Qhov tseeb, txog kev teeb tsa lub rooj rau thawj hnub yug ntawm tus menyuam, thiab qhov tseeb yuav ua li cas npaj ib hnub so, ntau tus neeg sau thiab hais. Yog li txhua yam yog ua kom haum rau koj tus me nyuam thiab lwm tus neeg cov me nyuam, nws tsis nyuaj txhua. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tias thawj hnub so no tau nco txog. Nyob rau ib hnub no nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias qhov no yog kev ua koob tsheej. Tsis tas li ntawd, nco ntsoov tias cov me nyuam yaus mus rau ib lub hnub yug rau koj tus me nyuam, uas txhais tau hais tias koj yuav tsis tau tos kom muaj kev thaj yeeb. Qhov tseeb, koj tuaj yeem them rau cov laus thiab cov ntawv cim tseg. Tiamsis, hnub ntawd, hnub no yuav txawv licas? Tom qab tag nrho, thawj xyoo, thawj hnub yug tog yuav tsum nco ntsoov los ntawm txhua tus neeg. Tiam sis, koj tus me nyuam tseem tsis muaj lub sijhawm los nco nws, tiamsis, txawm li cas los xij, cov txheeb ze thiab cov phooj ywg yuav nco nws ntev heev thiab piav dab neeg rau nws.
Yog li, qhov no yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau kev ua koob tsheej rau thawj hnub so no? Yuav ua li cas los pw lub rooj, dab tsi xav rau cov me nyuam? Ua ntej, npaj kom cov me nyuam tuaj rau koj thiab txhua yam yuav tsum tsis txhob saib tsis zoo li koj xav tau. Cov me nyuam yuav tau zaum ntawm lawv lub rooj zaum, vim lawv nco qab txog lawv niam thiab txiv thiab txiav txim siab coj lawv tus kheej. Tiam sis thaum lawv pib xav hauv tsev, saib ncig, noj thiab noj, ces nws yuav nyuaj rau cov neeg laus coj lawv mus rau lawv txoj kev xav thiab xyuas kom tseeb tias tom qab lawv ua si hauv lub tsev muaj tag nrho cov rooj tog thiab khoom sab laug.
Yuav kom tiv thaiv tau qhov no los ntawm kev tshwm sim, koj tsuas yog xav tau los ntawm tag nrho cov ntsiab lus los ntawm qhov pib heev thiab npaj qhov kev zov me nyuam. Tau kawg, koj, niam txiv, yuav tsum ua li no. Ntxiv mus, nws yog koj uas yuav tau noj cov hmoov txhuas. Yog tias koj yuav saib xyuas hnub so thiab saib xyuas tag nrho cov me nyuam, koj tuaj yeem tswj cov kev tsis zoo, thiab feem ntau paub txaj muag, koom hauv kev sib tw thiab ua kom lawv dim.
Tam sim no cia peb tham txog yuav ua li cas ntsib cov tub ntxhais hluas. Ua ntej, tsis txhob hnov qab tias koj tus menyuam lub hnub yug yog menyuam lub hnub so. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog los xaiv nws rau nruab hnub. Sim ua kom muaj sijhawm ua txhua yam ua ntej tuaj txog ntawm cov qhua. Cov neeg laus no tuaj yeem tos ntsiag to tos, haus npias thiab sib tham hauv chav ua noj, thiab menyuam yaus yuav tsum ua kev zoo siab, yog li tsis txhob tos lawv. Ntsib cov me nyuam nrog tus me nyuam nyob hauv lawv cov caj npab. Lawv yuav tsum to taub tias lawv tuaj txog hnub so rau koj tus menyuam thiab nws tsis tseem ceeb uas nws tseem hluas heev. Yog tias koj ua txhua yam koj tus kheej, ces, cov me nyuam tau txais lub tswv yim tias koj tus me nyuam tsis koom nrog hnub so, thiab lawv yuav tsis them nyiaj rau nws. Yog tias lawv yuav pom thiab nco ntsoov tias qhov no yog menyuam tub hnub yug, ces cov me nyuam yuav ua si ua ke, lom zem koj tus me nyuam thiab mloog nws.
Raws li lub rooj festive, nws yuav tsum tau txais kev pab kom cov me nyuam tseem muaj chaw rau qhov kev ua si. Yog tias koj muaj lub tsev loj, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom muab rooj rau hauv ib chav, thiab qhov thib ob coj mus ua si. Yog li, cov neeg laus yuav txawj tham tsawg kawg me ntsis, thiab cov me nyuam yuav ua si thiab muaj kev lom zem ua ke. Xwb, nws yog ntshaw kom cov chav nyob ze. Yog li, koj tsis tas yuav khiav ncig lub tsev txhua lub sijhawm los saib. Yog txhua yam zoo nrog cov me nyuam. Tab sis koj yuav tsum tau ua li no, vim, raws li koj paub, cov me nyuam no yeej tsis tuaj yeem tawm mus tsis tau ntev ntev.
