Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob muaj teeb meem ntawm ib tug txiv neej thiab ib tug poj niam? Kom teb tau lo lus nug no koj yuav tsum to taub nws ua ntej. Thiab yog li ntawd, cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam xav tau ntau txoj hauv kev, lawv muaj cov tswv yim txawv thiab, raws li qhov lawv ua.
Yog tias ib tug txiv neej xav txog thiab ua ntau yam ntxiv, tus poj niam hauv qhov xwm txheej no yuav ua rau ntau tus cwj pwm thiab kev xav. Tsis tas li ntawd, yog vim li cas rau qhov tsis sib haum xeeb no tsis sib hwm, sib koom siab sib pab, sib txawv ntawm lo lus "kev hlub". Rau ib tug neeg, kev hlub yog kev sib deev kev sib deev, thiab rau ib tug neeg - kev sib raug zoo ntawm sab ntsuj plig, kev phooj ywg. Nws tseem ceeb yog teev tias feem ntau cov kev sib cav tshwm sim los ntawm kev txhaum ntawm cov poj niam, raws li lawv tau sim ua "kev quab yuam" los yog "kua zaub ntsuab". Txiv neej muaj feem ntau yuav nrhiav txoj hauv kev tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem no.
Thaum ib tug txiv neej muaj teeb meem, nws pib xav nyuaj li cas los daws tau lawv, nws mus "hauv nws tus kheej" thiab txhua yam puag ncig nws raug thawb mus rau tom qab. Tus poj niam pom txog qhov no thiab pib nrhiav teeb meem ntawm nws tus kheej, pib xav tias nws tsis txaus siab, nws xav tawm nws, thiab lwm yam. Thiab ces dab tsi? Ces nws sim kom paub nws tag nrho tawm! Kev tsis pom zoo pib pib, kev nug thiab ua tib zoo rau cov sij hawm thaum nws xav tau ib leeg. Dab tsi yog nws cov tshuaj tiv thaiv? Nws yuav tsis nyiam nws, thiab nws yuav ua txhua yam hauv nws lub siab, ua rau nws tsis sib haum xeeb, hais tias nws tu siab thiab nws tseem nyob nws ib leeg xwb. Tus txiv neej yuav daws tau tag nrho nws tej hauj lwm, so thiab rov qab yuav npaj kom nws cov neeg txheeb los hauv nws lub neej ...
Dab tsi lwm cov poj niam, cov neeg uas tsis xav tias tsim nyog rau nyam koj lub taub hau los yog cov neeg uas muaj kev ntseeg siab? Lawv pib xyaum lawv tus kheej, mus rau qhov chaw sib txawv, yuav ntau ntau yam thiab ntau yam ntxiv rau lawv txoj kev lom zem. Lawv mus nrog cov phooj ywg nyob rau hauv txhua hom chaw lom ze. Lawv tsis xav txog qhov yuav tshwm sim, tsis txhob txhaws lawv taub hau nrog kev xav tsis zoo. Thiab thaum ib tug txiv neej npaj siab them nqi rau nws tus thib ob ib nrab, nws tshwm ua ntej nws nyob twj ywm, so. Thiab nws qhia caress thiab kev saib xyuas rau ib tug txiv neej thaum nws xav tau nws. Thiab txhua yam zoo rau lawv.
Yuav kho li cas? Tiv thaiv tus kheej thiab sim kom paub tias tus txiv neej tau tshwm sim los yog "mus nrog cov ndlwg" thiab tos kom txog thaum txhua yam raug txiav txim siab?
Koj yuav tsum to taub thiab muaj kev hlub, muaj peev xwm twv tau lub sij hawm thaum koj tus neeg nyob ib leeg yuav tsum nyob ib leeg xwb, thiab qhov no tsis yog vim tus poj niam tsis txaus siab rau nws, tsis yog, yog txiv neej raug teem kom muaj, lwm txoj kev lawv pom tias nyuaj rau daws lawv cov teeb meem. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv ib qho nyuaj teeb meem yuav tsum nyob ze thiab yog hais tias koj xav hais lus ces yuav tau mloog ntsiag to, ces rau nws ib nrab ntawm qhov teeb meem yuav daws tau, vim hais tias tom qab sib tham nws poob twb tias qhov xwm txheej tseem ceeb. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab txog koj tus kheej, muab koj tus kheej so, tso rau koj tus kheej.
Tsis muaj ib qho teeb meem hauv kev muaj teeb meem, ib qho tsis tuaj yeem ua kom lwm tus neeg, txhob ua txhaum. Txawm hais tias koj paub tias koj yeej yog qhov tseeb, sim ua lub ntsej muag luag thiab pom tias qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb ploj lawm.
Yuav kom tsis txhob muaj teeb meem, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum tau mloog ib leeg, hwm cov kev xav ntawm lawv tus hlub thiab, ntawm chav kawm, nrhiav kev tsis txaus siab. Tej zaum qhov no yog qhov nyuaj tshaj plaws hauv kev sib raug zoo, tab sis tsuas yog koj muaj peev xwm tsim kev sib raug zoo los ntawm koj tus kheej, yog tias koj xaiv.