paub tseeb tias kev kawm tsis ua si, tab sis ua haujlwm. Tsuas yog ib tus xib fwb muaj kev txawj ntse tuaj yeem tsim qhov chaw kawm ntawv ua si uas tus me nyuam yuav nyiam thiab nyiam kawm. Feem ntau, nws yog ib qho tseemceeb uas yuav tsum tau tso siab rau koj "xav" thiab ua qhov yog. Kev vam meej ntawm qhov siab ntsws xav muaj peev xwm pom tau hais tias muaj peev xwm no, nrog rau tus me nyuam lub peev xwm los tuav lub sijhawm ntev.
Qhov no yuav tsum ntxiv thiab tus me nyuam txoj kev npaj kawm qee cov cai, ua raws li cov cai thiab ua raws li qhov tsim nyog. Lub tsev kawm ntawv tsoomfwv tseem yog nyob rau hauv nws txoj hauv kev, kev cai tswj tsis tu ncua uas tsis sib haum rau cov kev ntshaw, thiab qee zaus qhov kev cia siab ntawm tus menyuam, tab sis cov ua tiav yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev hloov tau zoo.
Kev vam meej ntawm ib tus menyuam hauv tsev kawm yog nyob ntawm seb nws "txawj ntse" li cas. Qhov no yog hais txog kev muaj peev xwm txhim kho nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo, sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg laus thiab cov phooj ywg. Raws li qhov ntsuas no, lawv raug xa mus hais tias "pawg neeg muaj teeb meem" paub txaj muag, txaj muag, txaj muag me nyuam. Kev hloov tsis txau rau lub tsev kawm yog ncaj nraim nrog rau kev ywj pheej ntawm tus me nyuam - ntawm no hauv "pawg txaus ntshai" yuav tsum yog cov me nyuam muaj kev txawj ntse dhau.
"Nws ntse heev nrog peb - nws yuav tawm tsam nrog txhua yam!"
Feem ntau cov niam txiv hauv kev txawj ntse nkag siab txog qee qhov kev paub thiab kev txawj ntse, uas nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev los sis lwm tus raug tso rau hauv tus menyuam. Intellect yog, thawj zaug ntawm txhua yam, kev muaj peev xwm siv koj cov txuj ci, kev txawj thiab kev txawj ntse, thiab ntau yam ntxiv - kev muaj peev xwm kawm. Qhov tseeb tiag, cov menyuam uas nyeem ntawv zoo ntseeg tias nyob hauv thawj qib kawm lawv saib xyuas zoo dua li cov phooj ywg, tiam sis xws li "kev txawj ntse" tsuas yog ib qho tsis pom kev. Thaum cov "preschool reserves" raug sab nraud, tus menyuam los ntawm qhov kev vam meej yuav yog qhov lag luam, vim hais tias kev kawm tsis tau muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv nws los ntawm kev ua hauj lwm kom muaj zog thiab tsim nws txoj kev kawm. Cov me nyuam yaus tsis muaj lub hnab nqa khoom, tab sis leej twg tau npaj txhij thiab yooj yim kawm tau, caum nrog kev txaus siab thiab zeal, thiab tom qab dhau lawv cov phooj ywg.
Ua ntej koj qhia me nyuam nyeem ntawv zoo, koj yuav tsum txiav txim siab seb tus menyuam paub ua li cas thiaj mloog thiab qhia. Raws li cov rooj sib tham ntawm cov kws paub txog cov kws kho mob nrog cov menyuam kawm qib ib yav dhau los, lawv feem coob tsis paub yuav ua li cas, muaj cov lus me me thiab tuaj yeem rov hais dua txawm tias cov ntawv me me. Tsis tas li ntawd, feem ntau cov menyuam yaus muaj teebmeem rau kev ua kom tau zoo, thiab qhov tseeb ntawm thawj chav kawm yog ib daim ntawv thiab ib qho loj heev ntawm txhais tes thiab cov ntiv tes.
Yuav pab koj tus menyuam li cas
• Ua kom pom cov duab zoo ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv ("xyuas kom paub ntau yam khoom xyaw," "koj yuav zoo li tus neeg laus," thiab tau: "Peb yuav yuav ib daim ntawv zoo nkauj, ib daim ntawv" ...).
• Qha cov miv nyuas rua tsev qha ntawv. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb ntawm lo lus: coj nws muaj, qhia hoob kawm, chav noj mov, gym, chav rau khoom.
• Ua ntej kom tus me nyuam mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv lub zog (xyaum thaum lub caij ntuj sov mus nce rau lub tswb moos, xyuas kom nws muaj peev xwm pib tau lub txaj, hnav khaub ncaws, ntxuav, sau cov khoom tsim nyog).
• Ua si nrog nws hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ib txwm nrog kev hloov pauv. Cia nws los ua ib tug thwj tim, thiab koj - tus xib fwb thiab lwm tus lwm tus).
• Sim ua si tag nrho cov kev ua si raws li cov cai. Sim qhia tus menyuam tsis yog los ntawm nws tus kheej xwb (nws paub nws yuav ua li cas nws tus kheej), tab sis kuj yuav poob (kho nws cov kev ua yuam kev thiab yuam kev txaus).
• Nco ntsoov nyeem cov dab neeg, cov lus hais, nrog rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, rau tus menyuam, cia lawv rov qab, ua ke, xav paub seb nws yuav nrog nws li cas, nrog koj tus kheej kev nco.
• Saib xyuas nws lub caij sov so thiab kev noj qab haus huv ntawm tus me nyuam qib ib yav tom ntej. Ib tug me nyuam muaj zog tuaj yeem yooj yim dua kev nyuab siab ntsws.
Lub tsev kawm ntawv tsuas yog theem ntawm lub neej xwb, tab sis yuav ua li cas koj tus me nyuam yuav sawv ntsug li nws, nws nyob ntawm seb nws yuav ua li cas thiaj li muaj peev xwm kov yeej tau. Yog li no, thawj zaug nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev los txiav txim siab txog tus me nyuam txoj kev npaj kawm ntawv thiab kho cov teeb meem uas twb muaj lawm.