Muaj ntau lub tswv yim myths ib ncig ntawm pub khoom plig! Ntau yam ntawm lawv tau rais los ua ib kab lus xwb, tab sis tsawg tus neeg xav hais tias ua li cas qee qhov ntawm cov tswv yim tsim.
Tus nqi ntawm ib qho khoom plig tsis tseem ceeb
Qhov no feem ntau hais nyob rau hauv kev tiv thaiv ntawm pheej yig offerings thiab, nyob rau hauv kuv lub tswv yim, heev hypocritical. Tus nqi ntawm qhov khoom plig yog nyob ntawm ntau yam: qhov laj thawj uas tau muab nthuav tawm, cov khoom siv ntawm tus neeg pub dawb thiab cov neeg siv khoom, tsim kab lig kev cai. Nws yog ib yam thaum tus hluas nkauj (cov menyuam kawm ntawv lossis cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv) muab ib leeg rau xyoo tshiab ib lub raj mis uas pheej yig los yog ib phau ntawv, thiab lwm qhov - thaum nrog tib lub txiaj ntsim koj (cov laus) tuaj rau ib tug phooj ywg tsev neeg rau ib xyoos.
Tsis txhob muab khoom plig zoo nkauj heev
Yog tias koj xaiv khoom plig tsis raug kev txom nyem los ntawm qhov teeb meem ntawm cov tsis muaj nyiaj - shikuyte mus rau kev noj qab nyob! Qhov tseeb, koj muab qhov txiaj ntsim qub tshaj yog tias koj paub tseeb tias koj lub tsho dav dav yuav ua rau muaj kev txaus siab, thiab tsis coj nws mus ua kev kub ntxhov. Yog hais tias koj vam rau txhua yam yuav nrog nws nyob ib qho kev sib npaug footing, sim muab txhua lwm yam khoom plig sib npaug.
Koj tsis tuaj yeem muab khoom plig nrog "yim pab"
Yog vim li cas? Yog hais tias tus neeg xa khoom xav xav xws li cov lus qhia - koj tuaj yeem tsim nyog thiab yuav tsum tau muab.
Muaj ntau yam uas muab tsis tau zoo heev
Txhua yam nyob ntawm tus neeg thiab ntawm txoj kev tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog nws li cas. Thiab yog hais tias lwm tus neeg tuaj yeem nyob hauv ib lub ciav cuaj caum pom kev ua plees ua yig thiab ua rau tu siab, ces lwm tus yuav luag ntxhi thiab dhau ntau tshaj qhov khoom plig.
Khoom plig tsis muab
Cov plaubhau trinkets, "pw ib ncig" los ntawm kev lom zem tom ntej, tej zaum, yuav raug tshwj tseg yog thaum muaj kev caw tuaj koom (tab sis lawv, tau kawg, tsis txhob siv "siv"). Qhov no, ntawm chav kawm, tsis yog ib qho khoom plig zoo tagnrho, tab sis qhov teeb meem no txawv.
Tseem ceeb tsis yog lub txiaj ntsim nws tus kheej, tiam sis kev saib xyuas
Thiab nyob rau hauv dab tsi, interestingly, puas qhov kev saib xyuas ntawm lub pub tshwm, yog tias tsis nyob rau hauv ib qho khoom plig zoo-xaiv? Yog hais tias koj yeej xav qhia koj cov neeg paub, tsis txhob muab cov phooj ywg nrog cov khoom plig nrog lub logo ntawm koj lub tuam txhab (cov lag luam, tsev), lawv hais tias "tsis txhob xav tias nws nyiag - coj los ntawm kev ua hauj lwm."
Khoom plig zoo meej
Qhov tseeb, puas muaj li ntawd? Puas muaj lwm tus qauv ntawm lub txiaj ntsim "ua raug puas tsuaj"? Koj puas xav tias lo lus nug puas yog rhetorical? Thiab ntawm no kuv pom ib co Polish sau phau ntawv theej zoo nkauj thiab tib lub sijhawm, hauv kuv lub tswv yim, ib qho kev piav qhia ntawm qhov khoom plig zoo tagnrho.
- Qhov khoom plig zoo tshaj plaws yog qhov uas peb xav tau, tiam sis peb tsis xav tias yuav tau txais.
- Xws li peb tus kheej yeej tsis xav tau yuav.
- Yog li tsis tseem ceeb uas yog cov khoom ntawm cov chav kawm ntawv ntxiv, yog li ntawd nws ua tau rau peb txhua hnub.
- Pheej - tab sis tsis ntau dhau lawm, tsis txhob ua rau tsis meej pem.
- Tau ntxim hlub thiab tsis tau muaj zog Txwv tsis pom zoo, tab sis yog li tsim nyog uas daim ntawv tsis zoo nkauj tshaj cov ntsiab lus.
