Ua rau koj ntshai
Qhov tseeb, cov kab lus uas nws ntshai hais tias ua rau kev ua tiav zoo yog qhov tseeb qhov tseeb. Tiam sis txhua tus neeg ntshai ntshai, txawm tias ntiaj teb cov hnub qub, hais rau ntau txhiab tus neeg. Tus tshaj plaws yog, nws ua raws li kev ntshai. Lub siab xav muab tso rau hauv ib qho pom tsis pom lossis ua pov thawj rau kuv tus kheej tias kuv yuav kov yeej tau kuv txoj kev xav. Txoj kev ntshai me me pub rau peb lub cev los ua adrenaline, uas ua rau lub cev muaj peev xwm, uas txhais tau hais tias peb pib qhia peb cov kev xav thiab hais lus zoo dua. Thiaj li ntshai me ntsis, nws tseem pab tau. Tab sis yog tias qhov ntshai tseem tsis xav kom thim txoj cai, ces nws yuav tsum tau mus nrog.
Tso koj hais lus
Nws yog ntshaw tias kev npaj rau kev nthuav qhia yog kawm los ntawm kev paub, sawv cev rau cov neeg tuaj saib tom ntej. Cia lawv nug cov lus nug tsis xis nyob, sim ntes koj ntawm cov ntsiab lus yuav luag. Thaum koj muaj qhov teeb meem tiag tiag, koj yuav paub tseeb tias yuav teb li cas.
Sau tej yam xwm txheej uas tsim teeb meem loj tshaj plaws rau koj. Cov ntawv tsis nco qab lawm, qhov xaub tsis yog los ntawm qhov kev nthuav qhia, rov xyaum txog cov sij hawm no thiab txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej, yog vim li cas rau koj txhais tsis tau-qhov kev txiav txim los ntawm cov tub ceev xwm, kev thuam koj tus kheej?
Ntsuas koj txoj kev ntshai kom zoo dua, nws yuav tsis yog qhov phem heev. Leej twg tsis tau txais kev chim siab npau taws, leej twg ua tsis tau qhov txawv ntawm lub neej?
Ua rau koj tus kheej ntws
Boring, tsis nthuav, monotonous ntawv - qhov no yog thawj kauj ruam mus tsis ua hauj lwm. Cov neeg tuaj saib, uas tsis kam mloog, pib ua rau cov lus tsis txaus siab thiab tus neeg hais lus tawm ntawm nws tus kheej.
Yuav kom tsis txhob muaj qhov no nws tsim nyog:
- Cim rau cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb hauv kev hais lus. Ua qhov tseem ceeb ntawm lub suab, ua kom pom ntawm cov ntawv sau, uas nyob hauv koj lub tswv yim zoo li qhov tseem ceeb. Koj tuaj yeem, piv txwv, qhia zaj dab neeg ntawm lub neej, uas muaj feem xyuam nrog lub ntsiab lus ntawm tsab ntawv ceeb toom, yog tias, ntawm chav kawm, tso cai rau qhov kev tshwm sim ntawm qhov kev tshwm sim.
- Them mloog rau namamiku. Nws yuav tsum nyob, tab sis tsis yog faked. Tib yam siv rau lub kzhestikuljatsii, koj ua tau nws mus rau hauv kev hais lus, lub ntsiab tshaj plaws yog tsis tau overdo nws.
- Tab sis koj ntshai ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib tsis tuaj yeem pom. Ntshai yog nyeem nyob rau hauv ib nrais muag uas khiav tsis ntsej muag nyob rau hauv chav tsev, li tab tom nrhiav rau ib tug txuag straw. Yuav zam tau qhov no, xaiv ib qho ntawm cov neeg muaj hmoo thiab saib nws. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws, yog tias nws yuav zaum hauv qhov chaw, ces koj yuav tau txais lub tswv yim tias koj muaj kev sib tham nrog txhua tus nyob hauv kev nrog.
Sau cov lus hais yog
Tus cwj pwm tsis pab, yog hais tias nws yog los ntawm ib qho kev tho txawv.
Cov ntawv nyeem yuav tsum tau tawg tuaj:
Taw qhia (txog vim li cas koj feem ntau txiav txim siab tawm ntawm tus nqi thiab siv sij hawm me ntsis los ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib);
Lub ntsiab tseem ceeb (qhov essence of your speech);
Xaus lus (kev txiav txim siab uas tshwm sim los ntawm koj hais lus).
Txhua qhov chaw yuav tsum sib txuas nrog txhua qhov sib luag thiab khiav tawm ntawm ib qho ntawm lwm yam yuav luag tsis txaus siab.
Yog hais tias lub ntsiab lus ntawm koj daim ntawv qhia tsis ua txuj ua ib zaj dab neeg txaus siab, tom qab ntawd muab nws tso nrog txoj kev tso dag, aphorisms. Cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb piav qhia hom lus yooj yooj yim, muab cov kev sib piv, koj siv tau rau qhov no. Cov kev sib piv yog zoo dua qub nyob hauv kev nco.
Cov tswv yim yuav tsum yog luv luv, tsis muaj overloaded. Tus txiv neej yooj yim kwv yees plaub feem ntawm cov ntaub ntawv, yog li tseem ceeb xav rov ua ntau qhov ntawm cov ntawv nyeem.
Tsis txhob hnov qab txog cov ntaub ntawv ntawm cov ntaub ntawv, uas tseem tshuav cov neeg tuaj saib.
Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, lub ntsiab lus ntawm tsab ntawv ceeb toom yuav tsum muaj kev lom zem, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho rau koj, thiab tom qab ntawd ces tus cwj pwm zoo no yeej yuav dhau mus rau cov neeg tuaj saib.