Nws yog tsim nyog them nqi rau qhov tseeb tias yog ib tug me nyuam thaum siv lo lus tsis zoo thiab tsis nco qab txog nws, ces ntshai yuav tsum tsis txhob tsa. Xws li ib lub sij hawm yuav tsum tau sib npaug nrog randomness. Tab sis yog tias koj pheej xav txog qhov tseeb tias cov lexicon feem ntau siv cov lus tsis txaus ntseeg, nws yog qhov zoo tsim nyog rau qhov teeb meem no. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev nkag siab txog qhov teeb meem thiab kho nws.
Qhov no tuaj yeem tshwm sim li cas?
Tus me nyuam, zoo li ib daim txhuam cev, nqus txhua yam puag ncig nws, txhua qhov chaw uas muaj tam sim no yog ib qho piv txwv rau nws tus cwj pwm ntxiv. Thiab thaum tus me nyuam tsis muaj qhov sib txawv, zoo yog ib qho piv txwv los yog ib qho tsis zoo. Tom qab lub hnub nyoog me me tsis muaj peev xwm tsim tau ib hom lim ntawm cov lus zoo los yog phem. Cov ntsiab lus uas koj tus me nyuam hnov tau hauv TV, hauv ib zaj yeeb yaj kiab lossis hauv ib zaj yeeb yaj kiab uas cov niam txiv tau saib tsis tas mloog cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov lus. Cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov ntsiab lus nthuav tawm tau ua ib qib kindergarten, uas tus me nyuam mus, thiab kev hais lus ntawm niam txiv lawv tus kheej.
Feem ntau, cov niam txiv raug ceeb toom siv txhua hom lus zoo nkauj. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, lawv ua tsis tiav, tias lawv cov menyuam ua rau lawv xav txog. Tawm los ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias cov me nyuam nyiam heev ntawm kev ua cov laus, cov lus tshiab uas lawv hnov pib pib nkag rau hauv tus me nyuam hais lus.
Cov lus tsis zoo kuj muaj xws li qias neeg, nrog rau cov lus ntxhib los ntawm kev hais lus phem thiab kev ua phem. Rau cov lus-kab xev nws muaj peev xwm xa mus rau cov lus hais tias cov lus tshaj tawm, uas yog tag nrho tawm ntawm qhov chaw hauv cov me nyuam hais lus. Cov lus zoo li no nws muaj peev xwm muab ib qho piv txwv: "txias", "wow" thiab hais txog.
Vim li cas tus me nyuam pib ua hauj lwm nrog cov kab lus tsis tau ntsej muag?
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau cov me nyuam siv cov lus los yog cov lus hais hauv lawv cov lus, thiab tib lub sij hawm, cov lus qhia ntawm cov neeg zov menyuam los yog cov niam txiv tsis tuaj yeem pab txhua yam, los yog lawv raug ncua sij hawm luv luv. Tab sis lo lus ntawm uncultured keeb kwm yog rov qab rau cov lus ntawm tus me nyuam, uas twb consciously siv lawv nyob rau hauv nws hais lus. Cov laj thawj uas tus me nyuam pib qhia lawv tus kheej yog ntau heev, tab sis yog hais tias lawv tuaj yeem txheeb tau, qhov teeb meem yuav raug tshem tawm yooj yim dua thiab nyob rau lub sij hawm luv luv.
Nws ntseeg tias cov menyuam tsis tau muaj hnub nyoog tsib xyoos siv cov lus ntawm lawv lub siab tsis paub, lawv tsis to taub lawv lub ntsiab lus thiab paub tias lawv yog cov cwj pwm coj txawv txawv rau cov me nyuam yaus, cov niam txiv qhov kev xav tau tseem ceeb heev thaum lawv hnov cov lus tsis muaj tseeb. Nws tsis tuaj yeem tsim kom muaj kev tshwm sim zoo li no, qhov tshwm sim yuav tsum tsim nyog txaus.
Tag nrho cov me nyuam, siv cov lus hauv kev hais lus, tos rau cov neeg laus, yog tias lawv muaj peev xwm nyiam mloog ib txoj hauv kev los sis lwm qhov. Nws muaj peev xwm hais tias koj tus me nyuam yuav xav pom los ntawm koj raws nraim li kev sib ntaus sib tua. Thiab thaum muaj xwm txheej tshwm sim, tus me nyuam yuav tsis poob siab rau cov lus no. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los piav tias koj, piv txwv, chim siab thaum koj hnov cov lus me me ntawm koj tus me tub los sis tus ntxhais. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias koj tsis tuaj yeem ua phem rau cov lus phem.