- Thiab, thaum kawg, pub dawb tsis muaj vim li cas, thaum lub sijhawm thiab tsis muaj lub hom phiaj zoo.
Kuv xav tias, koj tsis tuaj yeem tsis pom zoo nrog tag nrho cov no. Tej lub txiaj ntsim zoo li no nrhiav tsis tau, tab sis yog hais tias nws yooj yim - puas yog lub txiaj ntsim yog qhov zoo ntawm lub cim nco txog? Tsis txhob neglect xws li cov conventions ntxim hlub, xws li cov nrhiav kev zais cia rau ib qho khoom plig thiab nws solemn tus me nyuam. Hauv lub neej muaj ob peb hnub so, tsis txhob tub nkeeg thov koj tus hlub! Ib tug neeg tsis tshua muaj kev npau suav ntawm ib hnub kom txais khoom plig li cas nws xav tau tag nrho nws lub neej.
Txhua yam rau tus ntsuj plig
Ntawm chav kawm, khoom plig, los ntawm qhov uas ib tug neeg jumps tuaj mus rau lub qab nthab, peb muab, tej zaum, ib zaug los yog ob zaug nyob rau hauv ib tug lub neej. "Rau lub luag haujlwm" cov khoom, alas, tshwm sim ntau zaus. Tab sis feem ntau peb tseem sim nrhiav ib qho khoom plig uas tsim nyog thiab qub. Yuav ua li cas ua tau mus cuag lub hom phiaj no, suav cov nyiaj siv tsawg, thiab tsis muaj sij hawm ntev tshawb, thiab qhov tseeb tias muaj ntau yam ntxim hlub me ntsis, alas, paub txog txhua lub ces kaum?
Yog li, koj tau faib khoom plig rau ib qho nyiaj. Lub assortment qhov twg koj mus yog tsis tseem ceeb, koj tsis tuaj yeem yuav khoom tshwj xeeb, thiab muaj ntau yam teeb meem dua li lub khoom plig uas koj tsis tau lim koj lub tswv yim. Zoo, cia lub txiaj ntsim zoo tib yam - tab sis tsuas yog muab lub npe no ua ib lub thawv rau tag nrho! Zoo li cas xyov? Zoo, tsis stewed, ntawm chav kawm, tab sis kua txiv txiv kab ntxwv - nws yog ntau romantic. Thiab hais tias koj lub txiaj ntsim tsis zoo li cov tib neeg pab, muab ib lub rose rau hauv nws (koj tuaj yeem tau lwm lub paj).
Zoo nkauj ntxim hlub kuv xav tias ib qho khoom plig nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm ib tug heap ntawm daim pib ntawm ib co lottery. Tsam no nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no yuav txuas ntxiv mus tom qab yug, thiab yog tias tus neeg xauj khoom tsis yeej dabtsi, nws yuav tsis ua kom tu siab - nws tsis yuav nws tus kheej nyiaj. Yeej muaj tseeb, koj yuav muaj qhov zoo rau hauv rooj plaub no uas koj tuaj nrog khoob tes.
Los ntawm "cov khoom ua si", saib los yog cov koob yees duab (cov qauv thiab cov nqi - ntau yam zoo nkauj), ib qho ntawm cov tshuaj pleev ib ce "ntawm thiab rau" ntawm ib lub chaw ruaj khov, xov tooj cua me me, ib daim ntawv rau ib phau ntawv xov xwm zoo lossis cov ntawv xov xwm raug nthuav tawm.
Tsis txhob muab : - duab thiab cov khoom siv hauv tsev (tshwj tsis yog tias koj yog ob tug phooj ywg-yaj saub nrog tib lub saj);
- yam tsis tseemceeb (xws li cov phom tennis rau ib qho kev xav xyaum ua kom tau pw saum lub rooj);
- cov ntawv nyeem random;
- tej yam uas koj yuav tsum tau yuav ntau heev (rau ib lub tshuab nqus tes, piv txwv li, koj yuav tsum tau yuav ib lub tsheb kauj vab);
- tej yam uas koj pom hauv tsev pw nyob ib ncig ntawm peb tus kheej;
- tej yam uas meej meej tsis ua raws li tus qauv thiab cov khoom siv ntawm tus neeg pab khoom (piv txwv li, qis heev lossis pheej yig heev rau nws cov khoom);
- txhua yam koj tsis ntseeg.
Thiab thov caw cov qhua tsis tuaj yeem ntes koj tus neeg zov, ua ib tus menyuam kawm ntawv tsis sib haum. Nco ntsoov hais tias kev muab khoom muag yog ib qho kev ntxim siab li txais lawv. Txwv tsis pub koj yog neeg siab hlob.