Yog hais tias cheeb tsam tsis pub, sim muab cov lus tso rau qhov chaw nyob ze ntawm phab ntsa kom tawm ntau qhov chaw ntau li ntau tau. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias cov me nyuam xav tau chaw. Yog tias koj quab yuam cov chav nrog cov rooj zaum thiab lwm cov rooj tog, ua si, cov menyuam tuaj yeem raug mob. Lawv tseem tsis paub yuav ua li cas tswj lawv tus kheej, yog li ntawd, thaum lub sij hawm qhov kev ua si lawv muaj peev xwm dhia on cov rooj zaum, muab lawv tus kheej bruises thiab tau abrasions. Thiab koj ib txwm tsis xav kom nws txhua. Yog li, sim npaj cov chaw kom raug.
Tam sim no peb mus ncaj qha mus rau qhov teeb meem ntawm lub rooj thiab cov khoom noj. Nco ntsoov tias koj cov qhua yog cov me nyuam, yog li ntawd cov tais diav yuav tsum tsis txhob tsuas yog cov cua, tab sis kuj nthuav thiab zoo nkauj. Yog tias koj ua raws li ob peb yam kev cai yooj yim, tag nrho cov me nyuam yuav muaj kev zoo siab thiab zoo siab. Yog li, muab tso rau ib lub rooj thiab cov tog zaum, xyuas kom tseeb tias cov menyuam tsis tag yuav tsum sib dho. Yog hais tias lub rooj tsis yog deb ntawm lub sideboard, tam sim ntawd tau txais tag nrho cov tsim nyog lauj kaub tais diav, yog li koj tsis tas yuav cuam tshuam cov qhua thaum lub sij hawm kev ua koob tsheej. Thaum cov me nyuam sawv ntawm lub rooj ua si, tshem cov phiaj thiab rab diav rawg. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias cov menyuam yaus ua haujlwm heev, yog li ntawd, lawv tuaj yeem ua txhaum los yog poob rau ntawm lawv tus kheej. Yog li, koj yuav muaj kev nyab xeeb rau menyuam yaus thiab cov kev pabcuam. Thiab thaum lawv xav noj mov, ntxuav cov khoom siv huv.
Daim ntawv qhia rau cov hnub caiv zoo dua faib rau ntau qhov chaw. Piv txwv, thaum pib, koj tuaj yeem pab khoom noj thiab khoom noj txom ncauj. Tom qab ntawd, siv sijhawm so uas koj tuaj yeem tuav ntau txoj kev lom zem rau menyuam. Tom qab ntawd, koj tuaj yeem ua haujlwm kub. Tom qab sov, cia cov me nyuam ua si txaus thiab khiav mus ua zaub mov noj, thiab ib qho chaw rau khoom noj qab zib nyob hauv plab. Ntawm chav kawm, tom qab dessert, koj muaj peev xwm kuj tuav ob peb sib tw, npaj ib tug kev hais kwv txhiaj, feem ntau, siab rau cov me nyuam thiab tawm lawv nrog zoo nco txog hnub so.
Los ntawm txoj kev, ua ntej yuav npaj cov tais diav, nws yuav zoo dua yog tias cov me nyuam muaj kev ua xua rau qee yam khoom. Yog tias muaj teeb meem li no, nws zoo dua rau tshem tawm cov tais diav los ntawm daim ntawv qhia zaub mov tag nrho. Rau cov me nyuam nws tsis yog thuam tias ib txhia neeg yuav noj ib yam dab tsi, lwm leej lwm tus ua tsis tau.
Thiab lub xeem, nyob rau ntawm menyuam yaus hnub so nws tsis tas yuav txhawj txog ntau ntau vim hais tias ntawm cov lus qhia thiab nthuav tawm cov khoom siv raws li tag nrho cov cai. Cov me nyuam yuav muaj ntau daim hlau, rab diav, thiab rab phom. Txhua yam koj yuav tsum tau txiav yog txiav koj tus kheej ua ntej. Yog li, koj yuav thaiv cov me nyuam thiab tsis txhob ntshai lawv nrog xaiv ntau ntawm cov khoom siv uas lawv tsuas siv tsis tau.