Cov me nyuam txoj kev ua phem yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tam sim no. Dua li ntawm qhov tseeb tias ntau yam ua rau thiab ntau hom kev nruj kev tsiv tshwm sim los ntawm cov kws tshawb fawb thiab cov kws qhia ntawv, theem kev phem ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv preschool tsis txo, uas yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau tsev neeg txoj kev loj hlob.
Txij thaum yug tus me nyuam, tus me nyuam tab tom paub lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig nws thiab sim txuas lus nrog zej tsoom txij thaum thawj lub hlis, thaum nws ntsib nws niam nrog luag zoo siab. Txaus siab vim tsis muaj kev hais lus, tus me nyuam kawm tau los ntawm kev piav tes piav taw thiab cov cim qhia los qhia rau ib tus neeg hlub txog nws txoj kev noj qab haus huv.Ntxhi, taug kev, cooing, nyob ntsiag to nrog ib tus cwj pwm ua tim khawv rau qhov zoo ntawm tus me nyuam. Thaum lub suab quaj qw, ntse taw ntawm txhais tes thiab taw, qw quaj qw, qis, thiab tom qab rub los ntawm plaub hau, khawb, tweaking tham txog qhov tsis zoo los yog mob ntawm tus menyuam.
Qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov niam txiv rau tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam yog ob qho:
- instant tiav ntawm lub Desired.
- tsis quav ntsej.
Cov niam txiv thaum muaj kev txhawj xeeb ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum ua cov nram no:
- to taub qhov ua rau qw thiab quaj.
- instantly tshem tawm qhov ua rau muaj thaum tus me nyuam mob lossis mob.
- nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm vagaries, kom hloov tus me nyuam mloog mus rau lwm yam.
- nyob rau hauv ib lub xeev nyob ntsiag to kom piav qhia rau tus me nyuam hauv daim ntawv ua si los yog raws li cov phau ntawv tsis zoo ntawm kev coj cwj pwm.
Rau txhua yam kev puas tsuaj ntawm tus me nyuam, ib tug yuav tsum ua siab ntev, tsis muaj kev sib ntaus sib tua, sib tham txog kev xav ntawm tus neeg raug tsim txom thiab qhia tus cwj pwm ncaj ncees. Hauv qhov no, qhia kuv tias nws mob siab rau kuv niam, thaum nws raug ntaus los ntawm nws cov plaub hau, tias nws xav tau kev txhawj xeeb mummy, stroking lub taub hau thiab tsom ntsoov tias niam txiv txoj kev xav yuav tsum nyiam ua lwm yam.
Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum qhia tus me nyuam tas li thiab tsis ua raws li kev cai, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog piav qhia txog cov kev ua ntawm lwm tus neeg uas nyiam tus me nyuam pom. Cov menyuam yaus cov kev sib tw lossis qaug dej qaug cawv yuav tsum tau piav qhia tam sim ntawd nrog ib hom lus uas siv tau yooj yim, thiab tsis tawm tsis mloog lossis tom qab ntawd.
Saib xyuas kom tus me nyuam tsis paub nws cov kev ua phem thiab kev ua phem rau cov tsiaj txhu, nroj tsuag los yog tej yam khoom tsis zoo. Nquag sib tham tsis tau tsuas yog hais txog kev xav ntawm cov neeg raug mob, tab sis nco ntsoov muab ib hom qauv coj zoo.
Txij li thaum tsim cov lus sib txuas lus, koj tuaj yeem tshawb xyuas qhov ua tsis ncaj ntawm tus me nyuam thiab tshem tawm nws qhov muag. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws kom tsis txhob tsav tsheb tsis zoo, tsis xis nyob thiab nrawm rau qhov tsis nco qab lawm, yog li ntawd nws yog ib qhov tsim nyog yuav tau tawm ntawm kev npau taws thiab kev ntshai.
Piv txwv, pab tus me nyuam yaus kom tso txoj kev npau taws los ntawm lub cev lub cev, kev qw nrov nrov ntawm lub plawv, lub ripping ntawm cov ntawv xov xwm. Nrog tus menyuam kawm ntawv qib siab, koj tuaj yeem ua si qhov kev ua si "Thiab koj yog li-thiab-yog," thaum ntaus pob, hu ib leeg lus nrog cov tsiaj txhu, cov nroj tsuag, cov rooj tog, cov khoom ua ntej nrog cov xim tsis zoo, thiab tom qab ntawd tig mus rau lub siab ntsiag to thiab kev hlub.
Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev ua phem rau cov menyuam yaus yog qhov tsis muaj kev hlub ntawm tus niam txiv, kev hlub, kev hlub, thiab tsis muaj peev xwm qhia tau ib tus xav, tsim kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus. Yog li ntawd, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau tas li thiab qhuas, txawm tias punishing rau disobedience, nws yuav tsum tau tsom nws dissatisfaction nrog nws ua tsis ncaj ncees, thiab tsis tus tus ntawm tus me nyuam. Thiab kuj qhia ib lub preschooler kom paub, ua si thiab sib txuas lus nrog lwm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov laus.
Yog li, tus aggression ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv pre-school yog situational thiab tsis hostile, whereas qhov kev kawm tsis paub ntawv ntawm cov neeg laus thiab lawv tus kheej piv txwv yuav ua rau txoj kev loj hlob ntawm ib cov neeg txhoj puab heev.