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog tsib xyoos, cov menyuam yaus txawj ntse ntau dua thiab npaj siab kom to taub tias thaum koj piav qhia cov lus no zoo li cas los yog hnov lus, tus menyuam yuav xav tias txhaum, yog hais tias, tom qab koj cov lus, nws tseem qhia nws tus kheej vseravno. Yog li, yog tias tus me nyuam tsis siv los siv lo lus ntawm tus cwj pwm, ces qhov no yog vim li cas rau lub tswv yim kev xav.
Nws yog tsim nyog hais tias qhov teeb meem zoo sib xws hauv cov niam txiv uas yeej ib txwm koom nrog kev ua haujlwm, kev sib tham ua lag luam, txhua yam, tab sis tsis yog cov me nyuam. Yog li, tus me nyuam sim ua kom cov neeg laus nyiam. Cov menyuam yaus muaj kev xav ntau heev thiab muaj teeb meem. Yog li, tus me nyuam sim los tiv thaiv nws tus kheej los ntawm txhua txoj kev los xij, txawm tias yog los ntawm qhov xwm txheej ntawm no.
Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj rau koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus menyuam, sim muab sijhawm rau nws ntxiv. Yog li qhov teeb meem yuav daws tau los ntawm nws tus kheej.
Kuj tseem muaj kev xaiv thaum tus me nyuam sim qog cov laus, lossis cov menyuam loj dua, uas muaj qhov muag ntsia nws. Txhua tus me nyuam, thaum rov ntsuas cov lus phem, xav kom zoo dua li paub tab thiab loj heev. Yog li, cov ntsiab lus no ua rau tus me nyuam koom nrog tus neeg muaj zog thiab muaj kev ntseeg siab.
Ntawm chav kawm, los tiv thaiv tus me nyuam mus rau tag nrho cov neeg ntawm tag nrho lwm tus ua tsis tau. Qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws no yog tsim kom muaj tus menyuam nkag siab txog cov lus zoo, uas yeej paub tus neeg ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws. Nws yog tsim nyog hu rau cov koom haum haum. Ntsig xav txog seb koj tus menyuam pom dab tsi hauv TV. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tsis txhob ua lim hiam, xws li saib xyuas cov lus uas siv los ntawm cov cim.
Them nyiaj raws li kev sib ntaus sib tua
Nws kuj ua rau cov lus cog lus cog lus ua tau rau kev tso cai ntawm ob peb leeg, thaum lub sij hawm sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg thiab cov txheeb ze. Yog tias tus me nyuam raug kev ntxub ntxaug vim nws tsis muaj peev xwm ncav cuag qhov kev xav tau hauv ib qib los yog lwm qhov, ces kev tiv thaiv tawm ntawm nws sab nrauv, qhov kev hais lus tsis sib haum tshwm hauv lub npoo. Los yog tus me nyuam sib raug zoo nrog qhov tseeb tias nws yog ib qho zoo thiab sim ua raws li qhov xwm txheej no.
Tom qab tag nrho, txhua tus me nyuam xav ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau nws niam nws txiv, nws xav kom haum cov nyiam thiab tsis nyiam. Tab sis yog hais tias cov niam txiv hais rau nws: "koj yog ib tug neeg tubnkeeg", "koj tsis zoo", thiab lwm yam, tus menyuam sim ua kom pom cov duab ntawm cov laus.
Nkag siab txog qhov teeb meem ntawm qhov no yog qhov ua tau los ntawm kev pab ntawm cov niam txiv uas xav kom rov qab saib xyuas lawv qhov kev xav tau rau tus me nyuam thiab kawm ua raws li lawv cov lus hauv nws qhov chaw nyob, thiab tag nrho.
Yuav coj tus cwj pwm li cas rau cov niam txiv?
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws txoj kev yog los tshem tawm qhov ua rau kev tsis txaus siab. Txhob tsis quav ntsej cov cai ntawm koj tus menyuam. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau saib nws thiab hnov nws cov kauj ruam. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum cia tus me nyuam to taub tias nws tshwj xeeb npaum li cas, los pab tsim nws cov kev txawj ntse.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias cov niam txiv yog thawj tus qauv ntawm kev coj cwj pwm rau tus me nyuam.